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post 1694988063 12-17-2023, 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted By C1SCO⏩
Chicks know when you're desperate or trying too hard. Every chick I have ever gotten has been through lack of effort not more. Chicks want mysterious and unpredictable; they want to not be able to read you.
Doing nothing got me nothing. At least trying will give me more comfort on my death bed.
post 1694988093 12-17-2023, 05:19 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Doing nothing got me nothing. At least trying will give me more comfort on my death bed.
Dedicate your life to something more important, like liberating Gaza.
post 1694988203 12-17-2023, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted By davik⏩
post a picture of a 7
Why? I didn't go after anything crazy.

The hottest one to me was a nerdy looking chick, nobody else approached her the whole time she was just with her friends. She wasn't that hot objectively but was my type
post 1694988243 12-17-2023, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
Nice work OP. Forget the haters, you are 100 rejections closer to a win. Fcking alpha behavior king. Keep grinding and you will break through.
Its over and it never began but at least I can say i tried
post 1694988293 12-17-2023, 05:25 AM
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Well, good on you for trying at least.
post 1694988393 12-17-2023, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
The only purpose of mass approaching is to help you get over a fear of rejection. It should be performed as a therapeutic tool, NOT as a good way to get conversions.

The first road block for many men is that they fear rejection so badly that they just never approach any women, ever. Mass approaching is a means to get on top of this. The idea being that after 100/1000 or so rejections, the man will finally realise rejection is not as bad as he feared.

But this is brilliant start. Being able to go up to women is half the battle. Because we can’t see you in action I’d advise asking your friends for ideas/suggestions about what you could do better. Also it sounds like facing rejection isn’t much of an issue for you thus I would cut down on volume and focus on choosing/identifying optimal targets.
Its never going to work, nothing is going to work for me. I'm doing this for my death bed. I cannot live a sad life alone anymore without trying.

My friends were all puzzies and thought I was crazy. They don't understand how hard my life is been with this and how hard its going to be. I have nothing to lose and i wasn't doing it to succeed anyway. Anything going forward is for the death bed
post 1694988593 12-17-2023, 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Its over and it never began but at least I can say i tried
Dude listen to yourself. You need to put this in perspective. You approached a load of women in ONE night. That’s not making a good go of it, that’s making astart.

Keep at it, but also refine. As I said before mass approaching is a sub optimal strategy and is more suited to tackling a fear of rejection than getting results.
post 1694988693 12-17-2023, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Dude listen to yourself. You need to put this in perspective. You approached a load of women in ONE night. That’s not making a good go of it, that’s making astart.

Keep at it, but also refine. As I said before mass approaching is a sub optimal strategy and is more suited to tackling a fear of rejection than getting results.
The perspective is I'm 32 and invisible and it doesnt matter what I do. There is no refinement, no strategy, nothing is going to work for me. The only question is how i'm going to feel about this when I'm old bitter and alone. I went up to 5 million women and they all said no is something I can live with. At least I can say I tried.
post 1694988963 12-17-2023, 05:49 AM
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Originally Posted By DaddyGettinLir⏩
Post your outfit, hairstyle, apperance etc

And what did you say to these hoes?
No because its irrelevant but I obviously looked solid, it was a night out.

I said Hi do you want to dance.
post 1694989063 12-17-2023, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted By davik⏩
post a picture of a 7
Here you go...

https://images.app.goo.gl/cVjJa5gZbgdcm1Bn8
post 1694989123 12-17-2023, 05:54 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
The perspective is I'm 32 and invisible and it doesnt matter what I do. There is no refinement, no strategy, nothing is going to work for me. The only question is how i'm going to feel about this when I'm old bitter and alone. I went up to 5 million women and they all said no is something I can live with. At least I can say I tried.
You haven’t tried, at least not in the sense of making a genuinely good go of it. You know this is true because it’s why you keep repeating “at least I can say I’ve tried” in a desperate trying-to-convince-myself sorta way.

Kudos on putting in some effort tho. It was a good step forward and a worthwhile experiment.

As I said, keep at it and refine.
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post 1694989243 12-17-2023, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By DaddyGettinLir⏩
lmao I’m a Chad and even I would get rejected sayin “Do you want to dance”, that’s pathetic. Do you think this is a highschool teenage movie or something?

Your credibility means nothing now, I bet you dressed like a dork too And didnt even get a nice haircut
Chads were doing the same thing and they were getting dances, they werent dancing alone. it works but you have to be attractive.

Nothing is going to work for me, just shot my shot and moved on to the next. Goal was to put up volume.
post 1694989283 12-17-2023, 05:59 AM
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This isn't the best approach if you're as short as you say. It'll be easier for you to get to know some girls through different activities where it's not a straight up ask to date. Then after they've got to know you a little bit assuming you have a good personality and aren't awkward in those situations you'll be more likely to get a yes from someone.

