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post 1694096833 11-29-2023, 08:16 AM
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Lets see....

Ill be 48 6 months

I am Indian

I live in Canada

Im 5'5

I dont give a sh!t.

If people are going to base my self worth based on this, they can alll go fck themselves

I am happy and that is all that matters.
post 1694096943 11-29-2023, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'm Nigerian.
Do you have a bbc?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I agree with everything you're saying, except the very end. Lets not pretend this doesnt matter man.

Even I was the best person I could be, its kind of pointless if I'm still miserable and alone. The goal would be to actually enjoy life but as you said, most people arent going to be happy with the kind of hand I've been dealt regardless.

so its super demotivating. I've been NEET for over a year now cause I dont see the point of putting effort into this situation.
I would suggest this is a mindset/perspective thing. Which can be changed if you wanted to.

I am trying to empathize and be helpful but it is hard because even as a short guy, I cannot comprehend your experience. I do acknowledge our society is superficial and that has consequences. Taking it one step further, I acknowledge our options for moving forward are extremely limited.

So my question to you is, what are you going to do about it?
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post 1694097033 11-29-2023, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By squat_blaster
Do you have a bbc?
I dont think so but i dont think I'm micro either. average bc
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
So my question to you is, what are you going to do about it?
I've broken it down to 3 options.

1. Cope, which is what I've done until now but its getting harder and harder as I get older. I dont think I will be happy this way. I think for me to be happy I need to at least have an existent sex life and probably an actual relationship.

2. Rope, self explanatory

3. Desperately go after the lowest of the low and take anyone I can get just to not be alone. I think this is worse than coping. The men that do this are usually the ones that get used and or cheated on. It also doesnt really make any sense to do the most for women you arent actually attracted to or interested in.
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
Lets see....

Ill be 48 6 months

I am Indian

I live in Canada

Im 5'5

I dont give a sh!t.

If people are going to base my self worth based on this, they can alll go fck themselves

I am happy and that is all that matters.
Its way easier for gays to find sex than straights. OP is trying to find a wife. His only chance is to get a decent job and just pay for an import wife from a 3rd world country.
post 1694097353 11-29-2023, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
Honestly, i think for most manlets it's a bit harder, but it's not an insurmountable obstacle.

However, when i think of a manlet i think of 5'7, 5'8, 5'9. I can concede that in your situation, at 5'3, things become significantly harder; not impossible, but clearly you're playing a very rigged game, but i don't think the misc has generally lied to you about this, they've just tried to look at it in a positive light to encourage you. But of course, being 5'3 you're a severe outlier, being 5'3 puts you in the bottom 0.5% for height among males who are 25-34, so clearly this isn't just a normal case of being a manlet.

The thing is though, life is what it is, and being upset isn't going to help you dramatically, and i think this is the point the misc has always tried to labour, but you've interpreted it as something else. Simply put, you are as tall as you are, and you're going to have to find a way to cope with it. There are still women out there who will date men your height, but again i acknowledge it's a very tiny percentage, but what can you do apart from make yourself the best you can be (for yourself, not for women), and play the numbers game? Your choice is to do that, or rot, but what i don't understand is what the constant threads are about... i suppose they're a form of venting, but at this point is constantly going over the fact you struggle to date because of your height really helping your mental state in any way?
i appreciate the acknowlegment of the situation. Weird day on the misc where I'm getting reasonable and understanding responses.

I make the threads not because I think there's any solution, its mostly venting and just needing to get things out of my own head. I very very rarely ever talk to anyone in real life about this. Instead I make posts on the misc, or on youtube and reddit.

In terms of my mental state, thats already far gone lol. Usually when I make these posts I'm already thinking about this stuff and in a not so great place mentally. The post just gets some of it out of my head and elsewhere and (occasionally) some decent discussion.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
Its way easier for gays to find sex than straights. OP is trying to find a wife. His only chance is to get a decent job and just pay for an import wife from a 3rd world country.
I never said i'm gay.

But if you want me to be, ill play along.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
i appreciate the acknowlegment of the situation. Weird day on the misc where I'm getting reasonable and understanding responses.

