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I was kicked out at 16. Aside from avoiding junkies/drugs in general, I had to complete my GED and work manual labor while sleeping on the streets.
I moved back briefly at 25 when I broke up with my ex of 3 years and couldn't move into my new place until the next month.
I moved back briefly at 25 when I broke up with my ex of 3 years and couldn't move into my new place until the next month.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
LOLThe hardest thing I've been dealing with is my grown daughter's wanting to move back home. They are both married and have children and it's happened to us more than once. My husband just hit his 20 yrs last week and can retire any day now. We just put our house up for sale and have been looking for homes in another state. My youngest just hit us up 3 days ago that she and her family will be homeless at the end of the month and have no place to live. Her husband can't seem to hold a job to save his life and they have a 2 yr old son.
Obviously I would never leave my kid homeless so they're moving in with us. I'm constantly putting my plans/life on hold because my kids can't seem to get their **** together.
I've spent my entire life doing everything for my kids and yes that's the way it should be...but is there ever a time in my life when I'm allowed to say enough is enough?!
Obviously I would never leave my kid homeless so they're moving in with us. I'm constantly putting my plans/life on hold because my kids can't seem to get their **** together.
I've spent my entire life doing everything for my kids and yes that's the way it should be...but is there ever a time in my life when I'm allowed to say enough is enough?!
Tell your daughter her and your grandchild can move in and son-in-law can fuk off and get a job. Since he's not your kin and won't be the man of the house, kick him to the curb until he gets a sense of responsibility.
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09-10-2018, 11:08 PM
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09-10-2018, 11:30 PM
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Moved out at 14 out of choice HOWEVER parents welcome with open arms and would continue to do so even when im 35 because they are fkn PARENTS.
God damn Western culture strays onto whacko territory sometimes.
BRB raise a child with blood sweat tears and money for 17 years
BRB 18th birthday
BRB pack ur bags and get out
BRB get put into a retirement home because none of your kids will put a roof over your head
Asian culture wins in this regard. Parents take care of kids when kids need help, kids take care of parents when parents need help
God damn Western culture strays onto whacko territory sometimes.
BRB raise a child with blood sweat tears and money for 17 years
BRB 18th birthday
BRB pack ur bags and get out
BRB get put into a retirement home because none of your kids will put a roof over your head
Asian culture wins in this regard. Parents take care of kids when kids need help, kids take care of parents when parents need help
09-11-2018, 12:59 AM
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Moved out at 25.
Loved real estate but was so poor out of college... I told my parents I wanted to buy a house... Dad said as long as you are working toward a goal you can stay. Bought the house at 25 and now at 28 going to buy another. Life just gets easier boyos. Never had to rent anything crew.
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Just honestly laugh at the people who think they are so tough when the move out at 18, but I guess that attitude is why you were kicked out in the first place. Poorcels!
Loved real estate but was so poor out of college... I told my parents I wanted to buy a house... Dad said as long as you are working toward a goal you can stay. Bought the house at 25 and now at 28 going to buy another. Life just gets easier boyos. Never had to rent anything crew.
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Just honestly laugh at the people who think they are so tough when the move out at 18, but I guess that attitude is why you were kicked out in the first place. Poorcels!
09-11-2018, 01:32 AM
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Anybody who moved out to go to college or military doesn’t count. You are literally given room and board even if u will have to pay for it later. Unless u live in a major city like la or ny nothing impressive about living in bum fuk Idaho when your rent 350 a month lmao
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24, still at home, but my parents moved out. couldn't handle my alphaness
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Kim, I think you know the answer to that question, deep down. It comes along with 'tough love' - but I wouldn't dream of telling you how to act in that situation. My wife and I are still planning kids...but I've made it clear that they areoutwhen they are 18. Sound harsh? Well:I've spent my entire life doing everything for my kids and yes that's the way it should be...but is there ever a time in my life when I'm allowed to say enough is enough?!
I skipped a grade when I was younger and left home when I was 17 (1997), to go to college on another continent. I love my family and all, but I was the kind of guy that needed to spread his wings early, and I like to think - as hard as it was in some ways, like working a part time and sometimes full time job during my undergraduate degree - that it has made me a more resilient person. And now weightlifting is just making all that even better...
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OP's family moves to another country which has more opportunities than OP's homeland. OP criticizes said country and the culture of said country which is part of the reason as to why the country is wealthier than his home land.
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What is your background OP?
I'm of "western background" but I said this in another thread I think which was also made by an NZ bro. The cultures that don't make their kids move out are the ones that tend to value family and have a stronger family unit in general. I'm in my early 20s and my parents haven't made me move out because they understand what is financially logical, plus I have a good relationship with my parents.
Lots of salty miscers ITT . mad that they could have saved so much money if their parents didn't kick them out. Tbh some kids need to be dropped in the deep end and told to swim otherwise they'll just leech but some are just setting **** up for life.
Also don't claim you "moved out at 18" if you moved into a college dorm while still getting pocket money from mummy and daddy for rent/food/etc.
I'm of "western background" but I said this in another thread I think which was also made by an NZ bro. The cultures that don't make their kids move out are the ones that tend to value family and have a stronger family unit in general. I'm in my early 20s and my parents haven't made me move out because they understand what is financially logical, plus I have a good relationship with my parents.
