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Thread: Guy wasted my time, jerk was just trying to get laid

post 1569754861 12-28-2018, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
None of which slept with. Been longer than a couple of weeks mind you.

Unless you're counting the Chad was sad over him for at least 4 months. Then met a guy who acted serious....worse mistake ever. Then two months after met a nice guy and now about a week and a half ago met this guy.
I'm counting the Chad, then the guy that you were talking about in the Chad thread where you said he wanted you to meet his parents over Christmas but you were thinking about breaking up with him, then this guy who was so close to the other guy and over Christmas that I assumed it was the same guy lol.

I didn't know about the other guy after the Chad.
post 1569754941 12-28-2018, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
So what is your total kill count?
Sex wise, well it's kinda high. I tended to jump in too quickly before I realised the guys were just pretending or if I really dig the person I'd end up sleeping with them within a month. A few were purely lust related.
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post 1569755201 12-28-2018, 05:13 PM
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Im not denying that OP is a girl but do we have any spoon pics or proof? cause i dont want to give srs responses if its a dude acting like a girl
post 1569755221 12-28-2018, 05:13 PM
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wtf at skank OP being green?

and didn't you make a thread not long ago asking if the best way to get over someone was to get under some chad? double standards of piss

no fukcing way you're a female too, you sh*tbird *******
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post 1569755421 12-28-2018, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Casual sex doesn't appeal to me. It just seems pointless. Like there's nothing I get out of it.
Well with a world class lover you get better orgasms than at home.

Secondly things that start out light can get serious.

Lastly men are really after the sex.

Even if he wants to marry you sex is the main reason not an afterthought. Not a bonus.

Your personality is the bonus. Wanting to phuck you is why he's there.

And really if you didn't want to **** him at the drop of a hat he's probably the wrong guy anyway.
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post 1569755461 12-28-2018, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Sex wise, well it's kinda high. I tended to jump in too quickly before I realised the guys were just pretending or if I really dig the person I'd end up sleeping with them within a month. A few were purely lust related.
kinda high but what is the number
post 1569755491 12-28-2018, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Wanting a serious relationship includes sex as part of it. Good men don't lie about their intentions. But all men want sex. Period.
I don't really meet good guys.

Not sure I'd recognize one if I see one. Most guys I meet pretend to be good guys.
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post 1569755581 12-28-2018, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie⏩
Im not denying that OP is a girl but do we have any spoon pics or proof? cause i dont want to give srs responses if its a dude acting like a girl
I can't remember if she ever posted them but I'm guessing if she did they'd probably be found in this thread :

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...81&pagenumber=

I can't be bothered going through all the pages myself to check
post 1569755601 12-28-2018, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Sex wise, well it's kinda high. I tended to jump in too quickly before I realised the guys were just pretending or if I really dig the person I'd end up sleeping with them within a month. A few were purely lust related.
I'm a generally good guy but if a girl is holding out just to hold out for a month I will immediately lose interest. Guys can sense that chit. Just like girls can sense when they look fat in certain positions.

Also you can't tempt a guy with sex and get mad at him when he wants to have it. That's stupid. And newsflash to girls - a guy can genuinely like you and still want to have sex, actually, they often times go together. Imagine that. Sex is also obviously an important part of a relationship and dating, no point continuing things if the chemistry in bed isn't working.
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post 1569755661 12-28-2018, 05:19 PM
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still no number
post 1569755981 12-28-2018, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Well with a world class lover you get better orgasms than at home.

Secondly things that start out light can get serious.

Lastly men are really after the sex.

Even if he wants to marry you sex is the main reason not an afterthought. Not a bonus.

Your personality is the bonus. Wanting to phuck you is why he's there.

And really if you didn't want to **** him at the drop of a hat he's probably the wrong guy anyway.
You have a point but I'm tired of making mistakes. I know things that start out casual or so can get more serious but in my experience they usually get very messy and then the guys get mad at me because they think I might be likely to sleep around. Which isn't true. I tend to stick to one guy at a time.
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post 1569756171 12-28-2018, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
still no number
It's in the thirties. Wanted to knock it down but I had posted my count on here in the past so couldn't.

I know, I know it's high. In my defence its because most are flings.
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post 1569756251 12-28-2018, 05:27 PM
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lol @ these retarded threads. jay is a trainwreck, posting dumbass trainwreck babble and people come in here offering genuine words of wisdom and advice. fuk outta here.
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
II know, I know it's high. In my defence its because most are flings.
How the fukc would that be "in your defense" ? What difference does it make? These are rhetorical questions btw
post 1569756411 12-28-2018, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
I'm a generally good guy but if a girl is holding out just to hold out for a month I will immediately lose interest. Guys can sense that chit. Just like girls can sense when they look fat in certain positions.

Also you can't tempt a guy with sex and get mad at him when he wants to have it. That's stupid. And newsflash to girls - a guy can genuinely like you and still want to have sex, actually, they often times go together. Imagine that. Sex is also obviously an important part of a relationship and dating, no point continuing things if the chemistry in bed isn't working.
I like getting to know someone a bit before having sex. So a month should cover some stuff. A month isn't long enough if I have to be honest, 3 months would be ideal. It'd save me a ton of bad experiences actually if I held out for three months.
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post 1569756431 12-28-2018, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
lol @ these retarded threads. jay is a trainwreck, posting dumbass trainwreck babble and people come in here offering genuine words of wisdom and advice. fuk outta here.



