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ยป Stop telling incels "its better in your 30s"
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post 1704133751 07-25-2024, 11:05 AM
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it's better provided you invested in yourself in your 20's
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post 1704133971 07-25-2024, 11:08 AM
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Op is a little hypocritical in some ways...bc it's hard to believe there not " someone out there for everyone " --- op wants some good looking girl that is out his league...and dismisses the options that are actually actually available to him ---- the same way the girls that he wants dismisses him.

And op has already stated he isn't interested in anymore personal development to compensate ...so that's sorta where ya end up without addressing personality flaws etc
post 1704134351 07-25-2024, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Op is a little hypocritical in some ways...bc it's hard to believe there not " someone out there for everyone " --- op wants some good looking girl that is out his league...and dismisses the options that are actually actually available to him ---- the same way the girls that he wants dismisses him.

And op has already stated he isn't interested in anymore personal development to compensate ...so that's sorta where ya end up without addressing personality flaws etc
He will deny it but he had chances to be with women but self sabotaged cause he's a self hating little geek. Truth is even if he managed to get a girl he would still be miserable. Cause that self loathing and low self esteem will turn into paranoia and jealousy instead. Guys like him that are not secure within themselves never make good partners

If you think any one thing will solve all your problems then you're a dumbfukk with zero self awareness, like bbmg
post 1704134811 07-25-2024, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzixpress
BBMG is spot on as usual. And he's the homie for creating this thread after I PM'd him

I'm 23, and I'm not looking forward to my 30s at all. Nothing will change. Gen Z women my age will forever chase Chad. They'll never settle for ****** like me
I agree you should rope
post 1704134891 07-25-2024, 11:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Bane718
He will deny it but he had chances to be with women but self sabotaged cause he's a self hating little geek. Truth is even if he managed to get a girl he would still be miserable. Cause that self loathing and low self esteem will turn into paranoia and jealousy instead. Guys like him that are not secure within themselves never make good partners

If you think any one thing will solve all your problems then you're a dumbfukk with zero self awareness, like bbmg
Yep hate to see it

You can't be that short and stereotypically unattractive AND carry that piss poor low vibrational self loathing personality around...it's a recipe to obtain 0 results.
post 1704135221 07-25-2024, 11:40 AM
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So youโ€™re mad people pity you and try to offer a silver lining?

Bro, nobody cares about incels. Why is that a difficult concept for you?
post 1704135271 07-25-2024, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar
So youโ€™re mad people pity you and try to offer a silver lining?

Bro, nobody cares about incels. Why is that a difficult concept for you?
He gets frustrated when he fails to convey points to people that would be completly nonsensical to anyone who with half a soul or an ounce of respect for themselves
post 1704135291 07-25-2024, 11:43 AM
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Have you tried pressing the reset button and starting over?
Wort ew in th wold.
post 1704135351 07-25-2024, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzixpress
BBMG, please consider blocking Blueberryboy. I'm tired of him hijacking these threads with his bluepill nonsense

He's a 6'0 white guy chasing Asian fobs and yet he has the gall to spam these threads with his BS

I sincerely hope blueberryboy ropes
You're only on bbmg dic , because misery loves company
Fuk boy
post 1704135581 07-25-2024, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
No they don't. The women that were interested in me I was around in person, not on a dating app.

The ugly and average guys I see with a woman don't do well on dating apps. I didn't get matches on dating apps. Dating apps are mostly bots and women looking to rub their ego.
times have changed boomer
post 1704135631 07-25-2024, 11:50 AM
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I hit my prime 18 - 20, after about 35 everything went downhill fast, best thing I can do is cut 90 lbs and get to a low bodyfat % and looksmaxx, even then I will have to get my own place and gain a social life somehow, gonna be hard picking up girls at the grocery store then bringing them home to fuk on a dirty mattress on the floor.

But I solely based prime off of looks and nothing else, around here most people I know are just scraping by, and "high class" is having a car and your own apartment.

