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post 1684630883 06-14-2023, 05:56 PM
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Ofcourse low body count is ideal but honestly aslong as you're happy and she's loyal/matured i don't see a problem.
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post 1684634933 06-14-2023, 07:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ConTroLFreaKK⏩
Ofcourse low body count is ideal but honestly aslong as you're happy and she's loyal/matured i don't see a problem.
True, but I've made the argument before that a sexually liberal person is more likely to cheat since they don't view sex as important/a big deal.

Loyalty is the key factor to index on, and it isn'tnecessarilylinked - but I can see the line of reasoning.
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post 1684635263 06-14-2023, 07:09 PM
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She chose you over all of those other guys she slept with. That makes you special. Especially if she made you wait for sex, unlike those one night stands. It means she saw something in you.
post 1684635593 06-14-2023, 07:15 PM
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She won't have problems getting married, but she'll probably be the cause of divorce.
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post 1684636133 06-14-2023, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I don't even know if that weakened pair bonding thing is true on a biological level (I highly doubt it is, I hear that a lot from red pill circles), it may just be correlation to religiosity or other cultural norms that keeps the marriage together.

If a woman feels like she is "settling", then yes she won't be happy.

I guess the theory you and Ken-O are proposing is that a woman is more likely to 'feel like she's settling' if she's had sex with higher caliber men in the past.
I think you're referring to the study showing a correlation between number of previous sex partners and satisfaction in marriage. With that study yes I agree there were certainly other factors affecting the results. However I also look on my own experiences: women always comparing me to other men she has been with, still having some level of affection for ex boyfriends ("It was a different kind of love from what we have -- it was different with him!") so previous men always seem to leave some sort of impression on her, whether positive or negative, in ways us men rarely feel. Those lingering attitudes and attributes obviously affect the relationship you two would have. Plus the theory pair bonding hormones get released in a woman's brain during intimacy and orgasm. In my opinion it would make sense since nature wants the woman to be emotionally bonded to the man who impregnates her; that's just my theory, though.

I would say overall promiscuity in women is something of a symptom of a larger behavioral problem, and I feel that problem hinders her from being a good long-term partner. I personally never ask a woman her number or anything, I just pay attention to her actions and her behavior and I feel I can tell if she is the type. Just a hunch feeling.
Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
She chose you over all of those other guys she slept with. That makes you special. Especially if she made you wait for sex, unlike those one night stands. It means she saw something in you.
bro don't even get me started.....
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This

Karma is fake srs

Karma is the absolute copiest of cope
You'll get scammed if you don't protect yourself. 100% trashiness fails.
post 1684636153 06-14-2023, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
men like me are the exact reason what I said its true. There are way too many starved desperate dudes who will do anything for even an average woman. thats the reality.
How many women did u approach this week?
post 1684636253 06-14-2023, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The reality is that these women hit mid/late 20โ€™s and start behaving with more class. Their sexual history is either never disclosed, she lies, or the guy doesnโ€™t care. Provided theyโ€™re reasonably attractive, they wonโ€™t have any issue finding a husband and starting a family.
no issue?

I doubt they figured out networks that support marriages staying together. Just 'deciding' as an uneducated, uncultured former degen is not seamless.
post 1684636433 06-14-2023, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
She chose you over all of those other guys she slept with. That makes you special. Especially if she made you wait for sex, unlike those one night stands. It means she saw something in you.
Incredible that there are women that try this line with males still lol I have come across a few. About half start laughing when they realize it's not going to work and the other half act shocked and want to continue the charade.
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post 1684636463 06-14-2023, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted By 129iq⏩
How many women did u approach this week?
why the fuk would I bother doing that. I dont anymore.
post 1684636553 06-14-2023, 07:34 PM
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post 1684636643 06-14-2023, 07:36 PM
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No one ever talks about the other side of this. I've known couples that got married early. The woman never had a chance to see what's out there, as she gets older she starts to think about what she missed out on. Sometimes she acts on it, **** happens. Marrying a virgin/your hs sweetheart isn't without issues, and some of the girls who have a little more experience are a lot more fun in bed. There's a middle ground that always seems to be ignored in these debates.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
An attractive girl that gets run through in college and beyond, will supposedly have a really tough time finding a decent man to marry.

