Thread: Anyone else hit the rock bottom?
10-27-2022, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By OrbOddLaw⏩
Now you know damn well you never had any social skills to begin with.
I did for a few years but once you stop you lose them. I haven't had anyone to talk to in like 8 years srs.
Now you know damn well you never had any social skills to begin with.
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10-27-2022, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
Agreedbeing enslaved and beaten and starved, much like Aushwitz and many enslaved people treated like dogs before. That is rock bottom. Or being kidnapped by a serial killer, in war surrounded by death and destruction and famine.
If human's can withstand that and have a will to live and fight, then most problems in 1st world countries are no where near rock bottom, the person having the problems is just weak and has a broken, likely egotistical/egocentric mind.
I would advise people who think they have ever hit rock bottom to read Victor Frankl's man;'s search for meaning and realize your whining and driveling and desire for death is pathetic.
If human's can withstand that and have a will to live and fight, then most problems in 1st world countries are no where near rock bottom, the person having the problems is just weak and has a broken, likely egotistical/egocentric mind.
I would advise people who think they have ever hit rock bottom to read Victor Frankl's man;'s search for meaning and realize your whining and driveling and desire for death is pathetic.
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I've been unemployed since last year and only now have I started looking for work - I have never been better.I was unemployed for 5 months once and never fully got back on my feet. It messed up my social skills.
I think that life is what you make of it.
Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
Yeah I have to agree with you - in hindsight it was just me cuasing all the issues because i wasn't better than everybody.fuk no, always had a bed to sleep in, always had food on the table, always had my health for the most part
never been anywhere near rock bottom, not because im blessed but because im not a pussy who thinks ive had it hard comparatively to most people on the planet
never been anywhere near rock bottom, not because im blessed but because im not a pussy who thinks ive had it hard comparatively to most people on the planet
Interesting how you look back after and realize that a lot of the stuff that you thought 'oh whatever' or 'everybody does that' is the stuff that you now think is the insanity that ruined you to begin with.
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10-27-2022, 07:46 PM
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This, is Rock Bottom...
10-27-2022, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By JayCeeDenton⏩
theres a difference between comparing and competing and telling someone their perspective is ****ty and borderline like a spoiled rotten child.I have been homeless, gone hungry, lived surrounded by death and destruction and famine, but many have it much worse.
Like those who were enslaved in Auschwitz, the kids living on the Gaza Strip or in Syria, war torn regions in Africa, extreme poverty in Latin America and Asia.
I would not say people suffering from homelessness, hunger, or violence in the first world are weak for pointing out their problems. The USA is not a utopia.
I do agree that a man needs to be strong, no matter his circumstance.
Poverty and suffering is not an Olympic sport to compare and compete, it binds people together through shared suffering.
The world really is like one big ghetto, the wealthy countries are not the majority, let alone the wealthy regions in those countries.
As a man, you have to confront it head-on for the ones you love. In my faith, speaking up for the rights of the poor is a command of God.
There is a difference between a man whining about circumstances that are his own fault, and a man who speaks truth to power in defense of the poor.
We can sit around going "You think you have it bad? Well what about me, you p*ssy?"
Or we can say, "You do have it bad, and you are not alone, we need to work together to make things better."
Like those who were enslaved in Auschwitz, the kids living on the Gaza Strip or in Syria, war torn regions in Africa, extreme poverty in Latin America and Asia.
I would not say people suffering from homelessness, hunger, or violence in the first world are weak for pointing out their problems. The USA is not a utopia.
I do agree that a man needs to be strong, no matter his circumstance.
Poverty and suffering is not an Olympic sport to compare and compete, it binds people together through shared suffering.
The world really is like one big ghetto, the wealthy countries are not the majority, let alone the wealthy regions in those countries.
As a man, you have to confront it head-on for the ones you love. In my faith, speaking up for the rights of the poor is a command of God.
There is a difference between a man whining about circumstances that are his own fault, and a man who speaks truth to power in defense of the poor.
We can sit around going "You think you have it bad? Well what about me, you p*ssy?"
Or we can say, "You do have it bad, and you are not alone, we need to work together to make things better."
We are in FAR more of a Utopia than many many other places and while I admit everyone has problems, they pretty much all pale in comparison to other places and your PERSPECTIVE is what is bad, not the "way you have it". It is also EASIER and healthier to change your perspective than to change all of your circumstances if they are out of your control or beyond worth investing into to change.
So I disagree letting someone have the pity party they seek for how bad they have it, fuk that, change your perspective, practice gratitude, and put forth action to change your circumstances.
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10-27-2022, 08:00 PM
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Rock bottom? Not really. I've had a lot of hard times though but I always made the best of it and it always fueled me even more. Plus a lot of my hard times were from sports and pursuing the highest level of it. A lot of mental and physical things. It's not fun spending 5 hours a day physically destroying yourself and giving a majority of your life to something that someone else has control over the end result. Very angry years. Of course a lot of life things too along the way.
I never view it as rock bottom though because I won't allow myself to accept that position.
I never view it as rock bottom though because I won't allow myself to accept that position.
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