ty, that guy is a big bad internet bully

You're welcome. I think the sarcastic post frommulletwarrior, combined with my female friend's encouragement, led me to believe she may be up for something different and less bot-like. I also keep remembering her telling me, "Just be confident."

OP what field do you work in? computer science/programming? finance? accounting? some STEM field?

Fukken LOL

OP: I won't say anything that could be interpreted as disrespectful because I want a good girl who will settle down

Also OP:

- texting girls with boyfriends
- texting (hopefully single) moms
- looking for girls at bars
- "I eat azz"

I am a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), but I work as a Senior Analyst at a large tech company. I have bachelor's and master's degrees, both in accounting.I'm a man of great taste.Yes, she's a single mom of 2 kids. That girl with the boyfriend thought she and I could just be friends (lol).

I went to the mall. Not many people there on a Thursday evening. I will go again at least twice this weekend. There was one woman I've interacted with before who works there. I was going to approach her but she was walking toward the exit and was talking to her watch. She must have been on the phone. She's a fiery Latina princess. I need to figure out what her deal is.

I bought these shoes and will wear them out tomorrow evening.



Tomorrow I am having a date with the 18-year-old African girl and then hanging out with my female friend in the evening at the bars. I got some skincare advice at Sephora and purchased a few products. Will start using them and following the advice I got from an associate.

I checked out some watches and this one caught my eye. It's $1,800. Should I get it? I wanted the misc's opinion before I went ahead and bought it. It's pretty stylin'.https://skeies.com/products/seiko-sp...utomatic-watch



Lastly, K hasn't replied to my message. Any advice on what to send to her is much appreciated. The last text I sent is here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1690028953

Nice

this could be voidgaze if he worked hard

[QUOTE=ArCaNe66 post_id=1690027353]Interesting. Almost sounds like an investment. Perhaps I shall diversify my portfolio.[img]//assets.bodybuilding.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif[/img]

But not immediately, I think. I can wait.


She has amazing facial harmony to me. She's really feminine and I just can't get enough of her. Lol'd at your last sentence. I'm going to keep trying things out. I hope she's receptive.

I approached a really gorgeous young woman at the gym, but she has a boyfriend. She wasn't rude about it, but I'm glad I know. I'm 3/10 now when it comes to getting numbers from females at the gym.

The mom I'm meeting next Tuesday for dinner is definitely horny. Here are some texts from earlier tonight.

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[/img]https://i.imgur.com/WO6msUr.png[/img][/QUOTE]Dang son, I'm proud.

Azz eater just like your Ol'man.

Hahaha!!! A quote from a different thread. I like it. Any advice onK? There's got to be some flowchart for how to win her over. I am trying to get a lunch or dinner date with her. I'd settle for a FaceTime.Thanks for saying I'm working hard! This weekend should be interesting. I plan on putting in a lot of effort - there's no time to waste.You taught me well. It's one of the many things I think about when I see a QT 3.14.

Why not meet a girl at the place you work?

Also, don't get the Seiko lol. If you think you need a watch, don't spend 5k for the best of the crappy watches, get a 5k rolex submariner - worst of the best watches.

50 cent fake tattoos and a $10,000 real-deal Rolex. This is why I misc

I work from home. The woman I like (K) works at the local mall.

The King Seiko would be $1,800 (plus sales tax of 8.25%). I just Googled the Submariner. Wow! What a watch. Hmm. Decisions, decisions. If I go all out on a watch then why not get a Rolex?Das it mane. You dare me to get a Rolex?

FYI, current retail on a Sub is $9,100, not $5K. You will likely have to wait a while to get one unless you're willing to pay more to get one second-hand.

Ahh, thanks for the info. I am going to look at clothes and get a haircut. I think the watch will have to wait, but I may browse. Going to update with pics later today.

Any thoughts on this? I've obviously got to give her space, but I'm trying to keep the door open in case she is open to dating again.Any thoughts on this? I've obviously got to give her space, but I'm trying to keep the door open in case she is open to dating again.

When I suggested a Rolex or something similar high end, I forgot you don't even have a car. I would put your money towards that goal instead. You need to have consistent transportation if you're going to be taking girls out and hitting up various places to cold approach.

As for K above, just don't respond. Move on. Plenty of other women.

Man I can't take it anymore. Every single thing about this thread is just plain wrong. I think the fedbrahs on this forum have definitely put OP on some kind of watchlist.

This. Get a vehicle. Renting cars for dates is going to get weird if you're going on second and third dates with a girl and are driving a different economy chitbox each time.

Also, cut your losses with K and go NC. She's either sincerely not ready to get involved in anything or is just not interested in you and is letting you down easy. If she has any interest and just isn't ready to get involved in something now, leave the ball in her court to reach out to you if she ever is ready (and by that I don't mean texting her to say that; just go NC).

You should expand on this point, because I don't think OP comprehends at all why anyone would think this.

I think your quadruple text and pics creeped her out so she tried to let you down easy, to avoid a potential stalker situation. She isn't completely wrong because you do have stalker vibes and behaviors.

