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post 1560481111 09-04-2018, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
He kept posting that stupid chit all last night. Definitely needs to seek mental health.
hope it's a perma srs, i have no idea why people here like him
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post 1560481211 09-04-2018, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By WorldClassDBag⏩
hope it's a perma srs, i have no idea why people here like him
Lol sword is the only one I can think of that does
post 1560481281 09-04-2018, 07:39 PM
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I feel very sorry for what keeps happening to you.. hopefully you can find some meaning in your life.. look within yourself and ask why this keeps happening to you.

Only you can answer why the pattern repeats.

Hint: it can't be every guy you date. Must be something else
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Have some self respect. Buy a few sex toys and actually find a guy that won’t treat you like how you usually allow men to.
Yeah I will, it sucks because these guys start out normal and then they show they true colours. When they show their true colours I walk away which is quite tiring to do.
Like some of them will be supportive, talk meaningful stuff about life, cuddle in bed talking about childhood memories, past relationships, family issues and then turn into demons later on.

I don't even understand what the point of being so deceitful is. I honestly don't think there's a guy for me.
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post 1560481681 09-04-2018, 07:46 PM
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maybe you were lying there like a dead fish and he isn't into necrophilia
Lmao @ responses
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post 1560481791 09-04-2018, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
I wouldnt cease casual sex completely unless you are choosing from the options you have available lol. Just make sure the next one isnt like the ones before. And follow the warriorgirls advice and get sex toys. Oh and sucks u got the herp. At least you are telling your partners beforehand five you respect for that. Just know it has an impact on how your partners perceive you and could be a partial cause of how you are being treated.
Well the only difference since me finding out I have the herp is getting ghosted. Before in a way it was worse, now at least they ghost instead of going the extra mile in being asshles.
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post 1560481891 09-04-2018, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
No most of those guys I had slept with before but this year they popped back up.
Now when you say "They" popped back up, do you mean the exes or the herpes?
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post 1560482871 09-04-2018, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ezjax⏩
I feel very sorry for what keeps happening to you.. hopefully you can find some meaning in your life.. look within yourself and ask why this keeps happening to you.

Only you can answer why the pattern repeats.

Hint: it can't be every guy you date. Must be something else
It is every guy. I think maybe I seem like the victim type so bad men are attracted to that. For instance I'm ever polite, like providing support, like showing affection. So it would seem that I'm easy prey so to speak.

Or it could be because I seem to enjoy sex too much, it turns men off and makes think that maybe I'm just all about sex.

That leads to resentment, because if I think back I can honestly say that most of those guys thought I was sleeping with someone else, a few were just in love with their gfs at the time so naturally weren't very concerned about my feelings. It's only when their relationships go sour their eyes open.

It could be a sign that I should be focusing more on stuff that matters like giving back to society, standing up for causes I believe in etc.
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post 1560482971 09-04-2018, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
Now when you say "They" popped back up, do you mean the exes or the herpes?
Exes lol
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post 1560483071 09-04-2018, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
Ok lets make this simple. What exactly are you looking for? Casual sex or a relationship?
At this point a piece of mind really, someone who'd be ok will taking things really slow.
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post 1560483721 09-04-2018, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Op it's generally clear from the start whether a guy only wants casual sex (which means he can drop you anytime) or a real relationship.

So if you don't like fwb then just avoid guys that don't show interest in genuinely dating you (like taking you out on real dates and fun activities without sex, showing genuine interest in your life etc).

In any case props for disclosing your std status prior to sex. I think unfortunately many people do not disclose it.

Edit: feel free to ignore if you don't want to post this but do you have HSV 1 or 2? Imo HSV 1 is an std too and people should disclose that even before kissing or sharing utensils etc. But I think many people regard HSV 1 as no big deal and do not disclose it, and I disagree with that.
True but some do start out asking for a date. Like guy 1 who ghosted me, he asked me out a few times. Guy 2 first meet up was a friendly thing, he cooked, I help out but barely, I ate, while chatting listening to music, food was delicious actually.

Guy 1 did ask about my past, family, likes, dislikes, spoke about his mom a bit and their dynamic.

I have the worse one, Hsv2, basically have to use hands for different things, for touching common surfaces left hand, I avoid shaking hands, right hand I tend to avoid using my fingertips to touch stuff, lots of antibacterial, recleaning surfaces etc.
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post 1560484151 09-04-2018, 08:24 PM
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Girl you sounds like you have no self esteem left since you got the herp derp and you give these men casual sex in subliminal hopes that it may turn into something
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post 1560484601 09-04-2018, 08:32 PM
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I bet none of these guys even exist
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post 1560484891 09-04-2018, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Lol sword is the only one I can think of that does
Doesn’t sword like everyone? Lol



@ OP, of course most people hide their true colors. That’s why you learn the flags of someone hiding their chit. Of course men/women will tell you anything to get the wet hole. Specially if they’re desperate enough and most people who don’t freak out that you have the herpe most likely is desperate (I don’t mean no disrespect to you)

Now OP, you are most likely better off with joining a dating site or group with people that have herpes. They’ll be on the same mental state as you and you’ll most likely find a guy that will actually be there for you.

