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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
no more like 20 pictures in total. also i have to be really attentive when i do it because if he erases what's on board too soon, i miss the picture. so i have to take more than needed and delete the ones that were only partial of what was on board. have to get correct zoom/focus too so they look right. and then go out of my way to send them all by email to someone I don't know who is most likely just using me
To be fair, you were going to have to do all that anyway for your own use. You couldn't zip them in a file and send them? I understand the being used thing but wouldn't hurt to do it one time. I'd parlay that into a study session with a side of cheek clappin.
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She didn't ask you because you look like some victim to exploit but because you're obviously the only one taking 20 photos a lecture with your damn Ipad.

She missed a day. She'd ask her friends for notes but they didn't photograph every slide. You did and everyone saw you do it. Of course she asked you.
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66 posts and nobody has asked........... Was she hot bro?

Guarantee she was because hot girls are notorious for skipping class and getting banged out by chad while the ugly ones are the ones taking notes.
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Originally Posted By nn586
66 posts and nobody has asked........... Was she hot bro?

Guarantee she was because hot girls are notorious for skipping class and getting banged out by chad while the ugly ones are the ones taking notes.
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After reading the replies in this thread... Jesus, no wonder college kids these days aren't going to make it. The lack of basic social skills here is astounding. The ones who talk about the principles of it are the most ridiculous of all.

When I was in college I asked girls whom I never talked to for notes several times. Why? Girls have neater handwriting and it's easier to understand their notes. And I thought I was an awkward fuk in college. Sometimes chit happens. You might be sick. You might have family matters to attend to. Or hell, maybe you just have a horrible hangover. It's college after all. And lol at making a big deal of not having not talked to the person beforehand. You're at class to learn, not to socialize, and no one talks to one another in large classes.

What's funnier is that OP isn't even taking notes. He's taking pictures. That means instead of of listening to the material and writing it down, his attention is on the focus and zoom of his fuking iPad. Great learning skills there. But then again, if he was a good learner he would have figured out the difference between being used and being helpful.
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Originally Posted By TrancE_AddicT
There is levels though this girl was just asking for notes. I did kinda hate sloots in my major(CS) and how all the betas flocked to them help and chit.



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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
What's funnier is that OP isn't even taking notes. He's taking pictures. That means instead of of listening to the material and writing it down, his attention is on the focus and zoom of his fuking iPad. Great learning skills there.
cool opinion, but you're way off. it allows me to pay attention to the professor and not have to waste time jotting things down. also the picture is much easier to study because it's exact replica of what he put on board. this method was a definite contributor to my perfect average in calc 1.
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you guys are all pathetic. (srs)

i think OP is right - go after the gainz and not the sloots.

no but all seriousness it all depends on the girls study habits and her willingness to listen in class is the determining factor if you want to give them to her.

if she sticks her finger up her butt all day then no. But if she has an intent to contribute then phuk yes
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
After reading the replies in this thread... Jesus, no wonder college kids these days aren't going to make it. The lack of basic social skills here is astounding. The ones who talk about the principles of it are the most ridiculous of all.

When I was in college I asked girls whom I never talked to for notes several times. Why? Girls have neater handwriting and it's easier to understand their notes. And I thought I was an awkward fuk in college. Sometimes chit happens. You might be sick. You might have family matters to attend to. Or hell, maybe you just have a horrible hangover. It's college after all. And lol at making a big deal of not having not talked to the person beforehand. You're at class to learn, not to socialize, and no one talks to one another in large classes.

What's funnier is that OP isn't even taking notes. He's taking pictures. That means instead of of listening to the material and writing it down, his attention is on the focus and zoom of his fuking iPad. Great learning skills there. But then again, if he was a good learner he would have figured out the difference between being used and being helpful.
I should have thought my initial response out more.

While I agree with this, the main factor in this argument is "who is asking for notes". Lets assume two girls, neither whom have ever talked to OP before asks for notes.

1.) Lisa - Lisa sits in the front of the class, notebook on her desk furiously writing all class. Lisa happens to miss one class, and needs those notes. She notices OP doing his picture taking before, and assume he would have the most accurate information to form her own notes.

