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Thread: If you cheated on a loved one, would you tell them?

post 1689651553 09-06-2023, 09:47 PM
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I did. But I was caught. I was young and she was gonna cheat anyways.

Now Id never cheat.
post 1689651583 09-06-2023, 09:48 PM
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post 1689651753 09-06-2023, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Why even be faithful anymore. In the end it doesn't mean anything to sloots anyways.

What you consider being devoted, faithful and noble she considers weakness.

Again this is why a sloot will always sloot
Sure if you marry a sloot.

Marry a high value woman, **** her good, treat her well, and you will not worry about her cheating.
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post 1689651793 09-06-2023, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Just LOL @ how much free real estate he hasin your head.
he's complete fraud, just like you are a complete square lol
post 1689652083 09-06-2023, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By spazzin⏩
Wasnt a massage place. Basically a night club catered towards lonely men. Think about why a married man would go there. Likely hes not getting any action at home. Likely because hes a nerd whose wife is not attracted to him.He went there to feel wanted again. Thats cheating, maybe justified? Dude should get a divorce
He went with a friend who is obsessed with Korean 'escorts', who I am told can blow 10k+ in these places in a night.

But what you said about him doing it to "feel wanted" - that's so brutal. I figured my colleague was having fairly regular sex but perhaps he wasn't, leading to this.

But he says he feels like chit about it. "Empty" "Guilty", sort of what OliverHeldens said. Like he used the girl to masturbate him, and feels sick and empty inside now heh. Talk about a cheating backfire.
post 1689652183 09-06-2023, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
He went with a friend who is obsessed with Korean 'escorts', who I am told can blow 10k+ in these places in a night.

But what you said about him doing it to "feel wanted" - that's so brutal. I figured my colleague was having fairly regular sex but perhaps he wasn't, leading to this.

But he says he feels like chit about it. "Empty" "Guilty", sort of what OliverHeldens said. Like he used the girl to masturbate him, and feels sick and empty inside now heh. Talk about a cheating backfire.
imagine being a 45 year old man who has never visited a hostess bar before in his youth lol
post 1689652503 09-06-2023, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Why even be faithful anymore. In the end it doesn't mean anything to sloots anyways.

What you consider being devoted, faithful and noble she considers weakness.

Again this is why a sloot will always sloot
No offense but are you okay? I remember your old drinking threads, and this post of yours is particularly bitter breh.
post 1689652593 09-06-2023, 10:05 PM
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post 1689652613 09-06-2023, 10:06 PM
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Absolutely yes, give your loved one the choice. The cheating is bad enough, then adding long term deceit to the mix, damn…







Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
His ex is causing all sorts ofpandemonium
in his life now apparently including taking over all his internet accounts and taking his son away from him.
Pandemonium.

****ing **** I almost laughed myself sick, that’s just one of those words that crack me up
post 1689652793 09-06-2023, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
No offense but are you okay? I remember your old drinking threads, and this post of yours is particularly bitter breh.
Yeah, im good bro.actually much better than I've been in a very long time

I guess I do seem a tad bitter.
"it takes a wise man to know when he is in error and a noble man to admit to it"
post 1689653033 09-06-2023, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
His ex is causing all sorts of pandemonium in his life now apparently including taking over all his internet accounts and taking his son away from him.
Srs? Wtf.
Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Yeah, im good bro.actually much better than I've been in a very long time

I guess I do seem a tad bitter.
If the above is true I don't blame you man. But not everyone is like that, and if you go from a few examples to 'all', it just makes the world stained in black everywhere you look. And that's no way to live a life. Just my 2cp bro. I remember your old threads, srs.
post 1689653063 09-06-2023, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
And yet...

Both of us own a lot of free real estate in your head.
i just don't like the sight of a 45 year old man gawk gawking for reps all the time.

and making up stories.

just trying to help the guy

he doesn't know what cheating or a hostess bar is
post 1689653073 09-06-2023, 10:14 PM
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Men have no feelings or emotional attachment. It was stupid and I give the guy a pass…maybe because I’m older now and don’t give af…
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post 1689653093 09-06-2023, 10:14 PM
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It's probably not guilt but fear of being caught that he's feeling.

