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post 1689750613 09-08-2023, 02:20 PM
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I would rather take my chances with a younger woman who is likely more immature than some older woman who is jaded and impossible to get along with. When you think about it those hags are immature as well, just in a different way
post 1689750823 09-08-2023, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
1. That isn't what happened.

2. You're supposed to be apologizing to me rather than talking chit.

Baldcels have no morals or integrity.
Lol, okay. Whatever you say bud.
post 1689770163 09-08-2023, 10:22 PM
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OP is retarded, 40 is way to young for a man to marry. Prime of a man is 50-55. So play the field until then and settle with a nice 21 year old HBB at 55.
post 1689770383 09-08-2023, 10:28 PM
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My son's mother when we met was 24 I was 44 but at the time we met I use to think there was a true connection because the conversation was always there, laughing and acting silly together was ways there at first.

I use to say you can always tell an unhappy marriage when you go to dinner and you see two people sitting there just eating but never saying two words to each other.

We didn't have that problem at first. The age thing never popped into my head because we had a lot in common despite the age difference. At least I use to think we did. Looking back now it's sad to admit that all the good memories and conversations and having fun together was most likely all an act.

But yes despite such a huge age gap two people can be happy together if the share common interests and goals and both are mature.
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post 1689770903 09-08-2023, 10:48 PM
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It's toxic for older men to date younger women, it's p3d0philia! But totally fine for drag queens and LGBT nonces to groom your children into having life-altering surgeries and being prescribed chemical regiments that will sterilize them.

Reproductive lobotomy, GOOD!
Men dating women of legal age younger than them, gold digging for money? BAD!
post 1689794393 09-09-2023, 01:59 PM
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The now wife was 28, and me 40 when we started dating. Been married for 3 years now, and together for 5.

Was single from 30-40 years old. Could never connect with girls in their early 20's beyond anything physical. Girls in their mid 20's was really hit/miss with it being very dependent on the girl, but even then it was them badly wanting kids (I have a vasectomy). Girls in their late 20's / early 30's was where I had the best luck. Girls in their mid / late 30's had too much baggage in general.
post 1689794863 09-09-2023, 02:11 PM
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Very happy with my wife tbh. She is a year old than me and we met at 31/32 respectively. She has a past of slooting for sure which maybe is troubling to some brahs. Thing is I have a past of slooting and degenmaxxing as well so I can't really judge and as far as I see it we are equals. She is a great mom to our kids and a loyal sloot to me and that's all I can ask for.


Best of luck finding a sloot who is 10 years younger, HBB, only slooted minimally if at all, is ready for marriage and kids, willing to be loyal during her mostly sexually desirable years, has a good personality, and will be happy with you in 20 years after the kids are grown, you are an aging 60 year old, meanwhile she still has younger chads with milf fetishes making advances on her everywhere she goes. A sloot like this probably exists somewhere but you have as good a chance of landing her as you do winning the lottery. Better to just find a sloot you vibe with an learn to accept she has probably zukked a few hundred dinks and taken 50 miles of cawk.
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post 1689795143 09-09-2023, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By ArnoldLibCuck
It seems like the dream wife scenario of a lot of miscers would involve them being about 35 - 40 years old themselves, while wifing up some chick who is around 20 or so.

Look, I love looking at hot 20-something women as much as the next fella. Fun for a hookup or something? Sure. Fun for a wife? Well, have fun dealing with her wanting to do all the wild stuff almost any early to mid-20's women obsess over that you probably got bored and fed up with 10 - 15 years ago yourself. Also, have you actually tried having a conversation with the average early 20's girl? Literally all they talk about is their stupid zoomer nonsense. All they like doing for fun is nonsense like partying and getting drunk. Hanging around them would insufferable for any older brah (30's+) if it weren't for how hot they are.

Also, the misc is completely and utterly delusional with how a lot of miscers claim to think a man in his late 30's to early 40's is in his prime of his dating life, and that 20-something women are foaming at the mouth for them. That's only ever true if for guys who either look at least average + are loaded to the gills with money, or if they're at least fairly Chadly for their older age + make firmly upper middle class money. Yeah you hear stories about women marrying dudes 15 - 30 years older than them, but have you ever heard of that happening IRL unless she was marrying a rich lawyer/doctor/other prestigious career that makes good money? Exactly lol.
stopped reading at fairly chadly.

was pretty deep into this post too op.

my response:

I'm almost 30. feelsbadman.
post 1689795323 09-09-2023, 02:21 PM
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18 year old girls are the best. However, you have to go for the right type of 18 year old.

If you live in a place like Miami, obviously an 18 year old will look at you like a sugar daddy, so I would't recommend it. But if you live in the midwest, there are tons of great 18 year olds who will make literal 10/10 wives.
post 1689795393 09-09-2023, 02:22 PM
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2 pages talking about girls in their early 20's and still not one pic posted
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post 1689795433 09-09-2023, 02:23 PM
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My wife is 7 yrs younger than me. If she were just a few years younger when we met we probably wouldn't have gotten along so well.
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post 1689796983 09-09-2023, 02:56 PM
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Most guys are never gonna connect with someone in that age range - male or female. As an early 30's guy surrounded by women that age, I have truly hit it off with a couple girls where sparks were flying, but I went back to finish my degree so I've learned to talk to people that age. When my high school friends visit me, they really struggle to converse with my college friends who are 20-25.

