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Thread: Teen who was relentlessly bullied kills herself in front of her family

post 1473398501 12-01-2016, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
It is, and it is a big mess.

A big part of the problem is the popularly held belief that "their just words, it's not physical abuse". it is physical abuse, though. From the original thought of the bully, to the sounds waves that convey that thought, to the ear that received it and the brain that interprets it everything is physical. Everything is measurable and has observable (via the appropriate instruments) ramifications for both the perpetrator and the victim. unfortunately people are incredibly shortsighted in that they cannot observe these things necessarily through their own senses alone so it is either hard to fathom or they don't bother to think about it much at all, until something tragic happens.
naw bully has problems of his/her own and takes it either out on someone he/she knows is weaker or corners them
post 1473398631 12-01-2016, 06:07 PM
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post 1473398771 12-01-2016, 06:08 PM
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Where did she get the gun? Parents leave it lying around?
post 1473398791 12-01-2016, 06:08 PM
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Sorry, but what kind of tard kills themselves in front of their own family over bullying that was perpetrated by outsiders? Way to scar your family for life, Brandy.
post 1473399031 12-01-2016, 06:10 PM
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Made me teary. God damn. How people can bully to these extremes is way beyond my comprehension.
post 1473399661 12-01-2016, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
naw bully has problems of his/her own and takes it either out on someone he/she knows is weaker or corners them
That is the social dynamic typically going on, yes. Through the internet a bully can target someone that is "stronger" than them, whether they be stronger physically, socially, economically or whatever. Anonymity provides protection for the bully and makes any target, theoretically, vulnerable to attack despite the fact the bully may be the weaker person.

EDIT: It goes without saying that the bully has issues of their own.
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post 1473399871 12-01-2016, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By metafour⏩
Sorry, but what kind of tard kills themselves in front of their own family over bullying that was perpetrated by outsiders? Way to scar your family for life, Brandy.
This too

I would have at least taken the bullies down with me like a low tier Punisher cleansing the school
post 1473401221 12-01-2016, 06:29 PM
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Depression is a MF'er big time. Even someone who is in a relatively good position in life and has a lot going for them can feel that the world is ending. Mix anxiety in with that and it leads to all out panic attacks and this can happen.
post 1473402971 12-01-2016, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
Depression is a MF'er big time.Even someone who is in a relatively good position in life and has a lot going for them can feel that the world is ending. Mix anxiety in with that and it leads to all out panic attacks and this can happen.
Tell me about it, its a constant battle. And even people you think have everything in life are still plagued by it.
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post 1473409991 12-01-2016, 07:40 PM
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When you're 18, you haven't developed coping skills, and your brain hasn't finished growing to understand things like consequences. She literally felt she had no other option and that is sad. Those saying that she should have sucked it up because its "just bullying"....to someone who hasn't gone through life, independent and having grown as an adult....can't emotionally cope or deal with hardships. It takes years of life experience to be able to get through something like that...hell, take one look at the misc and all the FA's whining about not getting poon...if they were more mature, they'd realize that life does get better. She was simply a child who couldn't emotionally cope with the abuse she was getting and even the authorities shrugged their shoulders at her...she felt hopeless. I feel horrible for the family and I hope her bullies are feeling a world of pain and guilt.
post 1473410491 12-01-2016, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA⏩
what bothers me is the first few lines of the article

"Brandy Vela's bedroom is covered in Post-it notes. "You will always own a piece of my heart," says one. "You will never be forgotten," says another."

where the **** were these people when she was alive???
x2, This **** always happens. When someone 86's themselves. everyone comes out the woodworks, talking about how they're going to miss the person... yet didn't do **** to help them
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post 1473410871 12-01-2016, 07:48 PM
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post 1473411451 12-01-2016, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Comboking⏩
Only the strong survive, if she kills herself because of some petty bullying i cant imagine what she would of been like when she grew up

I was bullied from grade 4 to grade 12, due to that i had no friends, fat as fuk (almost 300), literally played video games 15hrs a day because too scared to go outside or to school most days, had sever anxiety, socially awkward as fuk, but you know what i pushed through their bs and knew i was the better person.
Now look at me, tall, aesthetic, decent physique, confident and charasmatic, have a good amount of close friends, and is quite lucky with the females.
It did take me all of college to attain those attributes but i finally made it.
coping is better than suicide i suppose
post 1473412151 12-01-2016, 07:59 PM
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Even if you decided this was your only course of action, why the fuk would you put your family thru the nightmare of watching it happen?

Go kill yourself in the woods or something ffs.
I call it "Celebration". It's sexual, and violent...

