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Thread: Anyone notice every new girl you talk to has been raped or sexually assaulted?? (Srs)

post 1566397311 11-16-2018, 11:32 AM
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It's not rare but it's far from common as well. It tends to get overblown and exaggerated.

For the most part, this kind of stuff happens to the same women over and over again. Why? Because they're seen as easy targets. Victimizers can sense perpetual victims.
Originally Posted By peterplsss⏩
The common theme to is usually during the incident they were blackout drunk and/or on drugs all On ttheir own free will. Brb maybe there are consequences to getting blacked out in an environment filled with degenerate people Suzy...maybe just maybe you should be smart and careful about what you choose to consume and the environments you choose to hangout in.

Brb even as males if we get blacked out in some shady ass party/club there is a high chance we are going to do something we regret.
While true, the chances of a guy waking up with a bloody ass after getting black out drunk is pretty low. A man might wake up wit ha bloody nose and his wallet stolen, but I'm pretty sure most of us would choose that over getting raped. Women are in greater danger when they lose control. Is it fair? No, but it is what it is.
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post 1566397691 11-16-2018, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
In no way should any of these be remotely close to any kind of crime. Basically you still want to convict guys as offenders of "something" when the girl regrets her decisions after the fact. That's what I'm reading here.

Just LMAO at this post, not sure if srs.
So if someone uses coercion and manipulation on a vulnerable person (drugged or drunk, afraid of violent implications if she says no, unstable, etc) to force sex out of someone do you seriously think that should go unpunished??

He clearly said that each scenario should carry a different weight which makes a lot of sense

All misc woman hating aside do you seriously believe that?
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Hard to tell imo, I wouldn't think a girl would tell me she was raped within 2 weeks of meeting her.

Not saying I believe these girls, but you guys have to realize there's some creepy ass dudes are out there. I mean don't you all preach the 80/20 rule? If that's true, there's tons of thirsty mean out there.
post 1566398231 11-16-2018, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Peacening⏩
Why are you asked women if they've been raped after only a few days of knowing them?
i went on a date not long ago with this really cute chick. she brings up out of nowhere "i am a victim of sexual assault and i go to therapy for it every week." i was like lol it was probably her having sex with someone and then regretting it after. That is what she made it sound like. long story short i ghosted her and wanted nothing to do with her in fear of being me too'd because she was not sure what she wanted.
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feel sorry for the girls who actually have been raped. with so many rape accusations, i feel like someone who has been legit raped will think no one believes her.
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post 1566398431 11-16-2018, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
i went on a date not long ago with this really cute chick. she brings up out of nowhere "i am a victim of sexual assault and i go to therapy for it every week." i was like lol it was probably her having sex with someone and then regretting it after. That is what she made it sound like.
I would have dipped out really fast after she said that. You were about to get metooed or have your dink cut off in your sleep.
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post 1566398511 11-16-2018, 11:46 AM
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I have never ever dated a chick that did not tell me she was raped at some point. Of course no charges filed, cant remember guys name, dont want to talk about it.

#metoo really says their view on it.

I want in on the action, im special and desired, #metoo.
post 1566399141 11-16-2018, 11:53 AM
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post 1566399231 11-16-2018, 11:54 AM
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can confirm...last girl I was involved with had a 3some with two randoms from her college class then later tried to spin it off as they raped her etc etc
post 1566399271 11-16-2018, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Ilikebeef⏩
I have never ever dated a chick that did not tell me she was raped at some point. Of course no charges filed, cant remember guys name, dont want to talk about it.

#metoo really says their view on it.

I want in on the action, im special and desired, #metoo.
I wonder how much "traumatization" or "trauma" is really caused by one just labelling it as such.

Some chick at a concert when i was walking back to my car came up and grabbed my ass. She was walking with me with her hands on my ass then slid her hand between the crack.. I was like the fuk. She ended up just going off at some point

But i mean.. I guess i have been metoo'd. But i dont give a fuk about it. I dont give a fuk now. It was nothing big. Hardly even remember it

Its not some rape label in my mind so doesnt even register
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In my experience, if a girl brings this **** up on their own they either
a) really trust you two are in a caring and loving relationship
b) She tells you right away, but probably tells everyone, and wants some kind of sympathy or protection gene trigger

in scenario B go N/C
in scenario A be there for them if you do love/care for them
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post 1566399651 11-16-2018, 11:59 AM
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It's feminist maneuvering to suppress slut shaming by using a tactic meant to keep men from talking about their exploits since it becomes a liability.

Like everything else in third wave feminism, it's insincere and does little to help any actual victims.
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Dates girls from bars, Tinder, Bumble,

Claims all girls are crazy and proceeds to cut off dick.

Typical misc.
post 1566405181 11-16-2018, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Dates girls from bars, Tinder, Bumble,

Claims all girls are crazy and proceeds to cut off dick.

Typical misc.
I've met a decent number of girls on Tinder and I can't recall any girls bringing up how they were raped or molested. It always surprises me how miscers keep coming across these crazies.
post 1566407321 11-16-2018, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
I've met a decent number of girls on Tinder and I can't recall any girls bringing up how they were raped or molested. It always surprises me how miscers keep coming across these crazies.
I met two of the girls from the example from work actually, that guy you responded too is a 48 yr old no avi lol, wouldn’t care too much about what he says.
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post 1566407611 11-16-2018, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By rectifryer⏩
It's feminist maneuvering to suppress slut shaming by using a tactic meant to keep men from talking about their exploits since it becomes a liability.

