smashing randoms all the time is entirely unfulfilling (srs)

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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩

Sex is boringer than fapping to porn. Vaginas are so loose and you can't see her hotness when you're smashing. THe view sucks. I just want a ****ing girlfriend.

You've phucked one girl and had to pay for it your opinion is invalid

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06-11-2016, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩

fukn lol if you think it will make you happy

of course, it's something that we naturally want to do, and i can't fukn stop.

at first, sure it's good for your ego. after a while it's worse than being celibate (srs)

source: generally slay 1-3/week

any other legit perspectives on this?

Banging 3 new girls a week.

Lol

Sure you do bro....

In regards to the idea of fast hookups with girls you don't know very well doe, I'd have to agree, it's over rated. I'd much rather have monogamous girlfriends.

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06-11-2016, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted By Destor⏩

People generally don't go to prostitutes for fulfillment, they're like next-level masturbation. There's no expectation of anything more on either side.

Maybe these days because of condoms and the general thirst and inflated price of pussy. These days usually only the super-rich can get any real fulfillment from pros because they're guaranteed the whole package. But for thousands of years prostitutes fulfilled the desires of many common men.

You can't compare barebacking and dominating a sexy (usually young) woman to masturbation. There's just absolutely no comparison.

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06-11-2016, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted By fox994⏩

You've phucked one girl and had to pay for it your opinion is invalid

I've ****ed 4 girls you fukcing ugly ******* kunt

06-11-2016, 08:13 PM

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Dunno, does the work tho and I feel alright. But I'm still young so I guess I need to find out by myself

06-11-2016, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩

I've ****ed 4 girls you fukcing ugly ******* kunt

Oh my bad youre obviously an expert on sex with a body count like that. I bet you have to use your toes to keep track of how many times youve had sex now.

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06-11-2016, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩

fukn lol if you think it will make you happy

of course, it's something that we naturally want to do, and i can't fukn stop.

at first, sure it's good for your ego. after a while it's worse than being celibate (srs)

source: generally slay 1-3/week

any other legit perspectives on this?

It's not worse than being celibate but I agree it's a good ego boost for a bit but then it's so unfulfilling

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06-11-2016, 08:39 PM

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This is one of those things that you can't relate to unless you've experienced it yourself. virgin crew

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06-11-2016, 08:46 PM

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agreed. i've only had a couple relationships, rest were ONS/hookups/FWB, 40'ish girls in total. over the past couple years I started to get REALLY bored of it. just felt so empty and unfulfilling to keep hooking up. such a waste of time and energy. mostly did it because i was insecure and wanted the validation and ego boost i guess

now I'm all about dat dere legit dating and am back in a relationship. no part of me wants to go back to hooking up nor do I feel like I'm "missing out" on anything

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Originally Posted By FitnessBlue⏩

It's true OP.
But being in a standard relationship is just as much a pain.
*double edged sword*

Less to lose when living the bachelor life though.

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Good advice brah

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06-12-2016, 01:01 AM

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op is right

06-12-2016, 01:09 AM

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Originally Posted By RookieGER⏩

unfulfilling might be wrong word..

but the second I finish with randoms.. the desire is all gone, I just want to be left alone, eat pizza and watch a movie.
instead I have to somehow talk my way out of the situation and make up a ridiculous excuse to gtfo

with gf material there's never an attraction low after smashing I feel

Rather jack off than have sex with random sluts, srs. The fact you just want to get off and then have them immediately leave shows how much of a slave to sexual desires you are (all of us men are). This is one benefit I get from cutting; my libido diminishes and I can just concentrate on other things.

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Rather jack off than have sex with random sluts, srs. The fact you just want to get off and then have them immediately leave shows how much of a slave to sexual desires you are (all of us men are). This is one benefit I get from cutting; my libido diminishes and I can just concentrate on other things.

Had a girl over last night and it was awkward explaining to her that I want her to gtfo after I banged her. Pushed her off, and led her out after. It's funny how that immediate sense of detachment happens after you bang randoms, and to be honest, it's not a great feeling (afterwards). Because, what is the legacy of this? Sure, you can bang a lot of girls etc, but if you have a strong conscience and desire to be with someone that legitimately likes who for you are etc.... you're gonna be in a bit of a mental mess.

Brb, would rather have 1 amazing gf rather than random hot sloots who are only there for a bang.

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06-12-2016, 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩

Had a girl over last night and it was awkward explaining to her that I want her to gtfo after I banged her. Pushed her off, and led her out after. It's funny how that immediate sense of detachment happens after you bang randoms, and to be honest, it's not a great feeling (afterwards). Because, what is the legacy of this? Sure, you can bang a lot of girls etc, but if you have a strong conscience and desire to be with someone thatlegitimately likes who for you are etc.... you're gonna be in a bit of a mental mess.