Example would be like in college when you're in a group project or a study group there's just a natural opportunity to talk with them and it makes sense because the focus isn't on dating but some other activity. You get to spend time with them before having to actually ask them out. Then when you ask them out they've already built a base with you and will be more receptive. You'll still get no's with this approach but your success rate will have a stronger chance.


Cold approaching girls literally doesn't work any more. Some will reject you even if they think you're attractive so what do you think will happen to the ones they are initially indifferent to? Auto-reject without even thinking twice.
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post 1694989293 12-17-2023, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Chads were doing the same thing and they were getting dances, they werent dancing alone. it works but you have to be attractive.

Nothing is going to work for me, just shot my shot and moved on to the next. Goal was to put up volume.
If you're this much of a miserable shtkunt no female will want to be around you. I have been there. Sack up and stop being a bitch about it.
post 1694989343 12-17-2023, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
You haven’t tried, at least not in the sense of making a genuinely good go of it. You know this is true because it’s why you keep repeating “at least I can say I’ve tried” in a desperate trying-to-convince-myself sorta way.

Kudos on putting in some effort tho. It was a good step forward and a worthwhile experiment.

As I said, keep at it and refine.
" I went up to every girl I thought was cute in my entire life and they all rejected me' is the definition of trying and thats what I'm going for. thats a better way to go out than what I was doing before.
post 1694989473 12-17-2023, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
" I went up to every girl I thought was cute in my entire life and they all rejected me' is the definition of trying and thats what I'm going for. thats a better way to go out than what I was doing before.
It is, but you also need to not be so desperate. It makes you look pathetic. Also, you don't just ask every girl "Hey do you wanna dance." You should be friendly and introduce yourself and talk for a bit to groups and see if anyone bites.

Also, if you don't like dancing, why try to pick up club girls? Go try to get girls in spaces you like. What are you good at? What are your hobbies?
post 1694989483 12-17-2023, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
This isn't the best approach if you're as short as you say. It'll be easier for you to get to know some girls through different activities where it's not a straight up ask to date. Then after they've got to know you a little bit assuming you have a good personality and aren't awkward in those situations you'll be more likely to get a yes from someone.
This has never worked in my entire life and is never going to work for me. You have the right idea, but its over for me nothing works.

What I want to do is be able to say I went for it with every woman I thought was cute and they all said no so it was literally impossible and that only comes with volume.
post 1694989573 12-17-2023, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted By ufkndipchit⏩
It is, but you also need to not be so desperate. It makes you look pathetic. Also, you don't just ask every girl "Hey do you wanna dance." You should be friendly and introduce yourself and talk for a bit to groups and see if anyone bites.
I am desperate and pathetic and it isnt going to work anyway. Nothing is going to work, I did it for my future death bed self who is going to look back and that sad alone pathetic man needs to know life couldnt have been any other way no matter what. 'well I went for every single girl I thought was cute, 100s of thousands and they all said no' gets that done.
post 1694989623 12-17-2023, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
This has never worked in my entire life and is never going to work for me. You have the right idea, but its over for me nothing works.

What I want to do is be able to say I went for it with every woman I thought was cute and they all said no so it was literally impossible and that only comes with volume.
Not sure if you realize this, but girls at the dance floor are usually top 20% physically. You have zero chance with them. You need to be looking for bottom of the barrel pig women at walmart.
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Originally Posted By DaddyGettinLir⏩
nobody says “do you want to dance?” In real life, That’s fukin weird.
Ok. I really dont think anybody thought it was weird they just said no and we moved on. But even if they did think it was weird for a man to ask a girl to dance at a dance party...ok. Will never see them again.
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
BBMG, I salute your courage.


The vast majority of men are total chicken sh/t cowards when it comes to approaching women. I've seen some of the biggest baddest dudes' knees go weak when a sexy h0e is in the vicinity. They talk trash to other men but don't have the balls to approach random women.


Boyo, keep it up. At the very least, it gives you peace of mind that you've done absolutely everything you possibly could.
Of course they will be.

The positive reinforcement Chads get is automatic.
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BBMG is a blight upon incels. Have some fking dignity.
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Originally Posted By DaddyGettinLir⏩
you are gonna have low success rate with that line. Start a conversation ffs
My success rate no matter what I do is going to be 0. Dont overthink it
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
" I went up to every girl I thought was cute in my entire life and they all rejected me' is the definition of trying and thats what I'm going for. thats a better way to go out than what I was doing before.
That’s barely scratching the surface of trying.

That’s like wanting to become a doctor and thinking all you have to do is put out X amount of applications.

“Oh chit, they all rejected me, well I guess I tried then, I’m obviously not cut out to be an doctor!”

No, it doesn’t work like that.

There’s a lot more that goes into becoming a doctor than sending out applications to medical schools. Most importantly, you have to make yourself an attractive prospect, which means a whole host of efforts prior to the application stage.