Like everything else in third wave feminism, it's insincere and does little to help any actual victims.
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post 1566407771 11-16-2018, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Dates girls from bars, Tinder, Bumble,

Claims all girls are crazy and proceeds to cut off dick.

Typical misc.
I remember before 2012 you could meet normal people at bars.
Now you need to join local salsa dancing clubs and hang out around whole foods.
post 1566408271 11-16-2018, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By BeerCalories⏩
I remember before 2012 you could meet normal people at bars.
Now you need to join local salsa dancing clubs and hang out around whole foods.
People have been using clubs/dance groups to meet women for a while now. I even remember a joke about it in a Seth Rogen movie like 10+ years ago.
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it's 2018 bro. regret sex and rape is basically the same thing
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Originally Posted By Yero91⏩
Think I’m about ready to cut my penor off and never have sexors again. It’s becoming too much of a risk factor.




Oh ****, definitely not a good night for the boyos lol. You should’ve recorded the conversation because she might bring this up years from now and screw you over.
I have the text conversation of her asking me to hangout. I guess she could say she was going to confront me in person about it, but I’m 90% sure she just got upset when she figured out I wasn’t interested. She even posted a picture of the sky a few days later and had a #MeToo hashtag at the end with some stupid quote attached.
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In the past couple years, if a girl has brought up an ex boyfriend for whatever reason, and for god knows what reason I continue along that same topic of conversation, their ex has always been "abusive."
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Originally Posted By Autumnal⏩
In the past couple years, if a girl has brought up an ex boyfriend for whatever reason, and for god knows what reason I continue along that same topic of conversation, their ex has always been "abusive."
Some girl out of the blue brought up that her ex beat her on our first and last date lol. She was acting weird after two drinks though, think she forgot to take her meds that night
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Originally Posted By Suqat⏩
"rape" in the 21st century is a word with shifted meaning compared to its use 150 years ago. It now means regret or dirty sex. If you look at it in that light, it makes sense.

Edit: Reason they do not report these things is that, deep down, they want to be taken, not asked. Maybe it isn't conscious, but it is simply biology. Read Sperm wars if you have questions on it.



.....idk what strikes me as being more odd... the fact that you knew of a book called sperm wars or the fact you knew about it, pursued it and then read it...
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Some girl out of the blue brought up that her ex beat her on our first and last date lol. She was acting weird after two drinks though, think she forgot to take her meds that night
This girl I saw for a couple weeks, second date we're nightswimming mostly so I can check out her ass. She tells me all the sudden "oh you didn't know I was married before, did you?" and I was like wtf. I was so shocked I stupidly asked why they had gotten divorced, she said "he was abusive" and I changed the subject immediately. Later on I mention something about her being 27 and laugh and said "it's sweet you think I'm 27." Like what, that's what you told me. I had noticed her hands seemed a bit wrinkly and while she was attractive it seemed all the glow had been leeched out of her. She had bamboozled me completely. That was the last girl I "dated" instead of just smashing or dashing
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Originally Posted By SpeedMan1⏩
I really hate it when women tell me sob stories like that. But at least I know she puts out.
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Originally Posted By Autumnal⏩
This girl I saw for a couple weeks, second date we're nightswimming mostly so I can check out her ass. She tells me all the sudden "oh you didn't know I was married before, did you?" and I was like wtf. I was so shocked I stupidly asked why they had gotten divorced, she said "he was abusive" and I changed the subject immediately. Later on I mention something about her being 27 and laugh and said "it's sweet you think I'm 27." Like what, that's what you told me. I had noticed her hands seemed a bit wrinkly and while she was attractive it seemed all the glow had been leeched out of her. She had bamboozled me completely. That was the last girl I "dated" instead of just smashing or dashing
Lmao how old was she? That’s when you get out of the pool, grab both the towels and go NC. Sloots love saying weird chit like that when you’re least expecting it, or drunk. Like that girl I mentioned before she wanted to go into detail about her ex beating her and chit while I was drunk, thought I would WK her smh
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Lmao how old was she? That’s when you get out of the pool, grab both the towels and go NC. Sloots love saying weird chit like that when you’re least expecting it, or drunk. Like that girl I mentioned before she wanted to go into detail about her ex beating her and chit while I was drunk, thought I would WK her smh
I didn't ask because I didn't care, especially after learning she was divorced. I shouldn't have asked why she got divorced either since that's a red flag and a topic I would never hear the truth about. I went to Thailand for a month immediately afterwards then moved 2000 miles across the country so it was a limited engagement in the first place. When girls drop bombs on you it's generally best to not even acknowledge them because I'm not in a relationship to be a therapist for their past problems. Problem with dating nowadays---a lot of people out there with issues and it makes you seem heartless if you don't want to help them. Sorry, I'm a healthy person and want another healthy person, it's a realistic expectation. At least nowadays women just straight open up about their issues. Women have told me they're bipolar after coming to my apartment (realized then she was having a manic episode, risky business) and all kinds of chit man. In a way it makes you appreciate their degenerate honesty because they're warning you, some idiots just don't listen.
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
How is that hard for you guys to stay away from crazy?

This is a common manipulation tactic. Tell you something insanely personal - whether it's true or not - to make you feel it's safe to open up to them, or so you'll feel sorry for them, or so you'll want to be their rescuer.

And I'm not even getting into statistics or whether that's true or not. An emotionally healthy person does not reveal incredibly intimate details of their life,especially trauma,within days of texting someone. That is crazy town. Fire up your nope rocket and go NC on Borderline sloots
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