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Thread: Can you turn around being 29 , no kids , no gf/ crush ? Life alone ?

post 1688817313 08-23-2023, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
You're just a privleged f*cking idiot. You're complaining about life despite getting matches on dating apps and getting girls to go out with you.

I never get matches and girls always ignore me. You should just rope.
It doesn't feel so privileged when you go thru the same bullchit over and over again with those girls


From my experience when meeting a new girl you gotta get sexual pretty quick or you gonna end up in the lame sexless friendzone after about 2 dates
post 1688817553 08-23-2023, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
It doesn't feel so privileged when you go thru the same bullchit over and over again with those girls


From my experience when meeting a new girl you gotta get sexual pretty quick or you gonna end up in the lame sexless friendzone after about 2 dates
Dude you're an idiot. I'd rather be in your shoes and at least have options and be going on dates and at least getting sex once in a while

Currently, I have zero options. Zero matches on dating apps. Zero girls on my phone. My dick is drier than the Sahara.
post 1688817633 08-23-2023, 08:39 AM
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White miscers complaining about life and women like Blueberryboy and FAPlhaggot should just rope

Living as a white man is life on easy mode. Dudes complaining about their situation when your white should just rope.
post 1688817913 08-23-2023, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Thank you .

Gotta stop beating myself up over decisions I made 5 years ago

Regret fumbling it with the girl I lived with ...and she apparently has a new guy.I keep envisioning them living a perfect life together...but I don't know what is really taking place , there could be problems with their relationship


But she's always been the type to just blow off old guys completely when she finds something new , I've lost touch with her for now.

My daily grind is annoying , and I want to take a break soon...but for now I have bills to pay etc and Gotta keep it up for now.
Relationships take work. Theirs could be really great, but by definition it is probably average- some good, some bad.
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Nah being 30+ and single with no kids is much more common now.

With that said set your sights on younger women; they get much, MUCH worse as they get older.
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post 1688817943 08-23-2023, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Scrizzle⏩
Im in a similar situation OP and if things don't get better I'm about to ropemaxxx.
What's the game plan here??
post 1688817993 08-23-2023, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
Dude you're an idiot. I'd rather be in your shoes and at least have options and be going on dates and at least getting sex once in a while

Currently, I have zero options. Zero matches on dating apps. Zero girls on my phone. My dick is drier than the Sahara.
Have you ever considered its more than just race holding you back ?

You can definitely still be white and struggle


Look around you white men everywhere...it's nothing fking special
post 1688818093 08-23-2023, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Relationships take work. Theirs could be really great, but by definition it is probably average- some good, some bad.




Yup . I have no idea about their relationship but it's irrelevant

Also she showed just how selfish she is in the end:

I never mistreated her, I never even yelled at her

And now I can't even get a text back from her at all .

I've helped her thru so many situations.
post 1688818213 08-23-2023, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Have you ever considered its more than just race holding you back ?

You can definitely still be white and struggle


Look around you white men everywhere...it's nothing fking special
JBW is law. Even ugly white dudes can just go for Indian/Asian women and have options. Look at you...

****** and Asians have ZERO options.

It's definitely my race holding me back. If I was white, I'd at least have mid Asian and Indian women to go for. But indian men have zero sex appeal.
post 1688818273 08-23-2023, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Relationships take work. Theirs could be really great, but by definition it is probably average- some good, some bad.

Don't ignore me you whore. Respond to my posts
post 1688818723 08-23-2023, 08:58 AM
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It's over due to you being a beta cuck, on top of being in one of the countries on the worst path on the planet. You won't ever stop abusing drugs focus on getting jacked or stop being a beta getting used for free dinners
post 1688818743 08-23-2023, 08:58 AM
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build the life you want first boyo and the women will come
post 1688818983 08-23-2023, 09:03 AM
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None of the things you are doing are social.
post 1688818993 08-23-2023, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
- gonna be 30 in September

- absolutely no prospects for a girlfriend right now , and no viable girl that I'm even interested in

- seems like all my ex girlfriends moved on and are happily living life away from me ( which is a bit soul crushing)

- had the chance to lock down a good girl in my mid 20s but I fumbled and didn't envision life turning out this way for me

- I have a decent place to live , decent car , decent job etc ...but still can't seem to get anything going


What should I do ?

Money maxing gets tiring and trivial after awhile and seems to only attract the wrong type of girl

Is there hope for me ? Or in the climate we are now days is it basically over?

Sick of living the same routine pretty much every day of working and then from 5 pm - 12 am ....trying to fill my time in some sort of meaningful way after work gets done.

I go to the gym, I go play basketball, I grocery shop, I walk , I visit parents .

What's the best course of action to switch things up ?
Imagine this, but no work, and a disability of schizophrenia.

It's over, boyo.
post 1688819313 08-23-2023, 09:09 AM
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I mean if you could invent some apparatus that would efficiently compress humongous female turds into pellets roughly the size of a multivitamin pill you could probably set up a stand outside your local chipotle and just wait for the line of highly interested HTC ladies to form then again you might be a potential hit target by the plunger industry as a threat to their revenue projections so probably just forget this idea all together I mean it was absurd from the start quite honestly
post 1688819503 08-23-2023, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Toader45⏩
None of the things you are doing are social.
Exactly

I've started bar maxing every weekend lately ...gonna try my hand at that.

Last Thursday night I went out. The club I was trying to go to was full so I went to this other bar with less girls In it
post 1688819573 08-23-2023, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Exactly

I've started bar maxing every weekend lately ...gonna try my hand at that.

