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post 1686579853 07-15-2023, 05:05 PM
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I don't understand. Women can say as much chit as they want towards unattractive (or as they call it "creepy") men, but if I say one bad thing about OBESE women the whole misc. and Reddit start sending me death threats 24/7.
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post 1686580313 07-15-2023, 05:14 PM
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This is precisely why miscers are virgins. When people say cold approaching girls IRL is the best way to go. They do not mean desperately power walk up to a girl that's clearly busy/going somewhere and flag her down and attempt to start a conversation.

These dudes might as well step out in front of traffic and run up to girls in their cars and try to hit on them too. Same level of intelligence/weirdness.
post 1686580613 07-15-2023, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
This is precisely why miscers are virgins. When people say cold approaching girls IRL is the best way to go. They do not mean desperately power walk up to a girl that's clearly busy/going somewhere and flag her down and attempt to start a conversation.

These dudes might as well step out in front of traffic and run up to girls in their cars and try to hit on them too. Same level of intelligence/weirdness.
Bars/Clubs are literally the only place where it's "socially acceptable" to approach women nowadays

And even then, bars and clubs are mostly filled with dudes now and girls are only going home with Brads and Chads

Where else can we even approach women?
post 1686581633 07-15-2023, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzldpress⏩
Bars/Clubs are literally the only place where it's "socially acceptable" to approach women nowadays

And even then, bars and clubs are mostly filled with dudes now and girls are only going home with Brads and Chads

Where else can we even approach women?
A lot of it just depends on where you're at.
-Gym. When getting water/in between sets/walking in or out.
-Grocery store. If you find and item near them and strike up a conversation (Probably about an item they are looking at).
-Retail stores. ^ same applies.
-Hiking, in a park, etc.


Most guys that don't get women have little to no social skills so when they 'cold approach' they are just weird/awkward.

Before you ever approach a single female you're interested in. You should first approach and initiate conversations with at least 50-100 males. Then at least 50-100 old ladies. Then maybe if you can approach any random stranger and initiate and hold down a conversation (About literally anything). Then you can go talk to girls you are interested in.


Most people just don't have the ability to initiate and have a conversation with a stranger without coming across as being weird or creepy. And as shown in this video have 0 social awareness.
post 1686582373 07-15-2023, 05:50 PM
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why are these people being so weird?
post 1686583283 07-15-2023, 06:07 PM
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“PUA game” is so fooking cringe. Why t’f is the concept of going out and just having a good time so damn novel for you nerds that are scared of women? Believe it or not, just having a good time and chatting with people is often good enough to meet women.

I remember years ago at a bonfire, this dude was trying to show me game and failed miserably. By the end of the night, the same sloot that he failed with ended up asking me to her place that was an hour away. I wasn’t doing anything special, except just having a good time.

It’s not that complicated. You should be ashamed of yourself if you do this “game” chit in 2023.
post 1686583583 07-15-2023, 06:12 PM
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Look at these women rip that 2nd guy apart. Women are allowed to say whatever they want about unattractive or "creepy" men, but I dare say ONE bad thing about fat women and the whole misc. demands that I get banned, get hate mail and get death threats. People photoshop things that I never even said.

The 2nd black guy is hard to hate. He seems like a very pleasant guy. I can't imagine being rude to him.

Imagine mostly white and Asian men acting like this to a black woman who approached them. They would get investigated by the FBI, DOJ and the Attorney general's office and likely get charged with harassment, hate crime, first degree assault, obstruction of racial and social justice ,attempted insurrection, racism and Russian collusion among other things.
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post 1686583703 07-15-2023, 06:14 PM
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Don't even bother cold approaching on the streets as a sub 8 male. If you're in college you might get by as a 6+, but there's easier ways on campus.
post 1686583893 07-15-2023, 06:15 PM
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I’m sick and tired of these racists!!! Dr Martin Luther king jr (pbuh) would be rolling in his grave!! Judge a man by the content of his character not his skin color!!
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post 1686584093 07-15-2023, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted By S0Jack3d⏩
I’m sick and tired of these racists!!! Dr Martin Luther king jr (pbuh) would be rolling in his grave!! Judge a man by the content of his character not his skin color!!
Statistically, around 85% of these women support Biden (urban, 18-35 year old in NYC.)

Where was all the "progressive love" at? All I saw was hate and rudeness. White and Asian liberal women love to talk "love and acceptance" but look what happens when they get approached by an unattractive black man.
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post 1686584313 07-15-2023, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I could never stand PUA ****, how tf can you guys sit through these videos
that's what incels do, they watch random pointless chit online and come up with 'theories' about how the world works
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post 1686584423 07-15-2023, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzldpress⏩
Bars/Clubs are literally the only place where it's "socially acceptable" to approach women nowadays

And even then, bars and clubs are mostly filled with dudes now and girls are only going home with Brads and Chads

Where else can we even approach women?
dating apps. Women aren't taking risks with complete strangers anymore. Now days they want to browse profiles, and if they see someone they like, perform a full social media investigation based on your profie pic/@'s.

