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Thread: Could you/Would you EVER take back a cheater?

post 1515112801 08-09-2017, 08:08 PM
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post 1515114581 08-09-2017, 08:27 PM
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Nahhh.

Definitely not a cheating boyfriend.
If a guy cant stay loyal when I'm still young and decent looking, they definitely wouldn't in a marriage when I'm old and we have punk kids running around.

If I was already married and with kids, that might complicate the decision. Married with no kids, probably not.
post 1515114831 08-09-2017, 08:30 PM
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Nope
post 1515115081 08-09-2017, 08:32 PM
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When I was younger, I used to think never ever. But now, I wouldn't take back a cheating bf. If I've been married for 20 years, and he slept with a girl once or twice. Is my marriage only worth a couple one night stands? Obviously it isn't likely to last at that point. But I take things like marriage vows very seriously. The one night stand would be the "worse" in for better or for worse. So I would at least try knowing it probably won't work because all kinds of trust issues will arise.
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1515117311 08-09-2017, 08:55 PM
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She wasn't begging for forgiveness with another mans dick inside her. I absolutely could not forgive.
post 1515117681 08-09-2017, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
When I was younger, I used to think never ever. But now, I wouldn't take back a cheating bf. If I've been married for 20 years, and he slept with a girl once or twice. Is my marriage only worth a couple one night stands? Obviously it isn't likely to last at that point. But I take things like marriage vows very seriously. The one night stand would be the "worse" in for better or for worse. So I would at least try knowing it probably won't work because all kinds of trust issues will arise.
I think this is where I'm at, logically. It feels so shameful and cucky, but throwing away the lives you built together over a cheap fukk? I dunno.
post 1515119261 08-09-2017, 09:11 PM
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never had a gf only hookups and fwb but i wouldn't take back a cheater ever don't care who it is

already have issues with trust and that would just mess me up
post 1515119271 08-09-2017, 09:11 PM
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Would probably walk out. Would be really hard to trust someone that cheated on you once. The cheating would eventually lead to us getting further apart and breaking up anyway. Better to dump her after she cheats on you than risk keeping the relationship and getting dumped by her in the future. Would only consider getting back together if I get to beat up the guy, slap her,cheat on her with other chicks and she has to be someone I really like.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
When I was younger, I used to think never ever. But now, I wouldn't take back a cheating bf. If I've been married for 20 years, and he slept with a girl once or twice. Is my marriage only worth a couple one night stands? Obviously it isn't likely to last at that point. But I take things like marriage vows very seriously. The one night stand would be the "worse" in for better or for worse. So I would at least try knowing it probably won't work because all kinds of trust issues will arise.
Exactly, for better or worse. This world is filled with temptation and we are only human. Even if two people love each other it's natural to make mistakes. This can be cheating, drinking, making hurtful remarks, gambling, etc. Spouses who truly love eachother will forgive.
post 1515126851 08-09-2017, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Are you an independently wealthy alpha who can leave without losing everything? Or are you willing to rebuild from zero and carry those scars?
You're gonna rebuild from zero either way sonce she's gonna leave
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post 1515130211 08-09-2017, 11:02 PM
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No way, she does it once she'll do it again. If you're considering it just think about how she took another mans cawk and loved it till all those thoughts disappear

If you're married tho just lol your tours over
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post 1515130251 08-09-2017, 11:02 PM
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post 1515140011 08-10-2017, 02:21 AM
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
Nahhh.

Definitely not a cheating boyfriend.
If a guy cant stay loyal when I'm still young and decent looking, they definitely wouldn't in a marriage when I'm old and we have punk kids running around.

If I was already married and with kids, that might complicate the decision. Married with no kids, probably not.
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post 1515140141 08-10-2017, 02:24 AM
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Hell no. I'm never dating again but in a hypothetical world where I did and was cheated on? Hell no.
post 1515140581 08-10-2017, 02:36 AM
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Lol @ people who say 'Oh they just slipped up'



People don't just slip up and phuck other people. There is usually weeks of back and forth linestepping before they take the plunge and cheat. Secret conversations, inappropriate behaviour they should have shut down before it began, allowing themselves to be put in an environment where chit could go down.

It's like forgiving someone for muder because they were 'in the heat of the moment'. Most of the time its premeditated. When someone admits to cheatings its not because they feel bad, its because 'what they wanted' didn't turn out as expected. Them coming clean is not about you, its about them trying to backtrack aka having their cake and eating it. I guarantee if that affair had lived up to their expectation you'd be on a one way ticket to single town
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post 1515146001 08-10-2017, 05:26 AM
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Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
Lol @ people who say 'Oh they just slipped up'



People don't just slip up and phuck other people. There is usually weeks of back and forth linestepping before they take the plunge and cheat. Secret conversations, inappropriate behaviour they should have shut down before it began, allowing themselves to be put in an environment where chit could go down.

