This article is exactly why the term bluepill exists.

In a generation from 1990-2020, we've gone from 5% of dudes not getting any to 30% of dudes not getting any. The marriage rate and birth rate are both diving off a cliff. It's legitimate to ask why so many men are single today vs even just 20 years ago.

In this case, the New Yorker answers it with a comfortable lie - that these guys are all just entitled rapists and domestic terrorists andshouldbe single - rather than looking into some uncomfortable truths.

The article was 100% on point. Incels are nothing but sad little angry snowflake boys who feel that they deserve something from life.

Pathetic cucks

Everything the anti-incel types say is a comfortable lie. Incels are simply their scapegoats, an easy target for them to point at and blame all their problems on.

Ultra giga hyper super incel COPE

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It's definitely legitimate to ask why so many men feel isolated, alone, and are single. More attention should be paid to that.

What's not legitimate is the incel mindset: Never look inward, externalize all faults.

Yeah wtf im not part of some terrorist org looking to get pussy as my jihad. I just cant.

Funny, that's also the female mindset.

Yeah, the problem is that when more incels look inward about how it’s their fault that they are bald, short and ugly, some arrive at the conclusion that they need to shoot people.

we can't change the world unless we change ourselves

Brah, you're actually displaying the mindset I was referring to with this post.

Jay has one of the highest IQ's on the misc dude is always spitting facts

Incel is literally a feminist label put on men who don't get laid

Then why do so many self-indentify and seek out toxic online spaces?

clearly written by a fat, ugly feminist

Sounds like a new Christina Aguilera billboard hit

Fairness is not guaranteed, but there is a better way to try.

Lots dismiss ideals because they do not seem fair, which does not make it better to not try for what you do want.

this is what fear in the face if adversity looks like.

you can only fight your own fight

Correct

Incels are partially responsible because they're usually terrible looking (either genetically or self inflicted) have crappy jobs (partly due to the former; halo effect) but also cos they have no drive or ambition - and have terrible social skills due to lack of experiences (due to the former 2 points) but also cos they dedicate their lives to computer games.

Re. Computer games incels typically play RPGs because they hate their life so much so they create a dual fantasy existence online. That's the only genre you can do this in. This just exacerbates the problem though because they now have even less reason reason to improve their life.

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yes incels are partly the problem due to above but also its the immensely unrealistic standards women have for men, feminism, poor cultural values, poor family values raise slurry ignorant and downright disrespectful women, etc etc. Social media, online dating (which is aimed at women).

As has been posted before, women follow. They are to blame but only by proxy. Society tells them covertly what to do and how to think/feel. Men are supposed to take charge (and see through this programming) but we have weak men as well so they don't ergo incels.

Women [read: society] is to blame but also weak men raising weak children results in incels. As an aside, absent fathers usually have the same affect. Due to divorce or just non chalance. Most of the guys I know who had divorced parents ended up fukked up in some way psychologically [they can't see it but I/a healthily socialised person could] or are incels/or they get laid but with like 3/10s.

The problem is so, so convoluted. I didn't even read the article in the op but I guarantee you the woman has no fukking clue what she's talking about.

This is an IMMENSE problem in our current society and is going to be one of the main reasons for the downfall. Articles like this are exacerbating the problem. But it's written by an ugly feminist as someone else pointed out, so why would she have any societal awareness outside her instagram feed.

Organizing society with the values from modern religions, without the supernatural part, more or less answers all major questions everyone falls off with.

Comparing most problems against the framework of traditional religious order shows social mistakes virtually 100% of the time, similar to how you compare a child of divorce with a healthy family.

just fkn lol at people being so supportive of pride/lgbt when it basically all boils down to sex, but then have zero empathy for incels (who are usually in their situation basically out of failed genetics)

Not all sub-8 women are fuking chad though, and many women are not even on tinder.

This, but you can't mention it because it would be seen as sexist.....The double standards and hypocrisy in society is staggering.

They expect a charity service. Yet, when the young beautiful women ask them to lift a finger, they refuse. "Help me because I'm getting raped at home by my old man." Response from incel: "do it yourself." Fukk human males. They take the sex, and give nothing, not even a bottle of fukking water.

Lots of unpacked trauma here.

shut up sloot, every woman i sex already gets multiple orgasms and now you think i should give them water too. women want everything.

Who cares what they want