Last Thursday night I went out. The club I was trying to go to was full so I went to this other bar with less girls In it
It's over boyo. You failed despite having JBW on your side

Just rope
post 1688819743 08-23-2023, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By HateLiberals⏩
It's over due to you being a beta cuck, on top of being in one of the countries on the worst path on the planet. You won't ever stop abusing drugs focus on getting jacked or stop being a beta getting used for free dinners
You've got a point

I haven't looks maxed because I'm not jacked.

I've cut back on drinking alot

Still smoking herb .


Yeah it's actually crazy how many girls will try to play a guy out of a free meal.


When I was out with the Ecuadorion girl it was already like 10 pm ...I thought we we were taking a walk on the waterfront.

All of a sudden she wants to go this tourist trap resteraunt...I thought it would be closed by then .

Spent 100+ dollars and ofcourse never seen her again. In fact, I don't even want to see her again .

I could have said that $ by just cutting the date short and going home- same result

Also met with a Korean 4 times, she acted like $ was no issue and was entitled to me driving her around and buying her food. I dropped her off after the 4th date and knew I would never be speaking to her again .


Taiwanese girl look like it could work...had a taco date and talked for a few weeks after. She ghosted my last text and I just never bothered to follow up .
post 1688819883 08-23-2023, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
It's over boyo. You failed despite having JBW on your side

Just rope
It's not all about race dude


You say oh just get an average Indian or Asian...guess what ? There's 10 other guys competing regardless of race

I lived with an asian girl for 3 years and now can't get a text back - doesn't matter chit I'm a white man now.
post 1688819933 08-23-2023, 09:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
build the life you want first boyo and the women will come
I've been trying to but still feel so invisible and low key lol
post 1688820043 08-23-2023, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
- gonna be 30 in September

- absolutely no prospects for a girlfriend right now , and no viable girl that I'm even interested in

- seems like all my ex girlfriends moved on and are happily living life away from me ( which is a bit soul crushing)

- had the chance to lock down a good girl in my mid 20s but I fumbled and didn't envision life turning out this way for me

- I have a decent place to live , decent car , decent job etc ...but still can't seem to get anything going


What should I do ?

Money maxing gets tiring and trivial after awhile and seems to only attract the wrong type of girl

Is there hope for me ? Or in the climate we are now days is it basically over?

Sick of living the same routine pretty much every day of working and then from 5 pm - 12 am ....trying to fill my time in some sort of meaningful way after work gets done.

I go to the gym, I go play basketball, I grocery shop, I walk , I visit parents .

What's the best course of action to switch things up ?
There are so many girls out there and it's hard for me to understand that anyone is struggling to get a hot gorgeous girl. Last week, I randomly went out on the street and filmed myself walkig around and randomly asked every white girl for their number and got 4 numbers on that day and I'm meeting up with 2 of them separately soon. Can you tell me why you think you can't find any good girl? Do you lack confidence? Do you lack verbal skills? Are you a boring person?
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
Dude you're an idiot. I'd rather be in your shoes and at least have options and be going on dates and at least getting sex once in a while

Currently, I have zero options. Zero matches on dating apps. Zero girls on my phone. My dick is drier than the Sahara.
Where do you live? At least where I live (US), girls are generally very easy to get and open for grabs. I randomly went out on the street last week and talked to random white girls and got 4 numbers.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
I don't remember the exact stat, but there has been a lot of talk that in ten years from now something in the ballpark of 45% of women in America over 30 or 40 will be single, never married, and childless. Guaranteed there will be a major frenzy in the next several years of women desperate for marriage + kids
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
There are so many girls out there and it's hard for me to understand that anyone is struggling to get a hot gorgeous girl. Last week, I randomly went out on the street and filmed myself walkig around and randomly asked every white girl for their number and got 4 numbers on that day and I'm meeting up with 2 of them separately soon. Can you tell me why you think you can't find any good girl? Do you lack confidence? Do you lack verbal skills? Are you a boring person?
So you just randomly went out on the street and got girls numbers?

Did you actually film it

I've gone from online maxing , now I'm bar maxing ...next thing I'll be cold approach maxing like you
post 1688820533 08-23-2023, 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
I don't remember the exact stat, but there has been a lot of talk that in ten years from now something in the ballpark of 45% of women in America over 30 or 40 will be single, never married, and childless. Guaranteed there will be a major frenzy in the next several years of women desperate for marriage + kids
yeah but most of those unmarried women in the stats are black women. I looked at those stats and racial category as well. For white women on the other hand, almost all of them end up marrying or getting children by the time they're 35.
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
Where do you live? At least where I live (US), girls are generally very easy to get and open for grabs. I randomly went out on the street last week and talked to random white girls and got 4 numbers.
I'm in a decent sized Canadian city
post 1688820613 08-23-2023, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
yeah but most of those unmarried women in the stats are black women. I looked at those stats and racial category as well. For white women on the other hand, almost all of them end up marrying or getting children by the time they're 35.
What ethnicity are you...chinese ? Japanese?
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Originally Posted By SmartzAsianGuy⏩
yeah but most of those unmarried women in the stats are black women. I looked at those stats and racial category as well. For white women on the other hand, almost all of them end up marrying or getting children by the time they're 35.
These are projected stats.

I'm positive you're correct about black women, especially, though
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
So you just randomly went out on the street and got girls numbers?

Did you actually film it

I've gone from online maxing , now I'm bar maxing ...next thing I'll be cold approach maxing like you
I filmed it. But I think I gotta ask the girl's permission before posting them online or else... they find out and they get mad and... yeah.

Online maxing is a very inefficient method because first, any decent girl would get bombarded by messages/likes from a huge number of guys online.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
What ethnicity are you...chinese ? Japanese?
Korean
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Same boat. But i dont really want a relationship rn. Trying to get to the $200k/yr mark before Im 35, leave canada, then find some nice foreign sloot to settle down with. The west is done
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