Lots of salty miscers ITT . mad that they could have saved so much money if their parents didn't kick them out. Tbh some kids need to be dropped in the deep end and told to swim otherwise they'll just leech but some are just setting **** up for life.
Also don't claim you "moved out at 18" if you moved into a college dorm while still getting pocket money from mummy and daddy for rent/food/etc.
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Originally Posted By Huss!⏩
Just honestly laugh at the people who think they are so tough when they move out at 25, after finally getting their own place.Moved out at 25.
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srsly, what's wrong with renting a place until you can afford one? Moved out at 16, been living with my girlfriend for 4 years now and I couldn't imagine staying home until 25. If you're by yourself, yeah, but with a gf, that's just not gonna happen. See no problems with renting an apartment until you can afford a downpayment on a house.
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Moved out at 18 to go to university, but came home for all the holidays. Moved back in after university at 21 and worked for a year. Moved out again to do a master's at 22. Moved back again for 6 months while working after doing the master's. Left for good at 24.
My parents aren't poverty pieces of chit so I never paid rent.
My parents aren't poverty pieces of chit so I never paid rent.
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Literally cringe at kids over 25 that still live at home.
I left just shy of turning 25 (sounds hypocritical to the above statement), but I saved for a solid year and dumped money into investments just because I was told that I won't have as much to save as I'm used to - very true.
I only stayed home until that late because I wanted to make sure I was full-time. I was still on contract, and once I was given permanent, I stayed for that 1 year and saved up. I was itching to leave by 23, and by 24 I was losing my mind.
Love my parents, and will go visit and help them whenever, but I cringe at kids that think they are more "family-oriented" because they live with parents. Although my parents were sad to see me go, my Dad was happy to see me leave so I can start my own life.
Still know plenty of people over 27 living at home because "why not?", and then they think they will become ballers with all money saved. They will realize that easily 30% of their income is gone immediately just to survive through fixed purchases (groceries, transportation, food, etc.)
I left just shy of turning 25 (sounds hypocritical to the above statement), but I saved for a solid year and dumped money into investments just because I was told that I won't have as much to save as I'm used to - very true.
I only stayed home until that late because I wanted to make sure I was full-time. I was still on contract, and once I was given permanent, I stayed for that 1 year and saved up. I was itching to leave by 23, and by 24 I was losing my mind.
Love my parents, and will go visit and help them whenever, but I cringe at kids that think they are more "family-oriented" because they live with parents. Although my parents were sad to see me go, my Dad was happy to see me leave so I can start my own life.
Still know plenty of people over 27 living at home because "why not?", and then they think they will become ballers with all money saved. They will realize that easily 30% of their income is gone immediately just to survive through fixed purchases (groceries, transportation, food, etc.)
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Originally Posted By chino3⏩
Its pathetic that at 19 you feel compelled to move out with no college education, maybe if you took a 2 year apprenticeships or something but its literally the dumbest financial move you can make just because your feels tell you its manly. LOL at your parents too.It is beyond pathetic that people continue to live with their parents when they are fully capable of moving out, and their parents aren't physically dependent on them. It's pathetic on your parent's part, and it's pathetic on your part for not WANTING to live life on your own. holy chit
btw, I was one month shy of 19 when I moved out.
btw, I was one month shy of 19 when I moved out.
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Right after I graduated HS and went to college. You couldn't pay me to live with them again. They aren't bad people but they treat you like you are in HS no matter how old you get.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
this if youre over 18 and not going to uni, you should be paying rent.We were expected to pay rent after high school if we decided not to go to college. If you didn't go to college you had to get a full time job and the weekly rent they charged us was pennies srs.
I'm sorry but mommy and daddy shouldn't have to pay your way forever.
I moved out at 19 because I wanted to be on my own.
I'm sorry but mommy and daddy shouldn't have to pay your way forever.
I moved out at 19 because I wanted to be on my own.
i pay my parents $200 AUD per fortnight which is very reasonable and i can save a lot.
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Moved out at 18 to live with gf, back home when that ended. Moved back out to live with the next serious gf at 22, moved back home when that ended too.
Honestly both are good, but holy phuk it feels good not paying rent.
Honestly both are good, but holy phuk it feels good not paying rent.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Why did they have kids then?The hardest thing I've been dealing with is my grown daughter's wanting to move back home. They are both married and have children and it's happened to us more than once. My husband just hit his 20 yrs last week and can retire any day now. We just put our house up for sale and have been looking for homes in another state. My youngest just hit us up 3 days ago that she and her family will be homeless at the end of the month and have no place to live. Her husband can't seem to hold a job to save his life and they have a 2 yr old son.
Obviously I would never leave my kid homeless so they're moving in with us. I'm constantly putting my plans/life on hold because my kids can't seem to get their **** together.
I've spent my entire life doing everything for my kids and yes that's the way it should be...but is there ever a time in my life when I'm allowed to say enough is enough?!
Obviously I would never leave my kid homeless so they're moving in with us. I'm constantly putting my plans/life on hold because my kids can't seem to get their **** together.
I've spent my entire life doing everything for my kids and yes that's the way it should be...but is there ever a time in my life when I'm allowed to say enough is enough?!
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