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post 1455626563 08-01-2016, 04:27 PM
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lol @ asking girls out. Good luck with not getting any poosey after spending a few $$ because now she knows that she can't be slutty by sleeping with you on the first date because females today think guys who take girls out are hard to come by. Instead Chad and Tyrone spent 0$ hooking up with her on "girls' night out
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Not shocking. 90% of misc threads are based on tinder.

lol'd but then how do ugly dudes pull 8+/10s
social circle, status, fame game, money, clown game, etc.
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Originally Posted By muzikslasher⏩
lol @ asking girls out. Good luck with not getting any poosey after spending a few $$ because now she knows that she can't be slutty by sleeping with you on the first date because females today think guys who take girls out are hard to come by. Instead Chad and Tyrone spent 0$ hooking up with her on "girls' night out
If I care enough to ask a girl out, I'm not after just pussy. I know how to play the game. after some time, If I want to be sexually exclusive I'm not afraid to talk about it.
post 1455633953 08-01-2016, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
I did this too when I bothered with online dating. The amount of girls who looked decent in all the pics that I could tell were actually ugly trash just by their voice was astounding.
lmao yup.

So many have raspy, masculine voices.
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Originally Posted By muzikslasher⏩
lol @ asking girls out. Good luck with not getting any poosey after spending a few $$ because now she knows that she can't be slutty by sleeping with you on the first date because females today think guys who take girls out are hard to come by. Instead Chad and Tyrone spent 0$ hooking up with her on "girls' night out
Have you tried not being poor? If you're worried about spending 100 for a date I've got some bad news for you.
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post 1455636593 08-01-2016, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
what indicated to you that they were trash from their voice?
their trashy voice.

plus you get more insight into their personality pretty quickly.
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I never do although I'm pretty shy too. I pretty much rely on tinder or going to a bar unfortunately. I only know one friend in fact who cold approaches in everyday situations and he's had bad results from it..flakes, disinterest, etc... The days of courting women are over. They call the shots anyways. Might as well just ask them to hang out
post 1455646483 08-01-2016, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By midcoastking33⏩
fishing with delusion
Not really, if u look like u lift in an environment where you can stick out with your shirt off and make males next to you look like skinnyfat dogmeat you have a huge one up.

I know it must've triggered you when someone who's ~5 inches shorter than you weighs more than you do, less miscing more lifting.
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Originally Posted By SageofsixPaths⏩
Not really, if u look like u lift in an environment where you can stick out with your shirt off and make males next to you look like skinnyfat dogmeat you have a huge one up.

I know it must've triggered you when someone who's ~5 inches shorter than you weighs more than you do, less miscing more lifting.
I actually agree with you, flaunt what you got when the circumstances allow it. I'm talking about situations where alcohol likely isnt involved though
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Originally Posted By WrathOfPecan⏩
The trick with the shy women is that you have to go slower for them to warm up -- its like a shy neighbor's cat, you can't just walk up and try to pet it or it'll bolt.

Suppose her name is Tina, then you just say "Good morning, Tina" or something very short where she hears her name for a week or so. If she's particularly shy, she won't even say anything back initially, but after a while she should warm up to you and become more comfortable. It should be obvious in her body language when she is more receptive.

With shy women you just have to go slower, and not get frustrated if you don't get much in reciprocation for a while. Eventually they get comfortable, and then you can start conversing with them more, and then start with casual stuff like inviting them to grab some coffee with you after work, etc. That's just the way it is; if you approach them in a too direct/extroverted way they just retreat and you won't reach them at all.
FWIW I think this guy ^^^ is on the right track. My husband was a co-worker. We saw each other at work, went out for lunches w/other co-workers. He asked me out to a Halloween party. Sounded more fun that just sitting home.
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I never really get asked out at all.
Guys initiate chit-chat with me a lot, but that's it lol

Online I'm bombarded, so maybe you're onto something.
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Its intimidating asking women out because when I was young I experienced girls going out of their way to make you look like a rapist or completely below them in order to decline your advances. Whats more I feel like even interacting with a vagina comes off as trying to hit on them or make a move. While ago this girl was doing "tricep push downs" with absolutely garbage form. I walked over between my set and showed her how to do it. She seemed dumb founded and I got the impression her and her friend both thought it was my stab at chatting her up, when really I just cringed at her failure lifts.

As an adult I have too much pride to approach a female and make her feel like the one making a decision and having myself and others at her disposal. I will place a chip on no ones shoulder

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post 1455680463 08-01-2016, 10:33 PM
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I have/still do. As long as the signs are there (and they are strong enough that I dont have to rationalize the whole thing)
post 1455681713 08-01-2016, 10:45 PM
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I've only asked one girl out in my entire life and that was over 5 years ago during my junior year of high school. She said no.
post 1455687033 08-01-2016, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Turbomunkey⏩
Its intimidating asking women out because when I was young I experienced girls going out of their way to make you look like a rapist or completely below them in order to decline your advances. Whats more I feel like even interacting with a vagina comes off as trying to hit on them or make a move. While ago this girl was doing "tricep push downs" with absolutely garbage form. I walked over between my set and showed her how to do it. She seemed dumb founded and I got the impression her and her friend both thought it was my stab at chatting her up, when really I just cringed at her failure lifts.
Are you a PT? People tend to find that offensive. I'm a PT and wouldn't even do that if I was off shift unless someone was at a real risk of injury. It's the PT on shift's job to be fixing that ****. Bring it to their attention - unless, you're really trying to use it to pick up lol
post 1455688533 08-01-2016, 11:54 PM
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Women are being more assertive these days.
post 1455691403 08-02-2016, 12:30 AM
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Originally Posted By yamanbt⏩
I feel you on this. I mostly date online, but I like to have at least one phone convo with the sloot before we meet up. My text game is trash, and I don't understand how people can truly communicate by just texting. Who was vocal tonality, laughter, and real-time interaction? I like to hear the girl's voice and feel her vibe before meeting her. It puts me 100% more at ease on the date. I always act like an autisticel if my only prior communication with the girl was via text.
bu-but I send audios through whatsapp! Thats something right?
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Originally Posted By Lunu⏩
I never really get asked out at all.
Guys initiate chit-chat with me a lot, but that's it lol

