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11-15-2018, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
I know that guy he’s a nice friendly dude so I just ignored that chick.how did that play out?
did chad come and gape you?
did chad come and gape you?
met her at bar added her on Snapchat, found out she’s in a relationship with that dude so I went no contact after that. Saw her few times again around campus and she tried to catch my attention but I was like na... still have her on Snapchat tho
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11-15-2018, 12:35 PM
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Btw I wanna say that lots of men aren’t loyal either. I know so many guys who want to cheat on their girlfriends lol and some of them do it too.
It’s just easier for women to cheat
It’s just easier for women to cheat
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11-15-2018, 12:39 PM
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Most decent looking girls are attention seeking at work/the gym anyways even if they aren't actively trying to cheat. That's what they do they eat up attention from men
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11-15-2018, 12:46 PM
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15% of women are more interested in "backup man" than current partner.
So 85% of women aren't even interested in said "backup man," they just know there's some beta acquaintance out there who would date them in a heartbeat. So what?
But if they really fell on hard times or let themselves go, another 28% (in addition to 15% who lust over backup man) might consider the backup man if current relationship ended.
Aside from the bottom 10% of women, every woman probably knows a man through work/old social circle/etc who they can tell would take almost any woman willing to have them. This can constitute a backup.
Looking at it this way ~90% of single girls have a backup too, they'd just rather wait for something better.
I dunno this study can be interpreted in many ways. If it was taken literally then basically women would never ever be single.
So 85% of women aren't even interested in said "backup man," they just know there's some beta acquaintance out there who would date them in a heartbeat. So what?
But if they really fell on hard times or let themselves go, another 28% (in addition to 15% who lust over backup man) might consider the backup man if current relationship ended.
Aside from the bottom 10% of women, every woman probably knows a man through work/old social circle/etc who they can tell would take almost any woman willing to have them. This can constitute a backup.
Looking at it this way ~90% of single girls have a backup too, they'd just rather wait for something better.
I dunno this study can be interpreted in many ways. If it was taken literally then basically women would never ever be single.
11-15-2018, 12:52 PM
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Her friends and family history will be nearly all you need to know in terms of red flags.
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11-15-2018, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan⏩
fixed ^ as opposed to avg men maybe.. because relative options/standards. my experience is cheating in general is equally easy if you desire to but being loyal at certain times can be hard. you gotta feel for good dudes or girls that just get stepped out/stepped on. what can anybody do about it? nothing.Btw I wanna say that lots of men aren’t loyal either. I know so many guys who want to cheat on their girlfriends lol and some of them do it too.
It’s just easier for average women to cheat
It’s just easier for average women to cheat
Originally Posted By fcnz32⏩
^this is about best you can hope for. if it happens in wedlock you just cut bait and move on. stay present for the kids if you have any; it's not their fault.. thatslifeson.jpgThis.
Only weak/naive dudes let their gf have male friends. The 43% in the study are with these kinds of dudes.
Real alphas indirectly or directly let their gf know (if she doesn't already) what the expectation is. And not from a place of insecurity or with a controlling attitude. But from an "I'm aware how the real world works and you can either respect the relationship or leave" attitude. If they don't agree, you don't beg them, or try to control them. You just move on to the next.
Social circle will obviously include males (99% of said males should either be your friends or her girlfriend's bfs). But LOL if your gf is engaging in regular or even semi-regular one-on-one contact with ANY of them.
And no double standard. Same applies to guys.
Only weak/naive dudes let their gf have male friends. The 43% in the study are with these kinds of dudes.
Real alphas indirectly or directly let their gf know (if she doesn't already) what the expectation is. And not from a place of insecurity or with a controlling attitude. But from an "I'm aware how the real world works and you can either respect the relationship or leave" attitude. If they don't agree, you don't beg them, or try to control them. You just move on to the next.
Social circle will obviously include males (99% of said males should either be your friends or her girlfriend's bfs). But LOL if your gf is engaging in regular or even semi-regular one-on-one contact with ANY of them.
And no double standard. Same applies to guys.
