08-17-2024, 06:36 PM
#31
Originally Posted By Hypernation⏩
Lie about age?
For the most part this. Is what it is.
Give it a try and find out.
Give it a try and find out.
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08-17-2024, 06:46 PM
#32
Originally Posted By BigGuyTruth⏩
What if I’m actually going there for school
They will all think you're weird. Sucks but that's reality.
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08-17-2024, 07:08 PM
#33
“You’ll be surrounded by kids partying, ****ing, having fun, etc and be constantly reminded of what you missed out on. You’ll get more depressed”
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08-17-2024, 07:30 PM
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It'll be super awkward bro. You can pull it off if you legit just go to class, make some valuable contributions, maybe form a study group or find a girl to study with. If you can do this in a chill manner then maybe you'll get invited for drinks or something. Remember, you have 4 months to make it happen so no need to act out of desperation and rush things. Or if it's in a smaller town with only one or two bars everyone goes to, you might run into some people from class there if you're social.
It won't work if you go in and try to join a frat, don't know what the **** you're thinking. You do realize that these are college kids that have no life experience outside of pulling an all-nighter to pass some poverty final exam. These kids are still on their parents health insurance or still dependent on them and you want validation from them? lol They have their own social ecosystem that you don't fit into. I went to the campus gym and I'd play basketball at the rec until I was about 25-27…even then I felt very out of place. Though just a couple of years ago when I was actually going through classes, it felt normal.
From time to time I think of going back to community college just to mog all the directionless sloots there but OP, you have to grow up. You're not the only one who "missed out" in some aspect of life. Most people just move on and try to make the best of their future. Join a social sports league and you'll meet a whole lot of people trying to catch up…or pick up a hobby. Going back to college isn't gonna help your situation. JFL @ expecting to make lifelong connections with KIDS.
It won't work if you go in and try to join a frat, don't know what the **** you're thinking. You do realize that these are college kids that have no life experience outside of pulling an all-nighter to pass some poverty final exam. These kids are still on their parents health insurance or still dependent on them and you want validation from them? lol They have their own social ecosystem that you don't fit into. I went to the campus gym and I'd play basketball at the rec until I was about 25-27…even then I felt very out of place. Though just a couple of years ago when I was actually going through classes, it felt normal.
From time to time I think of going back to community college just to mog all the directionless sloots there but OP, you have to grow up. You're not the only one who "missed out" in some aspect of life. Most people just move on and try to make the best of their future. Join a social sports league and you'll meet a whole lot of people trying to catch up…or pick up a hobby. Going back to college isn't gonna help your situation. JFL @ expecting to make lifelong connections with KIDS.
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08-17-2024, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
This is the only reason to go to college.
The only reason I would personally go back to college at 31, would be to kick some ass, academically speaking and take it wayyyyy more seriously and actually learn the advanced concepts properly.
If you go to college young, party, and graduate barely knowing anything about what you studied, that is moronic.
If you go to college a decade older than the kids attending and just want to "party" you will be a weirdo and it won't work out.
People will be calling you "sir" and whatnot.
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08-17-2024, 07:37 PM
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You should be worried about the academics, not if people will find you weird for being a baldcel. I don't think you're ready for college, you're just gonna waste money and time.
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08-17-2024, 07:47 PM
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If you just want to party and bang young sloots, you'd be much better off travelmaxxing and staying in party hostels.
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08-17-2024, 07:48 PM
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Depends on what you're going back to school for.
Its always good to get a general education.
Its always good to get a general education.
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08-17-2024, 08:38 PM
#39
Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
I did the sports league didn’t work
It'll be super awkward bro. You can pull it off if you legit just go to class, make some valuable contributions, maybe form a study group or find a girl to study with. If you can do this in a chill manner then maybe you'll get invited for drinks or something. Remember, you have 4 months to make it happen so no need to act out of desperation and rush things. Or if it's in a smaller town with only one or two bars everyone goes to, you might run into some people from class there if you're social.
It won't work if you go in and try to join a frat, don't know what the **** you're thinking. You do realize that these are college kids that have no life experience outside of pulling an all-nighter to pass some poverty final exam. These kids are still on their parents health insurance or still dependent on them and you want validation from them? lol They have their own social ecosystem that you don't fit into. I went to the campus gym and I'd play basketball at the rec until I was about 25-27…even then I felt very out of place. Though just a couple of years ago when I was actually going through classes, it felt normal.
