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08-21-2024, 09:28 AM
#31
Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Pretty much this. You don't have to be a raging psycho about things when you talk about it but there are boundaries in relationships and she's crossing one of yours.
No, you tell her she can do what she wants, but her having a male personal trainer is not OK with you, and if she can't understand why the two of you just aren't compatible.
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08-21-2024, 09:28 AM
#32
Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
I wouldn’t say im desperate because I could probably walk away and find a new gf within a few weeks
Ok so you’re a desperate cuck and poosy whipped. There’s a ton of those on the misc lately.
Maybe a bit because I suffer from low self esteem (had terrible childhood + cPTSD)
+emotional Austism from my childhood experiences
I’m trying to fix that also
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08-21-2024, 09:30 AM
#33
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
So you want to be babied? I’m confused. Are you a man or a boy?
Maybe a bit because I suffer from low self esteem (had terrible childhood + cPTSD)
+emotional Austism from my childhood experiences
I’m trying to fix that also
+emotional Austism from my childhood experiences
I’m trying to fix that also
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08-21-2024, 09:30 AM
#34
Not only is it over, but it's been over for longer than you think.
If it would even cross a woman's mind to get a male trainer while she has a S.O., then she ain't it.
If it would even cross a woman's mind to get a male trainer while she has a S.O., then she ain't it.
08-21-2024, 09:34 AM
#35
Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
I don’t want to babied but I have UNCOUCIOUS dissociation from cPTSD ….’soul loss’ and low energy
So you want to be babied? I’m confused. Are you a man or a boy?
- I have bad boundaries and bad self esteem
I did fix it 10 years ago for about 6months, before but somehow …it came back… I’m trying to fix it but it’s TOUGH what trauma does to your brain and body
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08-21-2024, 09:35 AM
#36
Damn, he's over there bending her over showing her proper warm up techniques.
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08-21-2024, 09:37 AM
#37
Seeing how uncomfortable you are with the situation, if she had any respect for you she would stop using him.
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08-21-2024, 09:37 AM
#38
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I’m just going to be real with you, unless you find that unicorn of a women who actually respects you and has self-respect and family values, your relationships will not work. From what I’m gathering here, you’re emotionally weak as a man (I’m not blaming you) and you will be easily manipulated and taken control of. Women want a leader.
I don’t want to babied but I have UNCOUCIOUS dissociation from cPTSD ….
- I have bad boundaries and bad self esteem
I’m trying to fix it but it’s TOUGH what trauma does to your brain and body
- I have bad boundaries and bad self esteem
I’m trying to fix it but it’s TOUGH what trauma does to your brain and body
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08-21-2024, 09:40 AM
#39
Most PTs do it to **** their clients.
Dead srs.
But OP, you already lost by getting mad. Women do not see mate guarding like men do. If a woman even THINKS you are jealous or threatened, it's OVER.
In their mind, if a man gets what they perceive as jealous, that means either you aren't confident in your ability to keep her because her value is actually higher than yours, or the other guy's value is higher otherwise you wouldn't feel threatened. That's their logic.
By getting mad/upset, you (in her mind) are feeling threatend.
Women aren't thinking about consequences. They are only thinking and constantly evaluating "is my current guy the best I can get?".
They test this by jealousy games. They aren't thinking if they are being disrespectful or not, or boundaries or anything else. This is why girls with tattoos are red flags; they let random men handle them while a lot of times they are barely covered up.
Letting another man touch her (besides maybe a doctor) is crossing lines. You should've stated that calmly and with certainty.
You need to ask yourself why she got a PT in the first place. Was she at this gym prior to signing up for a PT? Garuantee the PT chatted her up prior to her signing up. If you are into fitness, you need to ask yourself why she didn't ask you to come up with a workout plan or train her yourself.
Dead srs.
But OP, you already lost by getting mad. Women do not see mate guarding like men do. If a woman even THINKS you are jealous or threatened, it's OVER.
In their mind, if a man gets what they perceive as jealous, that means either you aren't confident in your ability to keep her because her value is actually higher than yours, or the other guy's value is higher otherwise you wouldn't feel threatened. That's their logic.
By getting mad/upset, you (in her mind) are feeling threatend.
Women aren't thinking about consequences. They are only thinking and constantly evaluating "is my current guy the best I can get?".
