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post 1454105733 07-23-2016, 02:28 AM
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Next time throw a hint and tell them that you are running low on desert or drinks, they will get the dig... Not everybody thinks like u , some people are good people but unfortunately their parents failed to treach them few things .
post 1454105833 07-23-2016, 02:32 AM
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If I buy a box of drinks with my mate, we always go halves or I'll cover the few extra dollars. I give mates lifts and don't think anything of it, friends help each out and pay their way. If they don't pay their way they are just using you and you should probably kick em to the curb. Just my opinion bro, but there is no excuse for ripping your mates off.

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post 1454106093 07-23-2016, 02:38 AM
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You invited them. You're the host. Don't throw parties you can't afford.

Are they supposed to be obligated because YOU decided to spend money? If you hadn't invited them they would probably have still been at home.
post 1454106283 07-23-2016, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
What the fukk happened to loyalty and friendship these days?

I moved into a new apartment a few months ago. Invited my bros over a few times. Nobody ever brought a single beer or a piece of food into my place. I would always have the fridge stacked with beer and food and they would never say even "thank you" for anything. A couple of weeks ago I ordered UFC 200 and decided to invite by bros (literally my brothers). They asked me if I ordered it on my own and I said "of course". None of them chipped in or anything or brought anything with them to my place. They just stopped by, drank the beers, ate, and left. It would've been a nice gesture of them to at least bring a few beers in or chip in for the even but NOTHING. Is this what people have come down to nowadays? Am I the only one dealing with this chit?
Get better friends. Your friends are fuking *******s.
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post 1454106333 07-23-2016, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted By pinwheels⏩
You invited them. You're the host. Don't throw parties you can't afford.

Are they supposed to be obligated because YOU decided to spend money? If you didn't incur them they would probably still be at home.
Negged.

Common courtesy.

If you are invited somewhere for a party or whatever, guests with half a brain will bring at least something.
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post 1454106363 07-23-2016, 02:44 AM
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never turn up empty handed crew

lame friends OP, just call them out for being cheap
post 1454106523 07-23-2016, 02:49 AM
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Your friends/Bros are just selfish, disrespectful people.

I have a fridge full of beer and always have too much food to go around when I invite people over, but my friends still bring their own drinks and chip in with food.

It's called not being a chit person lol. You can't change your legit brothers but you can change your friends
post 1454106543 07-23-2016, 02:50 AM
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Originally Posted By gainzcheckingin⏩
Damn dude you are either a complete ******* or a FA cynic

One time I ordered pizza for me and a buddy and he didn't have any cash on him. Gave him two weeks to mention the $20, but nothing. Went to grab a bite after gym and casually brought it up, still nothing. Deleted him off phone instantly after that srs. Money shows someone's true character
You trippin. Why do something for somebody and be bitter about it? If I do something for somebody I don't need it back. Unless we specifically agree that it is to be paid back. Some of y'all need to stop doing stuff for people or make it more clear what you want beforehand. He probably didn't think to pay it back because he knows he would have done the same thing and not expected it back. You are petty.
post 1454106683 07-23-2016, 02:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MidnightSun⏩
Negged.

Common courtesy.

If you are invited somewhere for a party or whatever, guests with half a brain will bring at least something.
post 1454107533 07-23-2016, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted By SeymourCake⏩
If you revolve your friendship around beer, then it's probably you that's the problem and not them. Just because you do good for others doesn't mean you should expect anything back in return. Be generous for the sake of people a generous person.
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post 1454110763 07-23-2016, 04:48 AM
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Originally Posted By MidnightSun⏩
Negged.

Common courtesy.

If you are invited somewhere for a party or whatever, guests with half a brain will bring at least something.
This. If I'm going anywhere, even for a BS talk, I'll bring something over. Beer, food, etc. It's just common courtesy like you said.
post 1454111173 07-23-2016, 04:56 AM
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Originally Posted By brownbrah113⏩
its true, in today's world if you are of not any material gain or potential material gain to them they will treat u like chit.

GF is my only friendnow pretty much, cut out all the *******s who show up when they need help moving or invite to a stag and dough to raise money for their disgusting marriage, sucks srs.

