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post 1704815331 08-09-2024, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
average age gap for hetero couples is 2.2 years. 8% have an age gap of 10 yrs or more. keep in mind that 8% includes women with younger men and older people where age isn't as big of a deal (74 yr old with a 64 yr old for example).
Lol while this may be true, you have to realize:

-Most guys are average to below average in looks and income

-Most guys can't talk to women


Overcome the above and you can have your pick of young women. The guys who get young women are more often than not above average
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Also the issue is that if you're a hot 35 year old, you were likely hot as a 21 year old - unless you got major plastic surgery or somesh*t.

There are 30 year old women out here that are HOT and put 21 year olds to shame, they're just rare - hot women in general are rare.

You're not gonna date hot 21 year olds unless you yourself have the looks and/or money and status - or the chick is just crazy and has daddy issues.
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post 1704815551 08-09-2024, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Also the issue is that if you're a hot 36 year old, you were likely hot as a 21 year old- unless you got major plastic surgery or somesh*t.

There are 30 year old women out here that are HOT, they're just rare - hot women in general are rare.
Or unless you lost weight. Slim 40-year-old woman is WAAAAY better looking than an obese 20-year-old woman.
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post 1704815581 08-09-2024, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Lol while this may be true, you have to realize:

-Most guys are average to below average in looks and income

-Most guys can't talk to women


Overcome the above and you can have your pick of young women. The guys who get young women are more often than not above average
the 5% or so of men that can date women of any age have always existed -- don't think anyone denies that.
post 1704815591 08-09-2024, 09:20 PM
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I always thought it was a meme

but 18 year old bitchez ignored me until I was 30 then suddenly wanted to bang
post 1704815601 08-09-2024, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
the 5% or so of men that can date women of any age have always existed -- don't think anyone denies that.
Your posts make it seem impossible though
post 1704815671 08-09-2024, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Your posts make it seem impossible though
no not impossible -- just that for 95% of men...dating 20 yr olds (if they even like them beyond sex) becomes further and further out of reach with age. i think that's kinda common sense.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Or unless you lost weight. Slim 40-year-old woman is WAAAAY better looking than an obese 20-year-old woman.
There are 30-40 year old women who put 21 year olds to shame, but that's rare.

I put most 21 year old guys to shame, but I was a pretty good looking 21 year old myself.
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post 1704818651 08-09-2024, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
no not impossible -- just that for 95% of men...dating 20 yr olds (if they even like them beyond sex) becomes further and further out of reach with age. i think that's kinda common sense.
Yeah onlu because those men are average and below average.
post 1704819101 08-09-2024, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Yeah onlu because those men are average and below average.
not really. whatever average is...95% of men aren't average or below average. some are average or below and some are slightly above...some a little higher than that...some at the very top. but either way, the vast majority of men get further and further away from dating 20 year olds with age. and for some of those that could date them, they simply don't want to because they just don't have anything in common with a 20 yr old...would be like nails on a chalkboard.
post 1705375551 08-22-2024, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
not really. whatever average is...95% of men aren't average or below average. some are average or below and some are slightly above...some a little higher than that...some at the very top. but either way, the vast majority of men get further and further away from dating 20 year olds with age. and for some of those that could date them, they simply don't want to because they just don't have anything in common with a 20 yr old...would be like nails on a chalkboard.
Thats fuking cope.

What makes a 20-year-old hard to be with?
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post 1705375641 08-22-2024, 06:22 PM
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post 1705375881 08-22-2024, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Yeah onlu because those men are average and below average.
Don't let anyone shame you for dating younger women. If they're adults, tell everyone else to mind their business and push on.
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post 1705375911 08-22-2024, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Thats fuking cope.

What makes a 20-year-old hard to be with?
most are immature idiots?
post 1705376011 08-22-2024, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
most are immature idiots?
Thats your opinion. If someone else does not mind the personality of a 20 year old, let it be.

Don't let anyone shame you for dating younger women. If they're adults, tell everyone else to mind their business and push on.Two grown ass adults making decisions for themselves doesn't make one of them a predator.

Both are adults. Different phases of life for sure. But it's really not a good look to use that term for a relationship both people have a right to engage in if they choose.

Either someone that's 21 has agency or they don't. Let's not infantilize people that have the right to own property, go to war, drink, vote, move out the country, have children, get married, etc.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Thats your opinion. If someone else does not mind the personality of a 20 year old, let it be.

Don't let anyone shame you for dating younger women. If they're adults, tell everyone else to mind their business and push on.Two grown ass adults making decisions for themselves doesn't make one of them a predator.

Both are adults. Different phases of life for sure. But it's really not a good look to use that term for a relationship both people have a right to engage in if they choose.

Either someone that's 21 has agency or they don't. Let's not infantilize people that have the right to own property, go to war, drink, vote, move out the country, have children, get married, etc.
where did i say i wouldn't let it be? most of us even recognize that we ourselves were idiots we wouldn't want to be around at 20.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705376191]where did i say i wouldn't let it be? most of us even recognize that we ourselves were idiots we wouldn't want to be around at cognitively/QUOTE]
I've seen people mention this before but what is the difference between not fully developed and fully? Like if you're 98% developed at 21, then by 25 you're at 100%, is that extra 2% really significant? Most people's brains are nearly completely developed by age 21, cognitively. A 21-year-old probably has better cognitive ability than a 40-year-old on average.