cold approaching works, but it hasn't been the preferred method to pick up girls since the time my parents were courting one another in the early 80's, and it all went to a virtual screeching halt once the internet came around.
post 1686584803 07-15-2023, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
What doesn't add up about the black guys are incels theory is all the single moms in the hood and the black population is growing while most other populations are in decline.
That’s only because other races can’t afford kids and don’t get government handouts
post 1686586273 07-15-2023, 06:56 PM
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Lmao I like vids like this

Keep posting them and post some successes too
post 1686586463 07-15-2023, 07:00 PM
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https://youtu.be/AJOm6_GPBZY
post 1686586913 07-15-2023, 07:10 PM
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If the dude in the video dressed nicer, lost weight, & wasn’t so awkward, I’m sure he’d have better success
post 1686587233 07-15-2023, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Paul
If the dude in the video dressed nicer, lost weight, & wasn’t so awkward, I’m sure he’d have better success
This guy's pretty good for 19

https://youtu.be/df1ECxtgDlY
post 1686587313 07-15-2023, 07:19 PM
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OP will look for anything to cope with his own failures. I posted a video with a tall black man approaching a bunch of sloots successfully and he had nothing to say.

You only try to start these discussions for confirmation bias.
post 1686587393 07-15-2023, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
OP will look for anything to cope with his own failures. I posted a video with a tall black man approaching a bunch of sloots successfully and he had nothing to say.

You only try to start these discussions for confirmation bias.
https://youtu.be/df1ECxtgDlY

This young azz 19 year old actually does well
post 1686587433 07-15-2023, 07:21 PM
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These guys seem socially autistic.

That said, I'm almost certain OP gets no pussy.
post 1686587463 07-15-2023, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By T150⏩
These guys seem socially autistic.

That said, I'm almost certain OP gets no pussy.
https://youtu.be/df1ECxtgDlY

This 19 year old hardly could miss

He pulled the # like 80 % of the time
post 1686587613 07-15-2023, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
This guy's pretty good for 19

https://youtu.be/df1ECxtgDlY
Yea, but that’s kind of an unfair comparison. He’s younger, in better shape, not bad looking, good smile, etc.

Bro, you gotta learn to embed..



Just delete everything before the (/) & copy the format
post 1686587723 07-15-2023, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryCarnivals⏩
"JUST COLD APPROACH BRO"

god, modern dating is such a meme
Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314⏩
Was cold approaching normal before the internet? I can see how that would be phased out.

It’s seems like an outdated practice. Do people successfully do this to strangers? Have people ever successfully done this to a complete stranger?
you have to look at it less like an interview and or you're out there and HAVE to do it

i mean, you might have to do that when you first start, but when you get good enough/ break out of your shell it should come pretty naturally

why if you see some girl you like irl should she be off-limits? why is it different behind a computer

the best way is observational humor/ being in the moment.. that's going to get engagement. then just ask for the # at the end
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It rarely ever works. Even if you get the #, she will likely flake.

Only way to do it is small talk and act as if you are just talking, not trying to fook her.
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Didn't watch but I assume he was being too formal and serious.. also was probably approaching non blacks.
not helping his odds
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Originally Posted By Muzzldpress⏩
Bars/Clubs are literally the only place where it's "socially acceptable" to approach women nowadays

And even then, bars and clubs are mostly filled with dudes now and girls are only going home with Brads and Chads

Where else can we even approach women?
This is 100% true

I started cold approaching and genuinely no places to meet women anymore besides bars and clubs. Even the grocery store and gym has no women anymore and if they do, the girls all have bfs

Dating apps = zero matches if you arent hyper tall, rich, or white

if you didnt get a gf in college or highschool
just rope
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
Didn't watch but I assume he was being too formal and serious.. also was probably approaching non blacks.
not helping his odds
Black women would never date the guys in the OP

Lol. Height is hyper important to them
Originally Posted By PantyPirate⏩
It rarely ever works. Even if you get the #, she will likely flake.

Only way to do it is small talk and act as if you are just talking, not trying to fook her.
True the few numbers I get I have response rate under 5%. They usually text "whos this" then ghost. And meet up rate 0%

Genuinely 1/50 chance of getting number. 1/250 of her responding to first text. 2nd text 1/1000. Meet up just lol
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
https://youtu.be/df1ECxtgDlY

This 19 year old hardly could miss

He pulled the # like 80 % of the time
I saw that one

Guy is tall, has big jaw, and good hair

Plus is not hyper ethnic. Just tanned skin
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Originally Posted By bfdehewdbyywhn⏩
I saw that one

Guy is tall, has big jaw, and good hair

Plus is not hyper ethnic. Just tanned skin
I didn't see that before I posted

He also gives off the impression he's genuinely there to meet them

He was off the cuff, in the vein of observational talk

Not really talking about the girls cause they wouldn't know but he handled the rejection I saw well in that he was non clingy. He just stated his interest, then left

He was good looking though. I understand how you could interpret it that way. And him being good looking prob got him to that point

But again, from what I saw that dude gave off the vibe he was genuinely there to meet them
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I could never stand PUA ****, how tf can you guys sit through these videos
I tried. Couldn't get through more than a few minutes of each, it's awful.
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