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ยป Being married with kids it the absolute epitome of success.
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post 1508613301 06-16-2017, 07:48 AM
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im a failure, feels bad
post 1508613571 06-16-2017, 07:51 AM
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Surest way to cuck yourself at a young age is having a wife and kids just lol. I'm good I'll enjoy my 20 then decide later
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post 1508614141 06-16-2017, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
Surest way to cuck yourself at a young age is having a wife and kids just lol. I'm good I'll enjoy my 20 then decide later
Best way to do it to be honest. Outside of muslim couples, having a child before 25 is just... I don't know what it is exactly, but das just NOT it mane.
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post 1508614251 06-16-2017, 07:57 AM
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Can confirm.

Second child arrived two weeks ago.

Happily married, two great kids, winning at life crew checking in.
post 1508614301 06-16-2017, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I never said you couldn't be happy, it's just that you are pointless and have failed in your primary objective as a human.
Well, that is the first failure I've ever strived for in my life. I couldn't think of anything worse, for me personally.

Within the next 50 years there is going to be 10 billion Humans on Earth. 100 years ago there was about 1.6 billion humans. We as a collective are succeeding just fine in reproducing, it's certainly not a necessity for everyone, if you're talking about the species surviving.
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Originally Posted By Lucianus
Well, that is the first failure I've ever strived for in my life. I couldn't think of anything worse, for me personally.

Within the next 50 years there is going to be 10 billion Humans on Earth. 100 years ago there was about 1.6 billion humans. We as a collective are succeeding just fine in reproducing, it's certainly not a necessity for everyone, if you're talking about the species surviving.
Mother nature would not allow the population to get to 10 billion if it didn't want it to.

There is a fair way to go yet before we reach critical mass.
fist yourself
post 1508614811 06-16-2017, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
Surest way to cuck yourself at a young age is having a wife and kids just lol. I'm good I'll enjoy my 20 then decide later
Originally Posted By W1LLW
Best way to do it to be honest. Outside of muslim couples, having a child before 25 is just... I don't know what it is exactly, but das just NOT it mane.
We met in our mid twenties, dated for a bit, then were married for a bit. I'm 35 and my (so far only) daughter is 2. Can confirm it's a GREAT timeline.
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post 1508615171 06-16-2017, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Mother nature would not allow the population to get to 10 billion if it didn't want it to.

There is a fair way to go yet before we reach critical mass.
I didn't say we were not allow to reach 10 billion.

I'm saying our species is flourishing more than itever has in historyregarding reproduction, and thats with people making a personal choice not to have children.

Do you think everyone that lived in 1900 were all failures for creating a measly 1.6 billion humans?
post 1508615361 06-16-2017, 08:08 AM
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But if you want those feels and to be able to wear your testicles at will, you're better off owning a brothel and a breeding kennel. Absolute control of the hoes and you have puppies to bond with and watch grow that won't resent you when they're teenagers.
post 1508616421 06-16-2017, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon
We met in our mid twenties, dated for a bit, then were married for a bit. I'm 35 and my (so far only) daughter is 2. Can confirm it's a GREAT timeline.
Ditto here almost exactly, but daughter number two (insert gif here) arrived two weeks ago. Don't wait too long bro if you're going to have another, better To have them be close growing up.
post 1508616591 06-16-2017, 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Lucianus
Well, that is the first failure I've ever strived for in my life. I couldn't think of anything worse, for me personally.

Within the next 50 years there is going to be 10 billion Humans on Earth. 100 years ago there was about 1.6 billion humans. We as a collective are succeeding just fine in reproducing, it's certainly not a necessity for everyone, if you're talking about the species surviving.
Aren't you gay? No hate, but obviously if you were that would impact yuor thoughts on the subject.
post 1508616981 06-16-2017, 08:25 AM
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Thats a pretty low bar for success there, mate

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post 1508617231 06-16-2017, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah
Thats a pretty low bar for success there, mate

I know, right? Isn't it wonderful!
Smooth Seas don't make Strong Sailors. Keep your head up.

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post 1508617521 06-16-2017, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn
Aren't you gay? No hate, but obviously if you were that would impact yuor thoughts on the subject.
Yes I am, have you never heard of surrogate?

A lot of high profile gay celebs have children, Matt Bomer, Ricky Martin etc

Doesn't matter though, fact is the human species is spreading extremely fast and thats with some people deciding they don't want children.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I don't care if you're a millionaire. I don't care if you bang 500 chicks a week. I don't care if you drive a Ferrari and go on foreign trips several times per year.

If you never experience the privilege of bringing children into a loving family to watch them grow to make lives of their own then you have failed in life.

That is what you were put on this earth to do.

Anything else is a pathetic meaningless waste of time and precious oxygen.