They test this by jealousy games. They aren't thinking if they are being disrespectful or not, or boundaries or anything else. This is why girls with tattoos are red flags; they let random men handle them while a lot of times they are barely covered up.
Letting another man touch her (besides maybe a doctor) is crossing lines. You should've stated that calmly and with certainty.
You need to ask yourself why she got a PT in the first place. Was she at this gym prior to signing up for a PT? Garuantee the PT chatted her up prior to her signing up. If you are into fitness, you need to ask yourself why she didn't ask you to come up with a workout plan or train her yourself.
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08-21-2024, 09:42 AM
#40
Honestly i'd feel insecure about that as well.. Only thing you can do is have a convo with her and saying you don't feel comfortable with it and if she's unwilling to compromise. that's not your girlfriend and your turn is over.
08-21-2024, 09:47 AM
#41
time to go North Carolina brah
deep down you know
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08-21-2024, 09:47 AM
#42
He is balls deep inside of her right now.
Good luck.
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08-21-2024, 09:49 AM
#43
Yeah she's a sloot, no offense. You should probably just demote her to fwb status and start looking for a non sloot
08-21-2024, 09:51 AM
#44
Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
She’s actually is 40 years old but look about 30 years old
Yeah she's a sloot, no offense. You should probably just demote her to fwb status and start looking for a non sloot
Nice body , emotionally childish…but yeah I think your right
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08-21-2024, 09:55 AM
#45
Originally Posted By orangetide⏩
I’m not insecure that I think he’s necessity any better than me, ……
Most PTs do it to **** their clients.
Dead srs.
But OP, you already lost by getting mad. Women do not see mate guarding like men do. If a woman even THINKS you are jealous or threatened, it's OVER.
In their mind, if a man gets what they perceive as jealous, that means either you aren't confident in your ability to keep her because her value is actually higher than yours, or the other guy's value is higher otherwise you wouldn't feel threatened. That's their logic.
By getting mad/upset, you (in her mind) are feeling threatend.
Women aren't thinking about consequences. They are only thinking and constantly evaluating "is my current guy the best I can get?".
They test this by jealousy games. They aren't thinking if they are being disrespectful or not, or boundaries or anything else. This is why girls with tattoos are red flags; they let random men handle them while a lot of times they are barely covered up.
Letting another man touch her (besides maybe a doctor) is crossing lines. You should've stated that calmly and with certainty.
You need to ask yourself why she got a PT in the first place. Was she at this gym prior to signing up for a PT? Garuantee the PT chatted her up prior to her signing up. If you are into fitness, you need to ask yourself why she didn't ask you to come up with a workout plan or train her yourself.
Dead srs.
But OP, you already lost by getting mad. Women do not see mate guarding like men do. If a woman even THINKS you are jealous or threatened, it's OVER.
In their mind, if a man gets what they perceive as jealous, that means either you aren't confident in your ability to keep her because her value is actually higher than yours, or the other guy's value is higher otherwise you wouldn't feel threatened. That's their logic.
By getting mad/upset, you (in her mind) are feeling threatend.
Women aren't thinking about consequences. They are only thinking and constantly evaluating "is my current guy the best I can get?".
They test this by jealousy games. They aren't thinking if they are being disrespectful or not, or boundaries or anything else. This is why girls with tattoos are red flags; they let random men handle them while a lot of times they are barely covered up.
Letting another man touch her (besides maybe a doctor) is crossing lines. You should've stated that calmly and with certainty.
You need to ask yourself why she got a PT in the first place. Was she at this gym prior to signing up for a PT? Garuantee the PT chatted her up prior to her signing up. If you are into fitness, you need to ask yourself why she didn't ask you to come up with a workout plan or train her yourself.
But of course I’m not gonna be ‘cool’ with another dude touching my GF even if it’s ‘professional purposes’
I don’t even want to act cool or be ‘fine’ with because it’s disrespectful…..I can’t be because I’d be faking it
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08-21-2024, 09:55 AM
#46
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
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She’s actually is 40 years old but look about 30 years old
Nice body , emotionally childish…but yeah I think your right
Nice body , emotionally childish…but yeah I think your right
Emotionally childish
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08-21-2024, 09:57 AM
#47
Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Not trolling, but she does look very young for age/and has a tight great body
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Emotionally childish
Male PT
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Emotionally childish
Male PT
Hope you're trolling
Sounds shallow but If she was fat and ugly I definitely would have bailed a long long time ago
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08-21-2024, 10:00 AM
#48
I think you're being insecure.