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post 1473412251 12-01-2016, 08:00 PM
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i2.cdn.cnn.com/cnnnext/dam/assets/161201140017-02-teen-suicide-cyberbullying-trnd-exlarge-169.jpg



CNN you are part of the problem. It was not necessary to have "exlarge" in that url.
I say good day to you, sir.
post 1473412801 12-01-2016, 08:05 PM
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"Vela killed herself this week, putting a gun to her chest while her family begged her not to"

Pathetic. If you're going to kill yourself leave your torso in tact for organ donation.
No need to be so self centered.



Negged for this twice so far: Meanwhile a sick kid at the hospital that desperately wants to live, is going to die in front of their parents because they couldn't get an organ in time.
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Originally Posted By NotBigEnough206⏩
Raising a 12 year old girl brahs.
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.

My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
This is the product of single mothers
post 1473413361 12-01-2016, 08:11 PM
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So sad
post 1473414571 12-01-2016, 08:24 PM
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Fukin lmao @ these "friends" coming out of the woodwork all of a sudden pretending to act shocked it happened, when we all damn well know they knew the WHOLE fukin time but didn't do **** about it

You can't honestly tell me they had no inkling of a clue that she was getting bullied.
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Wow I can't even imagine the trauma of pleading with your own daughter not to pull the trigger and then BOOM....over. goddamn that memory is going to haunt them forever. fuk.
post 1473415721 12-01-2016, 08:33 PM
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Just sad to think not one person in any of her classes through the grades had the balls to stand up to the *******s who were pushing her that far. This is the same lack of thinking for yourself that leads these idiots into being indoctrinated by SJW *******s in college. Smh absolutely disgusting.
Originally Posted By Quizifier⏩
Fukin lmao @ these "friends" coming out of the woodwork all of a sudden pretending to act shocked it happened, when we all damn well know they knew the WHOLE fukin time but didn't do **** about it

You can't honestly tell me they had no inkling of a clue that she was getting bullied.
Dont even have to be a friend. I'm sure at least half her grade and many others at her school knew exactly what was going on. I don't think bullying without a huge audience would have led to such a brutal outcome.
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post 1473416231 12-01-2016, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Didlid⏩
Lol @ how stubborn that brother is jesus. No wonder she done that when he brother says things like "Hope you're happy"
you realize he was addressing those comments to her tormentors?
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Originally Posted By Courwes⏩
I mean there is only so much they could do when they dont know the source of the bullying. It was reported to the school and the police (who said they couldnt help), what were a bunch of other teenagers supposed to do about it?
M8 you seriously think that most of her peers weren't completely aware of what was going on?

Trust me, they were. It's not like there was 1 or 2 peoplesecretly bullying her. Honestly why would you think that
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Originally Posted By NotBigEnough206⏩
Raising a 12 year old girl brahs.
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.

My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
I have an 11 year old daughter and can absolutely confirm this. My mind was obliterated when I learned how nasty and hurtful little girls are to each other. And it didn't just start recently, starting in kindergarten there were other girls in her class who were just evil.

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Originally Posted By BieberFeverBrah⏩
I have an 11 year old daughter and can absolutely confirm this. My mind was obliterated when I learned how nasty and hurtful little girls are to each other. And it didn't just start recently, starting in kindergarten there were other girls in her class who were just evil.

Fuark.
kindergarten?? thats brutal...
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Used to get bullied at school (thrown in bin, random aggression etc)



Walked into McDonald's once and saw an old bully putting burgers together after failing in education.




Felt good mane.
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
Where did she get the gun? Parents leave it lying around?
She was 18. She wasn't a child.
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Originally Posted By WinoCat⏩
When you're 18, you haven't developed coping skills, and your brain hasn't finished growing to understand things like consequences. She literally felt she had no other option and that is sad. Those saying that she should have sucked it up because its "just bullying"....to someone who hasn't gone through life, independent and having grown as an adult....can't emotionally cope or deal with hardships. It takes years of life experience to be able to get through something like that...hell, take one look at the misc and all the FA's whining about not getting poon...if they were more mature, they'd realize that life does get better. She was simply a child who couldn't emotionally cope with the abuse she was getting and even the authorities shrugged their shoulders at her...she felt hopeless. I feel horrible for the family and I hope her bullies are feeling a world of pain and guilt.
I agree with this post, but i also cant help but feel theres a little natural selection at work in this particular case.

I was bullied relentlessly troughout most of junior high and part of high school, it influenced(and still does) my life in ways i probably dont even fully realize, but at no point in time did i ever consider ending myself and definitely not infront of my dear parents.

And the picture with the post its? This girl clearly had issues...
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Would need to know about her family situation.. u suicide coz not u feel theres no options but u feel there are no one there for you..been there before
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