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post 1679338283 03-21-2023, 10:55 AM
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Don't go NC so that they come back

Go NC because it's the best way of doing things.

If anything, let her know one time you're willing to change n stuff (if you haven't already), and then go NC.

And use the experience to reflect and become even better, sometimes these things happen so we can learn from them.
post 1679338563 03-21-2023, 10:59 AM
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Move tf on. There's a new one with a better pussy right around the corner. Always is.
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post 1679340213 03-21-2023, 11:26 AM
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Really work on your self-control. By being a hot head and blowing up and arguing, you're acting like the woman in the relationship, not the man. Those are the kind of things women do, not you as a man. Time to do some real self-reflection boyo. Anyways, my condolences, I know how bad it hurts.
post 1679340613 03-21-2023, 11:33 AM
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If you want her back, why dont you just try to get her back?

Go to therapy and learn how to be a respectful partner, fix your ****, and try to make things right.

If you arent prepared to do that, go NC.
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post 1679340843 03-21-2023, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Scartown⏩
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to outfoxxed again.


I'm definitely serious about self improvement and all, for my own personal reasons and convictions but ofc things like this serve as a catalyst for self reflection.

I know no girl is perfect but in today's dating climate, its difficult to find a quality girl. Really messed up here, fumbled the bag.
Curious, did you know you had these issues prior to the relationship? Did you have the same issues in previous relationships?

It's only lately that people who have issues with their temper have been called out to figure out why they have it and fix it. In the past it was acceptable and even spun in a positive way (ie caring enough about things to get worked up over them or standing up for ones self).
post 1679340993 03-21-2023, 11:38 AM
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post 1679341253 03-21-2023, 11:41 AM
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Shoulda nutted in er while u could. Over 4u son
post 1679344013 03-21-2023, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Curious, did you know you had these issues prior to the relationship? Did you have the same issues in previous relationships?

It's only lately that people who have issues with their temper have been called out to figure out why they have it and fix it. In the past it was acceptable and even spun in a positive way (ie caring enough about things to get worked up over them or standing up for ones self).
I was an even bigger POS before. I improved a lot in the relationship but ofc still rough around the edges and that impacted her negatively. I'm not ignorant to my flaws, and actively work towards improving but I understand her POV needing that heightened maturity and good treatment .
post 1679348603 03-21-2023, 01:56 PM
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Dang op, I hear she really was the best too
post 1679348733 03-21-2023, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
So she left you because you're a piece of s***? If you care about her, let her go, because she deserves better.
This, let's be fair. If op was asking us advice about his pos gf who disrespects him, argues alot and goes on tantrums misc would be telling him to break up and go NC asap.
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post 1679349343 03-21-2023, 02:08 PM
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learn from this and better yourself or you'll have a harder time getting a high quality gf. Girls over 25 are less likely to put up with your ****.
post 1679351203 03-21-2023, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By syrk⏩
You
Should sit down with her expecting her to walk away completely

But just explain how you
Truly feel and that you have been wrong for the things you
Are wrong for and say that you can’t make any decisions for her but you are sorry and hope
You can give things another try

And leave it in her hands , no other pressure or contact
This is good advice

As for going no contact in hopes that she'll miss you and beg you back? That's just mind games. She deserves better, and she knows it.
post 1679351503 03-21-2023, 02:49 PM
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Just move on breh. Nothing in the world is worse than living around some angry ******* who can't control their emotions. It ALWAYS ruins the vibe and fun times, it is truly awful.
post 1679353223 03-21-2023, 03:23 PM
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She knows she deserves better. What you expect us to do about you being a pos?
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post 1679353463 03-21-2023, 03:27 PM
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It was just your turn boyo. Now it is the turn of Tyrone.
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post 1679353543 03-21-2023, 03:28 PM
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Prove you have impulse control and let her be alone for a few weeks.

Oh and don't beat her ass if she comes back and you find out Jake & jamaal had a turn
post 1679353643 03-21-2023, 03:29 PM
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post 1679353743 03-21-2023, 03:32 PM
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