Do you have pics of these guys? Genuinely curious. No offense but you're ugly as hell. I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole. I can't believe you get more action than me tbh.

Why would you say something so cruel to someone, online or not? I never would say that to anyone in a million years.

Obviously I looked better in my 20s. I’m in my 50s.



If you don’t think that looks good for 52 then I don’t know when to tell you

I guess she made you into her therapist by the sounds of it. But at least she was straight forward, kind (like you said) and respected you enough to give you closure/a reason instead of just ghosting.

It’ll work out in the end, rejection is a way of filtration on both ends. And hmmm, a relationship is like a machine that takes two parts to work: yourself AND your partner. If one just one part is broken (you or her), doesn’t fit, or both are broken… the machine can’t work. The machine only works if both parts work.

So it could be a mismatch of parts not fitting…. Or dysfunctional parts on their end. Or if can be yourself too—which is a hard way look at it. It never hurts to check in with yourself in some self reflection too to see if you’re seeking connection in a healthy way. Dating is just hard, brings out the worst in people, and can also bring out the shadows in yourself too

Yea, a bit of a mismatch. She was just stressed leaving her job. She didn’t have the best attitude tbh during the date but I understand. I think the attraction lured me to asking her out again but I had second thoughts before. Not sweating that one. I couldn’t picture us together long term, not a lot in common either. But I wish her well.

My Hinge is full of pretty model like women but I don't even bother talking to thrm

What are your parameters or things you’re looking for in a 1) partner, and 2) relationship 3) a person?

Actually I haven’t been on a dating app since for like 9 months and switched gears to focusing on myself. Chasing love out of need leads you to making bad choices.

But actually, I’ve had a few offers just from in person interactions. I’m going on a first date with a guy my friend was trying to set me up with—she invited me to a gathering and he asked for my number and he told her I was cute apparently

Then there’s another girl I watched a boxing match with… her friend is also asking about me and he told a few people he thought I was cute, but I haven’t pursued it. I don’t know him or his personality because we didn’t talk together a lot. I figure if we see each other and we get to talking, if I like his personality and he asks for my number at that time then I’d be open to giving it. But I’m not really gun ho at the idea of just handing my number out if we haven’t talked face to face sufficiently.

Then there’s also my cousins friends who asked her, and some random guys at the gym too.


My point being… maybe try taking a step away from the Apps and see if there’s any in person opportunities available to you instead?

went on a date with the cutest girl last month. She said she'd see me again and then ghosted me. I followed up twice. GOdammit. Life=over

you were not her no. 1 choice.

ghosting is low, but these chicks can afford it because they will always have options lining up for them.

Yeah there is literally no consequence for them to be jerks. They have an endless supply. THey won't even feel bad or think twice about us. We are just left in the dust to struggle while they thrive. It's really infuriating. I think I was "out of her league" on paper too.

How did it get so bad where women have endless options and we have none? Dating has become so onesided I don't know how more men aren't talking about it. There's nothing else in this world like it. It is truly an enigma.

yea.. really makes me hate texting. don't like validating them, while getting nothing in return. or getting ghosted.

empathy really runs low in females.. they can lead you on and disregard you like nothing. no sense of remorse, never seen it.

and when the "other option" disappears they try to jump back into your life like nothing happened. really hard to take them seriously. that's why i don't.

This has literally never happened to me and I'm at the point where I'd welcome it as sad as that sounds.

lol, I've gotten a "hey how you've been" 4 years after the initial ghosting.

**** is weird.

I hope you all find what you're looking for. I'm trying to get better looking in the gym. I think it's the only way to get anything of value these days as a man. It's crazy how much harder it is now than our fathers. Can't do anything but try our best.

Having jumped back on the apps recently I have noticed the absurd amount of women who will never meet up.

I know that its a numbers game but dam it seems worse than ever.

Yup and very few young chics are actually into older dudes that they are only going to be dating. They see older dudes as being the same age as their actual dads. And some of you really old cats, grand dad. LOL. **** even me being in my 40's is old enough to be a 18 to 22 year olds dad. And I don't even look 40's, still look like I'm in my 30's, babyface. So most see older dudes as icky, even at my age because they're like eww you're old enough to be my dad. I don't consider myself old but some of these young honeys consider us ancient. So the incentive for a younger honey to **** with us older dudes is the cash help arrangement. But when the site is no longer set up to be for sugaring and only regular dating. Welp there go your younger babies, not being interested anymore, bye bye!

The west has officially been finished.



Goodbye California. Thailand here I come.

Because men outnumber women on these apps tremendously

They can afford to be picky and shoot for the stars, meanwhile we are lucky if Shenmue likes us.

But nah as a fairly average guy I still get endless dates. Just gotta put in the time and effort.

I'm pretty handsome now that I started lifting. Still only matching with low quality women aka

-overweight girls
-single moms
-older women
-black women
-women with curly hair
-gingers
-fobs
-facially unfortunate women

Sucks man. My standards really aren't that high
=/

Misc tells me I have low ass standards and all the girls I post are 3s with pancake asses.

This is the kind of girl I like and still can't get a match :/

always go international brother

I'm currently seeing girls form Pakistan, China, and Brazil. They are so much better and untainted by American culture

Plus you have a great personality, truly baffling why you can't attract women.

I'm not attracted to fobs as I posted above. They're free points but sooo boring to interact with. Would never date one. I only like vapid LA asian girls. THe kind that most guys on here would call sloots and "for the streets." :/. I also don't care about stuff like body counts and relaitonships with her dad. That's some Lucifer sh!t. I literally just want a girl I'm attracted to and can enjoy interacting with. That's literally it. I've asked out sex workers and still get rejected if they're decently pretty and have rizz :/

Every man on the misc and in youtube comments chastizes my type of girl yet it still seems like they have tons of options in the real world. Sometimes I think miscers are living in a fantasy land.

This.
What girl doesn't want a man who complains about how women don't like him on an online forum everyday?

your ass ain't attracting no woman either so you're one to talk XD with you not getting matches on dating apps.

like i said self delete yourself so you dont turn into another raging incel murderer.

Oh okay. We are definitely after different things. I'm tired of the young crazy sloots with daddy issues. It never ends well. Who gives a **** about sex or whatever.. I'm looking for wife material at this point. I do care about bodycount, but if it's a reasonable number it's okay.

hinge is loaded with the type that want 6ft 6 figures and want to travel. its pointless.

Karma for being a rude churl to Dusty last month.