2.) Stacey - Stacey sits in the back, texting, chatting with friends, misses class after big party nights all the time. She notices OP taking pictures and figures there is an easy way to get the info and not give a chit about class.


Lisa would most likely be grateful, and thank OP and maybe a friendship develops. Stacey would 100% just keep using OP for his notes, knowing she could get away with and continue to slack off.

So in reality knowing the type of student OP is dealing with drastically changes whether or not he did the right thing.

EDIT: Wizard above me basically cliffed me.
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Originally Posted By OregonBrah
She didn't ask you because you look like some victim to exploit but because you're obviously the only one taking 20 photos a lecture with your damn Ipad.

She missed a day. She'd ask her friends for notes but they didn't photograph every slide. You did and everyone saw you do it. Of course she asked you.
This OP.

Not like she wanted your notes, she wanted pictures of the lecture slide. Just give them to her you *******.
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333
I should have thought my initial response out more.

While I agree with this, the main factor in this argument is "who is asking for notes". Lets assume two girls, neither whom have ever talked to OP before asks for notes.

1.) Lisa - Lisa sits in the front of the class, notebook on her desk furiously writing all class. Lisa happens to miss one class, and needs those notes. She notices OP doing his picture taking before, and assume he would have the most accurate information to form her own notes.

2.) Stacey - Stacey sits in the back, texting, chatting with friends, misses class after big party nights all the time. She notices OP taking pictures and figures there is an easy way to get the info and not give a chit about class.


Lisa would most likely be grateful, and thank OP and maybe a friendship develops. Stacey would 100% just keep using OP for his notes, knowing she could get away with and continue to slack off.

So in reality knowing the type of student OP is dealing with drastically changes whether or not he did the right thing.

EDIT: Wizard above me basically cliffed me.
based on looks alone, she was a Lisa but she sits in the back like a Stacey. Can't make a call on that one
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
After reading the replies in this thread... Jesus, no wonder college kids these days aren't going to make it. The lack of basic social skills here is astounding. The ones who talk about the principles of it are the most ridiculous of all.

When I was in college I asked girls whom I never talked to for notes several times. Why? Girls have neater handwriting and it's easier to understand their notes. And I thought I was an awkward fuk in college. Sometimes chit happens. You might be sick. You might have family matters to attend to. Or hell, maybe you just have a horrible hangover. It's college after all. And lol at making a big deal of not having not talked to the person beforehand. You're at class to learn, not to socialize, and no one talks to one another in large classes.

What's funnier is that OP isn't even taking notes. He's taking pictures. That means instead of of listening to the material and writing it down, his attention is on the focus and zoom of his fuking iPad. Great learning skills there. But then again, if he was a good learner he would have figured out the difference between being used and being helpful.
In spain we say "give them a hand and they take your arm"

That's what would have happened to OP if he had complied

If you want to reach the level where you can go up to someone and ask for their work without giving or having given anything in return, you need to be friendly with them first, that's basic social skills.

This girl wasn't trying to socialise, she was trying to get free stuff from a pushover.
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way to let her know you're autistic. and now she'll talk to everyone else she knows in the class and her (yours too?) major about your autism.

just give the notes. you never know who can potentially help you out in the future. i gave my notes out to pretty much anybody in college and it helped a ton. come exam/project time, i'd be able to bounce ideas off those people and get help when i'm stuck. some never helped, but it's a numbers game. learn your lesson and don't do it again
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Originally Posted By McLarenGTR
way to let her know you're autistic. and now she'll talk to everyone else she knows in the class and her (yours too?) major about your autism.

just give the notes. you never know who can potentially help you out in the future. i gave my notes out to pretty much anybody in college and it helped a ton. come exam/project time, i'd be able to bounce ideas off those people and get help when i'm stuck. some never helped, but it's a numbers game. learn your lesson and don't do it again
calc2 is a solo mission boyo. if im stumped, i go to the math lab. and if i missed class, i have a friend in there that i actually talked to and exchanged my names with that i could get notes from
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
Want to get misc opinion on this one. I always attend class and take photos of lecture with my ipad. After class ends yesterday, this random girl comes up to me out of nowhere and asks me If I could send her photos of the lecture. Keep in mind I have never spoken to this girl. My response was "are you unable to take photos yourself?". She said she wasn't here last Wednesday. I didn't say no or yes and I left after our lab without catching up with her. I have a long history of getting used by others (something I only recently stopped allowing) and I have no idea why someone I don't know or know nothing about is asking me to do something for her. I felt like I was in the right. Thoughts?
There is no right or wrong in this situation. You don't owe her the notes. However, I've found that if I can do a favor for someone with little inconvenience to myself, I do it. You never know if you may need a favor in return. Also, it builds goodwill. IN the end you only have your character, and I'd rather be the good guy who tries to help people out. Good politicians and businessmen do this all the time - favors just because and one day you may be able to collect. Michael Corleone did this best.