If you were a nobody before 30 you probably will be after 30 as well.
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post 1704135641 07-25-2024, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
stop telling everyone that what you experience is how it is for most incels
true, there's levels to it. But my experience is common, its not as rare as some of you think
post 1704135681 07-25-2024, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
if you're a good looking guy with a solid job and no mental illness.
this is the problem. the physical standard is ridiculous. Average women demand good looking men
post 1704135781 07-25-2024, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
I see short ugly and average guys with a woman every day. If they can get a woman, you can too.
You see short ugly white guys and maybe hispanics with women. You do not see black men like that with women. Its rare to even see a black man as short me.
post 1704135891 07-25-2024, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Omnivium
We get it, you're incel. Shut the fuk up already
its not just about me retard. You gotta stop gaslighting incels as a whole.
post 1704136011 07-25-2024, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Imagine being " friends " with a women. Got no interest in that , and it's probably for the best.

It's me giving it to her or the highway, that's it.
weird but ok
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Originally Posted By Muzzixpress
BBMG is spot on as usual. And he's the homie for creating this thread after I PM'd him

I'm 23, and I'm not looking forward to my 30s at all. Nothing will change. Gen Z women my age will forever chase Chad. They'll never settle for ****** like me
Funny you mention ****** Went to Cleveland and I saw a lot of ****** with a woman. Y'all aren't even trying.
post 1704136081 07-25-2024, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
weird but ok
What use is it to be friends with a women ?

So you can hear about who is giving them dic and you're not ?

Miss me with that
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Originally Posted By guest89
Assuming you put things together in your 20s life is infinitely better in your 30s. Even if you don't find that perfect women to wife up and raise children with. Life should be on easy mode in your 30s. No financial struggles. Expensive toys (cars, motorcycles, boats, etc.). Easy casual dating/sex. etc.
Except you dont get casual dating/sex. Incels stay incels. thats the problem. And then once you have all your toys etc and realize you still arent fulfilled, whats the point.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
this is the problem. the physical standard is ridiculous. Average women demand good looking men
I see ugly and average men with a woman though.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
What use is it to be friends with a women ?
......the same as being friends with men. They're people too
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
I see ugly and average men with a woman though.
In a country of 300 million people, you will see examples of things that are actually not very common
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Originally Posted By Vhagar
So youโ€™re mad people pity you and try to offer a silver lining?
No im mad people are lying and giving false hope to desperate men
post 1704136281 07-25-2024, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
......the same as being friends with men. They're people too
My friendships are brotherhoods with other men

Not some skank who can tell you about how good it was banging Brad over the weekend

The thing is , you incels just play a " friend " in hopes of getting laid.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
In a country of 300 million people, you will see examples of things that are actually not very common
I see average guys with sloots everyday, do you not leave your house?
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Don't worry OP, it's better in your 30s.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Been trying to tell op this for years

No offense, but if you're 5'3 dating apps simply will not produce a good result .

Online dating is highly superficial , and even the most basic women have way better options on there as far as attractiveness...

Online dating apps are certainly in decline Imo though

If you aren't stereotypically attractive ...then you are gonna have to dig a little deeper to get something going than swiping on an app
ive said this a million times. Once you get to be as unattractive as I am, it swings back to needing online to play massive numbers game that it allows.

Real life can never give me the numbers game I need to find what I need.
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Originally Posted By Bane718
Probably cause you and your friends are a bunch of losers

I see normie guys with women all the time, cause they have the balls to put themselves out there instead of jerking off to Apps, which are useless for the vast majority of men. Zoomer chicks are dating 5'7 broke Edgars ffs.

Just LOL at not being able to get laid when women have never been slootier. You suck bro
To be fair most of my friends that struggle are non white. I think white men(most of the misc) have it a lot easier and then assume it works that way for everyone and it doesnt. Uglier/shorter minorities are in a much different situation

My friends arent losers. most of them make bank, nice cars/homes etc. they're just not attractive
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
ive said this a million times. Once you get to be as unattractive as I am, it swings back to needing online to play massive numbers game that it allows.

Real life can never give me the numbers game I need to find what I need.
Except there's no arguing that online dating is as superficial as it gets...

And an extremely short man is going to have trouble competing in the environment over if they had enough balls to get outside or get to events etc and try meet more organically

There's a large segment of women who aren't on apps man , especially now days. Some people just don't get off any attention and validation from others in that sort of setting

Or even if you just tried to chat up girls on fb or Instagram..that can be useful over the conventional apps ... apps that have chat features but aren't necessarily dating apps.
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I was pulling sloots hard in my 20โ€™s , and in my 30โ€™s everything went for chit. Caught the odd scrap on occasion but that was it .
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