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Thread: I lost my son

post 1576083741 03-18-2019, 07:57 AM
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I'm just a stranger, on the internet; but if you ever need to talk/vent/1wayunload then feel free my guy. Sometimes it's best to not know the person at all.
post 1576083831 03-18-2019, 07:58 AM
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Dude....I dont even know what to say but sorry man.
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post 1576084251 03-18-2019, 08:07 AM
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I'm so sorry, brah.
So, so sorry.
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post 1576084411 03-18-2019, 08:09 AM
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Jesus christ.... i cant imagine anything worse than losing a child.. god damn... sorry for your loss op. damn..
post 1576084831 03-18-2019, 08:14 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
You're one of the misc OGs. Stay strong.

Was he a contractor? What was his job at SW?

What was his background?
post 1576085541 03-18-2019, 08:24 AM
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Condolences man, that's horrible. Misc is here for you
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post 1576085871 03-18-2019, 08:30 AM
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****, I am so sorry to hear that
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post 1576085891 03-18-2019, 08:30 AM
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horrible news, sorry for your loss
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post 1576085951 03-18-2019, 08:32 AM
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Sorry for your loss OP
post 1576086531 03-18-2019, 08:39 AM
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My deepest sympathies OP. If we can help, reach out.



Also, proud af of my fellow degenerate miscers ITT, great to see everyone rallying round OP.
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post 1576086601 03-18-2019, 08:41 AM
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My condolences brother.

May God be with you during these trying times.
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post 1576087101 03-18-2019, 08:48 AM
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RIP, my condolences.
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post 1576087161 03-18-2019, 08:49 AM
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This is such a massive problem in our society. I made a thread about it recently but mods deleted it.

Just try to hang on and weather the storm right now. Can't imagine.
post 1576087411 03-18-2019, 08:54 AM
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Crazy. Did he have drug or alcohol problem?
post 1576087681 03-18-2019, 08:58 AM
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Im a father myself OP..

I can't even think or imagine how you are feeling right now.

We are here for you, if you ever need someone to vent too, we are here for you.

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post 1576087851 03-18-2019, 09:00 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you as much comfort as possible.
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post 1576087951 03-18-2019, 09:02 AM
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Sad that you lost your son. Hope he is at peace now, and that you find peace.

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post 1576088361 03-18-2019, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
As a father I cannot imagine going through this, deepest sympathies OP.

You mentioned medical leave, what was going on there? Work related injury or something else?
I honestly don’t know. I flew out to CA to get him because he told me he was having suicidal thoughts. He was hearing voices, seeing things, staring out in a void and he developed this weird tick where he would stretch his neck and mouth in a weird way. He would also sleep all the time and complained about headaches. He seemed fine when he came home for thanksgiving but was totally different when he came home for Christmas.

He told my nephew that they put him in a dark room with lasers circling his eyes for 30 minutes.
Be happy while you're living, for you're a long time dead.

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post 1576088751 03-18-2019, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By biggestmuff⏩
Sorry for your loss.
You're one of the misc OGs. Stay strong.

Was he a contractor? What was his job at SW?

What was his background?
He wasn’t a contractor. He have a super high security clearance. I honestly don’t know what his job was. He’s a physics and aerospace science major.
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post 1576088901 03-18-2019, 09:14 AM
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If true, this is horrible. Absolutely horrible.

Massive condolences. I can't even imagine.

Unfortunately, I don't believe you will get answers from his work. This will be frustrating.

Edit-He had to be a contractor since SW is owned by Lockheed Martin. Unless I am missing something.
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post 1576088931 03-18-2019, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By TurkBrah⏩
Crazy. Did he have drug or alcohol problem?
He wouldn’t even take a Tylenol.
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post 1576089031 03-18-2019, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By steeperdolphin⏩
I honestly don’t know. I flew out to CA to get him because he told me he was having suicidal thoughts. He was hearing voices, seeing things, staring out in a void and he developed this weird tick where he would stretch his neck and mouth in a weird way. He would also sleep all the time and complained about headaches. He seemed fine when he came home for thanksgiving but was totally different when he came home for Christmas.

He told my nephew that they put him in a dark room with lasers circling his eyes for 30 minutes.
Hope you find some form of peace and resolution OP, if it was employer based leave hopefully you can get some answers from the physician or psychiatrist who did the evaluation that led to the leave.
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post 1576089241 03-18-2019, 09:20 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. RIP.
post 1576089391 03-18-2019, 09:23 AM
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Don't know what to say. Hugging my kids tight tonight.

Sorry for your loss.
post 1576089441 03-18-2019, 09:25 AM
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I don't even know what to say. RIP
post 1576089531 03-18-2019, 09:26 AM
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r.i.p..when the suffering outdo the will to live
post 1576089911 03-18-2019, 09:34 AM
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Sincerest condolences, OP. I was friends with someone who experienced this and it's a long struggle coming to terms with it. Do not neglect getting professional help to assist with the healing process. There is no shame in it and you'll benefit from an outside, objective source of counsel. I wish you peace, there are no words for the loss.
post 1576090671 03-18-2019, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By steeperdolphin⏩
He wasn’t a contractor. He have a super high security clearance. I honestly don’t know what his job was. He’s a physics and aerospace science major.
Wow who did he work for the government ??? Should sue the **** out of anybody that he worked for.

This is unreal bro so sorry for your loss seemed like a good kid until tehy ****ed him up. Maybe talk to the newspaper or do whatever you got to do to make those who did this pay.

Create youtube video about it bring out awareness about what happened so nobody else has to go through this.
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post 1576090731 03-18-2019, 09:46 AM
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sad news, all the best. if i'm not mistaking you for another poster, you also have a daughter right? how is she coping with this? must be very upsetting losing something you were a part of making, raising, caring for and then it comes to this unfortunate end.
post 1576091201 03-18-2019, 09:53 AM
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My condolences. Are you in Charleston? Maybe send some misc love
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