You are just coping.
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[QUOTE=johnnydeep1;1705376451][QUOTE=eddiehaskell post_id=1705376191]where did i say i wouldn't let it be? most of us even recognize that we ourselves were idiots we wouldn't want to be around at cognitively/QUOTE]
I've seen people mention this before but what is the difference between not fully developed and fully? Like if you're 98% developed at 21, then by 25 you're at 100%, is that extra 2% really significant? Most people's brains are nearly completely developed by age 21, cognitively. A 21-year-old probably has better cognitive ability than a 40-year-old on average.

You are just coping.[/QUOTE]your brain may be developed but there's a lot of real world learning done between 20 and 30s. and only time can teach it. most 20 yr old females are closer to 13-14 yr olds than 30+ year olds mentally.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705376901][QUOTE=johnnydeep1 post_id=1705376451]your brain may be developed but there's a lot of real world learning done between 20 and 30s. and only time can teach it.[/QUOTE]Bull chit 21 is a child. 18,29 or 20, maybe, but not 21. Its old enough to take 50,000+ of debt to pay for a gender studies degree, old enough to get drunk and **** some random guy, old enough to vote and old enough to make other major life decisions. Not old enough to even be hit on by a 30+ year old man.

**** yourself.
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[QUOTE=johnnydeep1;1705376931][QUOTE=eddiehaskell post_id=1705376901]Bull chit 21 is a child. 18,29 or 20, maybe, but not 21. Its old enough to take 50,000+ of debt to pay for a gender studies degree, old enough to get drunk and **** some random guy, old enough to vote and old enough to make other major life decisions. Not old enough to even be hit on by a 30+ year old man.

**** yourself.[/QUOTE]maturity is more than signing up for 50k in college debt and being legally allowed to get drunk.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705377001][QUOTE=johnnydeep1 post_id=1705376931]maturity is more than signing up for 50k in college debt and being legally allowed to get drunk.[/QUOTE]So then why allow them to make major life decisions that will affect the rest of their life? What to do after high school, to go into debt or not, to pursue a masters etc. are all life decisions that will affect the rest of your whole life. FAR bigger than to date a 31-year-old or not.

If 22 years are still children, why allow them to make such huge decisions?
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[QUOTE=johnnydeep1;1705376931][QUOTE=eddiehaskell post_id=1705376901]Bull chit 21 is a child. 18,29 or 20, maybe, but not 21. Its old enough to take 50,000+ of debt to pay for a gender studies degree, old enough to get drunk and **** some random guy, old enough to vote and old enough to make other major life decisions. Not old enough to even be hit on by a 30+ year old man.

**** yourself.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=johnnydeep1;1705377131][QUOTE=eddiehaskell post_id=1705377001]So then why allow them to make major life decisions that will affect the rest of their life? What to do after high school, to go into debt or not, to pursue a masters etc. are all life decisions that will affect the rest of your whole life. FAR bigger than to date a 31-year-old or not.

If 22 years are still children, why allow them to make such huge decisions?[/QUOTE]i didn't say they are children, but mentally they are far closer to children than 30+ people. most 20 yr olds haven't spent a single day in the real world -- hence why most zoomers are viewed as retards.

why allow them to go into life altering debt? well, it's a great way of creating life long worker bees that answer to noseberg for 50+ years. duh.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705377271][QUOTE=johnnydeep1 post_id=1705377131]i didn't say they are children, but mentally they are far closer to children than 30+ people. most 20 yr olds haven't spent a single day in the real world -- hence why most zoomers are viewed as retards.

why allow them to go into life altering debt? well, it's a great way of creating life long worker bees that answer to noseberg for 50+ years. duh.[/QUOTE]No. They are not children nor "close to children." If they were, then they would not be legally able to make life altering decisions.

Thats why a 16 year old child cannot legally go into debt vote, get drunk , get doctors prescription w/o the consent of parents, have sex etc. but a 21-year-old can.

Stop pretending to be the protector of young adults.
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Originally Posted By C1SCO⏩
Its shocking how many men attack dudes for having an age gap. A lot of male feminists out there.
agree.

We even have 1 on this thread
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[QUOTE=johnnydeep1;1705377401][QUOTE=eddiehaskell post_id=1705377271]No. They are not children nor "close to children." If they were, then they would not be legally able to make life altering decisions.

Thats why a 16 year old child cannot legally go into debt vote, get drunk , get doctors prescription w/o the consent of parents, have sex etc. but a 21-year-old can.

Stop pretending to be the protector of young adults.[/QUOTE]once again i didn't say they ARE children -- simply closer to children mentally than someone in their 30s that has lived life. it's simply common sense.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705378581][QUOTE=johnnydeep1 post_id=1705377401]once again i didn't say they ARE children -- simply closer to children mentally than someone in their 30s that has lived life. it's simply common sense.[/QUOTE]So what? Someone who is 60 is further away from a child than a 55-year-old. Should they also not get together?

Thats why a 16-year-old child cannot legally go into debt , vote, get drunk, get doctors prescription w/o the consent of parents, have sex, defend themselves in court etc. but a 21-year-old can. You cannot compare them to children because the level of responsibility is 180 degrees different. A 16 year old can't even get a doctors checkup alone.

Now who the fuk made you designated protector of young adults? A 21-year-old is not a child and never will be. Thats why they can make life altering decisions, but a child can't.
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[QUOTE=eddiehaskell;1705378581][QUOTE=johnnydeep1 post_id=1705377401]once again i didn't say they ARE children -- simply closer to children mentally than someone in their 30s that has lived life. it's simply common sense.[/QUOTE]the only thing women gain as they age is time spent pretending to be a man be being forced into the workplace

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