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post 1667318823 09-04-2022, 05:12 PM
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Idk. I struggle a lot nowadays. And yet, I’ll meet dudes with the worst hygiene, out of shape, boring personalities; and they’ll be dating some hot sloot. I’m convinced these sloots just prefer having a dude they know can’t have options other than them.
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i havent quite figured it out, because i always see hideous dudes, with some baddies, and not just vapid ig sloots, but authentically, naturally beautiful women
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Originally Posted By Looksmaxxer101⏩
i havent quite figured it out, because i always see hideous dudes, with some baddies, and not just vapid ig sloots, but authentically, naturally beautiful women
theyre paying. You were probably looking at me and my sugarbaby srs.
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Originally Posted By Looksmaxxer101⏩
i havent quite figured it out, because i always see hideous dudes, with some baddies, and not just vapid ig sloots, but authentically, naturally beautiful women
confidence goes a long way
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Originally Posted By NMS3⏩
Idk. I struggle a lot nowadays. And yet, I’ll meet dudes with the worst hygiene, out of shape, boring personalities; and they’ll be dating some hot sloot. I’m convinced these sloots just prefer having a dude they know can’t have options other than them.
that’s called money
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, the part about girls wanting to live in cities is 100% correct. And many want to live in the best cities, not just any city. It's 100% the fault of Social Media, because even like 4-5 years ago it wasn't like this.

I was down in Brazil, and I even had Brazilian girls trying to play hardball with me because I didn't live in one of the cities they knew in the US. It was hilariously mind blowing. These were girls around the age of 30 who didn't have money and were within a year or two of hitting a wall and having no chance of ever moving out of the place they live. One of them said, "She would come vidit me if I moved to California" and it just made me laugh.
So many miscers live in undesirable parts of the us and then wonder why there is no one there but poor fat land whales or single mothers. I’ve never had a problem getting girls. I am tall but also bald, and can pick and choose cause there are so many girls. I can spend 2k on an apartment in nyc and someone else can be in a 5k apartment the difference isn’t really that much. In the suburbs with keeping up with the jones the difference is massive.

Let me clear if you don’t live in a desirable area, you have no value to any woman except your money to a single mother. I don’t have this problem I can phuck young girls as a single father and if I don’t like them or get bored which is often I can get rid of them and find someone else, which of courses pisses the sloots off more.

But on the misc I’m a rentcel because I rent in the city.

Suburbs or town = cuck
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99% of the time, the answer is because they have low self-esteem and don't even try.

The other 1% is they have such a **** personality women don't want to **** them even though they are good-looking.
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Originally Posted By NMS3⏩
Idk. I struggle a lot nowadays. And yet, I’ll meet dudes with the worst hygiene, out of shape, boring personalities; and they’ll be dating some hot sloot. I’m convinced these sloots just prefer having a dude they know can’t have options other than them.
They most likely met at work/school.

Women are lazy and value convenience over everything.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
99% of the time, the answer is because they have low self-esteem and don't even try.

The other 1% is they have such a **** personality women don't want to **** them even though they are good-looking.
this is the real answer
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Probably because the chads are banging even the girls on his level.
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Originally Posted By NMS3⏩
Idk. I struggle a lot nowadays. And yet, I’ll meet dudes with the worst hygiene, out of shape, boring personalities; and they’ll be dating some hot sloot. I’m convinced these sloots just prefer having a dude they know can’t have options other than them.
This. I know a lot of women who date down because she worries about him cheating and she wants to be the hot one in the relationship.

Plus social media and online dating inflate women’s egos to the nth degree so she holds out for the best looking guy.
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Originally Posted By NMS3⏩
Idk. I struggle a lot nowadays. And yet, I’ll meet dudes with the worst hygiene, out of shape, boring personalities; and they’ll be dating some hot sloot. I’m convinced these sloots just prefer having a dude they know can’t have options other than them.
a lot of women these days wanna be the only attractive one in the relationship…. these dudes they go for are the “safe” options…. the beta incels, simps or whatever u wanna call them.