Next time, double text at most and just let it go. No response means she isn't interested, doesn't even matter what the reason is.

Yes. I definitely would not have taken the friend's advice to send those pics. Very weird to send shirtless pics to some girl who just gave you her number and before any real text conversation. Then "Would you like to join me for a meal?" gives Hannibal Lecter vibes. Had no pics been sent, a simple "Let's grab some drinks Saturday if you're free" would potentially have worked.

why would you send that

she 100% posted that in her friend's group chat and they're laughing at you rn

I don't he would understand even if I did explain. Somebody who talks like this: "She has amazing facial harmony to me. She's really feminine and I just can't get enough of her." about girls he's talked to for 5 minutes in his entire life deserves to be on an FBI watch list.

Or this: " By the way, this is K. I cannot get enough of her look. The fact that she's articulate and seems witty is so attractive. Puts her in a different stratosphere."

Of course everything from the fake tattoos, triple texts with topless selfies and 10k rolexes is cringe. But the way he's just completely obsessed with random girls who he doesn't even know is beyond creepy. I wouldn't even describe the mother of my own kids like that to people and he's describing literal strangers like that.

This is a symptom of putting women way up on a pedestal like some kind of goddesses instead of understanding that they are just people like you (at least, I hope it's this and not something more concerning). As I mentioned before, OP needs to adopt more of an abundance mindset and avoid the thought process where every reasonably attractive/friendly girl is basically "the one" after a two-minute in-person conversation and a bit of text banter.

I also just noticed and think it's a bit odd to text a stranger about a date before 8 a.m.

Yeah didn't want to be too negative at once, but OP, the friend who advised you to send those pics probably also has chitty social skills. Already weird that she distributes random handjobs to male friends with seemingly no desire for reciprocation or proceeding further, and randomly sending shirtless pics to a new girl is not a good idea to any reasonable person.

I would at least get any advice from her vetted by a second opinion going forward.

Thank you for the advice. I can afford a car now, but not sure if I should get one or which one I'd get.

Yeah, not textingKback.Lol!!! You're being funny.Thank you. Going NC withK, unless she reaches out and wants to get to know me. I really appreciate the advice. You and others talk me down from a lot of stupid things I think in my head.It's hard to say where I went wrong, but her not replying to my text the night we met seemed like a bad sign. Hindsight 20/20, I would not have spazzed out and sent her an immediateHeyfollowed by aWant to hangout?. Even doing that, I should have given it more time? I guess...maybe she just never liked me to begin with. OK, double text at most. I understand.We had a decent conversation IRL, but I get that it may come across weird. She told me to be confident, so I was trying it out.I'm an animal. Sometimes I regret my behavior.

I got my haircut and 4 Boss shirts. I approached a young woman who was sitting in the salon - we both had gotten our shampoo done and were waiting for our hair stylists. She told me she has a boyfriend. This is weird, but I saw her name on a monitor and I looked her up. Turns out she is a baddie after all. 19 years old as well. fuaaaaaaaa.



Haircut. The stylist messed up part of the fade by cutting some of my hair off (can be seen in the picture).



Boss shirts

I don't mean to come across as creepy. I don't have some sinister plan in mind. I really just like women a lot. Maybe I should just keep some of my thoughts to myself then.It is hard for me. I just felt that feeling with the woman whose picture I posted above. She is adorable. I guess I need toget somebefore I'd be able to change this mindset. It's almost hard-wired.My bad. I've learned from that exchange. Will definitely post here and wait for big decisions (as I did for the watch). I've known her for a while and she's currently single so she doesn't mind tugging me.

OP you are looking for live in all the wrong places dead Fukn srs. You need to volunteer at a homeless shelter and meet a volunteer girl or something like that. Not some bar sloots.

Also, you are a good looking guy and could probably go for 7/10s under normal circumstances. But due to your autism, you should probably just recalibrate your expectations and go for 5/10s.

The mall is where many people are, with a wide range of ages (although my preference skews younger, butOF AGE). The gym is where others are who exercise (mutual hobby). A volunteer girl sounds nice, to be honest. Hmm. Perhaps I can give something like that a try. I genuinely appreciate that compliment. I am very insecure about my looks and feel my looks are quite polarizing. Some women can accept them and others will write me off without thinking twice. I also know I need to improve myself (e.g., skin, potential rhinoplasty, get 10% body fat, etc.). That girl I posted above is a solid 8.5-9, imo. She wore a skirt and had incredible legs.

Yeah I don't necessarily think you have bad intentions and that you're going to be the next Elliot Rodgers. But you don't only come across as creepy to the girls, but also on here when talking about them. If you're really some turbo autistic incel in his 30s with good intentions then you have a long way to go. You definitely have A LOT to learn and saying "yes" blindly to every different piece of advice people give you here isn't gonna go very well.

You're all over the ranging from completely normal things like getting leaner, getting a haircut and buying decent looking shirts, to horrible 1 dollar tattoos, a 10k rolex and plastic surgery. How about you start with only doing the normal things and leaving all of the outrageous things out.You're just a regular 6/10 who could max out as a 7/10 with good style and grooming. No reason to be insecure about it.