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10-01-2020, 10:49 AM

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#8881

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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩

Numbers don't matter much in my opinion. I've been with tons of women but never had any issue falling in love and never cheated on anyone I was ever in a relationship with.

My ex-wife I met when she was 22 and I was 25. She had one partner before me that she was with from 15-21. We were together for 15 years and had 3 children together and she cheated on me with a 21yo nursing assistant when she was 37.

Moral of the story, sloots gonna sloot.

Yeah alot of older women want some young dick once they get to a certain age especially when guys their own age start to look worse.

Sorry that happened to you though.

10-01-2020, 10:57 AM

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#8882

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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩

Yeah alot of older women want some young dick once they get to a certain age especially when guys their own age start to look worse.

Sorry that happened to you though.

Actually ended up being the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm better looking and in better shape now than I was in my 20s.

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10-01-2020, 01:05 PM

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#8883

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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩

Numbers don't matter much in my opinion. I've been with tons of women but never had any issue falling in love and never cheated on anyone I was ever in a relationship with.

My ex-wife I met when she was 22 and I was 25. She had one partner before me that she was with from 15-21. We were together for 15 years and had 3 children together and she cheated on me with a 21yo nursing assistant when she was 37.

Moral of the story, sloots gonna sloot.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Kev1972 again.

10-01-2020, 01:51 PM

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#8884

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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩

What you’re saying is a fair point but I think this is just an agree to disagree thing. If I told someone I’ve been with 40 women they might have the same outlook on it and think I’m more than likely to be unfaithful in the future and then continue not to pursue anything further with me even though there’s no chance of me being unfaithful in the future. When/if I’m asked I always say lower numbers than what it actually is and I’ll still continue to do that for the reasons I have said. It’s inevitable in a lot of relationships that lies are told and what-not do no doubt in a few months time or something I’ll be here writing a thread about how a girl had lied to me and I imagine there’ll be several people remembering these messaging and hit me with the “you reap what you sow” which is fair.

Am I the only person on here that lowers the figures of the amount of people they’ve actually slept with...?

I mean I can't lie because I honestly don't know. If you put a gun to my head and asked me I'd tell you to go ahead and pull the trigger because death would better than remembering some of the vile women who stole my precious seed

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10-01-2020, 01:52 PM

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#8885

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Holy fk guys.
I was resting for few month from dating apps (mostly cos of 0 matches hehe). Then changed my bio to "nothing serious" and tried to be direct.
So i was on a date 2 days ago. Again girl acted super cool and friendly. She was even talking about how she can't feel chemistry with other guys but not with me. I thought well let's try smth new since she is showing high interest. Messaged her "good morning and have a productive day" next morning. She replied immediately. Good sign in my books. In the evening i decided to ask her for another date on a weekend. Texted 3-4 messages about a day back and forth, then i asked "do you have any plans for a weekend?". And she left me on read. I waited almost 24h and messaged her "you are a good actress". She replied "look at the app".
I thought okay. Maybe that evening when i asked her somth came up and she messaged me in the morning smth like

-hey, got buisy that night. I'm free sunday.

Little did i know. She only messaged me after my "actress" remark and it was a screen of her message about weekend but it didn't come through due to error. So insted of just hit "send again" she decided to not reply AT ALL.
And even used it like a solid reason not to.
I was like lol

I swear women are getting off toying with men.

10-01-2020, 05:27 PM

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#8886

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

If it comes up, I don't lie about mine.

you dating college kids?
i haven't been asked how many since my late 20's.
by women.

My single buddy's asked me on a trip a few yrs back.
but only because they knew me before college and knew i'd only been with a handful before marriage and more post divorce.

10-01-2020, 06:22 PM

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#8887

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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩

you dating college kids?
i haven't been asked how many since my late 20's.
by women.

My single buddy's asked me on a trip a few yrs back.
but only because they knew me before college and knew i'd only been with a handful before marriage and more post divorce.

No. Haven't even had a guy I've dated ask. I've had guy friends ask, though. Or it's come up in conversation because we were talking about certain things. It's not something I hide or am ashamed of though, so if I'm asked I'm honest about it.

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10-01-2020, 08:01 PM

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#8888

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Anyone else find that women have a broader, more diverse set of traits (physical or otherwise) that they find attractive vs men?

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10-01-2020, 08:12 PM

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#8889

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Anyone else find that women have a broader, more diverse set of traits (physical or otherwise) that they find attractive vs men?

Yup.

I've known about that for a minute.

Any guy saying that all women care about is looks or they only like one type of guy (like only Chad or Tyrone) is delusional and doesn't know what they're talking about.