From time to time I think of going back to community college just to mog all the directionless sloots there but OP, you have to grow up. You're not the only one who "missed out" in some aspect of life. Most people just move on and try to make the best of their future. Join a social sports league and you'll meet a whole lot of people trying to catch up…or pick up a hobby. Going back to college isn't gonna help your situation. JFL @ expecting to make lifelong connections with KIDS.
It won't work if you go in and try to join a frat, don't know what the **** you're thinking. You do realize that these are college kids that have no life experience outside of pulling an all-nighter to pass some poverty final exam. These kids are still on their parents health insurance or still dependent on them and you want validation from them? lol They have their own social ecosystem that you don't fit into. I went to the campus gym and I'd play basketball at the rec until I was about 25-27…even then I felt very out of place. Though just a couple of years ago when I was actually going through classes, it felt normal.
From time to time I think of going back to community college just to mog all the directionless sloots there but OP, you have to grow up. You're not the only one who "missed out" in some aspect of life. Most people just move on and try to make the best of their future. Join a social sports league and you'll meet a whole lot of people trying to catch up…or pick up a hobby. Going back to college isn't gonna help your situation. JFL @ expecting to make lifelong connections with KIDS.
Also ur saying the frat wouldn’t work but I did the exact thing last year and they took me
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08-17-2024, 08:41 PM
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OP, we all think it's strange to do what you're saying you're planning to do - you can look at this as if we're 'haters' and you're the 'zyzz archetypal guy who doesnt give a fugg and wants to have fun', but I've seen 18 year olds at the gym and they're little kids. Even when I was 21 I would be embarrassed to hang out with 18 year olds. As a 30 year old man you could be a guiding figure to an 18 year old, but not a friend they party with. Unless you had your own company and hired some cool 18 year olds and are having a company night out or some sh*t.
Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
What would you talk to little kids about in the first place? Yeah fair enough if you date a 21-22 year old girl, but hanging out with 18 year olds is weird, unless you share the same interests and hobbies.
This is the only reason to go to college.
If you go to college young, party, and graduate barely knowing anything about what you studied, that is moronic.
If you go to college a decade older than the kids attending and just want to "party" you will be a weirdo and it won't work out.
People will be calling you "sir" and whatnot.
If you go to college young, party, and graduate barely knowing anything about what you studied, that is moronic.
If you go to college a decade older than the kids attending and just want to "party" you will be a weirdo and it won't work out.
People will be calling you "sir" and whatnot.
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
This bumbling buffoon said something true, OP. Looks like he learned something from his blunder in med school.
You should be worried about the academics, not if people will find you weird for being a baldcel. I don't think you're ready for college, you're just gonna waste money and time.
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08-17-2024, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted By aranadiscoteca⏩
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If you just want to party and bang young sloots, you'd be much better off travelmaxxing and staying in party hostels.
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08-17-2024, 08:48 PM
#42
Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Or u can lie about ur age
This is the only reason to go to college.
If you go to college young, party, and graduate barely knowing anything about what you studied, that is moronic.
If you go to college a decade older than the kids attending and just want to "party" you will be a weirdo and it won't work out.
People will be calling you "sir" and whatnot.
If you go to college young, party, and graduate barely knowing anything about what you studied, that is moronic.
If you go to college a decade older than the kids attending and just want to "party" you will be a weirdo and it won't work out.
People will be calling you "sir" and whatnot.
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08-17-2024, 08:50 PM
#43
Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I do share the same interests
OP, we all think it's strange to do what you're saying you're planning to do - you can look at this as if we're 'haters' and you're the 'zyzz archetypal guy who doesnt give a fugg and wants to have fun', but I've seen 18 year olds at the gym and they're little kids. Even when I was 21 I would be embarrassed to hang out with 18 year olds. As a 30 year old man you could be a guiding figure to an 18 year old, but not a friend they party with. Unless you had your own company and hired some cool 18 year olds and are having a company night out or some sh*t.
What would you talk to little kids about in the first place? Yeah fair enough if you date a 21-22 year old girl, but hanging out with 18 year olds is weird, unless you share the same interests and hobbies.
This bumbling buffoon said something true, OP. Looks like he learned something from his blunder in med school.
What would you talk to little kids about in the first place? Yeah fair enough if you date a 21-22 year old girl, but hanging out with 18 year olds is weird, unless you share the same interests and hobbies.
This bumbling buffoon said something true, OP. Looks like he learned something from his blunder in med school.
Also I did it last year and no one noticed or cared
I felt like I was the same age as them
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08-17-2024, 08:51 PM
#44
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Do as you will - just avoid manipulating them to meet your ends, etc.
