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post 1568611851 12-13-2018, 10:54 PM
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I’d never consider myself a 10/10 by any means, past or present. But as a Caucasian woman, I accepted long ago I was going to age like fine milk lol.
post 1568611871 12-13-2018, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah that is true at any age. But from experience I can say it is much harder to find a relationship at 40+ than at 20+. Even if you’re fit and look good for your age etc.
makes sense, not least because people are more picky with their partners at that age.

Speaking 2nd hand from seeing older relatives/family friends go through it.
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post 1568611901 12-13-2018, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted By MadNinjaSkills⏩
I’d never consider myself a 10/10 by any means, past or present. But as a Caucasian woman, I accepted long ago I was going to age like fine milk lol.
You on that botox, lipo, facelift, tatt'd eyebrows, fake lashes, and skin resurfacing time yet?
post 1568612051 12-13-2018, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You on that botox, lipo, facelift, tatt'd eyebrows, fake lashes, and skin resurfacing time yet?
I’m on that paper bag over the head is much cheaper time.

But for real, I don’t smoke drink or party. It’s no formaldehyde, but it helps to not look like I’ve been ridden hard and hung up wet.
post 1568612181 12-13-2018, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By MadNinjaSkills⏩
I’d never consider myself a 10/10 by any means, past or present. But as a Caucasian woman, I accepted long ago I was going to age like fine milk lol.
This is usually a misconception. Plenty of older women look great for their age if they spend their lives taking care of themselves. Live a clean life and it should pay off.
post 1568612281 12-13-2018, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic⏩
With lots of attention is directed towards them when they are young, then suddenly they see their beauty fade away. Do they just accept it or most go into depression? Especially these days when social media gives even fatties tons of attention and love.
Too general of a statement.

Nobody can answer this unless you give us specific names of people.
post 1568612421 12-13-2018, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By MadNinjaSkills⏩
I’m on that paper bag over the head is much cheaper time.

But for real, I don’t smoke drink or party. It’s no formaldehyde, but it helps to not look like I’ve been ridden hard and hung up wet.
Then you're golden. Not worth worrying about.
post 1568612451 12-13-2018, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By MadNinjaSkills⏩
I’m on that paper bag over the head is much cheaper time.

But for real, I don’t smoke drink or party. It’s no formaldehyde, but it helps to not look likeI’ve been ridden hard and hung up wet.
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post 1568613021 12-13-2018, 11:25 PM
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Why are all these ugly ass womEn commenting on this
post 1568613111 12-13-2018, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
No, it's not harder to find a relationship in absolute terms. Maybe it's harder to find a relationship with the mythical "top 1%" guy you're holding out for, but you have your pick of tons of guys. You rejected them all, which is your choice and absolutely fine, but don't pretend like you don't have options.
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post 1568613241 12-13-2018, 11:32 PM
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There are no women on the misc. Why would you ask here?
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post 1568614241 12-13-2018, 11:56 PM
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post 1568614461 12-14-2018, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Even in absolute terms it’s harder simply because many 40+ people are married and off the market. Whereas in early twenties pretty much everyone is either single or in short term relationships and will be single again. So it’s a much larger dating pool before marriage age.

Why would you say I think I’m the next best thing or special? I rarely say much about my looks or accomplishments etc.
Sorry I almost came back to edit my post because of the way it was worded. The first sentence was about you and what you look for. The rest of my post had to do with the way some women think in general. I know how you are and it wasn't directed towards you srs.
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post 1568614671 12-14-2018, 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
The days of hitting the wall are over. I know haggard women in their 50's and even 60's who still get 100x more male attention than they know what to do with. It may get slightly more difficult to bang a different Chad every night of the week, but they aren't suffering. At all.
This. If she was hot young she'll still pull 20 year old Chads in her 50s and 60s who have a MILF complex if she keeps a bit of body fat on her. The ones who are really thin get wrinkly in the face. This is when it's helpful to be HTC -- aging.

But I think also that most women mature to the point where their lives aren't focused around their looks when they hit 40. They have kids and other interests, and they aren't social media attention whoring. Well, you hope. I still have a few from my high school who post nonstop myspace angle selfies. But a woman who isn't a narcissist will just worry about other things in her life.
post 1568614861 12-14-2018, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
This. If she was hot young she'll still pull 20 year old Chads in her 50s and 60s who have a MILF complex if she keeps a bit of body fat on her. The ones who are really thin get wrinkly in the face. This is when it's helpful to be HTC -- aging.

But I think also that most women mature to the point where their lives aren't focused around their looks when they hit 40. They have kids and other interests, and they aren't social media attention whoring. Well, you hope. I still have a few from my high school who post nonstop myspace angle selfies. But a woman who isn't a narcissist will just worry about other things in her life.
I have a hard time believing women in their 50's and 60's are pulling 20 yr old chads.

I don't get out much but come on.
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post 1568614901 12-14-2018, 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I have a hard time believing women in their 50's and 60's are pulling 20 yr old chads.

I don't get out much but come on.
Make an account on Tinder and you'll seeEspecially given that you're really fit.
post 1568614941 12-14-2018, 12:13 AM
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Everyone is going to turn into a wrinkled ballsac when they get old, so who gives a chit
post 1568615011 12-14-2018, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
Make an account on Tinder and you'll seeEspecially given that you're really fit.
No I'm good.The whole thought of it makes me uncomfortable.
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post 1568616061 12-14-2018, 12:55 AM
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post 1568616341 12-14-2018, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By KingSWRV⏩
Why are all these ugly ass womEn commenting on this
They have accepted their fate and trying to prove otherwise.