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11-15-2018, 12:55 PM
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wouldn't you want to have options too? of course you would, which is why guys should just do the same thing instead of complaining about it
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
11-15-2018, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
All women (people) like attention. Maybe not to the extent of "crave" but we all like attention enough for it to be a potential downfall for anyone.she might not be a slu.t though on the outside, but craves male attention on the inside.
you have to realize that women who crave attention aren't fit for relationships. as a man you'll never be able to give her your complete attention while also progressing yourself.
you have to realize that women who crave attention aren't fit for relationships. as a man you'll never be able to give her your complete attention while also progressing yourself.
And you have it wrong. There are guys that do give as much attention as possible to their gfs with the misconception that this will keep their gf at maximum levels of satisfaction. But this is one of the types of guys that get cheated on. When your attention is TOO easy to get, it's no longer worth as much. Suddenly the mysterious chad at work who will be a challenge and thus a big reward/ego boost to get his attention is a lot more appealing. Not to mention, if you're at your gf's beck and call, you are no longer the one in power and women are not attracted to that. Women themselves don't realize this when they are demanding your attention. They don't foresee or anticipate how they would feel if you actually gave them everything they wanted. They only think about what they want in the moment.
But it's a balance of course. You obviously can't overdo it and neglect your gf either. There's an optimal point. And everything i said goes for both men and women. Power and attention should fluctuate back and forth between partners. But i do believe that due to our natural tendencies, the balance should be skewed to men having the power a lot more often than the women for the sake of both partners.
11-15-2018, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By BohemianSlav⏩
Not my friends, her friendsWhat kind of chitty friends do you have? I put people in two categories friends and family and acquaintances. Friends should be someone you can trust 100% with everything if not they are not your friends period.
Originally Posted By fcnz32⏩
ThisThis.
Only weak/naive dudes let their gf have male friends. The 43% in the study are with these kinds of dudes.
Real alphas indirectly or directly let their gf know (if she doesn't already) what the expectation is. And not from a place of insecurity or with a controlling attitude. But from an "I'm aware how the real world works and you can either respect the relationship or leave" attitude. If they don't agree, you don't beg them, or try to control them. You just move on to the next.
Social circle will obviously include males (99% of said males should either be your friends or her girlfriend's bfs). But LOL if your gf is engaging in regular or even semi-regular one-on-one contact with ANY of them.
And no double standard. Same applies to guys.
Only weak/naive dudes let their gf have male friends. The 43% in the study are with these kinds of dudes.
Real alphas indirectly or directly let their gf know (if she doesn't already) what the expectation is. And not from a place of insecurity or with a controlling attitude. But from an "I'm aware how the real world works and you can either respect the relationship or leave" attitude. If they don't agree, you don't beg them, or try to control them. You just move on to the next.
Social circle will obviously include males (99% of said males should either be your friends or her girlfriend's bfs). But LOL if your gf is engaging in regular or even semi-regular one-on-one contact with ANY of them.
And no double standard. Same applies to guys.
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11-15-2018, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan⏩
> saw her on campusI know that guy he’s a nice friendly dude so I just ignored that chick.
met her at bar added her on Snapchat, found out she’s in a relationship with that dude so I went no contact after that. Saw her few times again around campus and she tried to catch my attention but I was like na... still have her on Snapchat tho
met her at bar added her on Snapchat, found out she’s in a relationship with that dude so I went no contact after that. Saw her few times again around campus and she tried to catch my attention but I was like na... still have her on Snapchat tho
that's all i needed to read. most "living on campus" college girls are slu.ts
good on you for staying out of it. i've never liked dealing with drama
Originally Posted By fcnz32⏩
Right it's a balance. I always appear to be kind of busy, no matter who I am talking to. I want people to value my time when I give it to them and so far it works out perfectly for me.All women (people) like attention. Maybe not to the extent of "crave" but we all like attention enough for it to be a potential downfall for anyone.