I do share the same interests
Also I did it last year and no one noticed or cared
I felt like I was the same age as them
Also I did it last year and no one noticed or cared
I felt like I was the same age as them
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08-17-2024, 08:52 PM
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OP will keep posting similar threads. I am willing to bet $1,000 he will post another one of these threads, $500 if he posts 2 more
08-17-2024, 08:53 PM
#46
Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
But that’s the only way
Do as you will - just avoid manipulating them to meet your ends, etc.
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08-17-2024, 09:45 PM
#47
Originally Posted By Skirrel⏩
Ya cuz I got to decide this week as school starts the following week
OP will keep posting similar threads. I am willing to bet $1,000 he will post another one of these threads, $500 if he posts 2 more
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08-17-2024, 09:51 PM
#48
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Unless you are boyish, a man in his 30s is a man and a college aged person looks like teen.
Or u can lie about ur age
In addition, going to college to lie about who you are and party vs study to be an expert is bizarre.
College is not cheap.
You can party in cities, join groups, and so on and pay the price of doing that verus tens of thousands for college you aren't interested in.
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08-17-2024, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Did u read the op
Unless you are boyish, a man in his 30s is a man and a college aged person looks like teen.
In addition, going to college to lie about who you are and party vs study to be an expert is bizarre.
College is not cheap.
You can party in cities, join groups, and so on and pay the price of doing that verus tens of thousands for college you aren't interested in.
In addition, going to college to lie about who you are and party vs study to be an expert is bizarre.
College is not cheap.
You can party in cities, join groups, and so on and pay the price of doing that verus tens of thousands for college you aren't interested in.
I’m not gonna take classes or be a student
I’m just gonna live there
Rent is cheap af
I work remote
Also wtf I thought anyone any age can go to college
Like if I actually decide to change my major and go to college and pay for it I can go right
I def felt like that but I barely walked around on campus last year and did see some 18-19 year olds
But my roomates didn’t notice or cared either
College is just easier to make friends than city cuz there are clubs and organizations that the same ppl meet the city isn’t the fkin same even if the same ppl meet
I’ve been to sports leagues and have made 0 friends
As someone was saying in another thread ppl this age have real life responsibilities so even going out on the weekend isn’t enough
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08-17-2024, 10:15 PM
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I’ve read this thread before
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08-17-2024, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314⏩
Was last year and I ended up
I’ve read this thread before
Doing it
Was def better than sitting at home doing nothing
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08-17-2024, 10:23 PM
#53
Originally Posted By conics⏩
What you're saying is confusing.
Did u read the op
I’m not gonna take classes or be a student
I’m just gonna live there
Rent is cheap af
I work remote
Also wtf I thought anyone any age can go to college
Like if I actually decide to change my major and go to college and pay for it I can go right
I def felt like that but I barely walked around on campus last year and did see some 18-19 year olds
But my roomates didn’t notice or cared either
College is just easier to make friends than city cuz there are clubs and organizations that the same ppl meet the city isn’t the fkin same even if the same ppl meet
I’ve been to sports leagues and have made 0 friends
As someone was saying in another thread ppl this age have real life responsibilities so even going out on the weekend isn’t enough
I’m not gonna take classes or be a student
I’m just gonna live there
Rent is cheap af
I work remote
Also wtf I thought anyone any age can go to college
Like if I actually decide to change my major and go to college and pay for it I can go right
I def felt like that but I barely walked around on campus last year and did see some 18-19 year olds
But my roomates didn’t notice or cared either
College is just easier to make friends than city cuz there are clubs and organizations that the same ppl meet the city isn’t the fkin same even if the same ppl meet
I’ve been to sports leagues and have made 0 friends
As someone was saying in another thread ppl this age have real life responsibilities so even going out on the weekend isn’t enough
You want to join a frat and want to party with college kids but won't be taking classes?!
How does one do that?
You will live near the campus and attempt to get involved with campus activities?
What city are you in?
I live in Philly and there's lots of groups you can join like Meetup groups.
I have met a lot of people at local bars, like neighborhood ones, and that's potentially fun.
There's also D&D groups, bars where people play games, and so on.
Why not do things with random people vs a specific group?
I had a gf years ago who worked remotely and she was getting too isolated. She joined meetup groups, toastmasters, and other things and had plenty to do.
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08-17-2024, 10:26 PM
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I’m 24 and after a stint in the army from 18-22 even I feel old at school, but fk it this thread motivates me to make the most of my last year and a half in school
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08-17-2024, 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Yes I’ll lie to them that I’m a student
What you're saying is confusing.
You want to join a frat and want to party with college kids but won't be taking classes?!
How does one do that?
You will live near the campus and attempt to get involved with campus activities?
