For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100 if you are talking just the general public of all ages walking through a busy street or something. And it’s NOT necessarily the best looking guys objectively, but the guys that are my type.

"For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100"

"1 out of 100"

Talk about unrealistic standards

90% of guys literally can't get sex unless it's in a relationship. The price is chasing only top 1% men is that they don't have to pay via a relationship.

Dating is impossible for me. I have a good 6 figure job, own a luxury car, a house thats nearly paid off but I can't get with girls in the 23-29 range. I'm a good looking guy too.

Its more like top 20% dont have to do a relationship. Im def not top 10% and have had women tell me after the fact they were just using me for sexTook me a full 10 seconds to get your humor. Clever lol respect

You don't think you're top 10%? Looking pretty juicy in your avatar, no homo.

If a woman says "Online dating is difficult", she really means "it's hard to get an out-of-my-league Chad to stick around after we fuarked on the first date."

If a man says "Online dating is difficult", he means "I didn't lie about my height and/or use shoe lifts."

The difference is that men answer yes 99.9% of the time. Only someone with better options THAT NIGHT is going to turn down an easy lay.

the more good looking you are the girls assume youre a troll or fake serious...

LOL at miscers letting SS rustle their jimjams.

Women are solipsistic and tend to have no awareness or understanding of how others perceive the world

Who knew?

she's a lonely old lady that had the love of her life abandon her. I feel bad not rustled

Why are you talking to women at work about online dating? Don't get a harassment suit by them thinking you're trying to talk them into offline dating.

If you're having a problem it's because you're in America btw, it's like when I moved to WA from CA. A 10 in WA is really 4/5 in CA so they have this false sense of their worth.

Women come in four categories

Dog food = get the f away from me youre repulsive. The bus driver in south park.

Sloppy Joe = these are girls that are attractive enough to bang and maybe go on a few dates with but youre not into them. Some of them may even be two big macs away from dropping down to dog food youre so on the fence about it.

Cheeseburger = maybe the most common category a man will date during his lifetime. “Cute”, “Attractive”, “the girl next door”, “such a nice girl”

Steak = Hot. Sexy. Wow.

Women tend to only have sex with steaks or cheeseburgers. Sloppy joe category doesnt get action - think of a guy you know thats skinny and immasculine, or has pretty bad teeth. Theres nothing all that wrong with them but there are guys that will bang sloppy joe women that are good looking so why be with her equivalent if youre a girl with a big nose or nice body but kinda butter.

Theres a great study that uses real data to support this instead of angry fa incels opinions. The gist of it was women want to date or have sex on average 2 points above. This vdmight talk about it i dunno im in a bar and cant hear over the music



I had very bad teeth and big glasses. Braces and contacts changed my life. I was 125 pounds at 18 lifting changed my life. I couldnt look people in the eye, had crippling social anxiety, had terrible voice and body language. Self help books and cds changed my life. But most of all I changed my life. I put in thousands of hours of work if you count every workout session, every reading and listening, every approach, every entry in my notebooks. I put a lot of work in and it paid off. I went from sitting by myself at lunch and playing dungeons and dragons to getting friends and girls easily. Every rep, every nervous rejected approach, it was worth it. But as i get older i realize most people wont do it. Like how many pepple do you think are 300+ lb and lose the weight and keep it off? I read somewhere it was a terribly low percentage maybe 3%. Its a similar premise when you have a guy like we see on the misc everyday. Even the nicklol people.. theres no doubt in my mind that his voice inflection, eye contact, body language, conversational patterns.. they suck and he could work on it but probably wont. Not to pick on him but thats just what ive seen with guys that are in shape but something else fuks it up for them. You have to be willing to fix everything you can. And finally beauty is not always just physical. I respect the guy with the unattractive girlfriend 100x more than the guy that checks out and refuses to play.

2/10 women want a guy who is:

6 feet tall minimum or taller
8 inch penis
70k income
Chiseled abs

Then wonder why Chad doesn’t match up with them

silence speaks is insufferable , get ur expired ass off this site.

no one cares in the least lady

I can't wait for biblical plagues to come and for the new earth where things like tinder and okc dont exist. Soon..

This is genius, there's no fat on this message.Respect for the Coltaine video.

Deus lo vult

Guys have a hard time because they have to swipe forever for a single match.

Girls have a hard time because most guys are just looking to get laid from these apps, so the girls get pumped, dumped, and end up depressed.

Still no comparison though, men have it harder

pretty much this

I mean, I'm no 10/10 but I've studied what makes people attractive and I feel like I'm a solid 7.5/10.

I hate to be pedantic here, but the thread title and relayed conversation was about the difficulty of online dating between the sexes.

Online dating
Not online finding a life partner
Not online finding a groom/bride
Not online finding a spirit animal
Online dating

Any woman who tries to argue that it is just as difficult for them as it is for men to find a person to agree to go out on a date with them, arranged online, based primarily on physical appearance, is either functionally retarded or being deliberately obtuse.

"Finding a guy who wants a relationship is very hard." Nobody is arguing that. You see, once you go on a second date with a guy...you're no longer online dating. You're just dating.

make gals laugh

don't care about outcome

world's best kisser

I know WA women are straight poverty, but is the difference that big?

Do you usually tinder, bars, or...?

i've pulled a lot of GFs from okcupid. would never use tinder. these days, i would never use online/apps at all

it's so easy at bars

i mean, let's face it, the gals at bars are on tinder as well, but i can make all the chads vanish as soon as i start talking srs

It’s easy if you’re looking for sex but for SS and a lot of women, we want a relationship.

It’s not just the top 20% of dudes who just want to smash and dash. 3/10 guys will try that chit too. It fails but they’ll try because our degenerate society tells them their worth is defined by how many girls they sleep with so they feel the need to try to compete.

A lot of guys also message girls out of their league and then complain no response. People have a weird habit of trying to get people online they could never get in real life.

It’s also just rare to find someone I really connect with. The conversation usually fizzles out, no chemistry, or you find out you have totally different interest and life goals. Fail.

Also, the dink picks and having to deal with constant gross comments and the inevitable guy who will flip out and call you a kunt if you don’t respond or agree to send nudes.

I am not denying men have it harder, because supply and demand will always skew in favor of women, but this idea that women are just showered with gentleman who want to treat us right is totally false.