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Thread: It's pretty horrifying what divorce actually is

post 1537594841 12-15-2017, 08:46 AM
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Never met a woman in this age who can cook, bang well or provide anything of value to me. So it seems crazy to hand over 50%+ of my money to a woman.


Blue Pill miscers usually bring up chit about loneliness but there's plenty of lonely married and lonely divorced men out there.
post 1537594871 12-15-2017, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
I paid for everything. To be honest when I got to the jail I'd say a good 40% of the people in my dorm were people in there for women that didn't belong in there.
from what I've heard canada has HUGE problems with this, pretty ****ed up country with a huge ugly side
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1537595181 12-15-2017, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
from what I've heard canada has HUGE problems with this, pretty ****ed up country with a huge ugly side
My mind is always blown when socially conservative Asians are moving to Cuckistan in huge numbers. But these Asians can rarely read English as well and probably read some glorified Immigration Canada brochure that doesn't mention Canada's extreme left social values and criminal law.
post 1537595551 12-15-2017, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
My mind is always blown when socially conservative Asians are moving to Cuckistan in huge numbers. But these Asians can rarely read English as well and probably read some glorified Immigration Canada brochure that doesn't mention Canada's extreme left social values and criminal law.
remember kids in the hall? one of those guys has a horror story about divorce in canada that will make your blood boil - he has to pay something like 20k a month and if he can't its prison forever - so he left the country
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1537595621 12-15-2017, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
What makes a person want a divorce 20 years down the road? That's the real question. Does the resentment build over time? Or did something happen like cheating?
I can't stay with a girl for a year, I can't imagine 20. I don't think I'm meant to get married.
post 1537595941 12-15-2017, 08:56 AM
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never getting married again crew. I have 2 kids and own 2 houses now fuk handing that chit off to some broad.
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post 1537596761 12-15-2017, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
remember kids in the hall? one of those guys has a horror story about divorce in canada that will make your blood boil - he has to pay something like 20k a month and if he can't its prison forever - so he left the country
Dave Foley. Guy is hilarious. The court ordered him to pay $10,700 per month for child support for only 2 kids - an amount that he said was literally 400% of his income.
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post 1537596881 12-15-2017, 09:05 AM
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I don't know if I completely believe the OP, but at that point why not just disappear?

Book a flight to a third world country with whatever money you can take/hide, and just go off grid? Work online doing some low wage pointless ****, whatever.
post 1537597451 12-15-2017, 09:10 AM
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Coworker who has 2 kids just got divorced. She doesn't work and he pays for them to live in his old home while he lives lonely in an apartment with nothing to do besides work. Sad existence and not sure how he does it.
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post 1537597491 12-15-2017, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By thorpowers⏩
The general divorce statistics are 50%. If the women makes more money than the man the divorce rate is 75%. Women have hypergamy. She won't be attracted to a man earning less than herself.
Damn fiance makes more than me. Although we both make decent so no by much. I've already been divorced though wasn't a big deal, had tons of fun after. Went on a while smashing spree over like a 6 year period. This thread sounds like come some cuck cope chit for depressed people who aren't in shape enough to bang after they get left.
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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
I read somewhere that the vast majority of divorces are filed by women. Nothing ruins a childhood like a divorce. It sucks about your parents but at least you were grown by then.
I was 16, but my little bro was only 7. Somehow ended up ok though, he's crushing life now. Today is his 25th birthday.
post 1537598001 12-15-2017, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By KurtMussell⏩
Dave Foley. Guy is hilarious. The court ordered him to pay $10,700 per month for child support for only 2 kids - an amount that he said was literally 400% of his income.
Still better than Phil Hartman. His wife just shot him in the head.
post 1537598021 12-15-2017, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Coworker who has 2 kids just got divorced. She doesn't work and he pays for them to live in his old home while he lives lonely in an apartment with nothing to do besides work. Sad existence and not sure how he does it.
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post 1537598161 12-15-2017, 09:17 AM
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that painful moment of realization that your paycheck is legally given to your ex, so she can live comfortably while getting railed by multiple partners
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post 1537598411 12-15-2017, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
that painful moment of realization that your paycheck is legally given to your ex, so she can live comfortably while getting railed by multiple partners
It was Tom Leykis who said something like child support doesn't go to your kids. Child support goes towards Jack Daniels and Pizza for whomever is railing her.


Same is technically true for Food Stamps in USA. Worker doesn't need to buy food with their own money so it's more money for lottery tickets, alcohol and smokes.
post 1537598461 12-15-2017, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Compatibility is super important. Even when you have a lot of compatibility (similar interests)you need to make sure you have good communication. On both ends.That was our downfall.
This cannot be overemphasized. I have had some relationships fall apart because, guess what, good communication means that she will tell me something like "I want to have kids and then never go back to work" and I can say "I will never have kids with someone who wants to stay at home the rest of her life, making me the sole provider out of necessity". It is so important to have these kinds of conversations in a way, even before you are becoming super serious about the person. Some people are far less willing to compromise on certain things in life, and it is delusional to think marrying the person and then having a kid with them is the best way to change their mind.

