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Thread: Fuark man. Just had another fight with Fiance. Life going nowhere

post 1487392791 03-16-2017, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By ReptarGSO⏩
You just need to suk her dads dik to prove you're worthy of his daughter opie. That's why she's pissed. She thinks because you won't sux his dink that you aren't worthy of life long poon. And by life long, I mean until thedivorce.
You mean until after the wedding.
post 1487393581 03-16-2017, 07:43 AM
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Google "shi t tests"
post 1487394191 03-16-2017, 07:48 AM
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You are getting sex now because she hasn't locked you in to marriage yet. When she does, sex stops and your $$$ from 2 jobs becomes hers. Mission accomplished by her as she gains 100 lbs watching tv all day.
post 1487394281 03-16-2017, 07:49 AM
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This will get 3-5X worse after you're married. Use your opportunity to end it now before it's too late.
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post 1487394651 03-16-2017, 07:52 AM
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I only read the first page so I may be missing something. but let me tell you, chances are very good you're more to blame than you're letting on.
post 1487394671 03-16-2017, 07:52 AM
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Brah she's not sitting at home while you work...you know what she's doing with chad...

Srsly though that sucks..divorce rate is high AF I don't even want to get married.
post 1487394731 03-16-2017, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By JoshSP1985⏩
This will get 3-5X worse after you're married. Use your opportunity to end it now before it's too late.
This. Sorry, OP . . . but if it's this bad before even getting married, it's very unlikely to be better once you are. Might suck in the short term to break it off and move on, but it's going to be far worse later for a variety of reasons.
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post 1487394791 03-16-2017, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩
- Fuarkin swear to god brahs, life has been chit lately apart from the sex part.

- Also saying i dont spend enough time with her blah blah. She fukin sits at home 24/7 where i got 2 jobs. the fuark how am i suppose to get more time for her.
- Fiance not happy i declined invitation to one of her dad's gatherings. Picking stupid things to fight on. This has been going for days now.

So sick of this bullchit bros

Sorry, but misc is the only outlet i got.
Guess what, will get 10X worse once you get married. You get married without a pre nup brah, and you'll have no one to blame but yourself when half your chit is gone after ignoring the obvious signs, or maybe the divorce laws are different down under. You'd have to be crazy to get married to someone already driving you crazy with that nonsense. She sounds very immature. Good luck OP...
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post 1487395071 03-16-2017, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By wrl11⏩
You are getting sex now because she hasn't locked you in to marriage yet. When she does, sex stops and your $$$ from 2 jobs becomes hers. Mission accomplished by her as she gains 100 lbs watching tv all day.
Wait 'till the baby comes. OP thinks it's bad now, he has no idea...
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post 1487396151 03-16-2017, 08:05 AM
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Sorry to hear OP. I'm engaged as well and can confirm after years together small fights happen. We both learned to sit down, say what is bothering us and see things from the other persons perspective.

My situation is a little different though it sounds like. My girl and I are poor, all we have is each other and our two puppers that we rescued from a Detroit Animal Shelter .

She has 3 jobs and I have 1 with a ton of overtime. We try to make time to enjoy the little things in life like taking our puppers for walkies to the lake.

My advice is talk through your feelings(no homo it works). And try to do things you both enjoy together. Best of luck bud I hope it works out for you!
post 1487396531 03-16-2017, 08:07 AM
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OP there's only two possibilities
1) you and her don't match,
2) she's a in a bad place mentally for some reason other than you.

If 1, time to move on. If 2, can you come up with a reason (e.g. she's unemployed and feels useless)? Can you fix that? Is it worth the effort if she's gonna be like this every time she hits a rough patch? This one can go either way.

Please do not marry her yet, lmao.
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post 1487397011 03-16-2017, 08:12 AM
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This thefull story op?
Thefullscoop?

you lyin boy?








If it is the full story chit brah that is very selfish and not understanding of her.
She needs to find a hobby or job, else she'll get more mad with you and eventually end upslooting
post 1487398861 03-16-2017, 08:27 AM
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if both of you don't communicate or come to some kind of mutual understanding of each other, your relationship is doomed OP. And it will only get worse the more you commit.

Not going to judge her but it really sounds like she at the very least needs to find some part-time work to alleviate some pressure off of you. I know how hard studying and work can be. I work 40 hours and do an additional 20 hours of studying on top of that.

Sounds like you love her but she is driving you to the brink of insanity. Like I said, you both just need to sit down and talk to each other and come up with some sort of agreement and compromise.

honestly i wouldn't mind a wife which cooks, cleans, takes care of the house and kids and not work. It's about working together and doing your part. It doesn't seem like she is pulling her weight. Obv though be respectful about it and don't go berzerk mode on her, she'll probably hate you.
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post 1487399811 03-16-2017, 08:38 AM
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You need to end this now. It's going to get worse after marriage. And then it'll get even worse after kids. Drop her now, it'll be messy and annoying and painful for like 2-3 months. Then you'll get back into the game and refocus on your careers and find someone better. Don't settle next time boyo.
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read this book" The Millionaire Mind" it has a section about marriage. From what you have said so far she is not marriage material. You want a spouse who is uplifting so that you build each other to do great things. In the book they have a clear example of a man working 3-4 jobs and the wife would do some extra things as well at the home, they worked hard together to become millionaires.
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post 1487401221 03-16-2017, 08:52 AM
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OP, you justified the relationship by stating how much effort it was to get engaged to her (and her family). If you're not trollin, then you are completely in this for the wrong reasons. No man about to spend his life with a woman he loves would use that as a logical argument. You two may not be compatible. She should be supporting YOU 100% right now (and always). She is not. She is NOT marriage material. Maybe a girlfriend, but NOT a wife.


You will accept this now.


Or within 5 years when she takes half your chit in a messy divorce.
post 1487404141 03-16-2017, 09:16 AM
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Take her family out of the equation. Seems like their status/wealth is messing with the situation. Would you be with her if they were poor/regular?
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shes doing this on purpose man

crazed sloot

who thinks its ok to treat peoplethe way shes treating you? especially considering you are her fiance she should be treating you like gold!
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google blackphillip

or email dante at beige phillip show

no need to yell, just converse with her about the things that you will not tolerate, period.
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OP,

why did you propose before living with her for at least two years? Thats on you.
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why doesnt she work? have you talked to her about it?
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Originally Posted By RazorM3⏩
Try to make her understand how much you work and spend time with her when you can
^^^ This, make good use of the time you have with her, talk to her and if something seems stupid to fight about just let her talk, there might be an underlying issue she is too afraid to mention. If nothing is working don't get married! Postpone or break it off if it isn't working. Best wishes
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just lol at being with a woman who doesnt work. more idle time for women is more time for them to come up with stupid stuff to argue about. a woman must always be busy with something. she should go do charity work
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Sounds like you need to call it off with him
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Originally Posted By EdDibb⏩
Google "shi t tests"
Don't google this autsitic PUA bull****.



It's pure cope. Girls don't **** test guys they truly feel lucky to have. enough cope
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Stopped reading at

"saying i don't spend enough time with her blah blah"

This is one of the most used reasons sloots use to justify cheating on their husbands, if a girl ever hit me with this I would start looking for an exit strategy right away. And by exit strategy I mean a new bitch to **** so I don't go dry as soon as we break up.
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Then leave her ass? I would never stay in that sort of situation.
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If assuming that's your fianc in your avi she looks hnnnnnnnnnng af dude. Sounds like a toxic situation but damn. Mirin
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She'll be cheating on you in no time while you're working your 2 jobs trying to support her.

And when you catch her, she'll play the victim role of feeling neglected. Lol women
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