PT are just that - they train you, not fk u lol.
PT are just that - they train you, not fk u lol.
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08-21-2024, 10:02 AM
#49
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
If that's the case then she never had long-term potential in which case I wouldn't give two fuks if she had a male PT. She'd just be my pin cushion until she moved on.
Not trolling, but she does look very young for age/and has a tight great body
Sounds shallow but If she was fat and ugly I definitely would have bailed a long long time ago
Sounds shallow but If she was fat and ugly I definitely would have bailed a long long time ago
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08-21-2024, 10:03 AM
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Go get a girl PT
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08-21-2024, 10:04 AM
#51
Originally Posted By TheParish⏩
Not only is it over, but it's been over for longer than you think.
If it would even cross a woman's mind to get a male trainer while she has a S.O., then she ain't it.
If it would even cross a woman's mind to get a male trainer while she has a S.O., then she ain't it.
This OP you are a fukin cucklord level 9000
Your “gf” has absolutely 0 respect for you, not only does she have some youtn strapping chadlite helping her “workout” he feeling all over your girl while you standing there crying inside 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You a punk ass little b*tch, NC her immediately or the entire misc will neg you 4 life (ded fkn srs)
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08-21-2024, 10:05 AM
#52
Originally Posted By theory816⏩
Yeah but when she's falling behind on her targets, he'll need to see her outside of business hours to help her catch back up.
I think you're being insecure.
PT are just that - they train you, not fk u lol.
PT are just that - they train you, not fk u lol.
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08-21-2024, 10:05 AM
#53
I know so many PT’s bangin dudes wives/girlfriends srs
Anyone that thinks it’s just innocent touching and talking for hours every week is naive
Anyone that thinks it’s just innocent touching and talking for hours every week is naive
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08-21-2024, 10:07 AM
#54
Originally Posted By MetalGearSolid3⏩
**** PT’s (scum of the earth)
I know so many PT’s bangin dudes wives and girlfriends srs
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08-21-2024, 10:10 AM
#55
Stay tuned for OP’s next thread - “gf slipped and fell on PT’s c0ck wut do misc??”
What a bish
What a bish
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08-21-2024, 10:10 AM
#56
How the fuk do you let your girl get a male PT? WTF is wrong with you? Why aren't YOU her PT? The fact that she went and got one instead of you is sus as well.
This is a big yikes
This is a big yikes
08-21-2024, 10:13 AM
#57
Originally Posted By nn586⏩
She probably doesn’t think OP is aesthetic or knowledgable (no offence OP)
How the fuk do you let your girl get a male PT? WTF is wrong with you? Why aren't YOU her PT? The fact that she went and got one instead of you is sus as well.
This is a big yikes
This is a big yikes
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**** PT’s (scum of the earth)
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08-21-2024, 10:15 AM
#58
M8 it’s been over. As others have already mentioned, the fact that she went to a PT in the first place, and on top of that, a male PT. Why didn’t she go to you?
08-21-2024, 10:15 AM
#59
she has you as a bf, you should be the only cawk in her life. if she refuses to understand this pov its time to let that wh0re go …dont be a cuck
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08-21-2024, 10:17 AM
#60
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
You can not be insecure that he's better than you, but I'm telling you *that's not how women perceive it*.
I’m not insecure that I think he’s necessity any better than me, ……
But of course I’m not gonna be ‘cool’ with another dude touching my GF even if it’s ‘professional purposes’
I don’t even want to act cool or be ‘fine’ with because it’s disrespectful…..I can’t be because I’d be faking it
But of course I’m not gonna be ‘cool’ with another dude touching my GF even if it’s ‘professional purposes’
I don’t even want to act cool or be ‘fine’ with because it’s disrespectful…..I can’t be because I’d be faking it
It's not about being cool with it, it's about being calm/outwardly unaffected. There needs to be an unspoken tone that no bullchit behavior is allowed, and if there is she will get next'd.
The one thing women actually love and respond positively to is if they cannot emotionally affect their man. If she can affect you emotionally, she thinks she controls you.
Indifference is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.
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