NEED HELP. I fukked up a 2 year relationship and cant cope (SRS) (REPS)

03-10-2018, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩

lmfao if you think getting told who you can and can't talk to is healthy relationship behavior. I'll talk to whoever tf I want to talk to and at the end of the day if a girl couldn't trust me to keep my dik in my pants that is her problem not mine.

Just because you are the type of cuck who cowers down to every demand a girl makes doesn't mean the rest of the alpha misc would consider living that type of life.

Dude you are either a huge hypocrite or a huge fukin beta cuck, no other fukin choice lol. Brb letting your hot girlfriend go out of town and just casually let her spend the weekend with Chad, because "herp derp im not insecureeeee".

You been sucking someone else's jizz brah imma just say that.

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03-10-2018, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz⏩

If your partner made it clear that he/she doesn't want you interacting with whomever due to whatever reason. If you had any respect for the relationship, then you would put your partner's wants first. It's not OP's place to be a "nice" guy, he's not her therapist. The fact of the matter is, he wasn't honest beforehand, broke boundaries that the gf set, and now must suffer the consequences.

Yeah no idea why OP decided to deal with some other girl's schit, but who cares he did and its done. Perhaps you've never been in a relationship with a highly sought after individual though so you probably don't understand why it is stupid AF to forbid a significant other from talking to someone just because they are interested.

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This proves that you're an upstanding guy. Wouldn't be suprised if you end up getting cucked by your future wife/gf. You're the definition of a soyboy.

Oh no my feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelz. You can't just hit me with a bunch of misc memes all at once like that.

Aw fuk sorry I shouldn't even be talking to you. You are obviously very interested in me so I'm probably forbidden to even look at your avi. I better block you before its too late!

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03-10-2018, 12:14 AM

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Best bet is to continue NC all the way with both sloots.

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03-10-2018, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩

lmfao if you think getting told who you can and can't talk to is healthy relationship behavior. I'll talk to whoever tf I want to talk to and at the end of the day if a girl couldn't trust me to keep my dik in my pants that is her problem not mine.

Just because you are the type of cuck who cowers down to every demand a girl makes doesn't mean the rest of the alpha misc would consider living that type of life.

Lol, go bulk, then ill take your opinion seriously, you look 100 lbs soaking wet. Twink.

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03-10-2018, 12:24 AM

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03-10-2018, 12:25 AM

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Son, you are feeling guilty. There is something in those messages or something you did that you know is wrong. Otherwise, you wouldn't be all torn up about it. Now son, all you can do is grab your balls and deal with the pain you have caused yourself. You're a punk. Feel the burn. It gets better with time, but this is ON YOU.

03-10-2018, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

Honestly dude I wouldn't want to get back with a sloot who overreacted like that, she probably has trust issues as well. Just take a hot shower and sleep it off man, you'll get a better girl in no time.

This

Hard say it is to hear OP the sooner you give up on her and move on the sooner your life will be moving forward again.

Your "GF" is literally using this scenario to "see what's out there" and "find herself" I'll bet.

Bottom line is once they break it off with you like she has they have passed through a threshold and revealed a level of underlying disdain that is unacceptable imo.

Examine what wasn't working with her (I.E. overtly emotional, drama queen, excessive jealousy) and don't accept it in a long term partner ever again.

03-10-2018, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted By randombrah1⏩

****** the situation is:

1 partner asked the other partner to avoid someone that clearly has interest on them. Aka asking for respect.

Said partner goes and does exactly the opposite. They hang out the whole weekend by themselves.

Partner that was at home will never have a way to prove that these two being together didnt turned into a fuk fest. All they know is that they hung out and that they are testing about having feelings for each other (key point is that the one that hung out with other didnt even denied having feels, showed hesitation). In short, they ones that hung out may have banged or not, sure as hell it looks like it.

Lol at calling completely rational behaviour "psycho". Negged for being a dumb kunt.

Wasnt alone most the time. First night she was at my mates house with them around, but we went for a walk alone. 2nd day we were all at a powerlifting comp and then she trained with me and my mate and then came to dinner with us all. But she did ask me to go airport with her and I said sure since mate and gf were studying. 3rd day I was with mate til he had work and she asked me to hang then picked me up. I ended up leaving with a different mate and chilling with him at his place. Last day before I left I went and said bye but she ended up keeping me there for a while and made me food etc.

Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩

Yeah no idea why OP decided to deal with some other girl's schit, but who cares he did and its done. Perhaps you've never been in a relationship with a highly sought after individual though so you probably don't understand why it is stupid AF to forbid a significant other from talking to someone just because they are interested.

Im a sensitive and emotional person. If someone around me is in pain/feeling down Im the one to help them (no matter who it is). Even "gfs" brother who has threatened me and wanted to stab me, he got out of jail and he was down and he vented to me about never wanting to go back and I listened and talked to him.