Brb, would rather have 1 amazing gf rather than random hot sloots who are only there for a bang.

I was dating a girl from Tinder and as I was fcuking her she looked over at the mirror and commented on how good we looked. Ridiculous narcissism; and I knew she was only into me for my body/looks. Sounds weird but it did kinda suck to know that was the main reason.

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06-12-2016, 01:31 AM

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There is a really great quote I heard once about money which goes something like "Money isn't everything but not having it is" I'd say the same thing applies to sex. Frequent casual sex isn't going to be able to give you the fulfillment your looking for in life but being unable to get laid can cause a host of self-esteem issues.

People chit talk that people shouldn't require someone elses validation to be happy but ultimately it is an important part of being a man. Receiving sexual validation can make a big difference in the quality of someones life.

"The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventure – which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value." - Ayn Rand

06-12-2016, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

I was dating a girl from Tinder and as I was fcuking her she looked over at the mirror and commented on how good we looked. Ridiculous narcissism; and I knew she was only into me for my body/looks. Sounds weird but it did kinda suck to know that was the main reason.

Exactly, it's a cheap feeling. A very fleeting one at that. I think humans deep down crave that sense of belonging, especially when someone really appreciates YOU (not your damn money, car, house etc). That's happiness IMO

Sure, we have a biological urge for banging chicks... but to get "lost" in the midst of chasing tail... doesn't seem rewarding. In particular, I feel this is true in our dominated Western society culture that mainstream media perpetuates of - guys who can't get laid (losers)... and guys who can bang countless women (stud).

As we are discussing, the reality of things is more complicated than that simplification.

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06-12-2016, 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted By fox994⏩

You've phucked one girl and had to pay for it your opinion is invalid

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06-12-2016, 01:47 AM

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i think this has more to do with finding yourself and doing things your way vs. living another dude's dream

you (every miscer) puts so much into the idea of getting girls and forget everything else that you really love, sure porking is fun but it's not as "great" as we say it is when it's not with someone meaningful to us, no homo but when emotions are involved, it's 350x better... it's easy to get lost in things because of others as well, when someone wants something and you can do that thing at low cost, it's easy to do that thing just cause you can (even if you don't want it) because it's simply another man's goal, this doesn't have to just relate to smashing

find what you really want and do it, no ones gonna judge, and if you wanna smash less, then do it, no one gives a chit... and honestly no one cares if you smash so frequently either... so seriously, just do it so you can enjoy it and not feel it's a chore or forced

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Originally Posted By TheGrizzlyMan⏩

i think this has more to do with finding yourself and doing things your way vs. living another dude's dream

you (every miscer) puts so much into the idea of getting girls and forget everything else that you really love, sure porking is fun but it's not as "great" as we say it is when it's not with someone meaningful to us, no homo but when emotions are involved, it's 350x better... it's easy to get lost in things because of others as well, when someone wants something and you can do that thing at low cost, it's easy to do that thing just cause you can (even if you don't want it) because it's simply another man's goal, this doesn't have to just relate to smashing

find what you really want and do it, no ones gonna judge, and if you wanna smash less, then do it, no one gives a chit... and honestly no one cares if you smash so frequently either... so seriously, just do it so you can enjoy it and not feel it's a chore or forced

Took the words out of my mouth. Sums up what i was trying to say.

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Seeking fulfillment through women is a worthless endeavor

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any of you brahs wana aware my unaware ******* ass where you go to meet randoms that end up smashing you?
wana join in on this unfulfilling time but I need starting point this summer

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Can confirm it gets boring rather quick.

Finally found myself a sweet, loyal gf that I can actually imagine a future with, and I wouldn't want to trade it for anything srs.
I'm still realistic of what can or may happen, but it beats pounding random pussy you have no connection with by a mile.

To each it's own ofcourse.

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Rather jack off than have sex with random sluts, srs. The fact you just want to get off and then have them immediately leave shows how much of a slave to sexual desires you are (all of us men are). This is one benefit I get from cutting; my libido diminishes and I can just concentrate on other things.

this. the actual effort in going to have sex with a girl is just so fukcing retarded you might as well fap then do what you want. ONS and tinder hookups in your area just leads to drama and unnecessary ****.

for prostitution, you pay the bitch to leave.

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Lol @ all these poofs here claiming they smash 7-8 girls per week...99% of you guys are major sadkunts. Most men approx. 70% smash like 4-10 different women barely in their entire life but then again it depends on the girl. Nothing to brag about a skank you hookup with

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Sex is overrated.

Sex with randoms is VERY overrated.

The list of things I'd rather do than plow some whore from Tinder could probably stretch to the moon and back.

But until miscers experience that post-nut depression during which you realise what a waste of time it all is, they will continue to glorify random hookups.