Just like us men, women have different taste in men. Sure there are still attributes about men women universally might like like broad shoulders, arms, ass, etc but overall not every woman is gonna like the same type of dude.

10-01-2020, 08:16 PM

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#8890

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Originally Posted By randomuser12345⏩

Holy fk guys.
I was resting for few month from dating apps (mostly cos of 0 matches hehe). Then changed my bio to "nothing serious" and tried to be direct.
So i was on a date 2 days ago. Again girl acted super cool and friendly. She was even talking about how she can't feel chemistry with other guys but not with me. I thought well let's try smth new since she is showing high interest. Messaged her "good morning and have a productive day" next morning. She replied immediately. Good sign in my books. In the evening i decided to ask her for another date on a weekend. Texted 3-4 messages about a day back and forth, then i asked "do you have any plans for a weekend?". And she left me on read. I waited almost 24h and messaged her "you are a good actress". She replied "look at the app".
I thought okay. Maybe that evening when i asked her somth came up and she messaged me in the morning smth like

-hey, got buisy that night. I'm free sunday.

Little did i know. She only messaged me after my "actress" remark and it was a screen of her message about weekend but it didn't come through due to error. So insted of just hit "send again" she decided to not reply AT ALL.
And even used it like a solid reason not to.
I was like lol

I swear women are getting off toying with men.

Yeah she's just playing games, just take that L and keep trying.

10-01-2020, 11:53 PM

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#8891

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Have a date planned for late October w/ a classmate. Would be earlier but we have so many tests/exams this month. Also the whole class was forced to do a “personality exercise”. Learned that I need to stop being so hyperactive lol Energy levels over 9000

Anyways besides the classmate I downloaded hinge. Not bad. Talking to a select few men since others have a dry personality for me.

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10-02-2020, 05:21 AM

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#8892

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Anyone else find that women have a broader, more diverse set of traits (physical or otherwise) that they find attractive vs men?

I've been attracted to all different types of men. The one thing that doesn't waver is I don't like heavy guys. I've liked full head of hair to bald. Have already spoken about this at length, height doesn't much matter. As long as they're taller than me. For me, I need physical attraction but the most important thing is a mental connection and chemistry.

Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Have a date planned for late October w/ a classmate. Would be earlier but we have so many tests/exams this month. Also the whole class was forced to do a “personality exercise”. Learned that I need to stop being so hyperactive lol Energy levels over 9000

Anyways besides the classmate I downloaded hinge. Not bad. Talking to a select few men since others have a dry personality for me.

Oh sucks you have to wait so long for date with classmate. I might try Hinge in a few weeks. Maybe once it's been 2 months since I ended it with FWB. Still on the fence about it.

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10-02-2020, 07:55 AM

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#8893

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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩

Yup.

I've known about that for a minute.

Any guy saying that all women care about is looks or they only like one type of guy (like only Chad or Tyrone) is delusional and doesn't know what they're talking about.

Just like us men, women have different taste in men. Sure there are still attributes about men women universally might like like broad shoulders, arms, ass, etc but overall not every woman is gonna like the same type of dude.

it's cope on the part of dudes who can't accept it isn't their looks that is the problem it is them and their lack of social skills and an inability to talk to women with confidence.
I'm a decent looking guy and post divorce was in shape but had a rough time getting dates with women.
I didn't give up and just kept trying until I figured out I was putting it on a pedestal.
Once I stopped caring if I got laid women started trying to make me care about sex with them if that makes sense.

Hell, I got more dates after I gained weight than when I was lean because I was no longer awkward around women.
when you are awkward they can sense it and it turns them off.

before covid I Parked down at the local arena.
majority of what I saw heading to my car in the summer after work were pretty women with average looking dudes who clearly didn't lift and dressed like tools heading to events or Hockey games together.

10-02-2020, 12:32 PM

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#8894

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Oh sucks you have to wait so long for date with classmate. I might try Hinge in a few weeks. Maybe once it's been 2 months since I ended it with FWB. Still on the fence about it.

Im fine with it. I already deal with his personality for 5hrs Monday-Thursday in class lol Won’t expect anything serious since we’re both the “loud” students. Our personalities might be too much alike.

I say give hinge a try when you are over your FWB mama legz. Never give up <3

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10-02-2020, 01:28 PM

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#8895

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Im fine with it. I already deal with his personality for 5hrs Monday-Thursday in class lol Won’t expect anything serious since we’re both the “loud” students. Our personalities might be too much alike.

I say give hinge a try when you are over your FWB mama legz. Never give up <3

lol at both being the loud students. Maybe it'll work out great. Never know.

Meh. I'm still thinking about it.