Online I'm bombarded, so maybe you're onto something.
finally a female miscers input
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
lol'd but then how do ugly dudes pull 8+/10s
yes can someone aware me on this

I went to a MLS game and I saw fat dudes with 7+/10s
post 1455864683 08-03-2016, 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Have you tried not being poor? If you're worried about spending 100 for a date I've got some bad news for you.
If you're not worried about just spending 100 dollars for no reason just send the money my way
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Have you tried not being poor? If you're worried about spending 100 for a date I've got some bad news for you.
I make good money but i will never NEVER spend a 100 for a first date lol and most girls dont expect it anyway, maybe you just date boring money grabbing whores. If i a girl cant accept this i dont want her.
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I usually ask them over not out.
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The whole cycle of

approach > drinks date > dinner date > smash date > relationship talk > "we need to discuss the future" > go no contact

gets really old especially with women around 30. Then there's messaging tinder matches on the off chance that one of the non-ugly ones actually has a sense of humour and isn't frigid. The whole dating scene is incredibly unrewarding.
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Originally Posted By Turbomunkey⏩
Its intimidating asking women out because when I was young I experienced girls going out of their way to make you look like a rapist or completely below them in order to decline your advances. Whats more I feel like even interacting with a vagina comes off as trying to hit on them or make a move. While ago this girl was doing "tricep push downs" with absolutely garbage form. I walked over between my set and showed her how to do it. She seemed dumb founded and I got the impression her and her friend both thought it was my stab at chatting her up, when really I just cringed at her failure lifts.

As an adult I have too much pride to approach a female and make her feel like the one making a decision and having myself and others at her disposal. I will place a chip on no ones shoulder

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this sounds absolutely horrible. It actually made my stomach hurt reading this.

I can't even imagine. I remember wanting to ask a guy out at my school once. I had to crowdsource how I would do it with my friends and I was so scared when it was time to do it, that the big hearted babe put me out of my misery, completed my asking him out for me and it was all good.

That alone made me compassionate for dudes on this front (even though I already was, but now I actually understood.) so to try to do it with the negative connotation of being the bad guy?
ffuuuukk that.

but then again the men of my community in particular are generally so confident and good at it, it was easy to think all men were used to it like that. That, however, is categorically false.
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Originally Posted By weddingsoup⏩
i used to until i learned how to make the most mind-blowing fleshlight out of a subway bag and a towel
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Originally Posted By sabrosoed18⏩
I prefer asking girls out irl than on apps/sites. If I didn't, I wouldn't have been with some of the girls I've been with. On top of that, most girls you approach irl don't expect it and are usually off the "market" so you get a step ahead of everyone else rather than that specific one receiving countless messages everyday by a bunch of thirsty whiteknight betas.As for your co-worker, don't sht where you eat. If you do, tread lightly by asking her number or giving her your number then flirt over text/calls and see if she's receptive.If not, better luck next time boyo.
Isn't that where most people usually meet their girl? At work?
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Originally Posted By Lunu⏩
Are you a PT? People tend to find that offensive. I'm a PT and wouldn't even do that if I was off shift unless someone was at a real risk of injury. It's the PT on shift's job to be fixing that ****. Bring it to their attention - unless, you're really trying to use it to pick up lol
I am not a PT. Maybe its a gym thing or a cultural thing, but gym patrons PT or not never address when someone is using garbage form. I do not think she was at risk of injury, but why not give someone information that will benefit them. I was not trying to pick her up, and if people find that gesture offensive they are probably juvenile as fuk. I have spent time in a MMA gym and currently at a Jiu Jitsu club, giving people input on their technique is not only good manners but its essential. Maybe its just me though.
Originally Posted By belleosent⏩
this sounds absolutely horrible. It actually made my stomach hurt reading this.

I can't even imagine. I remember wanting to ask a guy out at my school once. I had to crowdsource how I would do it with my friends and I was so scared when it was time to do it, that the big hearted babe put me out of my misery, completed my asking him out for me and it was all good.

That alone made me compassionate for dudes on this front (even though I already was, but now I actually understood.) so to try to do it with the negative connotation of being the bad guy?
ffuuuukk that.

but then again the men of my community in particular are generally so confident and good at it, it was easy to think all men were used to it like that. That, however, is categorically false.
Lol that was a cute story. Some women are tasteful about turning a guy down, some arent. It goes both ways though, no doubt some men have been approached and acted like an ass. Such is life..... if someone is rude about declining your advances then odds are you saved yourself some trouble.
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"Shy" Coworker UPDATE

So yesterday we were both working, so I said fuk it, and was just gonna flat out ask her out. Knees weak, arms were heavy, there was vommit on my sweater already etc... When I found her, before I could even speak, she invited me out for drinks that night after work (wot m8?). We had a GOOD night, and vibed really well, but now I'm realizing that she may not be as shy as I thought. She claims to be, but I'm just not buying it anymore. Anyway, we both agreed not to let our business spread at work, and we are gonna go to dinner sometime this week.
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