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post 1560070551 08-30-2018, 10:38 AM
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post 1560071651 08-30-2018, 10:54 AM
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**** OP i feel this. Ive had a lot of casual sex and its really not worth the time or effort. You either have to wear a condom which sucks, or worry about catching some STD or getting a chick preggos. I am also 29 so maybe my biology is telling me its time to settle down? lol.
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post 1560072491 08-30-2018, 11:06 AM
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random is more into sloots
not my type, iam more into emotion in the ocean
post 1560072631 08-30-2018, 11:08 AM
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Agreed with OP. Pulling for a night is kinda pointless unless its turning into something more.
Have a FWB and after every time I regret even if it was really fun.
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post 1560076961 08-30-2018, 12:07 PM
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It's not that the sex sucks, the best sex I ever had was with a ons in July and my ex and I had great sex for 2.5 years. It's the feeling afterwards, I feel so empty. It's almost depressing, and most of the time I'm also thinking of my ex, so I got some sht I need to get over before having sex again. I really need to focus on myself and really moving on. But either way casual sex is not worth it to me.
post 1560091291 08-30-2018, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
Lol, 6'4", lives in the US and can't get laid. Bad news for you boyo... don't look half bad from what I can tell in avi, either.
Wouldn't not couldn't... Or can't.
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post 1560091621 08-30-2018, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
You don't deserve a 7/10.

Lower your standards or buy a doll.
Lol at lowering my standards to have sex with someone that I'm not even attracted to
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post 1560091681 08-30-2018, 03:00 PM
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it's literally the biggest rush ever. Few and far between though.

But meeting a girl and instantly hitting it off, flirting hardcore, and hooking up, how could any guy NOT like that? Not talking about easy slooty girls either.
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post 1560093241 08-30-2018, 03:20 PM
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Yes and no

It’s pretty much the fact that overtime the novelty begins to dwindle, and havig the power of choice makes you gradually pickier. So in the early days sex is awesome as you deal with

- New poon
- different teddies sizes
- interesting perfumes
- screamer/non screamer
- determining the level of experience she has
- how well/badly she kisses
- long hair/short hair/fuller lips/ thin lips (lol)
- her place / my place (don’t know why, but the ones that i had the quickest to lay with ALWAYS had a world map in her room, i guess she “loves to travel” nomsayin?)

But overtime unless she’s a 8+ with perfect hygiene (usually it goes hand in hand) then the interest starts to slowly dwindle. The power of choice makes you become more picky and selective, and unless she’s a good lay which qualifies her to be on rotation for a while, it’s never as exciting and appealing as the first few years. It slowly turns to something similar to beig hungry, still feels good though, and still want it

I’d rather be in a great relationship that has most of what i want in it than managing chicks and timing, including/excluding the ones on rotation and even having to deal with what i call green/amber/red zones aka the likelihood that you run into one of the rotations while hanging out with girl #4 in a particular area

One of my more focalized areas in sex is now if the girl is sensual, she’s in for a while. Too many chicks are damn mechanical in the US and are barely good kissers. European ones though? Mmh mmh mmh
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post 1560095761 08-30-2018, 03:44 PM
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lmao strong reactions ITT

Good on you opie, you don't need to chase puss just so guys can think you're cool. A meaningful relationship is so much better
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post 1560097021 08-30-2018, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By dfprodz⏩
I’d rather be in a great relationship that has most of what i want in it than managing chicks and timing, including/excluding the ones on rotation and even having to deal with what i call green/amber/red zones aka the likelihood that you run into one of the rotations while hanging out with girl #4 in a particular area
Seems like a pretty easy situation to manage tho, compared to meeting more girls. But I don't use Tinder and don't rack up insane numbers.

