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post 1691005763 10-02-2023, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
yeah man...sometimes i wonder how people without a kid trudge through decades of life without something more important than themselves to focus on. and every bit of time is like a reliving vivid memories of your own childhood that you forget.
So true Eddie.

How ironic. One of the things I'm looking forward to is watching leave it to beaver with my son and introducing him to one kmof tvs all time great characters. Eddie haskell. Hahs.

Who didn't love eddie.
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post 1691005783 10-02-2023, 08:25 AM
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Married 19 yrs, no children (kids are young goats, society calls them that for a reason, srs.)
We thought about it a few yrs ago, but no way in hell would we have children in CA.
post 1691006073 10-02-2023, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41
So true Eddie.

How ironic. One of the things I'm looking forward to is watching leave it to beaver with my son and introducing him to one kmof tvs all time great characters. Eddie haskell. Hahs.

Who didn't love eddie.
ya da man. my dad did it with me. some wholesome memories watching shows like that. good stuff for adults and kids alike. andy griffith too...never forget people like barn and otis.
post 1691006113 10-02-2023, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Paul
Married 19 yrs, no children (kids are young goats, society calls them that for a reason, srs.)
We thought about it a few yrs ago, but no way in hell would we have children in CA.
Everyone is different and I can only speak for my self but it changed my life fkr the better in every measurable way.

The only fly in that ointment was his mother gave up and threw in the towel instead of fighting.
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post 1691006183 10-02-2023, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
ya da man. my dad did it with me. some wholesome memories watching shows like that. good stuff for adults and kids alike. andy griffith too...never forget people like barn and otis.
Yep, can't wait to build those same memories.
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post 1691006563 10-02-2023, 08:42 AM
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i would love to have kids honestly, but society and women are garbage.
post 1691007513 10-02-2023, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Vorago
Throughout history it was women who would go into panic attacks when they realized they didn't have sons to get married and take care of them in their old age. Men, on the other hand, had bigger plans, such as conquest and expanding their empires and thinking about the workforce needed to get chit done.

There were many warriors of old who cared not about settling down and wanted to drink mead and pump slave girls full of coom after destroying their enemies on the battlefield. It was only kings that mainly worried about having sons to continue running their nation or kingdom. Soyciety weakened men and all this *******ry has been like this since the days of chivalry.
sounds like you slept through anthropology class. Or may you are are high school grad. Crack a book one of these days, will you? You know why the women's side weeps hysterically at indian weddings? Because weddings for women represent the end of her happiness. It's like that in a lot of cultures.
Also, maybe go to an old age home and glance at the visitor log. You're way out of touch with reality if you think that sons outshine daughters in terms of caring for elders. They don't. Sons are taught from early childhood that they don't have to care about anyone but themselves. hence your charming reference to wartime rape followed by abandonment of pregnant women. Cute, sweetie. You're why god invented shotguns and restraining orders.
Originally Posted By Godfrd824
You're literally programmed to want to procreate. It's weird if you don't want kids. Kinda like it's weird to be gay.
sounds like you need to spend some time on a farm.
1. Gay chit is right there. Rooster with rooster. Doe with doe. All over the place. The fact you don't see it makes me think you live in an apartment.
2. Non mating/non fertile individuals are also all too common. You must never have tried to breed animals for profit. There are PLENTY of individuals who have zero desire to mate, raise off spring, and continue their species.

Go touch some grass, genius.
Originally Posted By davik
i would love to have kids honestly, but society and women are garbage.
pro tip: when the entire society around you is "garbage", it might be time to take a look in the mirror and do some work.
post 1691007803 10-02-2023, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By davik
i would love to have kids honestly, but society and women are garbage.
the women of my grandmothers generation born in the 20s might have been peak civilization now that i think about it. i'm sure many will argue "oppressed" but whatever. wore a dress EVERY day of her life and never saw her undermine or even be snarky to my grandfather. cooked the best and for everyome, cleaned to spotless perfection...never even heard a cuss word other than a whisper of "shyt" a few times for added emphasis when she was really passionate about something while talking about family "news" to another woman. never anything vulgar on tv...never saw her hair not done...only saw her in her housecoat a few times. these women often had that air of civility and wouldn't dare break character. granted, my grandfather never broke from his christian gentleman role other than once in a blue moon when he would have to get on to her about something lol
post 1691009583 10-02-2023, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
You're literally programmed to want to procreate. It's weird if you don't want kids. Kinda like it's weird to be gay.
I’m wired to want sex with a lot of different women. Thank god birth control is a thing or I’d probably have 10+ kids by now and would have had to flee to Mexico to avoid the child support payments
post 1691010103 10-02-2023, 10:05 AM
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The problem is that we don't know what will make us happy. Happiness is like horniness in that we have no control over what makes us feel that way.