And like I said it was to help my mate out too

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03-10-2018, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted By randombrah1⏩

Lol, go bulk, then ill take your opinion seriously, you look 100 lbs soaking wet. Twink.

Lol 18% BF please go. You've been here 6 years and don't even look like you lift.

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03-10-2018, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩

lmfao if you think getting told who you can and can't talk to is healthy relationship behavior. I'll talk to whoever tf I want to talk to and at the end of the day if a girl couldn't trust me to keep my dik in my pants that is her problem not mine.

Just because you are the type of cuck who cowers down to every demand a girl makes doesn't mean the rest of the alpha misc would consider living that type of life.

I agree to an extent, you should not accept someone dictating who you can and cannot talk to but do not forget to follow the golden rule; are you okay with your girl regularly texting and having "guy friends" or spending excessive time with other males? If you are and that was your arrangement cool but my personal preference is to avoid this out of respect, not because I have to.

03-10-2018, 12:38 AM

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[QUOTE=RobParks2M post_id=1546031761]Lol 18% BF please go. You've been here 6 years and don't even look like you lift.

Not admiring your peasant gym either *******.
[img]https://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/profile-photo/10544905/9b4ad362d12b40ec9f5fd7a834bf8b9b.jpg[/mg][/QUOTE]Thats from 2012 tho, hnnnnng

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03-10-2018, 12:49 AM

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Just let things mellow out a bit. You didn't cheat or anything really. She'll calm down. Other women wanting you usually increases interest levels of your current gf. Be honest about the situation if you didnt do anything wrong. Women have these little emotional cheating affairs all the time. If the relationship doesn't work out, you could have broken up tomorrow over something else, you never know. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be, there will be more women.

03-10-2018, 01:38 AM

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03-10-2018, 01:41 AM

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tell that kunt to fuk off and go NC

03-10-2018, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted By flat6pilot⏩

Just let things mellow out a bit. You didn't cheat or anything really. She'll calm down. Other women wanting you usually increases interest levels of your current gf. Be honest about the situation if you didnt do anything wrong. Women have these little emotional cheating affairs all the time. If the relationship doesn't work out, you could have broken up tomorrow over something else, you never know. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be, there will be more women.

Yea mane just gonna give it time now and not contact til she does

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03-10-2018, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

let this be a lesson to jaymz

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03-10-2018, 05:33 PM

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03-10-2018, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩

I get back home to "gf" and as I was sleeping she thought something was up cause I hardly talked to her all weekend and she goes through my phone. Sees all txts and kicks me out at 2am. Doesnt trust me and broke up with me. Shes saying its as bad as cheating if not worse cause emotions are in play.

Didn't read the entire thread yet.

OP if she doesn't trust you to the point that she is going through your phone (boundary violation) then your relationship was already messed up.

Srs. Old lady here. Very first serious BF cheated on me openly so everyone knew but me... Still have never gone through an SO's email/phone.

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03-10-2018, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted By katya422⏩

Didn't read the entire thread yet.

OP if she doesn't trust you to the point that she is going through your phone (boundary violation) then your relationship was already messed up.

Srs. Old lady here. Very first serious BF cheated on me openly so everyone knew but me... Still have never gone through an SO's email/phone.

We had eachothers passwords etc. and let eachother go onto phones whenever. Neither of us cared and had nothing to hide

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03-10-2018, 06:11 PM

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03-10-2018, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

Honestly dude I wouldn't want to get back with a sloot who overreacted like that, she probably has trust issues as well. Just take a hot shower and sleep it off man, you'll get a better girl in no time.

Are you srs? Honestly OP really fuked up there imo:
-Literally stayed in the same crib as the girl his GF told him to stay away from all weekend
-Doesn't talk to GF much all weekend
-Talks to this sloot most of weekend
-Then when asked if he has feeling for this sloot he says "I had to think about it..."

Lmao if one of my chicks ever did that I'd breakup with their ass and would go strong no contact.

To OP even if you get back with her now, she's gonna be thinking about how you had to think about it when it came to wanting another chick so if she is ever in a similar situation she's prob gonna at least entertain the dude now like you did.

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03-10-2018, 06:22 PM

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03-10-2018, 06:27 PM

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[QUOTE=IPlayRugby post_id=1546027461]Cliffs:
Go out of town
Let bad news slip and [b[have to comfort mates ex[/b]
Asks if I have feels and I say "I had to think about it, but na dont think so"

Need ideas to win her back[/QUOTE]You didn't "have to comfort her"- you knew there was a little thing and enjoyed the attention & drama & wanted to see where it went just like a sl00t would.

Your final text to her is classic attention whoring- "No, but here's some hope to keep you in my orbit".

Face it bro, you're a sloot and if your gf isn't then you probably don't deserve her.