What city are you in?
I live in Philly and there's lots of groups you can join like Meetup groups.
I have met a lot of people at local bars, like neighborhood ones, and that's potentially fun.
There's also D&D groups, bars where people play games, and so on.
Why not do things with random people vs a specific group?
I had a gf years ago who worked remotely and she was getting too isolated. She joined meetup groups, toastmasters, and other things and had plenty to do.
You want to join a frat and want to party with college kids but won't be taking classes?!
How does one do that?
You will live near the campus and attempt to get involved with campus activities?
What city are you in?
I live in Philly and there's lots of groups you can join like Meetup groups.
I have met a lot of people at local bars, like neighborhood ones, and that's potentially fun.
There's also D&D groups, bars where people play games, and so on.
Why not do things with random people vs a specific group?
I had a gf years ago who worked remotely and she was getting too isolated. She joined meetup groups, toastmasters, and other things and had plenty to do.
Also some of them are not on campus as they are kicked off so they make take anyone
U technically can’t do it but when they find out they will just kick u but try again next semester
I did it last year until I was kicked 6 weeks into plesgeship but it was the end anyways
Although I fked up and didn’t do much and stayed in
But I didn’t go out to the bars cuz I felt too old and also the covers cost of the bar
For other clubs u don’t need to be a student cuz they never check
But I still have my university card for I card so I have some sort of identification of being a student
College is just easier
I’ve tried sports leagues this summer and made 0 friends
But I think everything is harder for me as I’m awkward and don’t have social skills etc and don’t try
I can find stuff to do but unless I paid I sometimes am too lazy too tok
I can’t even get out of bed it’s so hard these days
I also have gym goals and I got fat when I was shredded af and that has also made me very depressed as I want to get ripped again so I got so many problems to fix and it’s so hard and difficult and I’m so late to start that im just rotting Ldar and doing nothing
My entire life I have nothing to look back on and be happy about idk how it got this bad
I don’t get there’s people worse than me
Fat
Ugly
Short
Indian
That get more girls and have bad better lives than me
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08-17-2024, 10:34 PM
#56
Originally Posted By KLevrone24⏩
Damn it does really feel bad that I wasted my youth with video games and school and not caring and lifting
I’m 24 and after a stint in the army from 18-22 even I feel old at school, but fk it this thread motivates me to make the most of my last year and a half in school
It ruined me but idk what to do cuz life is only gonna get worse
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08-17-2024, 10:35 PM
#57
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Why would you hang out with people who you have to lie to, for them to accept you? I understand how much it sucks to be lonely, but tricking people into being your friends is not a suitable alternative.
Yes I’ll lie to them that I’m a student
Also some of them are not on campus as they are kicked off so they make take anyone
U technically can’t do it but when they find out they will just kick u but try again next semester
I did it last year until I was kicked 6 weeks into plesgeship but it was the end anyways
Although I fked up and didn’t do much and stayed in
But I didn’t go out to the bars cuz I felt too old and also the covers cost of the bar
For other clubs u don’t need to be a student cuz they never check
But I still have my university card for I card so I have some sort of identification of being a student
College is just easier
I’m in Chicago
I’ve tried sports leagues this summer and made 0 friends
But I think everything is harder for me as I’m awkward and don’t have social skills etc and don’t try
I can find stuff to do but unless I paid I sometimes am too lazy too tok
I can’t even get out of bed it’s so hard these days
I also have gym goals and I got fat when I was shredded af and that has also made me very depressed as I want to get ripped again so I got so many problems to fix and it’s so hard and difficult and I’m so late to start that im just rotting Ldar and doing nothing
My entire life I have nothing to look back on and be happy about idk how it got this bad
Also some of them are not on campus as they are kicked off so they make take anyone
U technically can’t do it but when they find out they will just kick u but try again next semester
I did it last year until I was kicked 6 weeks into plesgeship but it was the end anyways
Although I fked up and didn’t do much and stayed in
But I didn’t go out to the bars cuz I felt too old and also the covers cost of the bar
For other clubs u don’t need to be a student cuz they never check
But I still have my university card for I card so I have some sort of identification of being a student
College is just easier
I’m in Chicago
I’ve tried sports leagues this summer and made 0 friends
But I think everything is harder for me as I’m awkward and don’t have social skills etc and don’t try
I can find stuff to do but unless I paid I sometimes am too lazy too tok
I can’t even get out of bed it’s so hard these days
I also have gym goals and I got fat when I was shredded af and that has also made me very depressed as I want to get ripped again so I got so many problems to fix and it’s so hard and difficult and I’m so late to start that im just rotting Ldar and doing nothing
My entire life I have nothing to look back on and be happy about idk how it got this bad
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08-17-2024, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I did this last year
Why would you hang out with people who you have to lie to, for them to accept you? I understand how much it sucks to be lonely, but tricking people into being your friends is not a suitable alternative.
