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Thread: Aware a stranger that his wife cheats on him? GTFIH

post 1484562491 02-22-2017, 05:45 AM
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Looks like a Chad. Can't believe his 3/10 wife would cheat on him. It's over for us sub 10 males.
post 1484563701 02-22-2017, 06:08 AM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Generally it doesn't go how you hope. Generally the person you are telling does not believe you. Majority of married couples will stay together after infidelity.

Why you care??? Who are they to you ??

Guy probably cheats as well
Circle the wagons much?
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post 1484563881 02-22-2017, 06:10 AM
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So did you aware the ******* or not, op?
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post 1484564821 02-22-2017, 06:24 AM
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I told a friend of mine her husband was cheating on her even showed her 100% concrete proof. She was thankful at first but holy sh!t the clusterfukc followed...


Op just be prepared for the aftermath and there will be blood.
post 1484564881 02-22-2017, 06:25 AM
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no reason to get involved , it's like beating the f out of an idiot , you go to jail, and they go back to being an idiot

this comes with age and wisdom

if she's a toxic human , stay away from her in all facets , be it online etc
post 1484565701 02-22-2017, 06:37 AM
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Stay out of it when kids are involved

No kids who cares tell him

Kids leave it alone
post 1484565891 02-22-2017, 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
Stay out of it when kids are involved

No kids who cares tell him

Kids leave it alone
this
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post 1484570361 02-22-2017, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
Stay out of it when kids are involved

No kids who cares tell him

Kids leave it alone
This this.

None of your business. Dad may be laying the pipe in a dude on the side, you don't know. But they could still be a good family and good parents.

Mind your biz.
post 1484570921 02-22-2017, 07:37 AM
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1. Not your business since you don't know them.

2. You have no way of knowing that he didn't already find out, work it out with her, and you'll just be re-opening an old wound. That's just about as likely as your assumption that she's still cheating six years later.

3. Even if you disregard #1 and #2, he won't believe you anyway and he certainly won't give you some big thank you as you're probably expecting. It will likely get ugly really fast.
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post 1484571131 02-22-2017, 07:39 AM
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If you don't feel like getting involved you can just leave a note.
post 1484571201 02-22-2017, 07:40 AM
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Mind your own fukin business for fuks sake
post 1484571591 02-22-2017, 07:46 AM
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This happened to me once withmyroommate. We even once ran into the married couple at the bar. It was hilarious and so sad at the same time. I felt so bad for the husband, but hey...it's really his fault as well for marrying a whore.
post 1484571701 02-22-2017, 07:48 AM
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Aware him, if it was happening to me, i'd hope someone would tell me so i wouldn't waste my life/love on a loveless person.
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post 1484572011 02-22-2017, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah⏩
This happened to me once withmyroommate. We even once ran into the married couple at the bar. It was hilarious and so sad at the same time. I felt so bad for the husband, but hey...it's really his fault as well for marrying a whore.
Scary thing is this could have happened to you at some point. You could have been out with your GF oblivious to the fact that the guy she just innocently smirked at had banged her brains out after a 'girls night out' last month.

Trust but verify is the only way to go in this day and age
post 1484572911 02-22-2017, 08:02 AM
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Well, first things first....you don't know if he already knows about back then and has forgiven her,, so you trying to be Mr. Good Guy would essentially make you look like an ass if it's already been dealt with.

Secondly, just shut up.....it's not your business, not your marriage. Leave it alone.
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post 1484573171 02-22-2017, 08:05 AM
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Why are miscers so obsessed with being in other people's business?
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post 1484573241 02-22-2017, 08:06 AM
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It is a bad idea to insert yourself into that situation. These things usually turn into a massive clusterf*ck.
post 1484573481 02-22-2017, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
You a cuck breh?
No. I'm just telling OP what is best for him. If it was his friend, then I'd say aware him. A random dude? Not worth the sh*tshow that follows.
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post 1484574081 02-22-2017, 08:15 AM
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This is a VERY delicate situation OP.

You're making yourself the wedge in a marriage by involving yourself in something that really has nothing to do with you.