I've met more than a few women 18-22 who are incredibly intelligent and have top tier personalities, even compared to older women out in the "real world". They really blow the age paranoia out the window. Guaranteed you all know or have dated women in their mid to late 20's who were way less mature than these girls. But I have also met a couple who were intimidated by the age gap and sure enough, they were ditzy teeny-boppers anyway or complete sloots so I'm glad nothing came of it. I did have a 19 year old 10/10 who I found out was practically stalking me on campus but I'm a retard and didn't jump on it. Still think about her 2 years after she moved away, she was that gorgeous.

But 21-26 girls who lift is it for me. Peak glow and i think most guys would agree
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post 1689797163 09-09-2023, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41
Bro do not specify 18+ when you say you prefer younger women.

Saying that makes it seem like you're over clarifying because you actually like them younger.
Only because the title specified 20+. I wouldn't mind dating a 19 year old.
post 1689797383 09-09-2023, 03:08 PM
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Mid 20s is the absolute latest if you want time to get married and have a family etc

Trying to date women approaching 30 they become psychos because their biological clock is ticking and every date is an interrogation about your 5 year plans lol and where is this relationship going
Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Not 20 but late 20s for me

27 seems ideal
You’ll be working to a very tight timeline if she wants kids
post 1689797883 09-09-2023, 03:26 PM
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Are these miscers that say 20 year women are too immature just copers?
I mean they voluntarily spend all day on this forum. Not the most mature place is it?
post 1689798403 09-09-2023, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Mid 20s is the absolute latest if you want time to get married and have a family etc

Trying to date women approaching 30 they become psychos because their biological clock is ticking and every date is an interrogation about your 5 year plans lol and where is this relationship going



You’ll be working to a very tight timeline if she wants kids
True. Women in their 30s are desperate, used up, and probably have something wrong with them if they haven't settled down already.

'Society' will shame older men and call them creeps for dating women in their early 20s, but it's what every guy wants whether they admit it or not. I could have more in common with a girl much younger than me compared to a girl my own age who has been in multiple long term relationships and has kids.
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post 1689799943 09-09-2023, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Drhunglow
Are these miscers that say 20 year women are too immature just copers?
I mean they voluntarily spend all day on this forum. Not the most mature place is it?
When I met my wife at 22 she had moved from her home country to be the youngest PhD candidate at the worlds #1 university in her field

I was 32 can’t claim to be more mature than she was
post 1689801703 09-09-2023, 04:58 PM
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20? too old
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post 1689801743 09-09-2023, 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
Yeah but those guys have hair.
not as much body hair as the hookers who rob u tho hehe
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post 1689802233 09-09-2023, 05:13 PM
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I was single and dating at 30.

I found girls early were an absolute chore to talk to, they just didn't have any life experience or anything interesting to talk about.

I ended up dating a girl who was 25 doing her Masters, who I'm still with today.

I didn't to date a 30+ year old because I was worried it would be quick pressure to have kids.
post 1689802623 09-09-2023, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By ArnoldLibCuck
So, where's the pics of these early 20's hot chicks who are interested in marrying you when you're in your 40's without being firmly upper middle class at the bare minimum? Sounds like more incel jiving to me.
Well ugly dudes and lower income dudes most certainly aren't marrying girls 15-20 years younger as a norm. And most men aren't marrying smoking hot 10/10's regardless.

I work in a lot of upscale neighborhoods. And in general if a dude has a fukkload of money and gets divorced later on in life. Its the norm for them to date/marry younger women.

So in neighborhoods where dudes earn over 500k per year. I'd say the average 60-65 year old guy who was divorced at some point and remarried. Is going to be with a woman that's 40-45 years old. A 15-20 year age gap for a dude in his 60s would be quite normal and nothing to raise an eyebrow at.



A lot of dudes in their 30s like to talk about not having anything in common with younger girls. And that's true When you hit mid to late 30s if you are looking for a life partner to marry/have kids with. Someone that you have a lot in common with. Its not gonna be a girl in her early 20s. With that said. If you are single in your mid 40s onward. You'd have to be stupid to be targeting girls within 10 years of your age.


I know too many completely average looking divorced dudes in their mid to late 40s that are dating girls in their early 30s.
post 1689802763 09-09-2023, 05:24 PM
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i'm 29 and my sweet spot for dating tends to be between 22-25. still young and fun but also more mature because they're either in the corporate world or in grad school.

i've gone out with girls younger and older than that range but i think that's my personal happy medium.
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Originally Posted By guest89
Well ugly dudes and lower income dudes most certainly aren't marrying girls 15-20 years younger as a norm. And most men aren't marrying smoking hot 10/10's regardless.

I work in a lot of upscale neighborhoods. And in general if a dude has a fukkload of money and gets divorced later on in life. Its the norm for them to date/marry younger women.

So in neighborhoods where dudes earn over 500k per year. I'd say the average 60-65 year old guy who was divorced at some point and remarried. Is going to be with a woman that's 40-45 years old. A 15-20 year age gap for a dude in his 60s would be quite normal and nothing to raise an eyebrow at.



A lot of dudes in their 30s like to talk about not having anything in common with younger girls. And that's true When you hit mid to late 30s if you are looking for a life partner to marry/have kids with. Someone that you have a lot in common with. Its not gonna be a girl in her early 20s. With that said. If you are single in your mid 40s onward. You'd have to be stupid to be targeting girls within 10 years of your age.


I know too many completely average looking divorced dudes in their mid to late 40s that are dating girls in their early 30s.
I'm talking about men who are still young enough to start families within reason, not geriatrics.
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