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» What do women mean when a dude is "boring"?
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post 1704215131 07-27-2024, 08:52 AM
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"Boring" is usually a catch all phrase for a guy they discarded in their sloot phase and don't want to give the real reason, whatever it is.
post 1704215601 07-27-2024, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2
Means he doesn’t make you feel anything.

I like boring though I don’t mind at all. Looks are all I care about.
This comment highlights something of a contradiction

By Silence's first definition, her fwb would be not boring, because she obviously feels something for him.

But despite this she describes her fwb as boring, which indicates she also has an objective definition for boredom, i.e. that of a non-exciting person who leads a non-exciting lifestyle.

Anyway, my point with all of this is that when a woman says "so and so is boring", it could be solely an objective asesssment, or it could be a more subjective thing whereby she's saying the man in question does absolutely nothing for her.
post 1704215661 07-27-2024, 09:13 AM
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That she either doesn't want to, or no longer wants to have sex with him.
post 1704216371 07-27-2024, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
yeah probably the nice way of saying it in their minds so they don't appear shallow. if he's hot...collecting his toe nails could be what he talks about and they'd say he's unique
This
post 1704216701 07-27-2024, 09:59 AM
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It means he does't do things she can boast about on social media. No opportunities for selfies doing things, or in places, that will make her female friends jealous.
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post 1704216851 07-27-2024, 10:02 AM
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lolololololololol@this thread

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It means they're ugly.

I'm not a gigachad but pretty good looking. Years ago I met a girl on a dating app and told her I like talking to the jars of peanut butter at the store before I bought one to see which was "healthiest".

Less than 12 hours later I was dumping my seed in her
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post 1704217871 07-27-2024, 10:42 AM
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post 1704217911 07-27-2024, 10:45 AM
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post 1704217971 07-27-2024, 10:47 AM
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post 1704219181 07-27-2024, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2
Yeah I love his looks and his body so that is why I like him.

His personality is boring but I do like boring because I was married to literally Satan so boring is good in my eyes now.
yeah...in your mind you may think it's what you want, but then you aren't living with this person day in day out for decades.
post 1704219691 07-27-2024, 11:34 AM
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That he watches Netflix to much.
post 1704219851 07-27-2024, 11:38 AM
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also not being low inhibition could be seen as boring...a dude that thinks out the consequences to things he says or does. he doesn't just act impulsively and get a new tattoo...or spend a bunch of money on a sudden beach vacation or just say whatever without giving a damn
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I used to get called boring when I tried too hard to impress her or worried too much about what she thought of me. It really doesn't take much to get a woman interested (conversationally, at least) unless she's high maintenance.
Originally Posted By Silence2
Means he doesn’t make you feel anything.

I like boring though I don’t mind at all. Looks are all I care about.
Originally Posted By Silence2
Yep this is why I love boring. My fwb was boring and I loved it. Nice and calm and stable.
yeah no **** it's because you're fuken boring. Water seeks its own level so it can sit next to you and play with its phone all day
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Allows her to walk over him
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post 1704224791 07-27-2024, 01:44 PM
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post 1704225681 07-27-2024, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Silence2
Yessssssss I love it

I’ve literally tried to pick fights with my fwb but I never get anywhere because he never takes the bait lmao he just says okay.
Lol I tested it myself. I learned how to bring drama, and the woman always reacts. Now matter what the drama is about. Every single time. I’m not even talking about girls I’ve had flings with, but girls that I met at part time jobs. I would suddenly stop talking to them, they would wonder why, and then would gravitate towards me even more.

I only know about this because of the misc. I’ll never forget years ago when a miscer said “sloots like drama” and that’s why they like the “bad boys”
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Originally Posted By TheParish
It means they're ugly.

I'm not a gigachad but pretty good looking. Years ago I met a girl on a dating app and told her I like talking to the jars of peanut butter at the store before I bought one to see which was "healthiest".

Less than 12 hours later I was dumping my seed in her
I think this is it 100%.

Put a woman in front of Brad Pitt or any other good looking celebrity and they're not likely to say he's boring
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everyone saying it all boils down to looks... see how long you can stand being in a relationship with a good looking woman who just plays with her phone all day or has nothing interesting to talk about.

A woman could date a good lookign dude who plays video games all day, but she will get bored and move on before you know it.
Originally Posted By Silence2
Wrong I’m dying to have sex with my fwb even though he is boring and sex with him is boring.
I thought he was dead to you omgo mg i h8 him so mush

seriously boring lardass men are a dime a dozen on this planet you can find one easily
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men/women = unstoppable force vs immovable object. Their natures are in opposition. Men are providers/protectors. This will translate into being "oppressive/controlling" once the initial infatuation ends and the woman has gained control over the man at which point she will see him as an "oppressive/controlling" obstacle preventing her from enjoying the "sloot life" and she will also at the same time to begin to view him as a bore.

politics. it's a form of whining and complaining. it will be viewed as a kind of insecurity. women are turned off by insecurity, whining and complaining....and are turned-on by confidence. A man who is focused in his life and not what he can't control(complaining politics) will be more appealing to women

about the best a man can do is to give a "don't care" vibe. I don't mean jerk/bad-boy but to simply give the impression that he is quite capable of enjoying life without the woman.....to not be "needy". Being "needy" also makes the man seem an insecure bore to the woman. The problem is that men also need a "mother" so it's back to that "unstoppable force meets immovable object"

"don't care vibe" = he's not boring
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