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post 1523657581 10-24-2017, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Tickyouup
I'm going to go against the grain and say man up OP and just send her something like "sorry just not feeling anything etc." I'm all for NC but doesn't really seem like she deserved It..even for posting SJW crap.

NC should be for crazy, cheating sloots.

Also screenshot and post some of the SJW stuff for lols pls
this tbh. She doesn't seem like a bad girl, and probabaly really liked you and needed the closure. If someone said they had to cancel one date I don't think I would have taken that as ending the relationship. This might just be my inner hnnnng for redheads speaking though...
Also post screenshots of SJW chit lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.

For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
You can tell mid date when someone is interested or not tbh
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post 1523657651 10-24-2017, 01:00 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
You can tell mid date when someone is interested or not tbh
Yeah

Is there a hand on my thigh or not?
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Don't listen to these sloots OP. If the roles were reversed you'd be labeled as a creep/rapist. If the SJW kunt doesn't get it then too bad for her.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Yeah

Is there a hand on my thigh or not?
Lol I have some long arms and even I can't reach that far on a standard table

but pretty much eye contact etc
Originally Posted By BigRangs
Don't listen to these sloots OP. If the roles were reversed you'd be labeled as a creep/rapist.
lol so true, 3 massive paragraphs she'd be laughing with her GF's calling you clingy and pathetic
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post 1523657761 10-24-2017, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.
To be fair the only reason we have to learn about this is because we've developed into a culture where a) people have an aversion to responsibility and b) too many people take things personally when you're upfront with them.

Edit: Over text that is, in person it's obvious as Tommy & Rab are discussing.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes because you have dating savy or good social savy in general but not everyone is like that. I understand that now too from dating experience (and from misc actually). But at first when I started dating I couldn't pick up on hints either.

For example when someone said they are "busy" I used to take it literally instead of as a cue for not being interested. Or when someone didn't ask me out again right away I thought maybe they'd reach out later etc. Took me a while to understand all the non-verbal non-direct communication in dating. I get it now but I had to learn it. Didn't come naturally.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
You can tell mid date when someone is interested or not tbh
They dated a month so she might still be in the infatuation state where her brain chemicals are messed up. If you've never experienced it, you have no clue what I'm talking about but it's a real thing. Logic has nothing to do with it.
post 1523657861 10-24-2017, 01:02 AM
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cliffs

-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong



you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
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post 1523658091 10-24-2017, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes agreed but again for people with good social skills or dating savy. Not everyone picks up on it and sometimes you can be in denial about it.

The denial can come from really liking someone or from being desperate. Then you start searching for small hope that he likes you back instead of focusing on the obvious signs that he doesn't.
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post 1523658141 10-24-2017, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE
cliffs

-op gets bored with boring but loyal girl and goes nc
-girl assumes op isn't interested but still reaches out because she wants closure
-misc laughs at her because miscers can never be in the wrong



you dumb *******s have a way too strong 'us vs them' mentality when it comes to girls, hostility, nc etc
Lold inaccurate cliffs

Your first cliff note should be:

- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her

-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Lold inaccurate cliffs

Your first cliff note should be:

- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her

-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
Why is she so boring?
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Why is she so boring?
- She agrees with everything I say
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say (at times, I'm like damn I just said some stupid ****)
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time

aint nobody got time fo dat
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Originally Posted By drvillain
- She agrees with everything I say
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time
This is a word by word description of my ex-gf

And she was Christian so out of respect for her beliefs I couldn't take her to pound town

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Originally Posted By drvillain
- She agrees with everything I say
- Laughs at EVERYTHING I say (at times, I'm like damn I just said some stupid ****)
- I have to initiate EVERYTHING
- apologizes all the time

aint nobody got time fo dat
Lol you didn't date her enough to see the changes, I've experienced it and lol every time when their true emotions finally shine through like year+ into relationship
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Lold inaccurate cliffs

Your first cliff note should be:

- Op gets bored with loyal girl and tells her he doesn't want a relationship with her

-girl reaches out like nothing happened months later and asks OP out
You didn't mention in the thread you told her that though. You cancelled date, went NC and assumed she'd get the picture. But people cancel dates for a plethora of reasons

And lol @ you calling that wall of text 'reaching out like nothing happened'



Don't get me wrong I dgaf, but some of you have a way too hostile mentality against girls, probably not healthy for future relationships etc
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Originally Posted By DJGirth
This is a word by word description of my ex-gf

And she was Christian so out of respect for her beliefs I couldn't take her to pound town

Never again
I can absolutely wait and hold out on sex, but the chick has to be able to offer me more than ass, if that's the case. My girl would put out, but I still need more than that.
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Lol you didn't date her enough to see the changes, I've experienced it and lol every time when their true emotions finally shine through like year+ into relationship
lol I know what you mean, but I generally like strong personalities. I dont like waiting forever to finally know the person I'm dealing with.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
You didn't date her enough to see the changes
I couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.
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lol I know what you mean, but I generally like strong personalities. I dont like waiting forever to finally know the person I'm dealing with.
Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality. It took about a year and living together for my real side to come out with my closest girl because I was trying so hard to be nice and I was in love with her so couldn't be unpleasant.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Isn't it more about looks op? You said she's 6.5/10. You can probably do much better lookswise.
lol nah, I'm not too picky as long as there is SOME physical attraction, and she can make up for it in personality
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I couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.
I'll save the scared timid girls for you brahs. I'll pass personally.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias
Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality.
That's not true. She sounds boring AF. I couldn't be with someone boring.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias
I couldn't put it more succinctly if I tried.

Everyone tries to be likeable at the beginning DV, it's not about having a strong or weak personality. It took about a year and living together for my real side to come out with my closest girl because I was trying so hard to be nice and I was in love with her so couldn't be unpleasant.
well me initiating all the time was the probably the most annoying thing
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Originally Posted By Cass40
That's not true. She sounds boring AF. I couldn't be with someone boring.
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real talk, did you eat ass or naw?
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That was a reasonable message on her part

Pretty blatant brag thread

Guessing she's really a 5.5
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Originally Posted By Cass40
That's not true. She sounds boring AF. I couldn't be with someone boring.
I see where you're coming from, my last girl was a wet cloth when it came to expressing her differing opinion. But my experience has been that for as long as lust or love is on the table you're going to be nice if that's how you think things will develop.
Originally Posted By drvillain
well me initiating all the time was the probably the most annoying thing
That's an instant red flag for me. I wouldn't have stuck with this girl either on that basis, I'd get tired of seeing someone who isn't keen and me always having to second guess. But the other things are discountable, at least from my side.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
real talk, did you eat ass or naw?
Never eaten ass in my life.
Originally Posted By Ratfish
That was a reasonable message on her part

Pretty blatant brag thread

Guessing she's really a 5.5
whatever helps your ego

#cope
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Originally Posted By drvillain
whatever helps your ego

#cope
Don't be silly, this thread is all about your ego, obviously
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