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post 1671095433 11-11-2022, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
just so we make this clear

you are her FWB not the other way around chief

you are keeping her lubricated until chad arrives next month

you can taste his cum after he leaves

no homo
it true

and he think special because cum of mouth

hehe dumb
post 1671096913 11-11-2022, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
just so we make this clear

you are her FWB not the other way around chief

you are keeping her lubricated until chad arrives next month

you can taste his cum after he leaves

no homo
That's the best compliment to me. I want girls to see me for sex rather than seeing me as only relationship potential. Prefer to not be seen as some resource beta buxx but rather chosen as the FWB.

I'll keep her mouth, face, and inside full of my cum until the other guy arrives and I'll cut her off
post 1671098183 11-11-2022, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
That's the best compliment to me. I want girls to see me for sex rather than seeing me as only relationship potential. Prefer to not be seen as some resource beta buxx but rather chosen as the FWB.

I'll keep her mouth, face, and inside full of my cum until the other guy arrives and I'll cut her off
girl want relationship with man who give good sex and like

?

girl see same cant see different
post 1671112273 11-11-2022, 08:38 PM
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Your red flags outnumber your positive traits by a large margin...


of course you don't care when your promises fall flat
post 1671842823 11-27-2022, 11:05 AM
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Final update on this

She agreed to be sexually exclusive and I told her until our trip next month.

She's still talking to that guy and it seems that she is going to pursue him. They aren't meeting up until after our trip next month though. Her and I talked and that trip will be our last time together. I've been planning to get rid of her and need to wean off of this anyway. I'm not sure whether we'll last until the trip though but hopefully we do go and make it a fun final time together.
post 1671857963 11-27-2022, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Final update on this

She agreed to be sexually exclusive and I told her until our trip next month.

She's still talking to that guy and it seems that she is going to pursue him. They aren't meeting up until after our trip next month though. Her and I talked and that trip will be our last time together. I've been planning to get rid of her and need to wean off of this anyway. I'm not sure whether we'll last until the trip though but hopefully we do go and make it a fun final time together.
You agreed to be exclusive but she's talking to the guy?

You're not making any sense. It's quite an oxymoron.
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post 1671868203 11-27-2022, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
You agreed to be exclusive but she's talking to the guy?

You're not making any sense. It's quite an oxymoron.
Only sexually exclusive while in this casual relationship. I told her that I don't want her doing anything with another guy.

I'm not trying to be in a relationship with her so I'm not blocking her from talking to other guys
post 1671901063 11-28-2022, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Final update on this

She agreed to be sexually exclusive and I told her until our trip next month.

She's still talking to that guy and it seems that she is going to pursue him. They aren't meeting up until after our trip next month though. Her and I talked and that trip will be our last time together. I've been planning to get rid of her and need to wean off of this anyway. I'm not sure whether we'll last until the trip though but hopefully we do go and make it a fun final time together.
A little strange to plan a trip with a FWB you plan on never seeing again.
Typically you share more experiences, spend complete days together and act like a couple on trips which usually results in increased feelings towards one another.
I'd much rather travel with a good friend or two and find cool chit to see and do in another city.
FWB's are for netflix and chill and that's it.

But hey you do you.
post 1671982843 11-29-2022, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
She is really my physical type, she's affectionate, and the sex is amazing. I really enjoy the physical side with her and want to spend more time with her for this. She's also fun to go to bars with, go camping, and just hang out with.

But she isn't marriage material due to various red flags, particularly her relationship history/high body count, other promiscuous things she has done partying all the time in the past, etc. She is already placed in the hookup/casual bucket for me.

I know that she talks to multiple guys including some exes but I do want to keep her around for casual fun. I also know a guy she seems to really like is coming into town next month for like a week. I don't know what history they have together.

This isn't my first time having a FWB but I do particularly like this girl more than I've liked other FWBs. I feel a bit territorial, not a jealousy thing. It's a bit disgusting to have her spend a week with some other guy and sleep around with others guzzling cum then I see her afterwards.

Should I lay down some rules at this point even though I only want to keep it casual? We've been seeing each other for 2 months so far
IMO monogamy sux
do the same and talk to multiple girls
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