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10-02-2020, 02:12 PM

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#8896

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Fuk off covid

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10-02-2020, 02:16 PM

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#8897

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Fuk off covid

Did you catch it?

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10-02-2020, 02:41 PM

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#8898

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Did you catch it?

Nope (as far as I'm aware), just complicates dating.

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10-02-2020, 03:13 PM

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#8899

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Nope (as far as I'm aware), just complicates dating.

Oh, true. Sucks that most things aren't open and if they are you have to wear a mask. So unenjoyable.

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10-02-2020, 04:20 PM

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#8900

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Anyone else find that women have a broader, more diverse set of traits (physical or otherwise) that they find attractive vs men?

Men are less homogenous than women, both physically and otherwise, so my guess is this might be a result of evolution.

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10-02-2020, 09:17 PM

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#8901

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

lol at both being the loud students. Maybe it'll work out great. Never know.

Meh. I'm still thinking about it.

Lol I have a big mouth. Maybe. Knew he and (three others) liked me when they started talking when the instructor forced me to read off every question.

He’s only 21 which is something I don’t go for, but I told him something not serious is fine. He agreed lol

I think you really should mama legz. Just let yourself heal then give hinge a shot.

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10-03-2020, 07:49 AM

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#8902

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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩

it's cope on the part of dudes who can't accept it isn't their looks that is the problem it is them and their lack of social skills and an inability to talk to women with confidence.
I'm a decent looking guy and post divorce was in shape but had a rough time getting dates with women.
I didn't give up and just kept trying until I figured out I was putting it on a pedestal.
Once I stopped caring if I got laid women started trying to make me care about sex with them if that makes sense.

Hell, I got more dates after I gained weight than when I was lean because I was no longer awkward around women.
when you are awkward they can sense it and it turns them off.

before covid I Parked down at the local arena.
majority of what I saw heading to my car in the summer after work were pretty women with average looking dudes who clearly didn't lift and dressed like tools heading to events or Hockey games together.

Yeah a guy can be good looking but if he doesn't have a good personality and good social skills, he's gonna fuk it up every time.

What kills me is that otaku would always use his good looking friends as examples to prove his argument and even though they most likely attracted late teen to early 20s women with their looks alone, he admitted they were idiots and so would fuk it up every time for themselves so idk why he kept using those examples.

Plus women who are in their mid 20s and above ain't gonna deal with a good looking guy who's an idiot or lacks social skills/a good personality. Casually? Maybe but seriously? Nah.

10-03-2020, 09:07 AM

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#8903

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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩

Plus women who are in their mid 20s and above ain't gonna deal with a good looking guy who's an idiot or lacks social skills/a good personality. Casually? Maybe but seriously? Nah.

That’s exactly Otaku’s point. I’m not quite in this bucket since I’m probably a 7, but also not top tier looks than can easily keep casually attracting. if I was a 5, it would be purely my stability and long term values that would attract a woman looking to settle down.

Is that bad? Not necessarily I guess. Clearly there’s traits there that make you attractive as a husband and father, above the rest. But in the evolutionary sense, these other guys all got low commitment freeroll sex, and there’s a bitterness about that I can understand.

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10-03-2020, 01:08 PM

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#8904

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Lazy responses... neeeeexxxt

Go seek attention elsewhere, timewaster.

Every man needs to implement this philosophy, but hey we all know they won’t.

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10-03-2020, 01:24 PM

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#8905

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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩

Plus women who are in their mid 20s and above ain't gonna deal with a good looking guy who's an idiot or lacks social skills/a good personality. Casually? Maybe but seriously? Nah.

Every mid 20s friend I have they love a social autistic man. However, they’re the bossy type and can easily “control” those men. Kinda sad in a way. Hate interacting w/ them when we’re all in a group.

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10-03-2020, 01:24 PM

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#8906

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Lazy responses... neeeeexxxt

Go seek attention elsewhere, timewaster.

Every man needs to implement this philosophy, but hey we all know they won’t.

That will never happen either lmaoo

Sometimes your gender is a little too desperate, or don’t have the balls to say something

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10-03-2020, 01:27 PM

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#8907

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

That will never happen either lmaoo

Sometimes your gender is a little too desperate, or don’t have the balls to say something

Men are pathetic slaves to pussy, srs

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10-03-2020, 02:49 PM

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#8908

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Every mid 20s friend I have they love a social autistic man. However, they’re the bossy type and can easily “control” those men. Kinda sad in a way. Hate interacting w/ them when we’re all in a group.

Well of course those are the more domineering women that would say that. Any women who's submissive and feminine? They don't wanna deal with guys like that.

Women who are the bossy type hate my ass lol.