Friends (also people / acquaintances) are more genuine in school when everybody is broke af and just cares about partying and fukkin around.
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post 1454111193 07-23-2016, 04:57 AM
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LOL @ you calling them "literally my brothers"

they aren't your brothers, they're are your LEECHES dude

LMAO you're getting CUCKED by those guys
post 1454112093 07-23-2016, 05:16 AM
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When I host, I take care of everything, and it is reciprocated when my buddies host at their house, but then again we're not broke college kids anymore.
post 1454112183 07-23-2016, 05:17 AM
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lol i understand but OP you have to be more up front

what's the big deal in asking friends to chip in for things
post 1454112363 07-23-2016, 05:21 AM
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Originally Posted By smallearsbrah⏩
lol i understand but OP you have to be more up front

what's the big deal in asking friends to chip in for things
It's all about common courtesy. I don't mind paying for chit. You never go to somebody's house empty handed.
post 1454112773 07-23-2016, 05:29 AM
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You just have ****ty friends OP, my bros and I basically fight over who gets to pick up the tab or bring food/alcohol
post 1454113383 07-23-2016, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Perfect example. I bought 3 VIP tickets to the NY Pro a few weeks ago. I invited my brother and my buddy who are into lifting n chit. Bought a case of beers and a couple pizza pies before heading out. All together this chit cost me about $400. You'd think someone would say thank you or something? Haven't heard from my buddy since.
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post 1454113493 07-23-2016, 05:47 AM
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Feels bad for you, man.

All my friends are tight with each other, and loyal as fuk to one another. We'll buy each other food all the time, bare least cook for one another. Respect the rule of dibs with girls even if one is all over us, and chip in on anything group related.

Either get new bros, or stop being a pushover and demand stuff from them. If you order a PPV event, let them know that they have to chip to watch it because the chit is expensive as fuk, whether that's on the actual program or on food/alcohol. Don't be a sissy.
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I don't know these feels, in my circle its customary for hosts to be left with so much beer and food they don't know wat to do with it. SRS.

Get friends that at least reciprocate your gestures.
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From my experience, people pitch in if they can, if they got the money. But if they can't, the host doesn't hold it against them, no one told them to host, they take the initiative and they can serve with what only they can. Usually people do pitch in some way or another, so I never really had the experience of absolutely just grimey guest really (other then being loud and obnoxious, and occasionally coming over uninvited).

Idk man, sounds like you just got chit company bro.
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
Yeah man, true story. The tix were $100 each. You'd think he'd offer to pay half at least or bring at least a 6 pack over. Haven't heard from him since.
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why not just ask friends politely to bring some stuff?

I have a mate who literally always goes above and beyond for others in terms of buying things and bringing things, learnt the hard way who were his real friends in the end
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Yeah man, true story. The tix were $100 each. You'd think he'd offer to pay half at least or bring at least a 6 pack over. Haven't heard from him since.
Did he ask you to buy them for him? Or did you just buy them, give one to him, and hoped that he'd pay back?
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Originally Posted By rugby1994⏩
why not just ask friends politely to bring some stuff?

I have a mate who literally always goes above and beyond for others in terms of buying things and bringing things, learnt the hard way who were his real friends in the end
That's not how I roll boyo. If I'm inviting someone over, I won't tell them to bring anything.
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Originally Posted By VocelLoser⏩
Did he ask you to buy them for him? Or did you just buy them, give one to him, and hoped that he'd pay back?
I bought them for myself and my bros. My other bro couldn't go so I called my "buddy" up asking him if he wants to come. I didn't expect any money from him for the ticket, but common courtesy would call for a "hey man, so how much I owe you for the ticket?" or even a basic "thank you" would suffice.
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I guess the point I'm trying to make is that people are ungrateful fukks. They only want to be around you when they need something. If you don't call them, then they won't reach out to you.......................
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
I bought them for myself and my bros. My other bro couldn't go so I called my "buddy" up asking him if he wants to come. I didn't expect any money from him for the ticket, but common courtesy would call for a "hey man, so how much I owe you for the ticket?" or even a basic "thank you" would suffice.
I can agree with the thank you, but passively hoping for an offer to pay when you had no intentions of accepting his money reeks of femininity. If you didn't even want money for it in the first place, then who cares if he does or doesn't offer to pay? IMO stop treating him to chit if thank yous aren't given, but also IMO stop wanting an empty gesture of kindness that is, by all accounts, frivolous.

Give tickets > Don't want money > "Hey how much for these?" > "Don't worry about it, bro!" > Don't get compensation > Watch event
Give tickets > Don't want money > Don't get compensation > Watch event

Same chit is transpiring, but without all the fakeness that you claim to hate. Jah feel?
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Originally Posted By VocelLoser⏩
I can agree with the thank you, but passively hoping for an offer to pay when you had no intentions of accepting his money reeks of femininity. If you didn't even want money for it in the first place, then who cares if he does or doesn't offer to pay? IMO stop treating him to chit if thank yous aren't given, but also IMO stop wanting an empty gesture of kindness that is, by all accounts, frivolous.

Give tickets > Don't want money > "Hey how much for these?" > "Don't worry about it, bro!" > Don't get compensation > Watch event
Give tickets > Don't want money > Don't get compensation > Watch event

Same chit is transpiring, but without all the fakeness that you claim to hate. Jah feel?
Gotcha bud.
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
I guess the point I'm trying to make is that people are ungrateful fukks. They only want to be around you when they need something. If you don't call them, then they won't reach out to you.......................
That's human nature though. Socializing sucks the energy out of people.
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