Some people really want kids and then the kids make their life miserable. Others don't want them and when they have them discover it's the best thing to ever happen to them. Want them or don't want them; it's a gamble either way.

We have one of our own and are considering adopting one, so that she has a sibling. Having a second one of our own would be really pushing the envelope in terms of age.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!

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They had the technology to rebuild me. They made me better, stronger, faster......
post 1691012413 10-02-2023, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
sounds like you slept through anthropology class. Or may you are are high school grad. Crack a book one of these days, will you? You know why the women's side weeps hysterically at indian weddings? Because weddings for women represent the end of her happiness. It's like that in a lot of cultures.
Also, maybe go to an old age home and glance at the visitor log. You're way out of touch with reality if you think that sons outshine daughters in terms of caring for elders. They don't. Sons are taught from early childhood that they don't have to care about anyone but themselves. hence your charming reference to wartime rape followed by abandonment of pregnant women. Cute, sweetie. You're why god invented shotguns and restraining orders.

sounds like you need to spend some time on a farm.
1. Gay chit is right there. Rooster with rooster. Doe with doe. All over the place. The fact you don't see it makes me think you live in an apartment.
2. Non mating/non fertile individuals are also all too common. You must never have tried to breed animals for profit. There are PLENTY of individuals who have zero desire to mate, raise off spring, and continue their species.

Go touch some grass, genius.
pro tip: when the entire society around you is "garbage", it might be time to take a look in the mirror and do some work.
I've spent more than enough time on a farm, my grandmother owns a farm and has cows, goats, pigs, chickens, guineas, turkeys, geese, horses, and sheep. It seems like my comment bothered you some. Maybe you want kids but no one will have them with you? Must be tough.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1691016253 10-02-2023, 12:11 PM
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I don't have any kids yet but would like to have some, and I don't hate anyone who doesn't want them at all (although I do think it's weird). It would be nice if we could correct the current situation where lots of people who should be having kids are not, while lots of people who should not be having them are.
post 1691016773 10-02-2023, 12:22 PM
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People are going to give you **** for whatever you want to do, regardless of what it is. The same can be said about people who DID have children. They have gotten a hundred "durr I wud NEVAR haf kids srs haha" when they talk about anything having to do with raising a child.

To be honest I'm not sure why the antinatalists complain so much; you're no different than others in this regard
post 1691048533 10-03-2023, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
sounds like you slept through anthropology class. Or may you are are high school grad. Crack a book one of these days, will you? You know why the women's side weeps hysterically at indian weddings? Because weddings for women represent the end of her happiness. It's like that in a lot of cultures.
Also, maybe go to an old age home and glance at the visitor log. You're way out of touch with reality if you think that sons outshine daughters in terms of caring for elders. They don't. Sons are taught from early childhood that they don't have to care about anyone but themselves. hence your charming reference to wartime rape followed by abandonment of pregnant women. Cute, sweetie. You're why god invented shotguns and restraining orders.
Eh, forget it. I edited the post, because you'll probably misunderstand what I even mean by "rape". The way ancient people used the term and current views of it are different. It's easy to interpret words through modern connotations. There's also an issue of how and which words are used to describe something. Feminism made it so the idea of rape could also mean consent vs non-consent. If a person says that they were raped, it doesn't necessarily mean anything bad happened to them other than they regret making the decision to sleep with someone, etc. But some will still call it rape, because they "took back" their consent, which is just bs.
post 1691049283 10-03-2023, 03:26 AM
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I don't have any kids but I don't really get this attitude today of people jerking each other off over how "enlightened" they are for being childfree.

If you ever look at r/childfree there's some wild stuff on there like girls getting themselves sterilized at 22 years old.

I'm all for people doing what makes them happy and not forcing their views on others.
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