It's like forgiving someone for muder because they were 'in the heat of the moment'. Most of the time its premeditated. When someone admits to cheatings its not because they feel bad, its because 'what they wanted' didn't turn out as expected. Them coming clean is not about you, its about them trying to backtrack aka having their cake and eating it. I guarantee if that affair had lived up to their expectation you'd be on a one way ticket to single town
This. Almost always plenty of time to shut it down. Probably one of the most disrespectful things you can do to someone.
post 1515146511 08-10-2017, 05:34 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
For conversation sake, pretend your girl of at least 5 years (maybe a kid or two) got hammered and slept with a dude. She confesses and immediately begs for forgiveness. Is there ANY case to take her back or is it 100% out the door no matter what?
**** NO / Thread

Cheaters are the biggest pieces of chit you can find......break up then go fuk around, don't go fuking other people when you in a relationship.
post 1515147441 08-10-2017, 05:52 AM
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Difficult but I don't think I'd leave my husband if he cheated, especially if he came clean about it rather than me finding out from someone else.
post 1515147661 08-10-2017, 05:56 AM
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No, I don't actively try to cuck myself.
post 1515147891 08-10-2017, 05:59 AM
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Sloots gonna sloot

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post 1515148011 08-10-2017, 06:03 AM
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No, but I do recognize there could be some extreme circumstance that could involve a long marriage+kids. Either way 99% no, n/c immediate gtfo.
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post 1515148261 08-10-2017, 06:07 AM
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People who say they want leave husbands/wives are pathetic lmao. You guys must have near to no self esteem and self worth. People don't accidentally cheat lmao, they are showing you that they have no respect for you or your relationship lmao. Once a cheater always a cheater, and let's not forget how you will never trust them again same way you did before.
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Originally Posted By irollurmom⏩
It's not that there wouldn't be a chance for forgiveness, but I just wouldn't ever trust her again. Once you lose trust, the relationship is over.
This^

I told my wife before we got married that if she ever cheated it would be over, no if ands or buts and I expect the same if I ever were to goof.
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Had to break off a discussion IRL--could see it was getting heated--with some people trying justifying a guy letting his wife cheat on him 3x. "Sometimes it's love, you haven't been there, how coudl you understand". lol. No, just ONCE would require some unforeseeable circumstance, twice is instant 100% no. 3x? Come on, that's not love, that's being a insecure, spineless push-over. Besides how could any woman treat you seriously if they cheated on your 3x you you kept forgiving them? Just lol.
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Could yes.
Would no, too likely to lead to trouble again.
post 1515150011 08-10-2017, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Mparserz⏩
Dude.

How do you both even rationalize it?
I cheated on her with one of my coworkers (both got **** face after work in the boss's office and proceeded to do it on his desk)

After finding out about this she then in return proceeded to have sex with another one of my coworkers while I was passed out on his couch

Soo I kinda had it coming and figure it even. We are really close now and I trust her 100%...more or less bc she has no friends
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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩
A woman can take a man back sure, if he truly is repentant and has mended his ways.
Ha, that ol double standard. No thanks.

My hub went into a strip club on a stag (bachelor) party once and that was close enough ... the relationship scraped by by a whisker.

The idea of forgiving outright cheating ... lmao.

Every time I hear of someone trying to forgive a cheater I have an image in my head of a magician saying "and for my next trick, I'm going to swallow broken glass for 2 yrs".

Cheating is the most selfish, disrespectful, bond-breaking, chitty, f*ck you, betraying thing you can do to a partner. Aside from everything else, it's the "you can stick to the rules we agreed to, you sucker; while I break them" that enrages me.

ime anyone trying to forgive it just inflicts pain on themselves and (further) wrecks their self-esteem; and no-one is worth it.
Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333⏩
I don't care if she was drunk, high or whatever......she consciously made the decision to have sex with another person.
Also, this ^.

Don't even try it with the drunk/high bullchit ... being drunk/high doesn't make you do chit you don't wanna do; it lets you do what you wanna do.
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I don't see how anyone could take back a cheater. The most important thing in a relationship is trust, and that trust was destroyed. I don't care if she was drunk, high or whatever......she consciously made the decision to have sex with another person. She did it once, she could easily do it again.

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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I wascourtingmy wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
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