And arent you an expired carton of milk also fukin lol stfu *******
post 1568616431 12-14-2018, 01:12 AM
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Let that sink in.
post 1568622141 12-14-2018, 05:13 AM
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
Make an account on Tinder and you'll seeEspecially given that you're really fit.
Yes they can get pumped n dumped at will but will struggle to find s meaningful relationship at that age. It's tough to find someone who you really click with. Most normal people aren't just out trolling for sex at that age. They are looking for something more.

Granted the sex is fun, but you don't want to build a life with someone who is a train wreck in their 40s. So even if they are very attractive guys will not stick around if they aren't gainfully employed or they have bad anxiety and need drugs just to function.

So if you want a gainfully employed, attractive, emotionally stable middle aged woman who is also single good luck! They get snapped up quick. The ones you find on dating sites or at bars are almost always train wrecks!
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post 1568622281 12-14-2018, 05:17 AM
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Originally Posted By tripod29⏩
It has to be tough honestly. Somewhere around 30 women fall off hard. Has to really f with their mind.....srs
only light skin white girls. Ethnic women don't start to fall off until 50s and 60s assuming they take care of themselves and even then, they're totally bangable

There is a 46 year old Italian woman at my gym who is hot as hell
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It's always funny to me the women that have been married for decades giving dating advice in this day and age. Honestly no offense Kimm and Rabbit, but you have absolutely no idea what dating now is like. Silence and I have been in the trenches of this dating hell for several years so I think we can speak to it far more than most.

You all know I'm not looking for Chad and I want someone my own age. I don't have unrealistic standards. I want someone who's a good and loyal person and is healthy and fit. Because I am all of that. Of course they have to be attractive tome. I've been attracted to all different types so that's not some crazy requirement like everyone makes it out to be. So my list goes like this: Around my age, single, good person at their core, active and doesn't live in their moms basement. I don't have income requirements. I honestly don't GAF what they do for a living as long as they are a hard worker. You'd think this would be easy to find, but it's not in this day and age of hookup apps.

As far as aging. Well I definitely prefer aging to dying so I'm going to have to be ok with it. Thankfully I have good genetics, have never smoked, don't drink much and don't do drugs so I have a leg up on a lot of people. Add to that I eat healthy and I work out. I also have a personality so getting some wrinkles isn't going to be the end of me.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
It's always funny to me the women that have been married for decades giving dating advice in this day and age. Honestly no offense Kimm and Rabbit, but you have absolutely no idea what dating now is like. Silence and I have been in the trenches of this dating hell for several years so I think we can speak to it far more than most.

You all know I'm not looking for Chad and I want someone my own age. I don't have unrealistic standards. I want someone who's a good and loyal person and is healthy and fit. Because I am all of that. Of course they have to be attractive tome. I've been attracted to all different types so that's not some crazy requirement like everyone makes it out to be. So my list goes like this: Around my age, single, good person at their core, active and doesn't live in their moms basement. I don't have income requirements. I honestly don't GAF what they do for a living as long as they are a hard worker. You'd think this would be easy to find, but it's not in this day and age of hookup apps.

As far as aging. Well I definitely prefer aging to dying so I'm going to have to be ok with it. Thankfully I have good genetics, have never smoked, don't drink much and don't do drugs so I have a leg up on a lot of people. Add to that I eat healthy and I work out. I also have a personality so getting some wrinkles isn't going to be the end of me.
most men over 40-50 look absolutely horrible and/or aren't single

miscers think all men over 40 look like George Clooney
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Originally Posted By MagicWater⏩
most men over 40-50 look absolutely horrible and/or aren't single

miscers think all men over 40 look like George Clooney
This too. Most men my age look like crap. They don’t exercise, eat like crap and drink a lot. I just want someone that I click with and that takes care of themself the same as I do.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This too. Most men my age look like crap. They don’t exercise, eat like crap and drink a lot. I just want someone that I click with and that takes care of themself the same as I do.
yeah, except you gota put in the effort , you can't disappear for 4 hours and say you were shopping when talking to someone new

there are seeds in everyone's brain at this age , you can't water them
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
... You'd think this would be easy to find, but it's not in this day and age of hookup apps. ...
Good god, that's depressing. I had this notion that it would be somewhat easier to find someone at middle age because of the maturity level and more easily being able to identify what you want, but it sounds like the pool is really shallow.
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Originally Posted By ectoBgone⏩
Good god, that's depressing. I had this notion that it would be somewhat easier to find someone at middle age because of the maturity level and more easily being able to identify what you want, but it sounds like the pool is really shallow.
how would it be easy? Most 40+ year olds are married. Among those who are single, finding people who are in shape and active is very hard
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Originally Posted By MagicWater⏩
how would it be easy? Most 40+ year olds are married. Among those who are single, finding people who are in shape and active is very hard
"Easier" (not easy) in the sense of being able to assess more quickly whether you are a match with someone, and therefore not having to spend as much time deciding whether they are relationship material. With the combined rate of divorce and number of people deciding to remain single, I didn't think the numbers would be that bad. Also, in shape and active would simply be a plus for me and not a complete pre-requisite.
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