I make the threads not because I think there's any solution, its mostly venting and just needing to get things out of my own head. I very very rarely ever talk to anyone in real life about this. Instead I make posts on the misc, or on youtube and reddit.

In terms of my mental state, thats already far gone lol. Usually when I make these posts I'm already thinking about this stuff and in a not so great place mentally. The post just gets some of it out of my head and elsewhere and (occasionally) some decent discussion.
Fair enough.

I think a part of it is hard for me to understand, because women aren't central to my life. I've had periods of my life without women for many months at a time, and i've been completely content and happy just doing me and pursuing my own goals, without thinking about pu55y at all. Of course a part of that feeling may be because i've always had access to women should i want it, it's hard to know because i can't decouple it from my own personal experience, as a tall individual who's also had access to women.

I do think the hammer will swing back at some point, but i don't know if it's going to do you any good because maybe you'll be too old but who knows. The pu55y inflation and hyper-selectivity from women due to dating apps isn't sustainable forever, and i do think it's a generational thing. I concede height has always mattered to some degree, but still you find many very short people from past generations in long marriages and coupled up, so i think the strongest impetus to height discrimination is social media and dating apps, but it doesn't seem a long term sustainable model.

But i guess for now the game for you is either go for huge numbers, which i concede can be demotivating but you will probably end up getting something, or give up on women and pursue certain goals. However, given how central you seem to find women to your personal happiness, perhaps giving up on women completely isn't a good approach for you.
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Kent is 5'3. thats kinda cool that you seem to be his parallel. he's really entertaining. all his videos are good.

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Yeah and it isn't just about height, either. No matter how legitimate your gripe is that makes it harder for you to get women (say you are short, bald, have kids already, whatever), people will lie through their teeth to your face that none of it makes any difference.

That's the type of dogchit dating advice you'll get from virtually anyone who is married or in a relationship, though. So you can't be surprised by it. I just laugh to myself when I hear that bs nowadays.
post 1694098313 11-29-2023, 08:44 AM
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Yes. Being short is why you were laid off and can't keep a job. Being short is why you're a Debbie downer and have the personality of an old potato.

Your father should have driven off a cliff and sacrificed himself in order to end your depressing ass existence.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1694098353 11-29-2023, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By NESBrah
That's the type of dogchit dating advice you'll get from virtually anyone who is married or in a relationship, though.
so you mean the people that were successful in landing someone? Yeah, better to take advise from an incel
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Yes. Being short is why you were laid off and can't keep a job. Being short is why you're a Debbie downer and have the personality of an old potato.

Your father should have driven off a cliff and sacrificed himself in order to end your depressing ass existence.
everyone in here being real and generating some good discussion and here comes your hateful azz with this chit.

I'm not doing it today.

Thank you to everyone else actually making this a decent thread.
post 1694098683 11-29-2023, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
so you mean the people that were successful in landing someone? Yeah, better to take advise from an incel
It sounds paradoxical but its true. people who were successful dont always understand why they were successful or understand the side of people who didnt get the same results.

For example, a lot of times you'll literally hear from people 'the key is stop trying and just exist. thats what I did and then it just happened for me out of nowhere!'.

Like yes, I believe that is indeed what happened for you. That also is an absolutely ridiculous thing to suggest as a strategy, just because it happened to you.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
everyone in here being real and generating some good discussion and here comes your hateful azz with this chit.

I'm not doing it today.

Thank you to everyone else actually making this a decent thread.
He's not exactly wrong.

I think youre just a troll..
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
It sounds paradoxical but its true. people who were successful dont always understand why they were successful or understand the side of people who didnt get the same results.

For example, a lot of times you'll literally hear from people 'the key is stop trying and just exist. thats what I did and then it just happened for me out of nowhere!'.

Like yes, I believe that is indeed what happened for you. That also is an absolutely ridiculous thing to suggest as a strategy, just because it happened to you.
But it isn't though, just because it doesn't work for you doesn't mean you shouldn't have tried it nor try it in different scenarios.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
lol, I did this throughout my 20s after college. Mostly co-ed soccer leagues. Made a lot of friends, had good times but nothing remotely romantic ever came about.