Complete failure.
being a real alpha is the epitome of success

in that sense you might bear kids but not sit and watch them grow lol

spreading your seed is therefore the real goal of every male. You ought to have many kids from different women m8

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post 1508618641 06-16-2017, 08:45 AM
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OP is the epitome of a sausage
post 1508619021 06-16-2017, 08:50 AM
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Your threads are cringe worthy.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
post 1508621191 06-16-2017, 09:11 AM
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Most married people with kids that i know look like theyve been beaten by life. You can always see the sadness in their eyes behind the smile.

Then again, most people 35+ look like theyve been beaten by life, so iunno.
post 1508623121 06-16-2017, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I don't care if you're a millionaire. I don't care if you bang 500 chicks a week. I don't care if you drive a Ferrari and go on foreign trips several times per year.

If you never experience the privilege of bringing children into a loving family to watch them grow to make lives of their own then you have failed in life.

That is what you were put on this earth to do.

Anything else is a pathetic meaningless waste of time and precious oxygen.

Complete failure.
yes but only if everything works. The worst is marriages being held together only by the kids. The children suffer big time. Not worth it at all.
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i had a girlfriend once. Took her virginity then broke up with her one day because I couldn't stand listening to her talk. There was nothing wrong with the relationship, just the mere nagging and whining was enough for me to break up with her. I couldn't imagine having to put up with that with another girl for the rest of my life. Add kids into the mix and id probably blow my brains out. Just lol @having kids in 2017.

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-~50% of marriages end up in divorce
-Average cost of divorce is around 22k
-Avg cost of raising a child from 0 to 18 years old in 2017 without college is $250,000
-Avg salary of a full time worker in the US is $44,000
-250,000/44,000=5.6 years of salary spent on raising that kid. Add in opportunity cost of time spent converted into wages and that probably goes up to 9 years.
-Average female in US has almost 2 kids. Thats 2*9=18 years of your life of wasted time and energy on listening to some little kid bitch and moan.
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post 1508635321 06-16-2017, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Lucianus
I didn't say we were not allow to reach 10 billion.

I'm saying our species is flourishing more than itever has in historyregarding reproduction, and thats with people making a personal choice not to have children.

Do you think everyone that lived in 1900 were all failures for creating a measly 1.6 billion humans?
You're not getting it. Your purpose on this earth is to be a seed carrier and then to nurture your offspring to adulthood.

Anything else is superflous. Just organisms blinking in and out of existence with zero contribution.

If there was ever a global shortage of food, oxygen or water, all those bro's and bitches who have no purpose to exist should be ordered to be euthanized and used as plant fertilizer so that the needy families can continue to thrive on what food/oxygen/water remains.

It would be the right thing to do.
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OP is actually correct.
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nothing wrong with having kids, the most important aspect is thetiming

you can choose to have a kid when you are early 20's, but i can imagine having a kid in your 30's after building up a nest egg for a decade would make caring for a child easier, especially in terms of you having the time and finances to raise them in an optimal environment.
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cope
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Originally Posted By ashin1
nothing wrong with having kids, the most important aspect is thetiming

you can choose to have a kid when you are early 20's, but i can imagine having a kid in your 30's after building up a nest egg for a decade would make caring for a child easier, especially in terms of you having the time and finances to raise them in an optimal environment.
It also gave us the time to travel, and do the things we wanted to do, so we're not resentful dead-eyed 27 year olds who never got to live on our terms.

Don't get me wrong, my life is fuller/richer now than it's ever been, but I'm glad we did things the way we did.
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It is the ultimate coping strategy. You have something to look forward to, a reason to go to your ****ty minimum mailman job.

Real talk though, if you are depressed, go ahead and marry a fat post glow cow and have some useless non inventing **** children. You will have a purpose to live at least. lmao, I choose death over being a beta provider.

Biologically speaking you are correct, it is our only real purpose, and believe me *******, I truly want to spread my seed in 50% of the women I see, but there is no way I am getting married or raising children.
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OP you were put on earth to deliver mail
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OP knows how to rustle miscer jimmies.

But he's right on this one. Providing for a family must be such a good feeling.
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Originally Posted By ashin1
nothing wrong with having kids, the most important aspect is thetiming

you can choose to have a kid when you are early 20's, but i can imagine having a kid in your 30's after building up a nest egg for a decade would make caring for a child easier, especially in terms of you having the time and finances to raise them in an optimal environment.
true. but theres a chit ton of people that should never have kids. it baffles my mind when there are couples with some really bad (hereditary) medical issues and decide to have kids, passing it on to them. then they cant afford their medical bills and pass the buck onto the tax payers. then you got the welfare leaches that keep having kids, teaching their kids to become leaches, and they cycle of poverty continues
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