Just sounds like she really likes you but is a bit insecure cos of getting cheated on before

Honestly it's actually pretty nice that she comes over and looks after you when you're sick.

Also she probably is a bit scared to tell you straight up that she doesn't like you using Whatsapp or Snapchat, I wouldn't be happy if my man used those apps cos he uses normal texts, phone calls and ******** to keep in touch with his real friends and family so those other ones are superlative. Also they are known apps for people who are trying to flirt or cheat.

Anyway maybe just have a conversation with her, if you're not into her then it doesn't make any difference but if you do really like her otherwise then might be worth clearing the air and just making sure you're all on the same page.

It does sound like she's genuinely into you even if she has some trust issues.

IMO, the "I was raped" and "I love you" were bigger red flags than the snooping. I mean, that's three pretty big red flags all at once lol. Unfortunately, women are being raised to be unaccountable for their actions and when they get caught, they lean on love or tragedy to justify it. If you think you can guide her away from that behavior, then give her another shot but if anything happens after that I would assume she's just too immature to keep around.

Definitely tell her she has the password because of your trust. But going through photos and messages is a breach of privacy as an individual. If she doesn’t trust you then she’s not ready to be in a relationship. It’s a leap of faith to be in one unless given reason to be suspicious.
Also if you’re single in Thailand hit me up. Can go on Poon patrol together.

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-gf of three months



If you don’t know what to do I got some bad news son.

one girl I dated found my misc account and called me crying saying, "I dont even know who you are.." and then eventually said, "Well, some of the stuff you said I agreed with..." <--relating to threads like these lol

100% ded srs.


OP: The fact that she used the rape story and i love you in that moment means she has zero self control and will do anything- lie, cheat, steal to get what she wants. See the red flags now and dont hit yourself later when chit hits the fan when you could have found yourself a real gf.

Set her up for an expert troll job. Load your phone up with tons of really disturbing images and fuked up things. Leave it out unlocked while you take a shower. Profit.

If she's doing that at 3 months. What will she do at 6 months? At a year? It mostly gets worse as they get comfortable. Just saying