Thread: 3-weeks post breakup udpate
06-30-2022, 12:17 PM
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#31
Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
Mine was a few months ago. Yeah its rough.My divorce was finalized about 4 weeks ago, I wouldn't wish that hell on my worst enemy. The amount of mental trauma/depression I went through and still go through is horrifying. I will never get that close to someone again.
06-30-2022, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
I wouldn't block / unfollow if you're keeping out hope because you any reaction is a reaction and doesn't show you in the best possible light. Better to be posting some cool **** / with other chicks and friends on FBI can't bring myself to block her because deep down there is still the slightest hope that she might regret her decision and comeback running.
I unfollowed her from instagram though but neither of us was able to block the other. Blocking is quite petty, unless you got cheated on, lied to or deceived, this is too much.
I put her gifts in a box, I masked her photos but couldn't deleter them nor our conversation.
For all the previous breakups I was strong enough to deleter everything the minute the breakup was pronounced, but not this time.
I unfollowed her from instagram though but neither of us was able to block the other. Blocking is quite petty, unless you got cheated on, lied to or deceived, this is too much.
I put her gifts in a box, I masked her photos but couldn't deleter them nor our conversation.
For all the previous breakups I was strong enough to deleter everything the minute the breakup was pronounced, but not this time.
I got a few of my exes back doing that.. still if you follow N/C you have a chance. Even if she monkey branched if the new guys messes up she will forget w/e problems she had with you and reach out if she realizes she hasn't heard from you and she has any interest
If you just really wanted to move on ASAP i'd say block everything though
the key is posting on social media with a chick hotter than her though and some friends if she is still checking your story. Leaves the question in her mind "did he upgrade from me?" without being plainly fake because you're with a group of friends. sloots love a mystery
06-30-2022, 12:20 PM
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#33
Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Unless she turned lesbian, she don't want no bitch. She ain't coming back.I can't bring myself to block her because deep down there is still the slightest hope that she might regret her decision and comeback running..
"It won't get better, just different."
06-30-2022, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By steeler505⏩
I agree but to be fair she was attracted to the man she met not the slobbering simp he MAY have turned into that fawned all over her...It's always the same. Every sloot. As soon as she knows she has you, boom, shes on to the next.
Treat them like chit - regardless of how you truly feel - they will not leave. They will keep on coming back because you are the absolute best they can get.
Yes. Women are THAT DUMB
Treat them like chit - regardless of how you truly feel - they will not leave. They will keep on coming back because you are the absolute best they can get.
Yes. Women are THAT DUMB
...and if you started the relationship chasing her and fawning all over her she is either waiting for the next best thing or settling for you.
Co-dependency is not attractive...Just sayin.
06-30-2022, 12:22 PM
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This thread is beta as Fuk. In fact, don't you start one of these kind of threads like a few times a year? Obsessing over sloots 24/7
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06-30-2022, 12:23 PM
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06-30-2022, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
Since 2016. No kids together but I treat her kids (previously married) like my own.How long were you guys together? Any kids? Why the divorce?
Lots of stuff led up to it but I blame myself for a bunch of it. Mainly my depression and ability not to communicate.
Knowing what I know now things would be different but its too late for that, you live and learn.
06-30-2022, 12:50 PM
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Sorry to hear man but heartbreak is just part of the journey. I actually liked myself more when I was heartbroken than now. I would go out all the time not to feel lonely. Dated a few girls right after. Worked out harder due to some kind of spite feeling.
Now im just more bored and numb. Married now btw
Now im just more bored and numb. Married now btw
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06-30-2022, 01:14 PM
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