The reality is that these women hit mid/late 20โ€™s and start behaving with more class. Their sexual history is either never disclosed, she lies, or the guy doesnโ€™t care. Provided theyโ€™re reasonably attractive, they wonโ€™t have any issue finding a husband and starting a family.
Partial cope.

Here's the thing, a female who's sowing her wild oats in her youth, once she gets older can DEFINATELY find a husband and start a family. Happens ALL THE TIME.

What isn't being addressed is that the attractive woman may be delusional in what she can offer to a future mate.

She has the perception, she's hot, she banged thirsty chads, maybe got preggo once maybe twice, has kids... but because she banged a bunch of hot dudes, she's entitled to a 10/10 chad that brings home 6-figures.. because why not? I can pull chads in my youth, nothing's changed.. except I may have kids, I'm no longer youthful, half my eggs are gone. At 40, you are considered to have a "geriatric high risk pregnancy". But I f'k like 60 chads!

She'll soon realize she'll have to come down in standards.. maybe the 5'1" over-weight, bald ****** who's pulling $80k/yr. Or , she dates a 51 year old 6'1" 220-lb 16%bf Chad mountain biker, but only makes $12.5k/yr.

See, they CAN find a mate, but it's not the 10/10 6'1" $10k/day CEO chad. Those guys are railing through these sloots, or already wifed up with a loyal and supportive woman when they met in their early 20's. SHe stayed with him when he was at his lowest at the start, and kept him when he reached his highest.
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post 1684637403 06-14-2023, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
why the fuk would I bother doing that. I dont anymore.
Then,you deserve everything
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
No one ever talks about the other side of this. I've known couples that got married early. The woman never had a chance to see what's out there, as she gets older she starts to think about what she missed out on. Sometimes she acts on it, **** happens. Marrying a virgin/your hs sweetheart isn't without issues, and some of the girls who have a little more experience are a lot more fun in bed. There's a middle ground that always seems to be ignored in these debates.
Decide to experiment outside your marriage with men?
post 1684638273 06-14-2023, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
cope. There are so many desperate dudes.

They're short on guys THEY WANT who will commit. But if they're willing to settle they have more options than wall street.
Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
Like an incel would know
Cope

Then how do you explain all those women who complain on social media and in real life how they hate dating / can't find a man / All their gfs are single except them


Pls respond
post 1684638603 06-14-2023, 08:20 PM
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It's tough.. because I certainly think men can bombard them on dating apps and chit

The mistake, just like with younger guys though, is that women think men mean it. When men are just casting a wide net

They're literally hopping on tinder and whatever else and blasting chit cause women are so fickle

But I do think there's some merit in the fact that the guys that they want don't want them...

Beyond sex

I honestly can't really see how sex for them would be conducive to their psyche. Is it hard for them to find someone who'll have sex with them? No.

Harder to find someone who wants to do aforementioned, plus take care of them.. but also someone they want to do all of these things ha

I don't think it's as prominent as women finding it hard to get laid, but I also don't think it's as easy as them locking down what they want. So, in the middle

But I do think depression has gone up and will continue to go up pretty starkly in the near future
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I'll state this..

The pair bonding thing. From a theoretical standpoint, I think is totally bunk

The brain is malleable as fuk. Can overcome most things, including physical damage. But..

While I do believe peopleCANchange, they usually don't
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i think there may be something to the pair bonding thing. think about it -- a 30+ woman railed by 25-30+ men...she's likely only experienced the most passionate stages of a relationship. some may have lasted a week others maybe a year or two. perhaps she even has a 3 year in her history where it was good for a few years and the 3rd year was bad.

point is this woman doesn't know much about relationships outside the 1-2 year window where things are at the best and exciting. is she suddenly going to buckle down for that 20+ year marriage to one person? not so sure.
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Women are the choosers. If they're willing to be reasonable and choose a man at their actual level they can find someone in days regardless of their age (srs)

Separating yourself from the 'Just sex' pool and getting into the 'Long term' pool as a woman requires so little effort. Take care of your looks, don't be a nag, initiate intimacy/make your partner feel wanted. Congratulations, you're in a relationship that's all it takes for women. The fact that they can't bring themselves to do that is astounding. If a woman has problems in dating it's 100% her own fault.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I'll state this..