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03-10-2018, 06:27 PM

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Brah, if she’s going to trip about that kind of stuff, then she sounds pretty immature. It’s not like you hooked up with her, it was just a casual encounter with Powerlifting Sloot.

If your GF can’t get past it, and has trust issues (provided you never given her a reason to have trust issues)

She obviously doesn’t care enough about you to make it work.

Just tell her you love her and it’s a Mis Understanding, and ask her what you can do to make it right.

Good luck, Bro. You’ll be in my prayers.

03-10-2018, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted By peterplsss⏩

Are you srs? Honestly OP really fuked up there imo:
-Literally stayed in the same crib as the girl his GF told him to stay away from all weekend
-Doesn't talk to GF much all weekend
-Talks to this sloot most of weekend
-Then when asked if he has feeling for this sloot he says "I had to think about it..."

Lmao if one of my chicks ever did that I'd breakup with their ass and would go strong no contact.

To OP even if you get back with her now, she's gonna be thinking about how you had to think about it when it came to wanting another chick so if she is ever in a similar situation she's prob gonna at least entertain the dude now like you did.

^^^^^^ Yup to all of this.

Originally Posted By blakus_javus⏩

You didn't "have to comfort her"- you knew there was a little thing and enjoyed the attention & drama & wanted to see where it went just like a sl00t would.

Your final text to her is classic attention whoring- "No, but here's some hope to keep you in my orbit".

Face it bro, you're a sloot and if your gf isn't then you probably don't deserve her.

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03-10-2018, 06:42 PM

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The people saying she's crazy and overreacting are the same people who would call a guy's gf a sl00t and assume she got a train ran on her by Jamal and Tyrone if the tables were turned. You fukked up OP plain and simple, move on. This'll be a thing of the past in a few weeks.

03-10-2018, 06:44 PM

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Seems like your GF is blowing it the fuk out of proportion.

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03-10-2018, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩

lold at anyone saying she overreacted

No GF of mine would be going out of town by herself, and absolutely no chance if there is the possibility that she may run into "Chad" or "Tyrone", just no fukin way, first of all because if i had a GF that means she would be a very attractive and desirable woman, so there is just no chance id let her around any danger of thirsty dudes, you dont do that, no matter how confident or secure or whatever, you absotuley never do that, its retarded as fuk.

So thatd be red flag number 1, she going out of town where some thirsty dude may be there all weekend, hell no, the moment you get on your car the moment you are a single girl.

Second, if she was distant when she got home, and clearly hiding something from me, and then confessing to me that she spent all weekend with the one guy i asked her not to even talk to, and even had to THINK about whether or not she had feelings for him... LMAO

I wouldnt even ask her to leave, id carry her **** outside, pull her out of the fukin house or whatever and let her figure out her entire fukin life mistakes by her lonely ass self. And absolutely never contact again, in the back of my mind she would have always fuked the Chad on that weekend, if not why the hell would Chad be asking her if she has feelings? After a weekend together?

Oh hell no.

So yeah OP she did good breaking up with your dumbass, srs. Some people are swingers, some people forgive their partner when they cheat, some people pretend they dont know, some people even allow a bit of flirting via text, and some people have absolutely no need to be putting up with bull**** as simple as texting a random person things that they should just not be texting. In my case, if a girl talks with a thirsty dude and engages in a convo with him, behind my back, even if its clear she is just attention whoring, then shes out of the fukin picture

Now imma tell you what to do to get her back. You send her a text "Im sorry, i didnt do anything i hope you can believe me one day, ill be around" AND THATS IT, NO FUKIN CONTACT, NORTH CAROLINA BITCH, LET HER MISS YOU, LET HER FREAK OUT, LET HER PANIC, "WHAT IF HE MOVES ON OH NO IMMA TEXT HIM". Woman go from 0 to 100 and back to 0 every single day, one day they can tell you they love you, and actually mean it, and the next day they are fuking Michael the pool boy because they realized you watch too much football. Thats how unstable woman are, so just give her time to miss you. DONT SEND HER ****, NO SNAPS INSTAGRAM FB TEXTS LIKES, SHARES, ANYTHING, become a ghost and she will be texting you in about 4 days

This. You guys are ****ing idiots saying OP did nothing wrong. Gf says don’t see/hang out with chick. Chick appears. OP doesn’t tell gf chick is there. Chick cries, OP lies and then hangs with chick all weekend. OP tells girl he might like her. OP distant to gf all weekend. OP doesn’t delete texts. Girl aka Carmen San Diego catches OP’s dumb ass lying and sees texts and boots his ass to the curb. GJGF.

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03-10-2018, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩

Powerlifting sloot ends up txting me and asking me if I had feelings for her and I reply "I had to think about it, but na dont think so".

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whyd you have to think about it if youve been in a 2 year long relationship?

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