They didn’t care or prolly forgot
Also remember even tho they were 18-22 I felt like I fit in with them cuz I still feel that age in my head around 18-22 since I did nothing in my life and they weren’t able to tell I was much older so that’s
There was a few instances I was called a grown ass man and some guy said I look old
But that’s it
But as I said I didn’t go out to the bars at all so if I do ppl May notice
Pledging was a lil bit of fun I never got hazed or fked with cuz I was bigger
But idk wtf to do I just feel college is better and easier to make friends than the city
There’s also 20k grad students around my age or older
But ppl were saying it’s weird or creepy to go to undergrad bars and hit on the girls
But if u look good who cares
If Zyzz did it at this age would ppl care
What if I’m 20 but actually look 30 I could just say that
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08-17-2024, 10:43 PM
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I know what you're saying, I just think it's sad to lie to someone in order for them to accept you as a friend - maybe you NEED to make this mistake to learn why you should never do that, however.
Like I said, do as you will, just don't do anything super weird if you catch my drift.
Like I said, do as you will, just don't do anything super weird if you catch my drift.
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08-17-2024, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By conics⏩
Dude, if you're awkward then lying about everything is not going to be easy. It will also mean you will make no actual friends.
Yes I’ll lie to them that I’m a student
Also some of them are not on campus as they are kicked off so they make take anyone
U technically can’t do it but when they find out they will just kick u but try again next semester
I did it last year until I was kicked 6 weeks into plesgeship but it was the end anyways
Although I fked up and didn’t do much and stayed in
But I didn’t go out to the bars cuz I felt too old and also the covers cost of the bar
For other clubs u don’t need to be a student cuz they never check
But I still have my university card for I card so I have some sort of identification of being a student
College is just easier
I’m in Chicago
I’ve tried sports leagues this summer and made 0 friends
But I think everything is harder for me as I’m awkward and don’t have social skills etc and don’t try
I can find stuff to do but unless I paid I sometimes am too lazy too tok
I can’t even get out of bed it’s so hard these days
I also have gym goals and I got fat when I was shredded af and that has also made me very depressed as I want to get ripped again so I got so many problems to fix and it’s so hard and difficult and I’m so late to start that im just rotting Ldar and doing nothing
My entire life I have nothing to look back on and be happy about idk how it got this bad
I don’t get there’s people worse than me
Fat
Ugly
Short
Indian
That get more girls and have bad better lives than me
Also some of them are not on campus as they are kicked off so they make take anyone
U technically can’t do it but when they find out they will just kick u but try again next semester
I did it last year until I was kicked 6 weeks into plesgeship but it was the end anyways
Although I fked up and didn’t do much and stayed in
But I didn’t go out to the bars cuz I felt too old and also the covers cost of the bar
For other clubs u don’t need to be a student cuz they never check
But I still have my university card for I card so I have some sort of identification of being a student
College is just easier
I’m in Chicago
I’ve tried sports leagues this summer and made 0 friends
But I think everything is harder for me as I’m awkward and don’t have social skills etc and don’t try
I can find stuff to do but unless I paid I sometimes am too lazy too tok
I can’t even get out of bed it’s so hard these days
I also have gym goals and I got fat when I was shredded af and that has also made me very depressed as I want to get ripped again so I got so many problems to fix and it’s so hard and difficult and I’m so late to start that im just rotting Ldar and doing nothing
My entire life I have nothing to look back on and be happy about idk how it got this bad
I don’t get there’s people worse than me
Fat
Ugly
Short
Indian
That get more girls and have bad better lives than me
Hey what classes are you in?
Ah…I'm in Technology 123….
What building is that in?
The brown…one…over there….
I don't know what you mean…but want to meet up at the cafeteria?
Where is that at…oh yeah…the cafeteria…sorry I can't because I'm working and stuff.
You will seem like an imposter or more of an autistic type once your "friends" start wanting make conversation and do things.
As I've said, I know people who play Dungeons and Dragons and have tight friendship groups. They are nerdy types but it still sounds fun. They drink, meet up for food, etc. Also, there's no complex lying.
Groups like that are social in nature while sports groups aren't.
Whatever the case, it's always best to be truthful about who you are when dealing with people. If not you will meet people under false pretenses and you will never have actual friends.
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