By no means am I saying "don't do it"....I'm just warning you, that you're likely to find yourself in the middle of a LOT of drama if you do.
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post 1484575381 02-22-2017, 08:31 AM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
So easy to rustle feathers on here
How many days sober are you mate?
post 1484580831 02-22-2017, 09:24 AM
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Could not personally summon up enough f's about a totally random dudes relationship.

Kids involved leave it.
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post 1484582421 02-22-2017, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
Nice strategy. Rep the sloot and neg all of us for calling her out. Then post in the thread pretending to be 'one of the guys' on our side.


From another thread
what the fuk are you talking about idiot. I repped you and negged her.
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post 1484583281 02-22-2017, 09:48 AM
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Back. Haven't sent anything yet. Looks like most are saying don't do it because of the kids. I'm starting to agree even though if it were me i'd want to know (thats the whole reasoning behind awaring him).
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
no reason to get involved , it's like beating the f out of an idiot , you go to jail, and they go back to being an idiot

this comes with age and wisdom

if she's a toxic human , stay away from her in all facets , be it online etc
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Generally it doesn't go how you hope. Generally the person you are telling does not believe you. Majority of married couples will stay together after infidelity.

Why you care??? Who are they to you ??

Guy probably cheats as well
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post 1484589471 02-22-2017, 10:39 AM
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I just wanna stay that wife looks unhappy in that pic and husband looks happy

Not sure if correlated or coincidence
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post 1484590511 02-22-2017, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Generally it doesn't go how you hope. Generally the person you are telling does not believe you. Majority of married couples will stay together after infidelity.

sorta this

more likely than not, the dude will rage at you for trying to break them up, and probably assume you're spouting lies trying to get at her since neither of them really know you, i assume.

this would be one of those times to live and let live, as shtty as it may seem. you don't really stand to gain much from awaring him, and neither does he. If anything, it's more likely to ruin his life than if you leave him be should he believe it, because he'll either A) keep it in and live with it, thus resenting his wife leading to who knows what, or B) call her tf out and she will systematically bankrupt him and ruin his life while he never sees his kids again.

Again, you guys aren't friends, you're just a stranger to him.

Honestly your best bet would be to get some concrete evidence that doesn't incriminate you or your ex roommate, and aware the dude anonymously
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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩
I just wanna stay that wife looks unhappy in that pic and husband looks happy

Not sure if correlated or coincidence
Yeah he looks super happy in every pic. She looks like she has cold dead eyes in all of them. Dat dere guilty conscience.
Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
sorta this

more likely than not, the dude will rage at you for trying to break them up, and probably assume you're spouting lies trying to get at her since neither of them really know you, i assume.

this would be one of those times to live and let live, as shtty as it may seem. you don't really stand to gain much from awaring him, and neither does he. If anything, it's more likely to ruin his life than if you leave him be should he believe it, because he'll either A) keep it in and live with it, thus resenting his wife leading to who knows what, or B) call her tf out and she will systematically bankrupt him and ruin his life while he never sees his kids again.

Again, you guys aren't friends, you're just a stranger to him.

Honestly your best bet would be to get some concrete evidence that doesn't incriminate you or your ex roommate, and aware the dude anonymously
So... either way he is phucked. Either he continues getting cheated on or his life/family get ruined. No concrete evidence to send him. Happened a long time ago.

I'm just gonna let it go. 'Preciate the opinions fellas.
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I understand your dilemma op. I'm in a similar situation but mine is WAY worse and more complicated. I decided to just stay out of it.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
sorta this

more likely than not, the dude will rage at you for trying to break them up, and probably assume you're spouting lies trying to get at her since neither of them really know you, i assume.

this would be one of those times to live and let live, as shtty as it may seem. you don't really stand to gain much from awaring him, and neither does he. If anything, it's more likely to ruin his life than if you leave him be should he believe it, because he'll either A) keep it in and live with it, thus resenting his wife leading to who knows what, or B) call her tf out and she will systematically bankrupt him and ruin his life while he never sees his kids again.

Again, you guys aren't friends, you're just a stranger to him.

Honestly your best bet would be to get some concrete evidence that doesn't incriminate you or your ex roommate, and aware the dude anonymously
Who cares? He's anonymous and is not going to tell the husband who it was or who he is. What does he care what's going to happen afterwards. This is exactly why cheating is so easy nowadays, nobody wants to get in anyones business so it's like business as usual.
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