Spoiler!
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post 1560484951 09-04-2018, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
I bet none of these guys even exist
Sometimes I feel like OP is a troll, but I always treat it like real tea
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post 1560485071 09-04-2018, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooklynB1⏩
Girl you sounds like you have no self esteem left since you got the herp derp and you give these men casual sex in subliminal hopes that it may turn into something
I'm uncomfortable with the idea of dating someone because of it. I wasn't interested in guy 2 though, just guy 1.
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post 1560485241 09-04-2018, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
Lol well get the peace of mind by having time to yourself so you can find out what you truly want in a partner. There is nothing wrong with taking things slow, but us guys can get bored with that within a certain time period and will begin exploring other options we have lol
You're right, I'll try that for a while. Yes men are fickle indeed lol.
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strong chance you gave him the impression you were either catching feelings or would get knocked up and not get a smasmorshion.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I'm uncomfortable with the idea of dating someone because of it. I wasn't interested in guy 2 though, just guy 1.
What do you do for a living, where you from and what’s your relationship with your parents?

Maybe you have a personality disorder?
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post 1560485581 09-04-2018, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Doesn’t sword like everyone? Lol



@ OP, of course most people hide their true colors. That’s why you learn the flags of someone hiding their chit. Of course men/women will tell you anything to get the wet hole. Specially if they’re desperate enough and most people who don’t freak out that you have the herpe most likely is desperate (I don’t mean no disrespect to you)

Now OP, you are most likely better off with joining a dating site or group with people that have herpes. They’ll be on the same mental state as you and you’ll most likely find a guy that will actually be there for you.

Spoiler!
P.s. There is someone for everyone. It’s just most people can be so freaking oblivious to their surroundings or don’t change their path
I don't know guy 1 is a good looking guy, good job, well endowed, well educated and spoken, excellent dresser can't really see him as the desperate type. Well maybe he's a sex addict.

But you're right perhaps I'll try those sites.
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post 1560485681 09-04-2018, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By DrHenryJekyll⏩
strong chance you gave him the impression you were either catching feelings or would get knocked up and not get a smasmorshion.
Nah I told him I'd be fine if he dated other chicks and that he shouldn't feel the need to hide that stuff.
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post 1560486541 09-04-2018, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooklynB1⏩
What do you do for a living, where you from and what’s your relationship with your parents?

Maybe you have a personality disorder?
Close somewhat was rocky with my mom, my dad spoiled me.

Possible but I don't start confrontations, the guys do by assuming I'm sleeping with someone else or likely to sleep with someone else. Im a bit insatiable but I'm loyal.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Close somewhat was rocky with my mom, my dad spoiled me.

Possible but I don't start confrontations, the guys do by assuming I'm sleeping with someone else or likely to sleep with someone else. Im a bit insatiable but I'm loyal.
real talk did you not realize every dude you mentioned already had a GF or significant other? why you only going after unavailable dudes?
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Originally Posted By DrHenryJekyll⏩
real talk did you not realize every dude you mentioned already had a GF or significant other? why you only going after unavailable dudes?
I usually find out after sex. They rarely if ever tell me before.
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
So you pretty much described a guy every female wants. If all that holds, he has options galore and probably isnt going to want to be tied down to one girl. Oh and never tell a guy its ok to date other girls while you are seeing him. Congrats on taking your first steps to becoming a cuckquean and lowering your overall value. How would you react if a guy told you that lol
Yeah he is a catch. And seemed sweet too unfortunately.
Well I didn't want guy 2 to feel like I was demanding a relationship, I wanted him to feel free to do what he wants. I suspected that he had feelings for some other chick so since it was just fwb, I let him know that I wouldn't get in his way. But I probably shouldn't have said that to him.

Guys have told me that, as a test apparently.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Close somewhat was rocky with my mom, my dad spoiled me.

Possible but I don't start confrontations, the guys do by assuming I'm sleeping with someone else or likely to sleep with someone else. Im a bit insatiable but I'm loyal.
Let’s assume that you’re even a female posting here (not likely)

And if you are then you’re just hungry for attention.

But you’re not, you’re fraduing. There’s no way any dude would smash after you told him you got herpes

Take me for example. If a sloot told me she has the herp I would never touch her. Because there are plenty of clean sloots out there .

I would admire the courage to warn me though so it would be intriguing but still no

My advice to you is to get the herp under control. AFAIK there’s medication that keep it from spreading, so use them.

Anyway you got it from somewhere, it’s not your fault
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
Hmm guessing that was your way to keep things in perspective for the both of you? What is it that you look for in a partner physically and mentally?
I look for someone who seems to be laid back, well mannered, not in sketchy stuff, smart, truthful, able to keep up sexually, confident
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3⏩
Sounds pretty straight forward. Just go on bumble and make a profile. I believe it lets females initiate first from what i hear. And also try those herpes dating sites too, i didnt even know those existed. You will find someone you are looking for. Most people do. And are you a guy just trolling?
K, I will try those sites, hopefully it'll work out. No, I'm not a guy trolling, it doesn't make sense for someone to go so far just to troll. My posts have been consistent so far, because they are the truth.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Yeah I will, it sucks because these guys start out normal and then they show they true colours. When they show their true colours I walk away which is quite tiring to do.
Like some of them will be supportive, talk meaningful stuff about life, cuddle in bed talking about childhood memories, past relationships, family issues and then turn into demons later on.

I don't even understand what the point of being so deceitful is. I honestly don't think there's a guy for me.
The truth is that they act like they do because you aren't worth their time other than a quick smash and dash. If you were hot and had an awesome personality then the story would be different.
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