There is one thing, and ONE thing alone that I pretty much 100% agree with you on, which is that you are an unattractive male.

WHY and WHAT makes you unattractive, I don’t wholly agree with you, although there is some overlap (meaning, I will concede your looks and especially your height put you at a disadvantage).
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This is a really sad post, srs.


I was never without either a steady gf or fuk friend or two from gr 10 till married.

I never darkened the door of a bar or club once. Wouldn't be caught dead dancing lol.


I know things supposedly changed, but even now just chatting with females in daily life I always make sure to add that I'm married when the convo gets to that point. Im not a slimeball and love my wife. But...if my wife left me there's a half dozen sloots I interact with in minor ways in everyday life that come to mind that I'd talk to right now, and be bangin in a week.


Not sure what to say, but fuk clubs. Talk to a sloot a few times in everyday life, and if you aren't a fukin moron you'll get space in her head. Most women overthink everything, so they may as well be thinking about you. No such thing as bad PR, but you need to slide in her head somehow, preferably over time.


And if you are boring, autistic, can't talk, or are generally a dull human being than I have no other advice for you.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
That’s barely scratching the surface of trying.

That’s like wanting to become a doctor and thinking all you have to do is put out X amount of applications.

“Oh chit, they all rejected me, well I guess I tried then, I’m obviously not cut out to be an doctor!”

No, it doesn’t work like that.

There’s a lot more that goes into becoming a doctor than sending out applications to medical schools. Most importantly, you have to make yourself an attractive prospect, which means a whole host of efforts prior to the application stage.

There is one thing, and ONE thing alone that I pretty much 100% agree with you on, which is that you are an unattractive male.

WHY and WHAT makes you unattractive, I don’t wholly agree with you, although there is some overlap (meaning, I will concede your looks and especially your height put you at a disadvantage).
You're 100% right for someone with the potential to actually be a doctor.

But someone with an IQ of 5 it doesnt matter. its over.

its not about anything working, its not going to work. Its just for me. I'm sure you dont understand, thats fine. My friends dont get it either. I dont care they arent going to be with me in 30 years when I look back on my life.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
This is a really sad post, srs.


I was never without either a steady gf or fuk friend or two from gr 10 till married.

I never darkened the door of a bar or club once. Wouldn't be caught dead dancing lol.


I know things supposedly changed, but even now just chatting with females in daily life I always make sure to add that I'm married when the convo gets to that point. Im not a slimeball and love my wife. But...if my wife left me there's a half dozen sloots I interact with in minor ways in everyday life that come to mind that I'd talk to right now, and be bangin in a week.


Not sure what to say, but fuk clubs. Talk to a sloot a few times in everyday life, and if you aren't a fukin moron you'll get space in her head. Most women overthink everything, so they may as well be thinking about you. No such thing as bad PR, but you need to slide in her head somehow, preferably over time.


And if you are boring, autistic, can't talk, or are generally a dull human being than I have no other advice for you.
Then GTFO, this is BBMG's thread, but you came in here telling nonsense stories about yourself as if any of us gives a sh/t.

We're here to support BBMG, not listen to your irrelevant stories.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
This is a really sad post, srs.


I was never without either a steady gf or fuk friend or two from gr 10 till married.

I never darkened the door of a bar or club once. Wouldn't be caught dead dancing lol.


I know things supposedly changed, but even now just chatting with females in daily life I always make sure to add that I'm married when the convo gets to that point. Im not a slimeball and love my wife. But...if my wife left me there's a half dozen sloots I interact with in minor ways in everyday life that come to mind that I'd talk to right now, and be bangin in a week.


Not sure what to say, but fuk clubs. Talk to a sloot a few times in everyday life, and if you aren't a fukin moron you'll get space in her head. Most women overthink everything, so they may as well be thinking about you. No such thing as bad PR, but you need to slide in her head somehow, preferably over time.


And if you are boring, autistic, can't talk, or are generally a dull human being than I have no other advice for you.
You’re what I refer to as a “natural”.

Some men find getting women utterly effortless. It’s like breathing to them. I think it’s a combination of inherent traits/qualities coupled with the “right” developmental experiences when growing up. This just then compounds over time and it gets even easier for you.

The worst men to learn from are naturals, because like with anything that comes “naturally”, you will lack a lot of awareness of why it comes naturally to you, and as a result you can’t fully deconstruct it and pass it onto other men to whom it does not come naturally to.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
You're 100% right for someone with the potential to actually be a doctor.

But someone with an IQ of 5 it doesnt matter. its over.

its not about anything working, its not going to work. Its just for me. I'm sure you dont understand, thats fine. My friends dont get it either. I dont care they arent going to be with me in 30 years when I look back on my life.
Nah I get it, you’re saying you believe you don’t have the potential to be attractive.

I disagree.

But you have a very binary and reductive view of attractiveness, whereas I don’t, hence our differing opinions.
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