I worked with this guy who was just a total prick. I once was moving a heavy desk alone and he just sat there on his ass not offering to help. That kind of *******. One day not long after I had left that job I get a call from him. He was now doing financial advising and wanted to know if I needed help. Well, at that time I was looking into setting up a 529 for my baby girl. If he had been a decent guy I would have done it through him, perhaps. Since I had an unfavorable opinion of him, I simply said, "Not interested." All it would have taken for him was to get up and help me with that desk. And be a little friendlier. Little things can making a big difference.
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If OP wasnt a social retard he could have used this to his advantage. You give her notes, but in exchange she gives you something.

Is she cute? You say alright I'll make you a copy and we can meet up for lunch so I can transfer them to you.

Bam instant date. Instead you chose the MGTOW and brag on the misc later. Plus if she refuses to grab lunch with you, then she has no reason to expect any kindness from you.

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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
calc2 is a solo mission boyo. if im stumped, i go to the math lab. and if i missed class, i have a friend in there that i actually talked to and exchanged my names with that i could get notes from
It's calc2. If she's in that class there's no way she's just some sloot that uses dudes to get through the hard classes.








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For real though, average looking chick in calc2 asking for your notes = opportunity for sugar walls without really any extra effort on your part, minus sending an email.
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
This. She asked you for something related to class that isn't using you. She asked for a simple ****ing picture. If she asked you for money then that's using you OP. You are in the wrong.

I would've sent them to her, could've smashed her in future maybe or maybe not, at least used her to network.

I swear this is FA at its finest.

Edit: When I was in uni girls would always ask me for notes, I'd ask girls for notes that I never talked to before. Guess how many I banged/got with later on. Most of them. Who cares if she never said "hi" she asked for ****ing notes, not like she wanted you to buy her food and give her gas money lmao.
Right... or become acquainances, get invited to a party, meet cool people, etc. It's how it works. You don't give you get nothing back.
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This is one of those threads that will go public again and make people laugh at miscers, like that thread about people arguing over days of the week. The lesson for OP is that ever situation has its own merits, like did she want notes for one class or for many classes? That would of told you if she was trying to take advantage of you, maybe she missed a class or two out of many.
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I think you were right to trust your instincts. I get the impression she had pinned you for a beta, submissive sucker. If she really wants those notes, let her ****ing hustle. They're probably online anyway.


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It's fuking notes what the fuk are you FA's on about.

The girl knew you took good notes and asked you once for them, if it became a reoccurring theme thats one thing.

Awkward all the way around lmao.
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I would've gladly given them to her. Probably would've got her number and sent them to her. Could've led to a future study session.

Seems like a childish response to not give something away due to "unfairness". Cause that's literally the only reason I can think of to keep them to yourself. I helped people with homework and gave away my notes all the time in college with nothing expected in return. It feels good helping other people mane. Try it sometime and you might be pleasantly surprised when you need some help.
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You should have said "Yeah i'll send them to you on one condition...you buy me a beer."
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Originally Posted By vsportsguy
I would've gladly given them to her. Probably would've got her number and sent them to her. Could've led to a future study session.

Seems like a childish response to not give something away due to "unfairness". Cause that's literally the only reason I can think of to keep them to yourself. I helped people with homework and gave away my notes all the time in college with nothing expected in return. It feels good helping other people mane. Try it sometime and you might be pleasantly surprised when you need some help.
i used to help people all the time. and that's when the ex asks you to pay for a brake job. and a coworker asks you to illegally park at your apartment complex. or a friend asks you to cosign his student loan worth $70k. im sure i would have been "pleasantly surprised" if i did those things
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