Being this short negates everything man.

I dont play anymore because I saw like 5 of my friends start tearing their ACLs around 30 and I said fuk that.

I'm still active, I play pickleball instead though.
Well one of the advantages of being 5'3" is that your knees and back will last forever. In the adult sports leagues I'm around its always the bigger guys who get injured
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BBMG, do you feel vindicated now that misc has stopped gaslighting you?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
everyone in here being real and generating some good discussion and here comes your hateful azz with this chit.

I'm not doing it today.

Thank you to everyone else actually making this a decent thread.
I can't empathize with you because I live a great life, I have nothing to complain about. There are people with real problems in this world, your first world bullshyt problems schtick is annoying and it has been from day one.

I don't have sympathy for you because all you do is complain. Not once have you made a thread where you do anything but tell others to give up, and complain about your so called situation. You are a literal cancer on society. Of course you'll never get a girl because you just bring everyone's mood down when you open your mouth.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Height hasnt affected anything else. I was great at sports, I'm Nigerian i was fast af and good enough to play D1 soccer.

Career was fine, i know the stats about tall people making more money etc but I got myself up to 6 figures.

general confidence was fine, I had no issues socially other than never being attractive.

With dating, I had zero experience(as in not one date, not one kiss, not one woman ever looking my way at all) until i was 25. At 25 I finally found someone off a dating app after 10000s of swipes. Went out for a few months.

then another 4 years of nothing until 10000s swipes later someone else from the apps.

So the apps were the only thing that worked, by work I mean once every 4 years or so. But the apps dont even work anymore because the company's changed their algorithms and want to force incels to pay.

So now its been 3 years of nothing again and its more hopeless than ever.
Have you tried men? Dedsrs



Gays are probably a lot less judgemental
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
He's not exactly wrong.

I think youre just a troll..
I can keep a job.

I'm not a debbie downer. Anyone would be down about being constantly single and sexless like I am.

i dont have the personality of a potatoe.

got literally everything wrong
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Originally Posted By AshWar
Have you tried men? Dedsrs



Gays are probably a lot less judgemental
I will give you BBG's reply through Kent...one of my all-time favorites

watch at 8:50min onwards....




EDIT: just rewatched and spit coffee all over my desktop screen ...LOL!!!
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I can keep a job.

I'm not a debbie downer. Anyone would be down about being constantly single and sexless like I am.

i dont have the personality of a potatoe.

got literally everything wrong
You're 18 thousand posts deep in here. Everyone knows exactly who and what you are here. You are insufferable.

What happened to the last job you had? Did you quit willingly?
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
But it isn't though, just because it doesn't work for you doesn't mean you shouldn't have tried it nor try it in different scenarios.
it depends what 'it' is. Just exist and wait for something to happen isnt a strategy. Certain things specifically wont work for someone who's super short, like 'just go to the club bro' or something. It aint gon work.
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Op Mexican and Asian men are short and happen to find a woman.

Can't you find a 5'2 Mexican/Asian woman?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I can keep a job.

I'm not a debbie downer. Anyone would be down about being constantly single and sexless like I am.

i dont have the personality of a potatoe.

got literally everything wrong
do you feel your misc persona is reflective of your real world persona?

cause if you think they are similar and don't think you're a debbie downer or potato...I got some news for you bro
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
I never said i'm gay.

But if you want me to be, ill play along.
You never denied it and you hint at it. I mean youre a middle age man with pics of your twink body all over the internet, not insulting you but its a pretty reasonable assumption at this point. So in this case sex is very easy for you.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
You're 18 thousand posts deep in here. Everyone knows exactly who and what you are here. You are insufferable.

What happened to the last job you had? Did you quit willingly?
iirc, Didn't he have a girl who was interested in him?
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
You never denied it and you hint at it. I mean youre a middle age man with pics of your twink body all over the internet, not insulting you but its a pretty reasonable assumption at this point. So in this case sex is very easy for you.
Sure...as I said....ill play along...whatever you say.

If that is your fantasy and you get off to that, I wont stand in your way.
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