Women are insecure AF and a lot of them don’t wanna be with a dude that’s equally or even more attractive than them. Not saying all women are like this, but I think u see it a lot

It gives them power and control in the relationship cuz they know they can basically get whatever the fk they want and can do whatever they want too and the guy is just gonna take it and ain’t gonna dare leave or do chit cuz he considers her “the prize” and he’s just lucky to have her, right?

Lmao…. these men that are like this are just devaluing themselves and enabling this type of behavior, which is why it’s so rampant nowadays

Hell, just go on something like TikTok if u doubt what I’m saying. Literally every single girl on there that’s even remotely semi-attractive could be on there shaking ass and titties doing the same exact chit as the next one and there’s tons of these dudes drooling over them like they’ve just been released from prison and ain’t seen a woman in 10 years

And a lot of women know they can’t pull this bullchit 99% of the time when they date a guy that’s either in their own league or above it

Most won’t put up with that chit cuz they can just drop them and find someone else if they want. They know their fkin value

These other dudes don’t and let’s be real cuz if you’ve got the experience then u know I’m right…. but if u let a woman walk all over u, she fkin will
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post 1667331703 09-04-2022, 09:49 PM
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People will say stuff like it's autism or they don't put themselves out there but no way that's always true. I know guys with normal personalities that are pretty social and they never get dates. I'm tall and decent looking and an athlete and get nothing. I think people know what main reasons are but it is what it is that's why i just say things changed around 2012. Really between 2012-2015 the internet took over our lives and now we're just in clown world where stuff is weird/off balance. I mean SS is 50 years old and gets dates with 22 yo chads. That chit isn't really normal.
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post 1667331953 09-04-2022, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Composed⏩
Boring.

Poor social skills.

Lack of opportunities. (no social circle, doesn’t approach, doesn’t do anything where they would meet chicks organically, etc.)

Relies on online dating. (less than ideal for many guys)
I know super boring dudes that have wives and gfs. Literally all they do is play video games and talk about pokemon. It isn't that.
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because women really ARE ****ing only a tiny portion of very tall good looking men for the most part. Number of incels is going to be like 80% of male population by 2030 guaranteed, srs

we are in some very turbulent times, srs. bloodiest times in human history have always been uh connected to large populations of angry young men with nothing to lose
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
yeah but if you're decent looking and get semi decent exposure girls are sliding into guys' DMs everyday too
i think you're overestimating the attention you'll get on social media from just being "decent looking" unless you actually mean being pretty attractive
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Originally Posted By PissantSoldier⏩
Because they're boring and stupid as phuck

Nobody wants a conversation about how Star Wars and Lord of the Rings was ruined by woke culture, nor do they want to listen to how Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate are actually right
Delusional. females are just as boring.

Sounds like ur tryhardmaxxing and jestermaxxing.
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post 1667332823 09-04-2022, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I know super boring dudes that have wives and gfs. Literally all they do is play video games and talk about pokemon. It isn't that.
yeah i dont get it. the average dude is talking about teletubbies and sushi restuarants. no idea how they get laid
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Trump was smart when he wanted to ban tik Tok. Not only that but now Instagram models and influencers are a thing. Oh and we also have onlyfans which men can pay 7$ a month to see a woman's butthole! It's amazing what our society is becoming. If men would stop giving these women attention online, things could possibly change.

The current direction we are on can't continue honestly. I'm trying my best to do things to meet people like rock climbing, dog parks, and just trying to boarden my social circle. Because honestly even though I'm decent looking, online dating is still a challenge. These women lose interest in 3 seconds. It's like they want the guy to come up with this mind blowing message if they of course they aren't a chad. Dating apps are the worst thing to ever come into existence for the dating culture so you have to adapt and overcome.
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It's current online dating. It's driven the Pareto Principle to absolute extremes, where even less than 20% are scoring with more than 80% of the women.

Even far below average, overweight, obese and underachieving girls have acquired a deranged sense of entitlement where they think they deserve a wealthy, highly educated and handsome man. Tinder etc. have created an inorganic and downright unreal platform which is impossible for most men.


