Your problem is you see nearly everything in a binary (relationship/sex = happy, no relationship/sex = miserable!), there are never shades of gray for you. This is why every suggestion, including therapy, is dismissed by you as "cope."

Video games might make you happy, but they don't give you any kind of real purpose, hence they don't fill the void. Do something with real meaning.

Do you think if you devoted your time to say researching and helping to alleviate suffering in some war torn country, for example, you would even have time for this nonsense, going on about how the 1950s were better for getting permanent sex? I knew an academic who did work like that, who was single in his late 40s, and he was actually just disgusted by the Western preoccupation with superficiality after his experiences. That's the type of life shift you need.

Focus on something bigger, instead of dwelling on the fact that in the 1920s women were obedient and in the kitchen, but now those uppity bitches reject ugly men!

yes. you have one source, misc posts. what about everything else in life or online. maybe thats relevant

That's a good point. Volunteer work could help him. I know men who have been single their whole lives from church and volunteer work. They aren't LDAR. They're working and spending their spare time forming relationships at church and/or volunteer work.

On spread.

It’s all relevant.

But insofar as the inner workings of one’s mind is concerned, I think misc posts can be very revealing. The anonymity of this forum allows people to be very raw and uncensored with their thoughts and feelings.

People like to pretend they're complex, but they're not. You are here as you are irl. With that said, we know exactly the kind of person you are.

Do you think you’d be happy having coerced a woman to settle with you? I wouldn’t want that. whats the point if they’re not into you?

ehhhh its not that you literally force them, its that you create the conditions where psychologically you are seen as a good option by them, where as in a pure free market you arent.

thats how its been done for most generations because if you dont you get polygamy and incels that wont work.

This type of argument only works if you start from the assumption that an intrinsic human nature that strives to be free, and unencumbered by constraints (even mental and emotional constraints) doesn't really exist or isn't important.

You could literally say the same thing about Jim Crow for example--many black Americans did in fact internalize the idea that they belonged in their own space.

lmao. even Chads have to Jestermax. Still trolling? Never seen a post from you in 10 years that wasn't being mean or bragging.

Cope. Brah, at 5'8 and 125lbs soaking wet (because you're too lazy to lift), you are average at best. And that's being generous. Women don't care about your clothes and cologne and car if the base package isn't there. It's lipstick on a pig.

Because unlike you, I truly am above average. Notice how I've never made a post about how hard getting laid is.

Anyways, don't take it personally. I'm just letting you know the objective truth.

Btw, I’m updating this thread because I wanted to correct myself about the issue I think you may have. I called you autistic at the time because it was the closest thing to what I thought the issue was, but I was also aware it wasn’t quite right.

Anyway, a better / more-accurate description would be: I think you may have something of a “theory of mind” deficit.

I thought I’d mention it because you may wanna google “theory of mind” and learn more about it and see if any of it resonates, plus I do believe tests exist that attempt to assess your theory of mind.

bump

interesting, seems like this is resurgence but now called no pvssy no work

My predication is more men leave overseas