And you have it wrong. There are guys that do give as much attention as possible to their gfs with the misconception that this will keep their gf at maximum levels of satisfaction. But this is one of the types of guys that get cheated on. When your attention is TOO easy to get, it's no longer worth as much. Suddenly the mysterious chad at work who will be a challenge and thus a big reward/ego boost to get his attention is a lot more appealing. Not to mention, if you're at your gf's beck and call, you are no longer the one in power and women are not attracted to that. Women themselves don't realize this when they are demanding your attention. They don't foresee or anticipate how they would feel if you actually gave them everything they wanted. They only think about what they want in the moment.
But it's a balance of course. You obviously can't overdo it and neglect your gf either. There's an optimal point. And everything i said goes for both men and women. Power and attention should fluctuate back and forth between partners. But i do believe that due to our natural tendencies, the balance should be skewed to men having the power a lot more often than the women for the sake of both partners.
And you have it wrong. There are guys that do give as much attention as possible to their gfs with the misconception that this will keep their gf at maximum levels of satisfaction. But this is one of the types of guys that get cheated on. When your attention is TOO easy to get, it's no longer worth as much. Suddenly the mysterious chad at work who will be a challenge and thus a big reward/ego boost to get his attention is a lot more appealing. Not to mention, if you're at your gf's beck and call, you are no longer the one in power and women are not attracted to that. Women themselves don't realize this when they are demanding your attention. They don't foresee or anticipate how they would feel if you actually gave them everything they wanted. They only think about what they want in the moment.
But it's a balance of course. You obviously can't overdo it and neglect your gf either. There's an optimal point. And everything i said goes for both men and women. Power and attention should fluctuate back and forth between partners. But i do believe that due to our natural tendencies, the balance should be skewed to men having the power a lot more often than the women for the sake of both partners.
Power of the relationship should not be given to either person. It has to be in harmony to work.
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11-15-2018, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
This is an area where women seem so better equipped than men. Nice guys are usually oblivious, going through their day to day lives. Guys who cheat are opportunistic at best or are otherwise chasing short-term satisfactionwouldn't you want to have options too? of course you would, which is why guys should just do the same thing instead of complaining about it
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
On the opposite end, women are fukn master strategists when it comes to this chit. They’re thinking and coming up with contingency plans for years in the future, laying the monkey-branching groundwork and looking out for #1
I think one dude earlier hit the nail on the head by saying it’s in their DNA, a remanent from our evolutionary history when males often died younger and females had to be ready to change gears to ensure their survival
11-15-2018, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
I gotta agreeAccording to that, there's a 57% chance your woman only has eyes for you
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
Substantially higher than expected really
Then again you have to consider women tend to lie
So how much of that percent are completely full of ****
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11-15-2018, 05:45 PM
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11-15-2018, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
Problem is men have to pursue so it’s infinitely more difficultwouldn't you want to have options too? of course you would, which is why guys should just do the same thing instead of complaining about it
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
women are always gonna make the best choice for them, guys should do the same
If you’re openly pursuing like that you’re basically openly cheating for everyone to see
Women on the other hand can lead on a guy and play the card that he was the aggressor and she never made advances which would be true she probably hasn’t
But she doesn’t totally shoot him down either which is where the monkey branch groundwork is laid
For a guy to lay groundwork like that he has to make open advances that everyone can see which puts him in considerably more danger for word to get back to his current partner and backfire on him
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11-15-2018, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
Strong this, talk about a bunch of glass half empty *******s in here.According to that, there's a 57% chance your woman only has eyes for you
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
11-15-2018, 06:31 PM
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many relations are bad
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
Yup. But to be fair, 80-90% of these guys are probably in the other 43%.According to that, there's a 57% chance your woman only has eyes for you
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
Not bad odds, I don't see what everyone is crying about
I'm more bothered about how 50% of them are aware of the back up man and still put up with it. There's also the 1 out of 5 being a friend of the partner.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Agreed. Better yet if she doesn't really have male friends in the first place.The moment you're in a relationship is the moment male friends cease to exist. Call it insecure, but I don't give a fuk.
