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post 1677757103 02-22-2023, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Mikuljordan⏩
You look like this



And you're saying this is a 6/10?

The first thing I noted about this pic was the fact that the trees have eyes. I can't unsee it. Now I'm constantly looking over my shoulder, and had to get up and close the blinds, because I have a giant tree right by it, and I'm afraid it's going to ask to come into my bedroom.

ImpressiveGainz is a decent dude. He's happily married and loyal. Let him vent on e-thots from time to time in peace.
post 1677760413 02-22-2023, 09:30 PM
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Feels like she knew she was spewing nonsense at the end of the video.

Risk has gone up while chance of reward has gone down for guys. Easy for her to call us pussies for not "taking the chance" when she never has to deal with this risk/reward ratio.

It's one thing if women don't want to approach, but if unwanted advances are going to be so hostilely received as often as they are, women ought to be offering some (more) solid signals to invite approach.
post 1677760513 02-22-2023, 09:35 PM
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The cold approach has always and will always work. Anything else (including calling the cold approach "creepy") is mere gigacope.
post 1677760993 02-22-2023, 09:46 PM
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Well damn I’d shoot a shot. Expected a whale honestly
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post 1677761013 02-22-2023, 09:46 PM
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Start doing the approaching if you don’t like it.
post 1677761643 02-22-2023, 10:03 PM
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Wood approach sloot with bonrar hnnngggg
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post 1677765173 02-22-2023, 11:38 PM
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cute girl.
post 1677766003 02-23-2023, 12:03 AM
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Maybe men feel too intimidated to approach?
post 1677767483 02-23-2023, 01:08 AM
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Modern world/10

Although I agree with her message but thanks to internet, etc many guys became autistic and are scared as fck talking to a girl let alone ask her number.

Makes it easier for guys who do though
post 1677768223 02-23-2023, 01:35 AM
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Translation: why didn't the Chad I just saw across the street pass out from my mere presence?

He's already busy with 7 other sloots, sloot.

As for the rest, you can't create a culture where men are basically called rapists for looking at you/asking you out and then complain you aren't being approached.
post 1677773263 02-23-2023, 05:16 AM
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
Looks like she likes horses.

Hard pass


it's better to suck dink than to be killed

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post 1677773433 02-23-2023, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Maybe men feel too intimidated to approach?
stfu with this crap you retarded bitch. I don't know where women keep getting this notion that men are "intimidated" or "afraid" of women in any shape. If we don't want to tolerate your bull****, it doesn't mean we see you as any sort of threat. Avoidance and walking away is usually the best thing to do if the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

I feel like it's parallel to CrustinThePuss here acting like a batchit retard all the time, everyone laughs at her sad excuse for a life, then she turns it around and "haha I'm trolling everyone!" to cope with her shame.
post 1677773493 02-23-2023, 05:29 AM
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It's just a troll post to suck in more simps. That dumb sloot gets approached 100x a day.
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post 1677773573 02-23-2023, 05:34 AM
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There's definitely a different mood out there nowadays.

Just the other day I was in a coffee store and there was a girl sitting by a window seat with a book. The seat opposite her was free and I liked the location/view, so I thought I would go over and ask her if the seat was taken. But immediately following that thought I had a stream of thoughts about whether I'd be committing a social faux pas, how she'd potentially react, and so forth. I then got annoyed that I was having such thoughts, so I decided I was gonna do it anyway. Went over, asked, she was okay with it. I sat down, proceeded to drink my coffee, then a minute or two later she left (dunno if it was related to me having sat there or not).

Anyway, my point is... the fact I felt uncomfortable doing all of that is a result of the current "mood" in society and overall social norms. It shouldn't have felt as difficult as it was, but it did.
post 1677773653 02-23-2023, 05:39 AM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
I caught a sloot dressing me with her eyes at Walmart the other day
She dressed you with her eyes? So she put even more clothing on you? Das not it mane
Money talks
post 1677773713 02-23-2023, 05:44 AM
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lold at the side eye. About all I can do in a relationship these days
post 1677773743 02-23-2023, 05:44 AM
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i gave you this same theory before but i was talking to a 29 year old kid the other day that confirmed it. he's a good looking athletic educated successful kid lives in NYC and FL. he said everything changed starting about 5 years ago with dating apps usage saturation and accelerated with corona. he said most females are on social media and dating apps and kind of look at you funny if you approach in public. i don't think this is 100% true with all women but things have definitely changed.
post 1677774133 02-23-2023, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
There's definitely a different mood out there nowadays.

Just the other day I was in a coffee store and there was a girl sitting by a window seat with a book. The seat opposite her was free and I liked the location/view, so I thought I would go over and ask her if the seat was taken. But immediately following that thought I had a stream of thoughts about whether I'd be committing a social faux pas, how she'd potentially react, and so forth. I then got annoyed that I was having such thoughts, so I decided I was gonna do it anyway. Went over, asked, she was okay with it. I sat down, proceeded to drink my coffee, then a minute or two later she left (dunno if it was related to me having sat there or not).

Anyway, my point is... the fact I felt uncomfortable doing all of that is a result of the current "mood" in society and overall social norms. It shouldn't have felt as difficult as it was, but it did.
i wouldn't want you sitting with me either you f**king weirdo.
post 1677774913 02-23-2023, 06:18 AM
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I legit lmao at women who try to act like they understand rejection when it comes to dating/sex/relationships. They have almost zero concept of rejection compared to men who are in the same range of physical attractivess.