Anytime I wasn't in a long term relationship, I was seeing max 2 girls at a time seriously, and maybe talking to another.
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post 1560097171 08-30-2018, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Coolman468⏩
This lifestyle is not for me, call me low test, I'm fine with that. But I miss having a girl I had a connection with and that I wanted to hang out with and go out with. After I bust a nut with these girls I don't care about I literally just want to get away from them asap and want nothing to do with them. I'm more so looking for someone I can hang out with on a regular basis and have a connection with. It doesn't even have to be a girlfriend. But a lot of these girls have nothing to offer other than sex and even that sucks majority of the time.
has your ex moved on?
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post 1560097751 08-30-2018, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Coolman468⏩
Lol I don't defend myself on here, but you have bad math skills man. My girlfriend broke up with me in late May, it's late August. Wow can't believe it's been 6 months.
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post 1560098251 08-30-2018, 04:11 PM
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Had casuals and girls I wasn't that into for years then found one I actually like and click with and there's a big difference
post 1560120671 08-30-2018, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I've done casual sex but it leaves me empty TBH
The point isn't to fill yourself, it's to fill someone else
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post 1560121401 08-30-2018, 09:38 PM
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for a lot of people its just a circle jerk contest or how they validate themselves.
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post 1560123991 08-30-2018, 10:26 PM
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We talking about practice, man.
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you got to pick 'em up just to say hello.
post 1560124141 08-30-2018, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion⏩
On that small peen time?
This seems accurate given the description of circumstances
post 1560124421 08-30-2018, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think it's an ego thing more than anything OP. If you're FA/incel, it sounds incredible, but once you know you can pull women for sex, the desire is gone (at least for me). It's easier (and sometimes more enjoyable vs. a condom) to just use a fleshlight.
there is a big difference between pulling woman and pulling beautiful woman. Op stop having sex with average chicks.
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Just be grateful you aren't completely ruined op..

After years of total demoralization... drugs, orgies, threesome, moms and daughters, wives, girlfriends, you name it... there will never ever be a day where the ability to differentiate "casual sex" and "meaningful sex" will ever return...

Stop fuking around with these types of women.. it will destroy you
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post 1560125291 08-30-2018, 10:52 PM
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All things in moderation. If you just smash randoms one after the other like an ego stroke, sure.

I think ongoing FWB/smash a few times (not one time) can be fun e.g. the challenge and uncertainty of whether or not you can get it. And also wondering what her body looks and moves like out of them clothes. Then some carefree sex without the demands of a relationship.

But key is moderation. Don't dedicate all your free time to it and/or focus on numbers. Use some discernment. Dont smash what you later feel ashamed of and/or feel has STD potential, etc. Some discretion is key to enjoy it.
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I've recently raised my standards way higher, honestly sex has too many risks to take without getting something in return. A mediocre nut with an average sloot is not worth those risks...
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Have had my share of vagine and agree w op srs
post 1561281051 09-14-2018, 01:02 PM
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The problem with casual sex is that it usually takes a while to get in the rhythm and figure out what each other likes, so ONS can suck or be boring. Sometimes it clicks right away, but that's how relationships start...
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I agree with you OP, sex with sloots is boring af. There's nothing better than fukking a nice 7+/10 woman you love and that is your girlfind.
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I only like it when I pay for it.
Otherwise it’s degenerate
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How quality are these 6 girls you slept with op? Got some pics?
post 1561284321 09-14-2018, 01:43 PM
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Agree OP.

Had some casual encounters couple of weeks after break-up. One of which was a threesom with 2 F's and it did nothing for me. Some friends of mine genuinely enjoy having sex with random sluts, but for me it isn't enjoyable at all. I need some kind of intimacy.
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Well guys I fcked up last week and smashed this girl that I chose my ex over almost 3 years ago. She's been wanting it for a while. Either way I'm now done with randoms. These girls now gotta prove to me they deserve it. I've decided to look for a gf outside of college and get a professional women who's ready to settle down. I want my first child when I'm 26. I do not want to be an old dad that can't whoop his son's ass in sports.
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