This flawed thinking has created such damaged childhoods for so many people.
post 1537599361 12-15-2017, 09:26 AM
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At some point, we need to come up with some kind of social contract other than the concept of marriage being a lifetime thing. Something two people can sign every few years. I think more people would be apt to take a chance on a relationship if they could do it for say a 3-7 year term.
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post 1537599561 12-15-2017, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
It was Tom Leykis who said something like child support doesn't go to your kids. Child support goes towards Jack Daniels and Pizza for whomever is railing her.


Same is technically true for Food Stamps in USA. Worker doesn't need to buy food with their own money so it's more money for lottery tickets, alcohol and smokes.
Eh, neither of these is really true. Most single moms need the financial support. The problem is that courts make the payments way too high in many cases.

Alimony should be done away with totally
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
At some point, we need to come up with some kind of social contract other than the concept of marriage being a lifetime thing. Something two people can sign every few years. I think more people would be apt to take a chance on a relationship if they could do it for say a 3-7 year term.
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
congrats you are part of a 1-2% minority - most women won't even consider this, unless you mean a woman who makes 300k and a guy that makes 200k, or something along those lines... in the lower strata things tend to operate very differently for the most part
My gf makes $10k more than me in salary. She even used to cringe looking at me back in high school. Now she wants to marry me. Been together 2 years this Jan.
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Yeah it's crazy how the relationships can change from one extreme end (loving eachother) to another (hating eachother). I get it, after so much time people get annoyed and want something new. But do you really have to destroy the other in the proces? I had some friends who I knew for 20 years. Then over time they/I changed and we weren't besties anymore. Still, I wouldn't wish to see them hurt (and I assume they don't either) just because we're not on that same level as before. We're still friendly and want good things for eachother. Why should a couple be any different?

I have great respect for couples that can settle divorces as friends.
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well if he was a miscer he could have avoided this
lol@ getting married
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Originally Posted By jmoneyjumpman⏩
Me and one of my clients were bsing at work today and I got him to open his whole life story to him. Guy married a girl mid 25's, stayed with her for 20 years, and had kids with her. After 20 years she moved out and handed him divorce papers in the mail. No face to face confrontation about it. He's stuck paying for her house and pays alimony for the rest of her life. According to NJ's alimony laws the wife could get it if they stayed together for a shorter amount of time. But since they were married for a little over 20 years, she's set for life. Absolutely terrifying to think about this scenario. All I want to do is find a down to earth girl.
I wish I could no-fault quit my job, but have the government force them to keep me living at the standard I was used to while working for them. I get the office space, and a large fraction of their profits. That would suit me just fine. I'd quit my job for almost no reason if I had that as an exit strategy. I'd quit out of boredom. I'd quit to work a part time job off the clock. I'd quit and travel. I'D QUIT.

This is why the divorce laws need a rework. If I was a woman I'd fukkin take it too
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
Eh, neither of these is really true. Most single moms need the financial support. The problem is that courts make the payments way too high in many cases.

Alimony should be done away with totally
a female getting paid child support isn't a single mother, people need to quit labeling them as single mothers when they aren't.
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
At some point, we need to come up with some kind of social contract other than the concept of marriage being a lifetime thing. Something two people can sign every few years. I think more people would be apt to take a chance on a relationship if they could do it for say a 3-7 year term.
Not really. We just need the legal aspects of marriage to go away (hospital visitation, filing taxes together, honestly there's not much else). Make it so you can sign a form to do those things with anyone (side effect: gay marriage dispute disappears). Then leave marriage as it always was: a religious/personal institution that has nothing to do with the government.

The biggest barrier to a non-government marriage is people (women) viewing NOT getting married as a lack of commitment. In many cases it is a sign, but actually getting married does not do anything to change your level of commitment. There's nothing binding about modern marriage anyway. It's exactly the same argument as bitcoin...
"bitcoin doesn't have real value" -- "your real money doesn't have real value either" -- Head explodes.
"just living together and having a wedding doesn't make us committed for life" -- "legal marriage doesn't do anything to change that" -- Head explodes

Disclaimer, am legally married. Not anti-marriage in any way. Still would have had a wedding, I'm just anti government involvement. But I didn't try to push the issue on my new wife.
Originally Posted By Ozzieturk⏩
Yeah it's crazy how the relationships can change from one extreme end (loving eachother) to another (hating eachother). I get it, after so much time people get annoyed and want something new. But do you really have to destroy the other in the proces? I had some friends who I knew for 20 years. Then over time they/I changed and we weren't besties anymore. Still, I wouldn't wish to see them hurt (and I assume they don't either) just because we're not on that same level as before. We're still friendly and want good things for eachother. Why should a couple be any different?

I have great respect for couples that can settle divorces as friends.
The average person has the emotional maturity of a 2 year old.
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a buddy of mine was married for 22 years, perfect life, him and his wife both tons of money, 4 beautiful daughters. one summer she ends up banging some gross fat dude and leaves her husband for him.

the reason? He didnt hold hands with her when they went out & the new guy does


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Thats the thing with women, they just complain about the things that don't benefit them in society but zero complaint about anything that benefits them; i.e. divorce settlements, diversity quotas to name a few.
Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
Just lol if you think a woman will marry someone who makes less money than they do.
Classic miscer thinking. This doesn't happen frequently because women in general make less then men but the gap will close more and it will happen more and more often. A co-worker of mine has a wife who works in Equity Research and she makes 2x the amount he does.
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