if shes loyal then no problem

if you made a ho a housewife then oof

This

I gotta be honest even if she doesn't sleep with him she clearly doesn't see you as a physically attractive/masculine male. Why the f*ck would she go to a male trainer instead of just asking you if you resembled anything remotely muscular and in shape?

Yes it's f*cking over. Take some steroids, hit the gym and eat right, and in 4-6 months try again with a different girl because you clearly need to put in some work before dating or else you'll end up getting the same lack of respect.

How can you even look her in the eye anymore, because she clearly has zero respect for you. -

In her own mind without telling you about it, she's been distancing herself from you and your relationship with her for at least 2+ months already, srs

Two guarantees after working in the field for a long time:

She will tell him everything about your relationship, whether it is good or bad is up to you. Mostly to get his opinion on how guys can and should behave.

He doesn't need to bang her because he likely has a ton of other fitness chicks that he hangs out with, unless she's super hot. I was only tempted to ever bang a client a couple of times, and one of them flat out told me she wanted sex from me but she was married. I was surrounded by fit 25 years olds all the time plus all the regulars at the gym. There was ZERO need to risk banging a client.

So as much as every incel here will tell you tour's over, unless she's a total sloot or super hot (and he's a player) he won't go anywhere near her.