There are almost no tourists really, and there are very few digital nomad types. Its also not a great place for the weird sexpat types as its not a holiday/retirement destination. Its not a bad city once you know where to go and whats on offer, but there is a high barrier to entry in that place. I got by over the years because I know people who live there or they are locals.

So the people who are there live there, or are there on business. Which means the locals dont have the same exposure to foreigners that most other Asian cities do.

You have no idea the kind of pussy the 30-55 year old executive and western business expats are swimming in. Its nuts, and when you consider what the top trim in Indonesia looks like its even more ridiculous.

The nightlife there is also sick. Its spread out, but there are some incredible clubs, bars, restaurants, etc. Its basically the Sao Paulo of Asia

Fire up Tinder, set Jakarta as the location and see what pops up in the 18-27 range.