Step up your game and go to a hotel bar where the business traveler or vacationer will be.

That's never what I'd think of for a bar to meet sloots at. You also pick boomery, make places to meet chicks and then go surprised pickachu when there's no chicks.

Jesus christ. How hard is it to walk up to a woman in a bar, introduce yourself, offer her a drink. Sit with her, chat her up. Grab her ass. Ask her to come back to your place.

If all you do is sit with old men and talk about football I got sum bad news.

So OP goes to the bar dressed like a loser looking like a kid who hasn’t grown up or one of those fat old pathetic losers they show on NFL draft night on tv by wearing a football jersey and is shocked that no decent or hot girl his own age takes him remotely serious and comes and sits next to him or talks to him. Perhaps dress your age and look normal.

I love going to a restaurant/bar in the middle of the afternoon. That’s when you’re more likely to have somebody just stop in for a little bit vs being some sloot there to get trashed with her friends that night who don’t want to be bothered. I get chatted up regularly by decent girls, but I’m dressed better than OP but still very casual yet stylish. You have to go with zero expectations or purpose other than to have fun for a few hours.

So, you showed up and sat alone expecting anyone to want to talk to you? Cold approaching and using dumb lines on women doesn't work, in 2023. But, you HAVE to be talking to everyone.

Bars are best for picking up hot staff members

Think about the type of women that would be at a bar on a random night and ask yourself if those are the types of women you really want to date.

Were you expecting hot women in that environment? You need to fish where the fish you're looking for are. You're trying to catch salmon in a puddle.

Look for local live bands who play 80's/90's covers and go there, hotel bars where travellers hang out or something like a country bar. That's where women will be who are looking to meet someone, not at the NFL draft lmao.

Can confirm I rarely ever saw very many social opportunities at sports bars. Those hole in the wall independently owned dive bars is where it's at. Thursday through Saturday usually brings the wild crowd.

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misc is nothing but fallacies and bad logic everywhere. Bunch of egotistical delusionists that dont acknowledge reality whatsoever

I'm confused by what you're saying. If you want a hot gf, you have to put in the work. Most of us don't have the luxury of just waiting for it to happen.

This. Come on OP. Literally figure out which bar servers/bartenders go to when they get off work and you can get laid every night you go there.

No. Most of the factors that determine whether you can get a hot gf are not even in your control.

If you are decent looking, fit, and tall just do what I always did-- get good at pool and play it often especially on Friday nights. For whatever reason groups of hot sloots love to try and play pool on Friday nights at the right kind of bars. If you are running the table then eventually you will play against them and it's up to you to feel our the situation: some sloots will respond well to you completely dominating them at the game and others will appreciate you taking it easy on them. Either way never let them win. Unless you are autistic you will take one home or at the absolute least get a number or two to follow up with the next day. Too easy srs.

I recommend finding a mid-level dive bar for this. A place that's too grungy will only attract subpar sloots and a place that's too nice the sloots won't want to play pool they'll be there dolled up wanting to sit and look pretty.

Best of luck op. We're all gonna make it brah.

Oh is he Indian? Maybe he'd have better luck in India?

so not most men

Met my wife at a bar and plenty of women before that. It's one of the best place to meet women imo, apps are trash

I think y'all are missing the point of the first paragraph. To be fair, it is incongruent with the thread title.

I've been to that sports bar probably 30 times now, and I have never seen a bangable woman walk through the door ever. It's just not a pickup spot, and I don't go there to pick up. What's different is how open the boomer crowd there is to socializing.

Sunday afternoon, I went to a college student dive bar, Monday night and Tuesday night I went to a young-professional kind of place in a rich neighborhood. The former was full of trashy sleeve-tatted sloots, the latter had sloots in Nordstrom jackets. But none of them were fukkin talking to anyone they didn't show up with. None of the guys were either. Olive Garden chit.This has been my experience. I always get the "most of my friends are guys" spiel. From the woman who rides a Harley to grad school and packs a 45 into class, that's pretty credible. From some of the others, I'm more skeptical. But the end result is the same, they aren't willing to set me up.

So if I'm not in the same career field as a white collar sloot, and they've got no friends, my only strat is be match #2000 in her Hinge deck.Nose-face ratio looking good, brah.I'm coming up on 28 this summer. Probably going to start paying hookers when I hit 30.That yuppie bar is probably the closest bar I've ever seen to that.I'm Elmer glue white from Idaho. I just STEMmaxxed really hard, so I went to high school with nothing but Indians, went to college with some more Indians, and now I work with nothing but Indians.

However many Indians you think I work with, that number is higher. We've got a corporate sponsored office cricket league.

You're missing the point. Not that I'm surprised misc would miss the point.

My bad brah, I guess I was in a haze this morning and missed a good chunk of the OP. My apologies. That all makes sense and sucks.

I often wind up striking up conversations with dudes at bars, but it's very rarely chicks, even if the gender ratio is decent. Just rarely pans out with them; they indeed seem more guarded.Lmao, mirin'.

Lol yeah bars are usually chit at meeting women. You can always spot the bar bitch types; the ones where you can tell based off how they look that going to the bar is a hobby for them, lol. Haggard as fuk women smh.

I think most any woman worth a damn gave up on the bar scene, the dating app scene, etc a long time ago. IMO all men need to get good at learning to chat up women anywhere and everywhere else. Grocery stores, parks, takeout restaurants, clothing stores, and yes even the gym, for examples. A lot of women out there are waiting for something to happen to them, rather than going to places to get something to happen.

So once again, quit going to dive bars which are for nothing but sloots. Quit dressing like one of those guys on NFL draft night. Get out in the middle of the day dressed casual but way better than a jersey, and go to a restaurant, sit at the bar, and go to eat lunch and grab a few drinks. Maybe a girl is there doing the same before she heads off to shop. Her guards won't be up all over the place, nor will she be trashed with a bunch of idiot gfs blocking you or trying to have them all just socialize with each other. Quit thinking you have to go out and make something happen. If that doesn't work go to the grocery store because you have groceries to buy anyways. Flirt with a cashier and see what happens. If nothing happens then who gives a chit. You got out of the house and maybe met somebody new that day and practiced speaking to a new person, vs being the dude who sat alone late at night at the bar intended for drunk young sloots in groups dressed in a football jersey.

stfu NERD

Yep, It's exactly what I repeatedly say. Clubs and Bars don't sound like great places to go. Women are often in groups.


Maybe we need to find some type of salsa dance fests OP. Those seem to be the only places where women actually mingle with men.

this how you end up with 40 yr old virgins.

You have absolutely no idea what its like for low tier men. these things will never amount to anything

A football jersey at BWW is trying hard and looksmaxxing? lol

LOL just bc you hit the genetic loss of all time (pretty much your words), and have a defeated personality that probably rubs off everywhere you go doesn't mean that this isn't perfectly fine for others.

Anything beats being a loser on a dating app hoping somebody swipes right on you to add you to a list of 50 others dudes they've swiped on that day. So go out in the day and quit having an agenda of hoping to get laid or get a date. Chat up somebody you work with and ask them out when you or her leave the company. What else is there really?

it isnt perfectly fine for the kinds of guys struggling enough to be asking for help on the internet