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10-24-2017, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Tickyouup⏩
this tbh. She doesn't seem like a bad girl, and probabaly really liked you and needed the closure. If someone said they had to cancel one date I don't think I would have taken that as ending the relationship. This might just be my inner hnnnng for redheads speaking though...I'm going to go against the grain and say man up OP and just send her something like "sorry just not feeling anything etc." I'm all for NC but doesn't really seem like she deserved It..even for posting SJW crap.
NC should be for crazy, cheating sloots.
Also screenshot and post some of the SJW stuff for lols pls
NC should be for crazy, cheating sloots.
Also screenshot and post some of the SJW stuff for lols pls
Also post screenshots of SJW chit lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You can tell mid date when someone is interested or not tbhYes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.
For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
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10-24-2017, 01:00 AM
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Don't listen to these sloots OP. If the roles were reversed you'd be labeled as a creep/rapist. If the SJW kunt doesn't get it then too bad for her.
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10-24-2017, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Lol I have some long arms and even I can't reach that far on a standard tableYeah
Is there a hand on my thigh or not?
Is there a hand on my thigh or not?

but pretty much eye contact etc
Originally Posted By BigRangs⏩
lol so true, 3 massive paragraphs she'd be laughing with her GF's calling you clingy and patheticDon't listen to these sloots OP. If the roles were reversed you'd be labeled as a creep/rapist.
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10-24-2017, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
To be fair the only reason we have to learn about this is because we've developed into a culture where a) people have an aversion to responsibility and b) too many people take things personally when you're upfront with them.Yes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.
Edit: Over text that is, in person it's obvious as Tommy & Rab are discussing.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
^ does not compute w only likes chads user title.Yes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.
For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
Maybe change it to gets used by chads would be more fitting
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10-24-2017, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
They dated a month so she might still be in the infatuation state where her brain chemicals are messed up. If you've never experienced it, you have no clue what I'm talking about but it's a real thing. Logic has nothing to do with it.You can tell mid date when someone is interested or not tbh
10-24-2017, 01:02 AM
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-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong
you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong
you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
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10-24-2017, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Moved passed all that by the ripe age of 18 srsYes agreed but again for people with good social skills or dating savy. Not everyone picks up on it and sometimes you can be in denial about it.
The denial can come from really liking someone or from being desperate. Then you start searching for small hope that he likes you back instead of focusing on the obvious signs that he doesn't.
The denial can come from really liking someone or from being desperate. Then you start searching for small hope that he likes you back instead of focusing on the obvious signs that he doesn't.
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10-24-2017, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
Lold inaccurate cliffscliffs
-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong
you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong
you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
Your first cliff note should be:
- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her
-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Why is she so boring?Lold inaccurate cliffs
Your first cliff note should be:
- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her
-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
Your first cliff note should be:
- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her
-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
10-24-2017, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
- She agrees with everything I sayWhy is she so boring?
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say (at times, I'm like damn I just said some stupid ****)
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
aint nobody got time fo dat

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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
This is a word by word description of my ex-gf- She agrees with everything I say
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
And she was Christian so out of respect for her beliefs I couldn't take her to pound town
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Lol you didn't date her enough to see the changes, I've experienced it and lol every time when their true emotions finally shine through like year+ into relationship- She agrees with everything I say
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say (at times, I'm like damn I just said some stupid ****)
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
aint nobody got time fo dat
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say (at times, I'm like damn I just said some stupid ****)
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
aint nobody got time fo dat

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10-24-2017, 01:22 AM
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10-24-2017, 01:22 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
You didn't mention in the thread you told her that though. You cancelled date, went NC and assumed she'd get the picture. But people cancel dates for a plethora of reasonsLold inaccurate cliffs
Your first cliff note should be:
- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her
-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
Your first cliff note should be:
- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her
-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
And lol @ you calling that wall of text 'reaching out like nothing happened'
Don't get me wrong I dgaf, but some of you have a way too hostile mentality against girls, probably not healthy for future relationships etc
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Originally Posted By DJGirth⏩
I can absolutely wait and hold out on sex, but the chick has to be able to offer me more than ass, if that's the case. My girl would put out, but I still need more than that.This is a word by word description of my ex-gf
And she was Christian so out of respect for her beliefs I couldn't take her to pound town
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And she was Christian so out of respect for her beliefs I couldn't take her to pound town
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
lol I know what you mean, but I generally like strong personalities. I dont like waiting forever to finally know the person I'm dealing with.Lol you didn't date her enough to see the changes, I've experienced it and lol every time when their true emotions finally shine through like year+ into relationship
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
I couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.You didn't date her enough to see the changes
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Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality. It took about a year and living together for my real side to come out with my closest girl because I was trying so hard to be nice and I was in love with her so couldn't be unpleasant.lol I know what you mean, but I generally like strong personalities. I dont like waiting forever to finally know the person I'm dealing with.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
lol nah, I'm not too picky as long as there is SOME physical attraction, and she can make up for it in personalityIsn't it more about looks op? You said she's 6.5/10. You can probably do much better lookswise.
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I'll save the scared timid girls for you brahs. I'll pass personally.I couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
That's not true. She sounds boring AF. I couldn't be with someone boring.Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
well me initiating all the time was the probably the most annoying thingI couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.
Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality. It took about a year and living together for my real side to come out with my closest girl because I was trying so hard to be nice and I was in love with her so couldn't be unpleasant.
Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality. It took about a year and living together for my real side to come out with my closest girl because I was trying so hard to be nice and I was in love with her so couldn't be unpleasant.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I see where you're coming from, my last girl was a wet cloth when it came to expressing her differing opinion. But my experience has been that for as long as lust or love is on the table you're going to be nice if that's how you think things will develop.That's not true. She sounds boring AF. I couldn't be with someone boring.
Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
That's an instant red flag for me. I wouldn't have stuck with this girl either on that basis, I'd get tired of seeing someone who isn't keen and me always having to second guess. But the other things are discountable, at least from my side.well me initiating all the time was the probably the most annoying thing
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