How the fukc would that be "in your defense" ? What difference does it make? These are rhetorical questions btw
Cause a fling is someone you date and see over a period of time vs a ONS
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post 1569756501 12-28-2018, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's in the thirties. Wanted to knock it down but I had posted my count on here in the past so couldn't.

I know, I know it's high. In my defence its because most are flings.
so actually it's in the 90's

lol...yea no guy will settle for that

you have basically two choices:

1) you can lie and pretend you aren't a total slut (people will figure it out eventually and this isn't a great way to build a relationship)
2) you can just fuk every guy who tries to fuk you and hope they catch feels and you can hook them

gl...
post 1569756541 12-28-2018, 05:31 PM
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2 weeks max for non slut
post 1569756571 12-28-2018, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
so actually it's in the 90's

lol...yea no guy will settle for that
I would. I DGAF
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post 1569756601 12-28-2018, 05:32 PM
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Can't believe some guys are so desperate to fuk STD ridden sloots.
post 1569756641 12-28-2018, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I would. I DGAF
Yeah but no one will settle for you so that doesn't really help...
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Cause a fling is someone you date and see over a period of time vs a ONS
I think of a fling as more of a one or two night stand. Not someone you actually date and see for a while.

And Jay, just wtf at your count being in the 30's. Aren't you early 20's?
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
so actually it's in the 90's
This Misc meme that women lie about their number and that it's really 3x what she says, is just that. A meme.
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post 1569756881 12-28-2018, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I would. I DGAF
maybe for smash but would u rly consider wifing a girl like that?


jay you might as well consider a camwhore/porn career at this point
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I think of a fling as more of a one or two night stand. Not someone you actually date and see for a while.

And Jay, just wtf at your count being in the 30's. Aren't you early 20's?



This Misc meme that women lie about their number and that it's really 3x what she says, is just that. A meme.
even still...30 is way too high for any reasonable person to want to wife...

I would think 12 or so is the highest most people would be okay with...
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Yeah but no one will settle for you so that doesn't really help...
That's not true. I've had multiple girls want to settle down with me but I didn't want them.

I just haven't found one where we both want the same thing.

See the difference? I am not going to settle just to have a relationship.

She needs to be someone I can't live without not just someone I can live with.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
That's not true. I've had multiple girls want to settle down with me but I didn't want them.

I just haven't found one where we both want the same thing.

See the difference? I am not going to settle just to have a relationship.

She needs to be someone I can't live without not just someone I can live with.
I mean if the goal is just smash on the reg, then a lot of dudes would be ok with a 90+ kill count sloot

she's probably good in bed...


but long term, kids, etc...nothx jeff
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
so actually it's in the 90's

lol...yea no guy will settle for that

you have basically two choices:

1) you can lie and pretend you aren't a total slut (people will figure it out eventually and this isn't a great way to build a relationship)
2) you can just fuk every guy who tries to fuk you and hope they catch feels and you can hook them

gl...
No way it's in the 90s. I'm pretty honest about my count.
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post 1569757461 12-28-2018, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
maybe for smash but would u rly consider wifing a girl like that?


jay you might as well consider a camwhore/porn career at this point
The craziest most violent and hard to be with person was my ex wife. She didn't lose her virginity until out of college and married.

I was her third partner.


I've dated virgins to several girls in triple digits. Some of the nicest girls were high count. Some of the nicest were low count.

If you are the guy they would cheat with and you are doing what you're supposed to do most of the time there will be no issues.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
No way it's in the 90s. I'm pretty honest about my count.
50s then...point is it is too many

ur a slut

u spent your life building skills in sex at least, so that is going to have to be the primary thing you will offer to a man. Nobody wants the mother of their kids to have herpes and a kill count of 50+. You are going to have to be the biggest whore ever to win over the dinks of the men you date. There is no hope of winning over their hearts.

maybe that's too brutal, but it's true...

just like your life is over if you are under 5'7"

woman who smashed 50+ guys and has herpes = 5'4" bald, fat guy

srs
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Originally Posted By Komisch⏩
Next. He sounds lazy and not all that interested anyway, every guy wants to get laid... but he could have said "hey i'm super busy and just want to chill, if you want to hang here you can". Same end result tho.
Every girl wants to get laid too. They are just better at playing coy.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I think of a fling as more of a one or two night stand. Not someone you actually date and see for a while.

And Jay, just wtf at your count being in the 30's. Aren't you early 20's?



This Misc meme that women lie about their number and that it's really 3x what she says, is just that. A meme.
I don't do one night or two night stands. I'm in my mid 20s. I know but most the guys I meet end up being jerks so its not like I can go back and build something serious with them.

So I accept their apologies, wish them well, block them and move on. Those I don't do that with it gets bad. Like they really show their bad side.
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