The pair bonding thing. From a theoretical standpoint, I think is totally bunk

The brain is malleable as fuk. Can overcome most things, including physical damage. But..

While I do believe peopleCANchange, they usually don't
Agreed. It would make more sense that those with high body counts have an innately poor pair bonding response rather than the behaviour itself weakening their ability to pair bond over time
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Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
Women are the choosers. If they're willing to be reasonable and choose a man at their actual level they can find someone in days regardless of their age (srs)

Separating yourself from the 'Just sex' pool and getting into the 'Long term' pool as a woman requires so little effort. Take care of your looks, don't be a nag, initiate intimacy/make your partner feel wanted. Congratulations, you're in a relationship that's all it takes for women. The fact that they can't bring themselves to do that is astounding. If a woman has problems in dating it's 100% her own fault.
This is true but I have never met a man who is emotionally intelligent, educated has self respect honour and pride marry a girl with a bright past

It's always the beta/submissive/thick/dumb men
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany⏩
This is true but I have never met a man who is emotionally intelligent, educated has self respect honour and pride marry a girl with a bright past

It's always the beta/submissive/thick/dumb men
A woman that is actually a net positive to her husbands life is so rare that any woman intelligent/disciplined enough to know how to play the role will win a high quality husband with fairly little difficulty.

Communicate your needs, go above and beyond to meet his and take care of your appearance. That's it. That's all it takes. Yet, I've never once seen a woman who after a couple of years in a relationship behaves that way towards her husband. It's always nagging, berating and putting themselves first. Its repulsive to witness as more often than not the male is doing his best. I honestly think it's just their nature. I don't think women are capable of happiness.
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Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
A woman that is actually a net positive to her husbands life is so rare that any woman intelligent/disciplined enough to know how to play the role will win a high quality husband with fairly little difficulty.

Communicate your needs, go above and beyond to meet his and take care of your appearance. That's it. That's all it takes. Yet, I've never once seen a woman who after a couple of years in a relationship behaves that way towards her husband. It's always nagging, berating and putting themselves first. Its repulsive to witness as more often than not the male is doing his best. I honestly think it's just their nature. I don't think women are capable of happiness.
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Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
A woman that is actually a net positive to her husbands life is so rare that any woman intelligent/disciplined enough to know how to play the role will win a high quality husband with fairly little difficulty.

Communicate your needs, go above and beyond to meet his and take care of your appearance. That's it. That's all it takes. Yet, I've never once seen a woman who after a couple of years in a relationship behaves that way towards her husband. It's always nagging, berating and putting themselves first. It's repulsive to witness as more often than not the male is doing his best. I honestly think it's just their nature. I don't think women are capable of happiness.
i noticed the can't be happy thing as a little kid spending the summers around 3-4 girl cousins at my grandmother's house...80% of the time they were bickering about something...doing silent treatments on each other, talking behind each other's back, scheming against one another, in competition with each other for attention, etc. i'm talking 4-8 year olds here.
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This goes off on a tangent a little, but a woman has to be worth fighting for and sacrificing for. That is marriage material. Used up sloots just aren't.
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Originally Posted By 129iq⏩
Then,you deserve everything
because I dont go up to random women like a retard anymore after years of it not working? ok
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[QUOTE=BigBallsMcgee;1684664253]because I dont go up to random women like a retard anymore after years of it not working? ok[/QU OTE]

Guarantee if you wait until your 55, you 'll bag a 2/10 over-weight female with a lot of baggage who will simply want companionship beyond just cats.

There is hope for you. We're all going to make it, bro. srs.
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
Guarantee if you wait until your 55, you 'll bag a 2/10 over-weight female with a lot of baggage who will simply want companionship beyond just cats.

There is hope for you. We're all going to make it, bro. srs.
Just gotta wait my time bro! Cant wait!
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