As an example, I'm a very attractive, highly educated (Masters) jacked guy. Money, own place, own car. On paper I look like a great catch. Yet on online dating, I've had whales reject me out of a deranged sense of entitlement and hyper-inflated standards.
Back off, Warchild.

Seriously.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
yeah i dont get it. the average dude is talking about teletubbies and sushi restuarants. no idea how they get laid
big peen gets you pretty far once people know you're on dat dere johnny sins time
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
Trump was smart when he wanted to ban tik Tok. Not only that but now Instagram models and influencers are a thing. Oh and we also have onlyfans which men can pay 7$ a month to see a woman's butthole! It's amazing what our society is becoming. If men would stop giving these women attention online, things could possibly change.

The current direction we are on can't continue honestly. I'm trying my best to do things to meet people like rock climbing, dog parks, and just trying to boarden my social circle. Because honestly even though I'm decent looking, online dating is still a challenge. These women lose interest in 3 seconds. It's like they want the guy to come up with this mind blowing message if they of course they aren't a chad. Dating apps are the worst thing to ever come into existence for the dating culture so you have to adapt and overcome.
how do you meet girls rockclimbing? I went with my sugarbaby and every hot girl was with her bf. I can see dogpark working since people walk their dogs alone.

also you're hot as **** bro. If tinder isn't working for you,something is wrong with society.
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Originally Posted By Bodhy⏩
It's current online dating. It's driven the Pareto Principle to absolute extremes, where even less than 20% are scoring with more than 80% of the women.

Even far below average, overweight, obese and underachieving girls have acquired a deranged sense of entitlement where they think they deserve a wealthy, highly educated and handsome man. Tinder etc. have created an inorganic and downright unreal platform which is impossible for most men.


As an example, I'm a very attractive, highly educated (Masters) jacked guy. Money, own place, own car. On paper I look like a great catch. Yet on online dating, I've had whales reject me out of a deranged sense of entitlement and hyper-inflated standards.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
First thing you have to do when you actually get with a girl is reign in her social media. If she's hiding her phone or getting late night texts from other dudes tell her to go kick rocks.
I have been married 5 years now. My wife has zero form of social media. Not even ********.

I can't even explain how nice that is.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
I have been married 5 years now. My wife has zero form of social media. Not even ********.

I can't even explain how nice that is.
I know married women who are always on their phones addicted to Instagram and the husband is furious. One was doing FitBit and a ton of white knights messaged her.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
If you're going to date a girl there are a few simple standards.

No snapchatting dudes. No texting dudes. No bikini pics on Instagram. Etc. Also doesn't hurt to take a peak at her texts/social media on occasion to make sure she's adhering.




If she's not willing to agree to that just plow her without getting emotionally attached and bang others on the side until you find a new girl.
Not even in mountains of Afghanistan you can find a sloot like that at this age
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
Most men are boring and live in regions that have no opportunities for woman. Woman don’t want to settle down in some rural town in middle of nowhere in a poor state which is basically
Bankrolled by the us government aka the south.

They want to live in cities. I’m having no problems smashing young single and I’m 37 with kids. You gotta live in a major center, I’ve never had this problem because so don’t feel the beer to settle down with some annoying ****.

Mgtow lol more like mstow.

This post affects 95% of the misc hence why the misc is full of sex less plebs now with nothing to do on weekend but I got maaa worthless land lol take that rentcell hahahahha bunch of clowns
One exception. If you live in cottage country, sloots flock to you. I know it's basically a lifetime, but I've only been out of the dating etc game for 6 years now, and am 37. I had a steady slam piece from early highschool till married, sometimes a side girl. I didn't try, I just talked to people. One "relationship" would end, within weeks or days another sloot would materialize. I didn't try too hard, nor use dating apps.

I think being social irl is the best thing. I would just talk to people in real life, not be shy and things would fall into place.

I also wasn't banging 30 sloots a month, I would get a steady girl and that's it. I have stuff to do and can't be putting the energy into pump and dump 200 times. Get a girl for the summer, winter, etc...a year maybe.

Always nice to have someone to bring to weddings and events.

Worked for me anyway.
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