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Truth is too that most of the men here, the non-FA type bros probably do similar chit. Then act like they’re Better and it’s not a big deal. Double standards of peace.
Mirin the truly scientifically backed Infographic too, lots of scholarly articles included. That’s the way misk
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Truth is too that most of the men here, the non-FA type bros probably do similar chit. Then act like they’re Better and it’s not a big deal. Double standards of peace.
Mirin the truly scientifically backed Infographic too, lots of scholarly articles included. That’s the way misk
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
you don't have to pursue much if you're keeping your game sharp, many guys let themselves go once they get comfortable which leads to females looking else where for a better providerProblem is men have to pursue so it’s infinitely more difficult
If you’re openly pursuing like that you’re basically openly cheating for everyone to see
Women on the other hand can lead on a guy and play the card that he was the aggressor and she never made advances which would be true she probably hasn’t
But she doesn’t totally shoot him down either which is where the monkey branch groundwork is laid
For a guy to lay groundwork like that he has to make open advances that everyone can see which puts him in considerably more danger for word to get back to his current partner and backfire on him
If you’re openly pursuing like that you’re basically openly cheating for everyone to see
Women on the other hand can lead on a guy and play the card that he was the aggressor and she never made advances which would be true she probably hasn’t
But she doesn’t totally shoot him down either which is where the monkey branch groundwork is laid
For a guy to lay groundwork like that he has to make open advances that everyone can see which puts him in considerably more danger for word to get back to his current partner and backfire on him
plus don't choose sloots known for being sloots, choose girls with strong family foundations, etc.
there are many different ways to ensure you choose the right female and then ways of keeping her
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I stay friendly with a few females and keep as many options open as possible at all times just in case she turns heel. I'm not going to cheat but I'll be damned if I'm sitting at home alone while she's out getting plowed.
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Originally Posted By Mumra⏩
the bigger question is why is she out having fun without you?I stay friendly with a few females and keep as many options open as possible at all times just in case she turns heel. I'm not going to cheat but I'll be damned if I'm sitting at home alone while she's out getting plowed.
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
Youre right.. But bottom line is males have more sperm than she does eggs so guys are always gonna be hornier. The way i see it women have inherent options and guys have to work for it [generally] - and i would even go beyond that and say even if youre good looking the girl isnt going to jump your bones. It would be as easy as walking into a bar and asking guys to fuk, and most would. Maybe on the opposite end a very good looking guy gets 5/10's but i highly doubt, unless its a lucky night the 7/10's and above are gonna be that easyyou don't have to pursue much if you're keeping your game sharp, many guys let themselves go once they get comfortable which leads to females looking else where for a better provider
plus don't choose sloots known for being sloots, choose girls with strong family foundations, etc.
there are many different ways to ensure you choose the right female and then ways of keeping her
plus don't choose sloots known for being sloots, choose girls with strong family foundations, etc.
there are many different ways to ensure you choose the right female and then ways of keeping her
In any case, im not super bitter about women. I play the game however i want to..but at the same time, women are much worse than they say
But not every woman, im not trying to encapsulate that
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Strong misc fukery in this thread
If some of you boyos are actively thinking of keeping your options open while you are in a relationship, like Mumra a few posts above...
you shouldn't be in a relationship because youre an absolute degenerate
In terms of having no male friends, that is a bit extreme. Maybe draw the line at hanging out 1 on 1 , but if she hangs out in a group with other male AND female friends, talking in group chats etc, it isn't as bad imo
There's setting limits and plain out being a restrictive kunt
If some of you boyos are actively thinking of keeping your options open while you are in a relationship, like Mumra a few posts above...
you shouldn't be in a relationship because youre an absolute degenerate
In terms of having no male friends, that is a bit extreme. Maybe draw the line at hanging out 1 on 1 , but if she hangs out in a group with other male AND female friends, talking in group chats etc, it isn't as bad imo
There's setting limits and plain out being a restrictive kunt
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Originally Posted By ssilv⏩
I'm not saying she is now. just what I plan on doing just in case.the bigger question is why is she out having fun without you?
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