Veganism gave you Erectile Dysfunction? Dude, you just outed yourself.

There are lots actually most vegan food is hyper palatable processed garbage.

There is nothing more funny that a fat sedentary piece of garbage eating vegan because they think it’s healthy lol just lol imagine being obese but also being malnourished at the same time just lol literally the worse of both worlds veganism is a bigger mental illness then body positivity.

Why is everyone assuming I’m obese when I’m not? I haven’t posted recent pics so stop saying that when I’ve lost weight and I’ve been a tennis athlete up until a few years ago.

I became vegetarian for the animals but at times slide into veganism without thinking about it.

Yes, there are lots of processed vegetarian foods out there as well. Most desserts are vegetarian.

My issue is that I’d get dizzy and think it’s the starvation AND the iron so I’d increase my food intake and take prescription iron supplements.

I’ve also seen several ED (Eating Disorder) nutritionists who promote Intuitive Eating and Body Positivity, so I listened to the experts?

They said it’s ok to be overweight as long as I don’t have any health issues, which I haven’t until I got high cholesterol this year?

So you can see why I’ve been confused as I get conflicting information from bb.com, nutritionists, the media, doctors, etc.

We assume it because if you weren't a fat sack of sht you would be posting pics daily like the attention whore you are.

we've seen the pics, fat and ugly

we've read the posts, delusional and unstable

I’m not posting pics until I hit my goal weight as the I only attention whore my pics from 2014.

I posted a before/after pic when I lost 30 lbs in 2021 and everyone used the “before” pic as that was how I looked.

And we messaged and I was nice to you so I don’t see why you’re being a jackass now?

You don’t even know what’s recent my weight has fluctuated 20 up 60 down and similar to that for the past 30 years.

Explain why before smartphones and social media late 90s early 2000s good looking guys ignored me at 180 lbs but I got down to 145 and they were flirting, , guys whistled from the road, cold approached in grocery stores and bars and one even came to watch me play league tennis matches when I got to 135.

You can’t use the social media and dating app excuse.

Obviously I don’t get whistling and cold approaches now, except in Florida for some reason. Lol.

At this point if anyone insults me I am telling myself they are a jealous incel and adding them to my ignore script.

Constant sht posting gets to me, I am polite to everyone to a point. Attention whoring gets to me fast, a pet peeve of sorts.

I don't hate you personally, but post wise I do.

Enough about me this more URGENT.

My daughter just said she wants to get down to 100 lbs. she’s running twice a day and eating one meal a day.

2 years ago she was fainting and we told her she’s going to the ED hospital. She got down to 85 lbs.

Now she’s relapsing. Fuk it’s all my fault as she knew I went into the ED hospital.

I’m having a MAJOR panic attack.

Also genuine question, guys whistled? Never seen that in my life, I always thought it was a thing from way back, or a cliche.

If I saw a guy actually whistle at a women I'd be both confused and think he's a cringe try hard.

Back in the 80s and 90s I'd get whistled at all of the time by mostly construction workers as I was walking to go play tennis. Probably because of my short skirt.

Guys in Key West whistle at me and the car rental guy in Naples told my friend he was going to "take the red head home if you don't" and I heard him. This was in 2018. And Cubans hit me up in McDonalds.

But we all know Florida is weird.

Anyhow Im having a scary text convo so I will make another thread.

Just picturing that is so damn weird to me, I'd think I hit a time portal and was in the 1940s or some sht.

But, I'll bite on the daughter ED thing, maybe real maybe a lie, doesn't matter I guess.

My niece has an ED right now, super obsessed with 'healthy' eating, and will not even touch anything she sees as 'unhealthy'. Homemade burrito or burger? Nope, I mean sht for Christmas all she had was corn and some turkey. She would not touch anything else, no stuffing, mashed potatoes, nothing... My family all think she is super healthy... nah, I've been there, I did the same from 18 or 19 until 24. Family thought I was 'healthy' when I was slowly dying; spent so long pretty much borderline anorexic I actually ruined my endocrine system and had to go on TRT at 21/22.

Tried telling them, but they're in denial.

People wont change until they want to, for me it was when I was 24 and just started working at the prison. We were cell feeding and an inmate rushed out and charged my partner, I grabbed the guy from behind and he just kept right on running at my partner like I wasn't even there. I weighted maybe 115 pounds at the time. Luckily my partner got his baton out and things went fine, but that made me realize this sht needs to stop.

Went from 115 pounds to 165 in 2-3 years and felt WAY better, not cold all the time, stronger, a lot bigger, and now I can just slam guys twice my size.

Until your daughter decides to change, finds a reason to change, she wont; neither will my niece. Best you can do is keep an eye on them and be there when they need you.

Pic from when I was 21 or 22, something like that.



And when I was 26 or 27.



Fatter now, but bigger too, so it's a trade off, more weight and mass is beneficial to me more than abs.

You should keep eating vegan you don’t deserve nutritious foods.

If you really care about your daughter feed her nutritious red meat, eggs, fish, dairy, veggies and potatoes and cut out the processed vegan crap.
If your daughter does get an ED don’t blame men she’s probably just trying to make sure she doesn’t end up like you and I don’t blame her.

I don't feed her vegan food. She eats her own food. She eats some meat but not a lot. She mostly eats a salad and eggs now that she has her own place. Before she would Door Dash one meal a day from 5 Guys or Chili's.

Since Thanksgiving I've been shopping at Whole Foods and buy eggs, salad, tofu nuggets, greek yogurt, cottage cheese, fruit. Before that I was sick with pneumonia and Covid for 3 months so I just ordered DD as well, but it was unhealthy and I didn't lose any weight. I couldn't move from the couch and for awhile could only have liquids as I had a tough time swallowing.

Before Sept that I was mostly vegan with vegan protein shakes. I did have Greek yogurt occasionally, fruit and quiche which has cheese.
Yes it's true about my daughter as I've posted about my ED hospital experience many times.

It sounds like your niece has Orthorexia. I'm so sorry about your niece. I hope she pulls out of it as ED is a living hell.

Oh my gosh you look SO much better! Good for you! You definitely had the reasoning with your job, so that pulled you out.

What do you think caused you to starve when you were young?

Yep. Same thing with my SIL. Considers herself "vegan", but that's honestly just cope. It's a way to convince herself not to eat. So she will sit around eating carrots for days until she literally starts to turn orange (srs).

A healthy mind is probably more likely to invent reasonstoeat, not to starve itself.

Have her add ice cream to her diet.

The ED Dr. I saw at Stanford says it's still not clear from the research if the malnutrition from being vegan causes the eating disorder or if they already have the ED and try to mask it by saying they're vegan.

How does her Mom look after destroying her body all of these years?

Thank you for praying for her. I will pray for your SIL.

Damn that’s wild bro

The mom looks great now. She seems to have fully recovered and has been eating normally since I've known her. She actually does Weight Watchers, but seems to have a healthy relationship to food.

That's so sad that she got healthy but her daughter won't speak to her?

Weight Watchers is borderline healthy eating and some can slip into disordered eating but it's better than what she was doing before.