Also, if women want to start getting cold approached more often IRL again, then they need to get their chit together accordingly. Maybe start by stopping obsessing over dating aps, and stop calling guys creepy just for saying hello or looking in their general direction.
post 1677775543 02-23-2023, 06:33 AM
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Dem titties doee

would approach/10. Not the end of the world, or the misc if she says no.
Originally Posted By badger6⏩
I did that at a bar about 10 years ago. My buddy's brother's band was playing. I was sitting at the bar drinking a Heineken. Bitch sitting next to me (6/10) at the bar was chatting me up and eye fuking me. So before we all left to go back to his house and party.I went back over to invite her to the party or at least get her number. Stupid sloot said, "Oh, no thanks I'm married"and pointed to her husband 2 bar stools down. He looked and me and said "what's up bro?" Poor fella, just sits there and watch his wife be slooty with other guys, LMFAO

Cold approaching these days and half these sloots just look retarded and go into g-LOC. The other half act like you raped them by approaching them. It's a whole different world these days boyos...
reps for going up to her.

And the bitches that act like you raped them just by going up to them, says alot about that girl than the guy approaching.
Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Modern world/10

Although I agree with her messagebut thanks to internet, etc many guys became autistic and are scared as fck talking to a girl let alone ask her number.

Makes it easier for guys who do though
agreed. The internet's diff from the real world and many men are convinced that they'll receive handcuffs and placed in prison for doing so...Even if you're a complete gentlemen about it. "iT's tOo mUcH rIsK!"

But the guys who are going out, approaching women, working on their game, have accepted that rejection is just being one step closer to a girl that's down for you, it's easy pickings for them and it will be as years go by and the next gen of men will be scared
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post 1677775853 02-23-2023, 06:39 AM
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Sloot whining what a shock
post 1677775923 02-23-2023, 06:39 AM
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Maybe they can sense she's the type of girl who buys headphones that cost more than her kitchen
post 1677776243 02-23-2023, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted By IPoopStandingUp⏩
Sloot whining what a shock
This sums it up well, tbh.

So some woman is whining about something? Weird, I'd have never guessed!
post 1677776993 02-23-2023, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet⏩
I get signs from females pretty frequently. For instance I was at IHOP Sunday mowing down a stack of cakes when I looked to my left and saw the very well proportioned hostess staring at me. I should've said something to her when I left but didn't. My soul dies a little bit each time I don't take advantage of situations like that but oh well.
The thing that sucks about approaching a woman who is working somewhere is that if she does reject you (and there is a high chance of that, especially in that kind of situation), you either have to start avoiding that place, or accept the extreme awkwardness that will invariably ensue anytime you run into her while frequenting the place going forward.

It's the same reason why asking women out at work sucks so badly. I tried doing that once a couple years ago. Got rejected in a chicken chit way (she left me on read and ghosted me when I messaged her a day or so after she agreed to do something when I asked in person first). Chit was unbearably awkward around her after that. Fortunately for me, she went totally bonkers a short time after that and quit, and people finally forgot about the whole thing few months later. I'd still be catching endless chit for it to this day if she were still working there.
post 1677777103 02-23-2023, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
i wouldn't want you sitting with me either you f**king weirdo.
I am quite weird to be fair.
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Originally Posted By OrbOddLaw⏩


The look on her face, you can tell they both banged.

Why lift when it is all about the long face?

Even horses are getting more hole than most guys now.
post 1677777593 02-23-2023, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted By OrbOddLaw⏩
She says guys are emanating pussy energy by glancing and not walking up to her and asking her name. "I know you've been rejected, but rejection has also happened to me. Just take a chance."

Go to the hood Mami, you'll have no problem getting chatted up. ^_^ The guys there are notorious for being bold and unrelenting.

















Probably a Tik Tok attention whore but I agreee with her. Most guys are complete pussies when it comes to approaching women and make up any excuse ie: Not tall enough, not enough money, bla bla bla!. Men have no balls and would rather settle for what’s given to them. Even if it means getting a tatted up dumb sloot who has a bad attitude.

Come at me you ****g0ts You know I’m right.
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Man I have to get out of paradise more often. I only party and day drink these days at the beach, and its constant approaching/flirting from both sexes at the bar (and its body to body there on the weekends). Dont get me wrong, alota juice heads there so competition looks tight (venue bias), but you'd have thought nothing has changed since the 80s looking at the scene.

I don't understand this threads mentality.

Get jacked boyos and take a vacation. Maybe when everyones half naked people just relax more.
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
Looks like she likessucking big horse cocks.
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Originally Posted By FinBra⏩
Man I have to get out of paradise more often. I only party and day drink these days at the beach, and its constant approaching/flirting from both sexes at the bar (and its body to body there on the weekends). Dont get me wrong, alota juice heads there so competition looks tight (venue bias), but you'd have thought nothing has changed since the 80s looking at the scene.

I don't understand this threads mentality.

Get jacked boyos and take a vacation. Maybe when everyones half naked people just relax more.
That's Florida for you, though! I noticed that on St. Pete's beach in 2017. I even had an attractive lesbian woman approach me while we were in the ocean and I was like wtf.
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