When people say cheating gets easier, it's typically because they fear being caught less as they've gotten away with it so many times.
post 1689653193 09-06-2023, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Srs? Wtf.



If the above is true I don't blame you man. But not everyone is like that, and if you go from a few examples to 'all', it just makes the world stained in black everywhere you look. And that's no way to live a life. Just my 2cp bro. I remember your old threads, srs.
Oh, I agree with what you just said. I know good advice when I hear it
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post 1689653403 09-06-2023, 10:22 PM
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Originally Posted By AlexxVann⏩
It's probably not guilt but fear of being caught that he's feeling.

When people say cheating gets easier, it's typically because they fear being caught less as they've gotten away with it so many times.
I mean he's sick with himself (he says), "empty" and all the rest. If he'd smashed a 21 year old NYU track athlete I wonder if he'd feel any different tbh.
post 1689653473 09-06-2023, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩


I <3 it.
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
I'd bet that Katya has never cheated, but that she has fu*ked married men before. SRS.



I've come across some married men that I have found attractive, but nah. I was basically attached to someone from 24 to 49 or 50 depending on if you go by separated or divorced.
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post 1689653533 09-06-2023, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
I mean he's sick with himself (he says), "empty" and all the rest. If he'd smashed a 21 year old NYU track athlete I wonder if he'd feel any different tbh.
In a week or two when he hasn't been caught he'll be fine.
post 1689653663 09-06-2023, 10:29 PM
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Fuk op
post 1689653733 09-06-2023, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Men have no feelings or emotional attachment. It was stupid and I give the guy a pass…maybe because I’m older now and don’t give af…
Surprised to see that post from you. But I guess...what is a drunken handjob? I mean of course it's cheating. Women are capable of sex without emotional attachment too - that was a brutal lesson for me when I was younger lol.
post 1689653973 09-06-2023, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
If I cheated I'd leave.

She may not know but I do. I'd be cringing inside everytime she talks about how much she loves and trusts me. I can't live like that.

Whether I'd confess I dunno.
Same, except I would probably just confess and take whatever gets handed to me. If my woman cheated I'd rather she tell me than keep it a secret because that's real fuked, imo. I mean cheating and just going back to normal is real fked, specifically.
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol a handjob at a Korean rub n tug isn’t cheating. There’s no feelings involved. It’s just a release at the end of a massage, and feels amazing.

Honestly, after years of marriage a wife should support this type of thing.
Women can also fuk around without feelings. If a girl sucks some guy off because she was wrapped up in some hen party bull**** that's bad as well.
post 1689654133 09-06-2023, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Surprised to see that post from you. But I guess...what is a drunken handjob? I mean of course it's cheating. Women are capable of sex without emotional attachment too - that was a brutal lesson for me when I was younger lol.
A drunken handjob…a man who’s too drunk to go any further…yes stupid and cheating. Yes women are just as bad…not all women are wired to show any emotion at all…
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post 1689654393 09-06-2023, 10:51 PM
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Jesus all this back and forth over a guy who got a handjob and feels bad about it. Again, a handjob. Dude needs to keep it to himself, feel guilty since it's cheating lite, get over it and not do it again. Sure it's cheating but it's a handjob, some teenage level stuff. What he does in the future - no way to predict.
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post 1689654573 09-06-2023, 10:58 PM
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If your SO got finger blasted by some dude you prob would want to know

imo its pretty grimy to not say anything, idc if that makes me sound like a cuck or w/e

What turns relationships into chit is lack of communication. If you wanna get handjobs then talk about it beforehand. If that discussion ends the partnership then you were doomed anyway
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Originally Posted By frankdtank20⏩
Jesus all this back and forth over a guy who got a handjob and feels bad about it. Again, a handjob. Dude needs to keep it to himself, feel guilty since it's cheating lite, get over it and not do it again. Sure it's cheating but it's a handjob, some teenage level stuff. What he does in the future - no way to predict.
they are 45 year old men too lol
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Phuckin’ lol at this nerd.

Try creampieing your gf’s (ex) best friend then hanging out together while she’s full of your cum. Brutal.
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Fking geeks, she probably closed her legs for good and he had to get action somehow



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